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- 3rd February 2022
- James Marshall
Should you ever pay on a 1st date? (avoid this trap)
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- 14th December 2021
- James Marshall
The ‘Core’ of any successful approach (no lies)
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- 4th November 2021
- James Marshall
Why Women Should Perceive You As ‘The Prize’
Let’s be honest, if being nice and agreeable was enough to attract women, half of the world would be drowning in pus*y.
But they are not.
In fact, things seem to work almost the opposite way if you study dating dynamics carefully…
Girls constantly ditching and friend-zoning the nice guy who respects and nurtures them for the f*ck boy/bad boy type who is selfish and always puts himself first.
Truth is that women love ‘challenges’.
They crave the addictive feeling of being around a masculine guy who is firmly unapologetic about his actions and is not afraid to call them out whenever they do something he doesn’t like.
Are you that kind of guy?
If not, the first thing you have to understand is that being an asshole here is absolutely not the goal. In fact, a large part of being successful with women and socially is owning a strong element of likability.
What you’re looking for here is to develop personal standards.
The next step is holding women accountable to them by qualifying them…
Is she your type?
Do you share the same interests and similar views on the world?
Does she care about the same things you care about?
Finding answers to questions like these is fundamental to getting the right woman by your side and making her perceive you as the real ‘prize’. This can easily be achieved in a flirtatious way by using a little banter and ‘challenging’ her in a teasing way whenever she does or says something you don’t like.
To learn more about this complex topic, watch my latest video. In it, you’ll also see one of our brave workshop students struggling and succeeding at creating solid connections with several women while remaining unapologetically true to himself.
Click on the link below to watch it
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Every workshop comprises several theory classes, followed by roleplay sessions with our team of hot female coaches to test and internalize the concepts in a safe environment and most importantly dozens of hours spent approaching and talking to beautiful women in real life in the streets, bars, cafès, shopping malls and more.
Due to the exclusive nature of our programs, we can only allow a handful of students into each workshop. If serious about becoming the prize most women crave to conquer, click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team and discover the best training options for your specific needs:
- 18th October 2021
- James Marshall
How To Get A Perfect Girlfriend (No money needed)
Men look for love in the wrong places.
Just because a girl is fun and sexy with you, it’s no guarantee that she will make a good girlfriend.
Knowing how to find and select women for long-term relationships is a very different, but equally as important, skill than cold-approach seduction.
Many girls are far too immature, narcissistic, and selfish to make good long-term partners––being around them for too long will eventually make your life worse than it currently is.
The ideal type of woman you should be proactively screening for is what call ‘a giver’.
Someone who is willing and capable of sharing and devoting herself to you in a selfless way.
Ultimately, the true “girlfriend material” type of girls are those who can genuinely accept you for who you are without judgment or the need to control you and possess you.
If this sounds like less than five percent of all the women you’ve ever dated, don’t worry…
In our latest video, our Inner Game and relationship wizard, Shae Matthews, dives deep into the complexities and emotional alchemy of successful relationships. Watch it to get access to practical blueprints and tips to stop settling for incompatible and unsupportive women and finally start attracting true keepers in your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. An exciting and satisfying sex life is one of the most important keystones of any successful relationship.
Unfortunately, most guys are only capable of classic ‘vanilla’ lovemaking, always using the same three positions and lasting the same amount of time in bed, on average.
Over the long term, this is a classic recipe for disaster as both people in the couple will get bored of having sex and start doing it less and less, leading to mutual frustration.
That is…unless you are a living Sex God.
See, over the past 15 years, I’ve been developing a comprehensive methodology and training to take regular guys and transform them into the best lovers any woman could wish for: the S*x God Masterclass.
Joined by some of the world’s best and most in-demand experts in Tantra, BDSM, meditation, roleplay, masculine enhancement, and more, the SGM is a 7-intensive apprenticeship in the full-spectrum of sexual abilities. From connection-based fantasies to experience strong feelings of love and togetherness, to ‘darker’ aspects of sexuality like punishment and pain/pleasure roleplay, this ‘hands-on’ masterclass is guaranteed to give you the tools to enjoy and gift others the best sex of your lives.
The SGM 2021 will be running from October 24-October 30 in Kyiv, Ukraine, and there is only one spot left to join. If serious about mastering this fundamental yet confusing area of any man’s life permanently, click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team:
- 9th September 2021
- James Marshall
Picking up stunners while being broke & scrawny (can you do it?)
Do you know what women prefer to good looks and tons of money in guys?
Not denying that being rich, high-status, or very attractive can improve your chances with girls…
But ultimately, what I’ve noticed after being surrounded by hundreds of elite women for the past decade as a world-famous dating coach, is that most of them tend to like different types of guys at once.
They might be dating a much older, very wealthy, and stable CEO-type of dude one moment and then fall for a broke young artist the next.
Or they could be drooling and craving a young, adonis-bodied stud one day, only to feel incredible attraction towards a scrawny hipster boy a week after.
Confusing, innit?
If there is one lesson you can take away from all this is that no matter where you are and who you are now, you must proudly own your current situation.
Young and broke? Skinny and baby-looking?
