Know what’s one of the most flawed, dangerous assumptions guys make in dating?
“If she agrees to go out with you, you’ve already won”.
In some way, there’s truth to it…
When a woman agrees to meet you for a first date, chances are she feels more attraction and connection than a total stranger.
But it’s not a guarantee she will go home with you or see you again.
True stories of hilariously awkward first dates have inspired countless films, series, and works of fiction.
Just ask any of your female friends.
Nearly every girl can list a dozen or more guys she went for drinks with but deeply regrets.
If you want to make sure you don’t end up in any, I suggest you go and watch my latest video below asap.
In it, I outline four subtle mistakes and ‘logistical problems’ that are spoiling your chances to close the deal and build relationships:
P.S.Want to learn the #1 skill that will scientifically help you convert more approaches into dates?
I’m talking about social media (but NOT in the way you know it!).
If curious to discover why Instagram has become one of the best opportunities in 2022 to get hotter women, check my free 3-part guide HERE.
Summer is passing, and so is the opportunity to get coached by TNL in person this year.
We only have a handful of spots left for those looking to work intensively with me, James, and the crew––in some of the most socially-vibrant cities on the planet––to take their dating and lifestyle results to elite levels.
If determined to make it finally happen, book a call with my enrollment team below asap:
But in today’s society, real, solid, independent men are getting harder and harder to come by.
Drained by chronic use of porn and socially weakened through atomized communities and by meeting women only via dating apps, many guys have become so needy, they’d tolerate anything to get laid and get a cute girlfriend.
Even if you luck apon a hottie who likes the attention.. while it might feel exciting and novel, for the first couple of weeks, to date a servile, agreeing, overly-providing type of man, the vast majority of women will inevitably get bored and turned off by it soon into the relationship.
That’s when the constant nagging, or ‘testing’, begins.
A woman will make her man’s life hell when she feels there’s no consequences, and the man doesn’t command any respect in general.
Whereas, if he’s able to state clear boundaries, and to underwrite his authority by having command of his life and the life he brings her into, most women will become picky kittens.
Set your boundaries soon, set them as early as possible, and don’t be afraid to enforce them.
If you want to learn a practical method to do so and finally get unconditional respect and loyalty from women, watch my latest video below:
P.S.It’s official! By popular demand, we’ve just added one more workshop to our 2022 US coaching tour.
Lots of guys who couldn’t make it to our first programs this summer messaged me begging for more coaching opportunities overseas…now you have no excuses!
If you want to get trained by the best naturals in the world to learn how to effortlessly meet hot womenanywhere, confidently flirt with them, and deeply seduce them so they crave your presence and want to meet you again on a date, apply for one of the programs below:
From Sept 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, for our 7-day Residential Program in New York City – 3 spots left.
From Oct 4th-Oct 8th, 2022, for our last US-based workshop of the year, the 4-day NYC Intensive – 5 spots left.
80+ hours of personalized coaching per student divided into theory classes, roleplay events with female models to practice the concepts in a safe space, and daily infield sessions approaching and flirting with Manhattan babes, with the world’s best coaches by your side.
To learn more and pick the best program for you, speak with our coaching team for free below:
As cities get hotter and clothes thinner, hormones start raging.
It’s that time of the year again!
And with hordes of hot female tourists traveling around the globe and local beauties looking to get wild, your dating opportunities have never looked so good.
This is your reminder to get off those apps and start talking to girls. In real life.
If this sounds good, but you don’t know where to start or struggle to get past the initial chit-chat and convert your approaches into actual dates leading to sex, I have good news for you…
Dozens of our summer workshops(link) students have already transformed their seductive and social lives this past month, and YOU too can become our next success story.
If you’re looking to get mentored by me, Alex, Shae, and the rest of the TNL crew this summer to finally unlock the romantic results you deserve, join us on the following dates:
Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, for our 4-day Barcelona Intensive––2 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, in New York City, US, for our 7-day Residential––4 spots left.
After many requests, we have also added one more date in New York to guarantee coaching to as many brave men overseas as possible:
Oct 4th-Oct 8th, the 4-Day New York Intensive––6 spots left.
