Why your body is cockblocking you (this is awkward)
Let’s face it, lots of guys hit the gym for dating reasons.
The general thinking is that by having a hotter body, you’ll attract hotter girls.
And there’s no denying that.
What most guys don’t know, however, is that their strategy can also backfire in very negative, unpredictable ways…
Severely limiting their masculinity, libido, and overall seductive success among others.
Truth is that there is much more to your body than the way it looks.
Like your senses of coordination, balance, and grace, your posture and flexibility –– aka your movement capacities.
Or your physical sensations such as stiffness, fatigue, pleasure, or pain –– your sensual reality.
All these massively contribute to shaping the way you feel and behave around others.
Believe it or not but over my long career as a world-famous dating coach I’ve coached dozens of traditionally fit guys whose main seductive issue was of a physical nature…
Their poor posture, lack of physical & mental flexibility, and sleepy senses eventually led to often awkward and clumsy interactions.
If you want to learn how to truly optimize your body for masculine success, improve your body language, and master non-verbal attraction, watch my latest video.
In it, I explain how to achieve all of the above by embracing the idea of non-linear thinking and training.
Link below to watch it:
P.S. Looking to become stronger, more relaxed, and in tune with your mind and body while developing killer instinct and confidence?
Look no further…
My Natural Warrior Training workshop gives you the chance to spend 8 days with me and my cadre of elite masculinity coaches as we intensively upgrade your physical and inner reality through a blend of ancient and modern character enhancement systems.
This is the most exclusive and in-demand program currently available in the TNL curriculum, and that’s for a precise reason…
The epic mix of movement training, tribal initiations, spiritual mastery drills, Tantra, grounded masculinity coaching, and psychedelic healing (with a real pro shaman joining the coaching team) is guaranteed to take your self-worth, mental & physical strength, and overall sense of masculinity to legendary levels.
The next round of NWT is happening August 15th-22nd, 2021, at my property in Portugal and there are only 2 spots left to join!
Our self-representation and beliefs coupled with lived past experiences define who we are and how we interact with the world.
As a result, most people constantly make false, negative assumptions about themselves and future outcomes based on how they believe things work.
Assumptions like…
“If I approach her, she’s definitely going to reject me right away”.
“I’m not interesting enough for these people”.
“If I don’t agree with them, they’re not going to like me”.
These internal statements are often repeated enough to the point that they become ingrained in our character and DNA affecting everything we do.
Good news is that by replacing those negative beliefs with positive, functional ones, you’ll be effortlessly successful in any scenario.
After coaching men live week in, week out for the past fifteen years, I realised that those who can successfully “upgrade” their subjective models of reality are the ones who can smoothly transition through 3 distinct character phases:
Suffering, Awareness and Self-Liberation.
To learn how they all work, as well as how to start your unique self-transformation journey, check my latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Want to transition from a life of suffering and insecurity into one of strength, adventure, and total abundance?
Deep character work is only a part of a much larger toolbox that I consistently use with my elite students to upgrade their self-worth and seductive results to world-class levels.
In fact, if there’s one thing that all my years as a dating & lifestyle coach have taught me is that often poor dating skills are NOT the problem.
They sure are extremely important but only if you’ve already developed something else before:
A powerful sense of masculinity.
Get that first, and everything else––including meeting women or building an epic social circle––will be downhill.
Coming up in august, I’ll be personally leading the Natural Warrior Training at my property in Portugal. 8 days of movement, meditation, masculine core work, tribal and psychedelic initiations.
Of all the colorful and various ways a guy can meet women and get regular dates, nothing beats daytime cold-approaching when it comes to fast results and personal growth.
Compare it to crowded dating apps, and you have a way to instantly meet attractive girls without having them swipe first on you.
And in contrast to VIP nightclubs or bars, the hottest women are not hidden behind velvet ropes and hordes of high-value dudes, but right in front of you ready to be approached.
It’s simple, it’s fun, and it’s extremely effective.
Yet, I often see guys complaining that they don’t have time for it…
As if you should dedicate hours upon hours every day to approaching girls.
Truth is that daygame is a lot less about having allocated 4-hour sessions of meeting women––which are very useful in a coaching setting but unsustainable in the long run––and more about making the best out of every good opportunity that comes your way.
Like exchanging eye contact with a cute girl on your way to the office, or spotting a hot brunette during your lunch break.
If you want a living proof of this minimalistic, time-efficient, approach to meeting women, check my latest value-packed infield video.