While working on improving your seductive metrics should be the long-term goal, your #1 priority right now is to accept and have epic fun with your current self.
Watch my latest video to learn more on this topic. Link below:
P.S. Want to become rapidly enhance your seductive skills, develop strong realness & charm and unlock a lifetime of success with women?
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Running from October 4th until October 10th, 2021, our upcoming 7-day intensive is the last chance to get coached by us and smash your dating goals for the rest of the year.
The Intensive includes 60+ hours of combined theory classes, specialized workshops, roleplay practice with hot female models, and of course infield sessions where you’ll successfully learn to approach and get on dates several sexy Spanish ladies 😉
Only 2 spots left by the time I’m writing this, and pretty sure that they’ll be sold out real soon, so if you’re interested to join…
- 3rd August 2021
- alex
One Girlfriend Vs Multiple Chicks (The BEST dating strategy)
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- 9th March 2021
- James Marshall
Why The Law Of Attraction Doesn’t Work
The Law Of Attraction is pure genius.
Easily among the top 5 marketing pitches ever conceived.
Strongly think about (manifest) something, and the universe will conspire to give it to you.
Tens of thousands of books and self-development courses are sold on this premise every year; billion-dollar markets have spawned from it since its postulation.
And there is definitively some truth to it…
Your thoughts and mental patterns are largely responsible for your success.
But without consistent and smart action, without a broad and influential tribe, and without placing yourself in the right environment, you can stare at your vision board and chant your mantras for years and see zero results.
In the realm of practicality and tangible results, a different law rules the game: the Law Of Asking.
It works like this:
Stop wishing for things to happen, and start asking for them.
And by asking, I mean to human beings–people–making concrete and direct requests for small and big favors that will help you 10x your life goals.
Unfortunately, most guys hate asking for stuff, and when they do so, they act in very shifty, covert ways.
At the same time, making requests to others is no piece of cake…
It’s easy to be perceived as entitled and ruin relationships if you don’t know how to influence people the right way.
To help you with this, I’ve released a comprehensive guide on how to properly Ask for what you want, and get a positive answer as often as possible. Click on the link below to watch it
P.S. Asking is part of a 4-step method that when mastered is guaranteed to enhance your social life, career, and overall lifestyle results.
I teach this system and everything else you need to know about designing an epic personal lifestyle in my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th.
The Academy is by far the most comprehensive and life-altering online coaching program I ever released, including weekly live Zoom lectures, Q&A panels, missions, accountability systems & over 100 hours of advanced bonus content.
If you want to be part of the next generation of elite lifestyle designers––a group of men who thrive even during these hard times––make sure to book yourself a spot in the program when the enrollments open on March 14th.
- 24th March 2020
- James Marshall
Learning Seduction is not Optional (Video)
There are 2 main areas of education that are completely overlooked by all formal and cultural teaching systems for the modern man. The irony being that these two fields are the ones that are most likely to determine your success and fulfillment. The first is money.
Unless you were born into wealth, or find mentors and methods to understand how to make your resources work for you, develop positive mindsets and know the difference between investments and liabilities, you are likely to be a wage slave forever. I’ll be dealing with this topic in depth another time.
The second is social skills and seduction. The ability to connect emotionally, understand human behavior and particularly how to release and consistently generate attraction with women is the defining skill that leads to either a rich sex & relationship life or long periods of enforced celibacy and loneliness.
Many men who have come into the seduction sphere treat this as a hobby, or a topic of interest. As if, getting good at this is optional and if they choose not to commit to mastering approaching women outside their social circles that they will somehow end up finding “the one” anyway. Wake up. Most people settle for relationships that are based on scarcity. They date directly within their social and work/study circles. The reality is that you will be choosing from a pool of around 3- 15 women. What is the chance that you’ll find a sexy girl who is truly compatible with you from that? Even if she drifts into your orbit, without the understanding of female sexual psychology and abilities to trigger it you won’t get her anyway and will spend years in the friend zone.
Who you decide to spend long periods with and later who you marry and have children with are literally the most important decisions of your life. Choosing the wrong person, or conducting a relationship from a weak, needy position will lead to divorce, losing most of your assets, fucking your kids up and wasting your peak years.
And yet, most people don’t make these decisions at all. They fall into relationships because that is the best they can find and simply let fate decide. If you have been dabbling in seduction, consuming theory from the sidelines, or occasionally chatting to women, now is the time to wake up and realize that this is a survival skill you must learn and time is running out.
Most men I know who became really good at this, made it a priority for a couple of years, or sought out mentors to speed up the process. By good, I don’t mean any particular number of lovers, or becoming a PUA god - I mean being able to get exactly the type of women you want into the relationship you want. That for me is the definition of seductive success. Take an honest look at your life and if you know deep down you can’t do that, it’s time to commit.
- 21st August 2018
- alex
Finding Motivation To Approach Women
When guys start out approaching they often have a really short term goal in mind. What’s the long vision? Is having beautiful women in your life enough?
Let’s Start Simple...
It’s Shae here with some news that might be a little scary to read.
Are you ready?
You might want to sit down for this.