We expect the above to fill up very quickly. If serious to work with us, click and book a free introductory call with the training team below:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos:
Alex Leòn has released an advanced, in-depth guide on how to develop one of the most effective seduction skills men largely ignore: connection. He’s so good at teaching it that one of his students literally made a girl he just approached involuntarily weep by bonding deeply (he also got her contact and set a date). Watch the full thing HERE
I also highly recommend you check Alex’s very moving and insightful ‘origin’ story video. From attending a conservative, all-male boarding school and never getting physical with a girl until college to traveling the world with me and throwing baller parties with models and micro-celebrities, the guy is an excellent example of pro-level lifestyle design. He breaks down the truth behind his fast progress HERE
Talking about humble beginnings…I’ve recently uploaded part 2 of my ‘self-roast’ series. In this one, you’ll see me tearing apart some more unreleased infields from my first year in the game (over a decade ago). Will young James Marshall succeed at charming two cute tourists in a park in Prague? Find out the answer HERE
Closing off with some wisdom from an interview I recently posted with my old friend and seduction legend Zan Perrion…
Ever wondered how to stay young in your body and spirit virtually forever, effectively slowing down aging and enjoying epic libido and energy well after your thirties? Zan has figured out ‘a process’, and he reveals it in his full enlightening interview below:
That’s all for today,
Time to cool off.
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Every man is faced sooner or later with the critical decision of focusing on one girl and attempting the relationship path or keep playing the field, travel solo, and meet new lovers.
In most cases, what often feels like the safest option, settling, is far from a comfortable and effortless task.
It’s one thing to hold hands and declare love and commitment…
…but to really make it work in the long term, you must know what you’re doing.
Research conducted in 2021 in Europe on people aged 25-35 shows that nearly 70% of new couples break up within six to twelve months.
And while self-improvement strategies are nowadays widely encouraged to get more dates, the vast majority of men still approach relationships with a mainstream ‘just be yourself’ type of thinking that doesn’t work.
If you want to improve your chances at the long-term dating game, watch my latest video.
In it, our inner game and sexuality specialist, Shae Matthews, breaks down the most critical mistakes men make when interacting with their partners and how to keep the attraction going well beyond the initial spark phase. Link below:
P.S. Want to join me, Shae, Alex, and the rest of the team in person to learn how to confidently meet, seduce and embark on epic romantic adventures with elite women this year?
Then be quick! There are only two workshops left in 2022 to transform your dating life:
From Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day Intensive Workshop–three spots remaining.
From Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, in New York, US, for our flagship seven-day Residential Program–five spots remaining.
Whether you’re looking to enter a stable, healthy relationship with a gorgeous, loyal, and mature girlfriend or travel the world and have casual affairs with exotic beauties, it all begins with one key step…
Knowing how to walk up to her and make it happen.
And that’s what you’ll learn in any of our world-class programs! Revealing theory masterclasses and practical skills that we never release on YouTube with our coaching team and many hours spent infield putting it all into practice by meeting and interacting with hot women in real life, you’ll leave the program as the guy ‘who just gets it’.
If serious about starting this journey, book a free introductory call with our coaching team below:
I used to be extremely uncomfortable around women.
Even the less attractive ones…
In fact, up until my late teens, I hadn’t even touched a girl intimately, literally.
To be honest, I wasn’t really advantaged in the dating department.
Growing up in a strict, all-male boarding school. Stuck in a small town in rural Austria.
Many of my old friends now reach out in pure disbelief as I upload videos of approaching stunners in the street and partying on boats with exotic hotties.
“You?! a seduction coach?! of all people”
But it’s not only possible. It’s also easily replicable for you.
In my last video, I break down my entire journey of becoming a natural in three core lessons.
This is the entire unfiltered story of what it takes to build abundance in this day and age.
From getting blind drunk at college after-parties in order to talk to girls.
To attend sketchy seminars ran by manipulative pick-up companies.
Then landing an internship at The Natural Lifestyles at age 22.
My first attempts at street approach.
My countless rejections and moments of crippling anxiety.
Crashing on friends’ couches for years to follow James and the team on crazy adventures around the world as a broke student.
To finally become the guy CEOs, famous millionaires, and hundreds of brave men hired to fix their dating lives.
I sum it all up in three steps you also can take to unlock your dream seductive results TODAY. Click on the link below to watch the full video:
P.S.Motivated to make stuff happen in your social and dating lives but lacking the necessary guidance and support?
I’ve just launched a 100% free Discord community where I, my top students, and several ambitious guys like you all over the world interact daily to build masterpiece lifestyles.
If wanting to join, click on the link HERE and apply asap! Very limited spots, for now, to keep the group tight and action-oriented.
Want to take it to the next level and work with me, James, and the crew in person to get the highest seductive results possible in the shortest amount of time?
Combining a heavily practical curriculum, where you get to put every concept of our highly successful training method into action by spending several hours every day approaching hot women in real life, with constant individualized feedback based on your unique goals and expectations, our programs are guaranteed to help you unlock years’ worth of progress in as little as four days.
To find out more about the best workshop for you, speak with our student success team by clicking on the link below:
How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
Very commonly, gorgeous women are seen in pairs or groups.