In it, you’ll see me approaching, getting numbers, and arranging dates with 4 different women, within a little more than 30 minutes spent in the streets.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to take your daygame skillset to the next level?
In two weeks, I’ll be hosting a 7-day residential program in Kiev, Ukraine, where I’ll be coaching a select group of men on how to become incredible with girls and build the seductive lifestyle they’ve always dreamed of.
Dates are July 11th-July 18th, 2021, and you get over 60 hours of personalised training including both theory lectures, practice with hot female models, and dozens of hours of infield daygame coaching with me and the entire TNL team.
How to get instant confidence ( nervous system hacking)
Your sense of confidence is connected to your relationships with people.
If you struggle to interact and not having your needs met socially, you will feel weak and insecure.
And once your ego registers this vulnerable state, it will actively work to protect you from experiencing it ever again.
As a result, lots of men have serious blind spots in the way they operate around others and ultimately in their dating life as well.
This is the reason why toughening up or accumulating trophies (e.g., women, finances, cars) will never really solve deeper self-esteem issues or help you attract more high-quality partners…
The first step to getting rid of the aforementioned egoistic fight-or-flight type of response is to get comfortable with being put in a vulnerable state.
And luckily for you, there are tons of ways to do so.
One of the most effective and rapid ones is what I call “physically hacking your nervous system”.
If you want to learn how that works, as well as learning other methods to instantly ignite your self-confidence, check my latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Want to embrace your vulnerability, get out there and build an epic seductive lifestyle?
Our very successful 4 and 7-day training programs are designed to help you do so while giving you a lifetime worth of tools and principles to take your social interactions and self-worth to the next level.
Our most upcoming program is a week-long intensive in Kyiv, Ukraine, running from July 11th-July 18th, 2021, personally hosted by me and the entire TNL team.
Currently, there are only 2 spots left to join, so if you’re serious about instantly improving your seductive reality, click here to learn more.
Using seduction principles to improve your career & finances
Choosing the right career is a major struggle in most men’s lives.
Many guys dream of working for world-class companies or starting businesses to fuel a life of adventure and epic financial gain.
But the reality is often much less exciting than that…
Unable to stand out amidst fierce competition in hyper-saturated industries, guys settle for average routines and outcomes.
Living vicariously through their favorite TV-shows characters and social media creators.
Good seduction skills can however radically improve your chances to bridge the gap between your dreams and day-to-day life.
That’s because if you’re able to understand people’s unique needs and supply something very valuable to them, you’ll gain an unfair advantage over anyone competing for their attention.
This can be used both for getting famous bosses and companies to pick you for a job, as well as penetrating the inner circle of a mentor you want to learn from.
If you want to learn more on how to apply dating skills to career and business situations, check my latest video. In it, I detail a very simple framework on how to provide incredible value to elite people:
P.S. If you want to get mentored by me, James, and Alex on how to build a lifestyle that brings you tons of social and seductive opportunities, you can now join us in our upcoming 7-day workshop running from July 11th-July 18th, 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine.
Our live program combines over 80+ hours of individualized coaching per student, covering everything from the basics of approaching women, setting dates and inviting them back to your place, to developing strong charisma and influence skills, to healing emotional traumas and inner issues that are currently preventing you from enjoying your dream life.
There are only 2 spots left to join, so if this is something you’re interested in, I suggest you book a free call with me ASAP to get started.
Why men lose their desire (libido killers revealed)
There’s an assumption that men should be ready to get it on with girls 24/7.
That the male sex drive is a vigorous fire that never stops burning.
However, most guys’ experience proves quite the opposite…
Masculine libido is a very delicate thing.
It’s not ever-present but fluctuating.
The more you try to control it and fake it when you don’t feel it, the less you experience it.
But why is it that some men have a stronger sensual desire than others?
On one side, physiological reasons such as sleep patterns, diet, stress, or even the weather can affect your hormonal responses and your libido.
On the other, bedroom issues and a lack of motivation to even attempt sleeping with girls can also be extreme forms of self-sabotaging.
Untreated emotional wounds and chronic insecurities will often surface in the least expected ways…
Such as when you’re about to have a good time with a girl you like, and you suddenly feel numb, anxious or dissociated.
If you want to learn how to diagnose and treat most masculine sex drive issues, watch my latest video. In it, I break down the most common inner & outer libido killers I’ve encountered with thousands of students in the past 15 years and how to treat them.
Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to go at the root cause of any social, seductive, and confidence issues you will ever experience?
Masculinity problems are often a symptom of a common problem: a poorly formed and immature sense of self.
The lack of masculine role models and proper initiations into manhood (which have been part of human history for thousands of years) has caused men to become stiff, self-doubting, and emotionally numb.
These inner issues will often manifest in your relationship with others, and especially with women.
After working with thousands of male clients over the past fifteen years, I’ve developed a framework for rapidly installing masculinity upgrades in guys and guiding their healing path to confidence and inner balance.
Through both ancient and cutting edge transformational systems, I’ve brought together my elite crew of world class coaches to run the Natural Warrior Training.
NWT is TNL’s most innovative and intensive workshop, with over 8 days of full-spectrum masculine character training ranging from physical movement, & strength training, tribal initiations, Tantra & sensuality coaching, internal martial arts, psychotherapy, shamanic ceremonies, trauma healing, and more.
The next round of NWT runs from August 15th-August 22nd, 2021, at my property in Portugal. There’s only two spots left to join,
Whether it’s business, dating, fitness, or even personal development, the ideal is to be a badass who is reckless and ‘crushing it’ all the time.
Being this “tough” guy often entails pep-talking in front of the mirror and scheduling every minute for maximum productivity, always pushing yourself to the edge to avoid being called a p*ssy.
This relentless pursuit of new conquerings and achievements turns you into a fiercely competitive individual who visualizes and enjoys destroying his opponents.
Most of this occurs as a reaction to unhealed emotional trauma.
We are all broken as we emerge as humans. Some heal and find healthy ways to motivate and discipline themselves while others just ‘tape it up,’ learning to love their pain and making it the rocket fuel of rage.
But is it possible to be a strong man without turning into this kind of twisted tough guy?
Can you face pain with a supple rather than calloused mind?
In my latest video, I talk with Erros Chiodo, one of the coaches from James’s Natural Warrior Workshop, about ex-NAVY SEAL and ultra-athlete David Goggins and his controversial ‘24hr Beast Mode’ approach to motivation and discipline in fitness.
Erros is a Holistic Movement coach who has successfully merged his 10-year experience as a personal trainer, competitive bodybuilder, and strongman with more flexible, chaos-oriented practices such as contemporary dance, gymnastics, and movement culture as a whole. His work now focuses on an integrated approach to strengthening as well as healing the body by addressing the emotional world of his clients.
Together we analyze Can’t Hurt Me, Goggins’ autobiography/self-help book, to reveal whether his advice is useful or potentially harmful to men.
Click the link below to check it out:
P.S.Want to learn how to go beast-mode without destroying yourself, explore your senses of embodiment and sensuality and master flexible training methods to improve your physical strength & appearance?
Our 8-day Natural Warrior Training program is designed to holistically improve all the core aspects––physical, mental & spiritual––of attractive manliness while also serving as an intensive healing and conditioning journey for your inner self.
You’ll be taken through a modern initiation into manhood by our world-class team of experts in powerful schools of masculine potential, such as movement, traditional shamanic healing, psychotherapy, NLP, dance, fighting, sensuality, and Tantra. These will unlock new peak levels of confidence, seductive charm, and social success in your life for years to come.
The next round of NWT runs from August 15th-August 22nd, 2021, at James’ property in Portugal, and there are only 2 spots left to join…
If this is something you’re interested in, and want to learn how it can specifically help you overcome your current romantic & social obstacles, just book a free coaching call with me, and I’ll show you the way.
I’m not talking about being disrespectful or creating false expectations about you.
But to just stay authentic to your character and enforce your boundaries even if others might not agree with you.
This is a fundamental personality trait that women, and people in general, perceive as attractive.
Unfortunately, lots of guys deliberately avoid it in favor of a people-pleasing, “nice guy” kind of mentality…
Putting others’ satisfaction and approval before their self-interest.
But make no mistake, the above has nothing to do with having a good heart or being unconditionally kind to others…
It’s just a tactic.
A covert contract where you help someone and act nice just because you expect something in return.
A striking example of this is men who traditionally buy women flowers and invite them to fancy dinners on the first date just because they hope they’ll reciprocate and sleep with them in return.
That is the worst dating strategy ever conceived, and ultimately just delusional.
A much better and more effective option is daring to express your true masculine desire and honest opinion to girls and see how they react.
You’ll be surprised to notice that often, the more you challenge and disagree with her, the more she’ll become attracted to you.
