Why women sleep with you (it’s not about attraction)

Alex here.

Today want to briefly cover one of the most fundamental principles of effective seduction that most men ignore all the time:

Women go home with guys they trust and feel comfortable with, not guys they’re just attracted to.

At the end of the day, this is largely a comfort game.

It’s about meeting a stranger, making her feel safe around you, and then inviting her to follow you on adventures into your world.


Believe me, if you were to focus on operating within this key reality of dating and drop all the ‘sparking attraction’ stuff for a moment, your results would still be way better than 99% of men out there.

By the way, this has nothing to do with acting like a massive nice guy, striving for comfort so much that you end up instantly friend-zoned.

What I’m talking about is knowing to connect emotionally and romantically with any woman.

So that she feels right away that she can trust this charming stranger who just approached her and is deeply intrigued to learn more about him.

If you want to learn more about this topic, go and watch my latest video.

In it, you will also see one of my workshop students taking the idea of emotional impact & connection to a whole new level by making a girl feel so understood that she literally starts weeping in front of him––of course, he also took her contacts and set a date right after 😉

Link below:

P.S. Want to work with me directly to take your results with women and entire lifestyle to a whole new level of fun and epic abundance?

This summer, I’m hosting a number of premium, advanced, and extremely-limited capacity 1-on-1 programs all over Europe and in New York.

These are the most intensive and fastest way to take your romantic and social results from where they are now to beyond your wildest dreams within less than one week of working together.

The entire coaching curriculum is built around YOUR needs. From how to approach elite women, connecting with them through conversation, texting & social media seduction, how to take her home on the first date, as well as how to make more female friends and build a high-level social circle––everything is catered around your unique goals and challenges.

Dates are the following and there are only a few spots available to guarantee the highest quality of training:

From July 11th-17th in Warsaw, Poland.

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To learn more about my private immersions and see if you qualify for them, click on the link below to book a free, no-obligation introductory call with me or our student success manager below:

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Alternatively, if looking for more budget-friendly options, you can join our group workshops with other 5-10 students and the entire TNL crew coaching you.

Currently, we still have four spots open for our 7-day Residential running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th in Barcelona, and our week-long NYC program from Sep 26th-Oct 2nd.

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