If you’re unable to approach a duo, you’ll miss out on huge numbers of good seduction opportunities
Beautiful women are people magnets, always surrounded by girlfriends and men competing for their attention.
So if you want to have a chance to get them on dates, you have to know how to deal with their group.
This puts a lot of pressure on guys who think they need to pull off some major social stunt, win the crowd over, and spin multiple plates, trying to keep all the friends entertained.
Or even worse, they solely focus on their “target” and ignore her friend even when she’s standing two feet away, meaning you come across as rude and socially uncalibrated.
The good news is, succeeding at group dynamics is a lot easier than you think.
All you have to do, whether it’s just one girlfriend or a mixed ensemble of five or more people, is show that you’re a cool and socially aware guy.
Divide your social attention 70/30 between your girl and her friend, while directing 100/0 seductive intent at the pair.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised to discover that her friends will often assist you rather than cockblock.
Watch my latest video to learn how to properly deal with groups and approach two or more women.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work with me and my own group of elite coaches to ignite your romantic and social life this year?
Then join us this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day intensive coaching program.
Get access to the best education available on the planet to men on how to successfully meet tons of hot women through Natural, direct style approaching and get them on dates consistently.
From what to say to start the conversation, building tension and compliance through smart flirting, getting her number, and setting the date via texting, to physically escalating and taking her home without resistance…
You will not only learn what truly works with girls but also make every concept second nature by spending dozens of hours infield with us meeting beautiful women and getting them on dates in real life.
This is your opportunity to set the foundation for years (and potentially decades) of true abundance and sexual success.
This is our last European workshop for the year, with spots selling fast, so jump on an obligation-free call with us this week:
Ever felt like your age is catching up with your dating life?
It’s one thing to be a testosterone-raging, twenty-something college student with endless free time to socialize, get wasted at parties, work out, and plan adventures.
But as soon as you hit your thirties, for most men things start to worsen.
Demanding jobs, poor nutrition, chronic lack of sleep, and a very sedentary lifestyle render males weak, nervous, and overall less powerful in the bedroom, resulting often in less confidence and relationship problems.
That’s why it’s paramount for a modern man to have a basic self-maintenance routine.
I’m not talking about adding even more stress by destroying yourself in the gym for hours every day, micro-scheduling every nutrient you absorb, or turning into a full-on self-development junkie who meditates for hours at a time.
What I’m referring to is to start incorporating a series of small daily habits that will, in the long-term, slow down aging and allow you to truly enjoy your peak masculine years as you deserve.
To learn what they are, go and watch my latest video.
In it, I and legendary seduction & masculinity master Zan Perrion break down the most vital tips to stay nimble in body and spirit and keep rocking in life and the bedroom for the rest of your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want work together this summer to finally build a rockstar dating & sexual life, no matter your current age or romantic challenges?
Over eight hours of customized training per day covering all the fundamentals and advanced strategies that will save you years of rejection and set you on a path of thriving with women for the rest of your life.
From how to approach, effortlessly build engaging conversations, getting her contacts and properly following up via text or social media, to finally seeing her again on a date and taking her home..
We’ll leave no stone unturned in your masculine education, giving you access to an evolving database of knowledge and tools to age-proof your confidence, mindset, and body and make success truly inevitable.
Only a few spots left.
If interested in joining, click on the link below and book a call with the enrollment team:
Do you often get stuck in boring conversations with women that lead nowhere?
Or worse, where she’s actually almost silent, looks confused, and you have to do all the talking?
Sorry to break it to you but if that’s something you constantly experience in your approaches, chances are YOU are the one causing the problem.
See, it’s totally normal that some girls are shy and need time to open up and engage back…
But that should happen within the first five minutes of talking.
Once she realizes you’re a chill, charming guy and feels comfortable in your presence, commonly, woman will naturally invest and contribute to keeping the conversation going.
And that’s when most guys out there predictably mess up.
Overly excited that a hot girl is talking to them and impatient to score, they start doing too much instead of focusing on the one thing that is proven to yield the best results:
Give her space, slow down, ask good questions and shut up and let her talk.
Most inexperienced guys, pepper her with irrelevant questions, cut her off, stumble over their words and as a consequence, she quickly loses interest and turns into the speechless, stone-faced female creature every seducer knows.
If you’re looking to prevent that from happening again and start having better, sexier, and more intriguing conversations with women that actually lead to dates, make sure to watch my latest video below.
In it, I break down the four most common conversation mistakes guys make that turn women off.
P.S. Want to work with me in person to get past most beginner mistakes within hours (and not years) and rapidly start getting more dates and adventures with beautiful women?