I explain more about this topic and how to make the transition from pathological nice guy to independent and attractive male in my latest video.
Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. If this hits home hard for you and you want to rapidly improve the way you operate around women and people in general, I’ve got you covered!
Our live coaching programs offer 4, 7, and 10-day curriculums teaching men the fundamental and most effective aspects of dating and building socially and seductively fulfilling lifestyles.
Not only you’ll learn everything you need to know about how to approach and constantly get new beautiful women on dates (and into the bedroom without buying your way in) regularly, but you’ll also gain tremendous insight and clarity into your current and past relationship patterns so that you can correct and improve them as you want.
If this sounds like something you’re interested in and want to learn more about how our programs can help you solve your specific dating issues, just book a free no-obligation call with me, and I’ll show you the way.
One that doesn’t require minutes of plotting and tactical thinking.
Neither coming up with the slickest line to start the conversation.
But that will leave her fantasizing about you even for days after the initial encounter.
On the other side, the man who waits too long to approach and follows (stalks) the girl, waiting for the “perfect” opportunity, often gets reject on the spot.
Why?
Because he goes against his masculine Intent, and as a result appears robotic and fake.
Don’t be that guy.
If you want to learn how to approach like a true natural, without putting unnecessary pressure on yourself and the girl, watch my latest video.
In it, you can see me taking some of my workshop students through one of our in-person “approaching classes”, and the incredible results they get once they start removing the “unnecessary” from their interactions.
Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. Looking to become an effortlessly successful man in dating & all kinds of social scenarios?
Then you better act quickly!
We still have one spot left for our 4-day Intensive program running from May 20th-May 23rd in Kyiv, Ukraine.
When you join, you’ll receive over 34+ hours of personal coaching from me & the entire TNL crew covering everything you need to know about Approaching, Inner Game, Organizing Dates, Texting, Social Media, Masculine Intent Drills, Charisma Building, Taking her home, and many more.
Alternatively, you can also get mentored by me live 1-on-1 and build a training curriculum that is 100% tailored to your unique needs in romantic relationships, social circle building, and lifestyle design.
Currently, I only work with a few men per year this way due to the very exclusive nature of the training…
If you want to inquire about 1-on-1 coaching, please book a call with me first to see whether we’re a good fit for each other.
How to get her to take you home (my secret trick revealed!)
The worst pains and ordeals in dating can be avoided if you do one thing…
Actively try to understand women.
I’ve seen guys doing hundreds of approaches.
Practicing relentlessly the best social freedom drills & routines.
Improving their appearance, vocal tonality, and status.
And still struggling to barely get girls to pay attention to them.
Or they do get women on dates but never manage to sleep with them as they get zero seductive compliance and tons of resistance.
What did they do wrong?
In short, they ignored the girl’s responses.
Perhaps the most paradoxical trait of the dating & seduction industry is how many men within it are clueless about what women are telling them.
It takes two to tango––the sooner you realize it, the better your results will be.
Conversation frameworks, escalation techniques––all these things don’t matter if you are not aware of how she feels around you. It’s just an act.
And women have built-in B.S. detector when it comes to picking the best guys.
On the other side, for those few adepts who truly understand the subtleties of female psychology, life becomes easy ––tons of dates, zero resistance, and some girls will even take you home themselves.
If you want to truly start understanding the complexities and miracles of the female mind, check my latest video masterclass.
This is an epic 100-min crash course I’ve just released for free on YouTube in collaboration with TNL’s female coach Virag Tierra that explains everything you need to know in 2021 to fully understand women.
If you take your time and study thoroughly, it will make you realize how blind you may be in certain areas of dating. Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. If you want to personally learn from me, Virag, and the whole TNL crew to take your romantic life and overall lifestyle to new peaks of abundance, NOW is the time!
We only have one spot left for our upcoming 10-day tour of hedonistic madness known as the EuroTour, running from May 26th-Jun 6th 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine.
After in-depth research and consulting other world-class dating coaches, I have specifically chosen Kyiv as the permanent location for all our upcoming programs in 2021, and that’s for a very good reason…
Currently, no other place in the world compares to it in terms of seductive logistics… It’s easy to get in and out, everything is super safe and open, and most importantly, every single street, cafe, and even shopping market is filled with socially open, eastern European beauties.
Take advantage of this, before it becomes just another hyper-saturated dating bubble dominated by lots of male competitors 😉