I’ve done some digging and discovered that you’re going to die someday. I am too. So are the rest of the coaches, and everyone you know...family, friends, colleagues, mortal enemies.
All going to die someday.
Now I wouldn’t be giving you this grim news if it weren’t for some purpose, and that is a poignant reminder that life is short.
If you’ve known about pick-up, approaching, seduction, whatever you want to call it, for longer than 6 months, and still haven’t taken action by approaching or getting coaching, that’s six months wasted.
It might not seem like a big deal, but you’re never going to get that time back. And if you don’t start by taking action today, say by filling in an application form and getting on the phone with us about a workshop, you’re effectively stating that you’re ok with paralysis.
This is a dangerous place to be in because the one thing you can be sure of is that you are going to die someday, but you don’t know when. It could be tomorrow, or in a year from now. Would you want to look back on the last year of your life and acknowledge that you had lived in fear the whole time?
Using Frustration To Your Advantage
When guys start out approaching they often have a really short term goal in mind. This isn’t intentional, it's more than they’re moving away from a place of pain.
It could be something like getting more sex, because they’re been inactively single for so long.
Or it could just be getting over their approach anxiety because they’re sick of feeling trapped and worrying about what other people think.
That initial feeling of frustration slowly builds over time to a point of bursting where they eventually feel like they’d rather die than put up with the problem for another moment longer.
These are great goals to work towards, but what you’ll eventually find is that if you take action, you’ll move past them.
It’s not that big of a leap for you to reach a stage where you feel comfortable approaching women, and those who have trouble with it typically start out with our beginner’s online course, the Dating Accelerator. Putting things in perspective it’s really a waste of your life to spend so much time at a stage that can be overcome by making a small investment and learning from guys who have not only been through the ‘beginner’s hell’ you’re experiencing, but have also developed strategies to fast track the process and taught them to hundreds of other men. If you want to get your hands on these insights you can find out more about the course and what’s included by clicking here.
Why You REALLY Want To Approach
But eventually, you’ll need to have some kind of grander purpose that you’re moving towards.
Sure, beautiful women are great, but if you had a bunch of beautiful women in your life, then what? Why would that be important to you?
Because once you’ve started moving away from that initial pain point, that ‘rock bottom’ which drove you to start making a change, you’ll then have to find something to move towards.
The good news is that there isn’t any right or wrong answer to this. It’s incredibly personal.
For myself I know that being with a beautiful woman can be like holding up a mirror, revealing all of my flaws, inadequacies and insecurities. Beyond the sex and initial appeal of a beautiful woman lies an opportunity for me to grow as a person, whilst also offering her the same in kind.
So what’s your deeper motivation for approaching?
Maybe it's love. Maybe you are overcome with a passion for women that makes you feel alive. Maybe you envision having a family one day.
Be sure to check out today’s video, and leave a comment letting us know what the big picture vision is for you.
- 27th March 2020
- James Marshall
One Simple Hack That Will Revolutionize How You Talk To Women
Remember: women feel social pressure too. If she’s suddenly been approached by a cool guy who isn’t trying to impress her or talk her head off, that sends the message that he’s not just another average guy.
Even if you don’t know what to say…
Picture yourself walking down the street, minding your own business. Suddenly someone runs up to you randomly, a complete stranger you’ve never met and starts rambling. Not just rambling, like talking nonsense, but speaking so fast you can barely get a word in.
And before you’ve responded or had a chance to ask them a question, they’ve already moved on and started talking about something else.
Before long it becomes apparent that they have no intention of having an actual conversation with you, or worse, actually want to take the time to find out something about you.
When guys first start approaching, this is something they subject women to ALL. THE. TIME.
And we see it on workshops consistently, no matter which country we coach in, where the guy comes from, 365 days of the year.
Understanding Social Pressure
Whenever two people are interacting, there is an ebb and flow of the conversation that will demonstrate the level of comfort.
If you’re chatting with your mom, you’re not going to be too concerned about making a good impression, hoping that she likes you and you get to see her again.
You’re just going to be casually chatting away, and probably have never even thought about the meta level of the conversational dynamic. But if its a super hot girl you’re talking to, that is a complete stranger and could brutally reject you, suddenly the stakes are higher.
Enter social pressure.
Your throat tightens up. Your heart is pounding in your chest, and your palms start to sweat.
Instead of letting the anxiety get to you, it’s possible to just sit with the tension.
This means speaking slowly.
This means intentional pauses.
This means awkward silences.
Here’s The Key:
Women feel social pressure too. If she’s suddenly been approached by a cool guy who isn’t trying to impress her or talk her head off, that sends the message that he’s not just another average guy.
He might even have something to offer her.
And suddenly she feels social pressure. She starts filling the awkward silences for you, asking you questions about yourself, maybe even trying to impress you.
Just like that, with one simple shift, you’ve all of a sudden gone from bumbling mess to attractive guy.
Sound too easy?
Then try this. Next time you’re talking to a girl, even if it’s at work or in class, just try shutting up. As soon as you feel the impulse to talk, notice it, then say nothing.
And watch the magic happen.
Remember that you can start to break your social pressure RIGHT NOW with Marshall Meditation Method online course. Click here.
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