Then join me and the full TNL team including Alex, Shae, Virag, and Gareth Jones this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, in Barcelona, Spain, for our last andmost popular Residential Workshop of the year.
Seven days of intensive coaching, theory masterclasses to access the latest insights and discoveries on what actually works with women, inner game sessions to unleash authentic confidence & charisma, roleplay workshops to practice every concept in a safe space with our team of hot female assistants and, most importantly, dozens of hours of approaching gorgeous women in the streets, cafès, parks, and beaches of the Catalan capital while getting constant 1-on-1 feedback from the coaches.
Only four spots left as the workshop is already 50% sold out.
To learn more about this training opportunity and see if it’s right for your goals, click on the link below and get on a free introduction call with our student success team:
The best summer to meet hot women (+ June 2022 TNL Recap)
A long, epic summer lies ahead.
Although the world is lurching through turmoil, we’re now experiencing the first open summer in years.
Hot girls are looking to meet new exciting lovers that will sweep them off their feet, help them disconnect from routine, and take them on sexy adventures.
If you want to become the kind of man who can confidently approach women anywhere, seduce them, and smoothly take them home within the first couple of dates, listen up..
TNL is back on the road and our 2022 summer workshops are on and getting close to sold out!
If you always wanted to get coached by me, Shae, Alex, Virag, and Gareth check out the following dates:
Aug 23rd-Aug 26th, 2022, 4-day Barcelona Intensive––only 1 spot left!
Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, our premium, week-long Residential program in Barcelona, Spain––3 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022 final 7-day program in New York City––4 spots available.
These are your best opportunities to fast-track your progress with women exponentially, literally saving years of trial and error, to get your love life handled this year.
We won’t only teach you the most effective, proven through years of field-testing, principles to become great with the ladies. We will also guide you to intensively practice every single concept in real life by meeting and approaching dozens of beautiful women while getting personalized real-time feedback and corrections.
With over 80 hours of taking action infield and receiving constant feedback from the coaches, you’ll know by instinct what’s the best way to approach a girl you like in any situation, get her into a conversation, build connection & sexual tension, and successfully see her again on a date.
If looking to learn more and make things happen before spots are over, click on the link below to speak with our enrollment team:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos: …
Our inner game wizard, Shae Matthews, released a mind-bending rant on how to progressively get over any type of social anxiety and insecurity and start taking effortless action in dating and life. Check it out HERE
Alex Leòn has shared his raw uncensored insights, gained through years of infiltrating elite social circles and meeting top-level women like models & celebrities, on how money truly affects your dating results. Check it out and get ready to be triggeredHERE
We also have released some awesome coaching transformation videos showing our brave students getting smoother and more successful at seducing girls in the street within hours of starting our programs. Check out the full clip HERE
Last but not least, I released my very first self-roast video. Going back through my infield archives and ripping apart my younger self, like I would a student. As it turns out, even the best used to suck at this, but persistence pays off 😉
That’s all for today.
Wishing you a naughty adventure-filled summer,
James
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Why women ignore you in the street (& how to fix it)
A true master of any art understands that foundations and core basics are the ultimate bedrock of future success.
Trying to jump ahead and learn the flashy moves first, whether it’s martial arts, music or seduction without understanding footwork, breathing, scales, or how to approach a woman correctly, will lead to frustration and mediocre results at best.
When it comes to dating, nothing else matters until you can competently approach with the right intent and body language to get her to stop and willingly talk to you.
Because if she won’t stop to talk, or is weirded out by you before you even open your mouth, you’re going to get nowhere.
The good news is, it is actually very easy to learn, once you know the common mistakes and how to calibrate to each woman you meet.
In my latest video, I give a detailed masterclass on one of my signature moves, “The Jedi Stop”. This is a simple, smooth and field proven way to stop women walking on the street in a way that grabs their attention, projects confidence and charm without being pushy, or rude.
Click on the link below to check it out:
By the way, this value packed clip comes from my 3-week foundation’s online course, The Dating Accelerator.
With over 20 hours of detailed instructional videos on all aspects of approaching, openers and frameworks for getting into engaging and flirty conversations, how to close with charm and decisiveness. Plus modules on creating intimate and fun dates that lead to the bedroom, infield inner game to get over approach anxiety, weekly lectures, missions & accountability systems and 10+ hours of bonuses.
Right now, I’m hosting a flash sale, where you can get lifetime access to DA for 50% off the regular price, for only 97 euros.
Offer is on for 72 hours only, so if you want the most comprehensive natural game foundations course out there, for a crazy discounted price, click on the link below and use coupon code “DA2022” when checking out:
