It’s truly fascinating how we all seek limitless growth and progress…
But often can’t get past the biggest success blocker of all: our ego.
This is true in career, seduction, and even more so in another aspect of men’s lives that it’s surrounded by so much pride and assumptions that rarely gets discussed:
Their sex life.
I’ve witnessed it with countless of my clients, friends, and even some of the best naturals I’ve met during the years.
The general expectation is that guys should know instinctively how to be good in bed––it’s “not that hard” in the end…
Until you ask women…
And you understand that we’re vastly overestimating the magnitude of our sexual abilities.
A prime example of this is integrating toys into the bedroom…
Far too many men still view these as a taboo, embarrassing to use, a way to compensate for poor size or lack of manhood…when in reality…
I’ve been experimenting with sex toys and techniques of all types in the bedroom for nearly a decade. I’ve discussed all of it with countless women and gradually mastered mixing them into a broad sexual proficiency.
If you are curious to learn what the best toys are, where to buy them without spending a fortune, and how to integrate them with your lovers to unleash peak pleasure, check out my latest video.
In it, I also show you how to use each toy via a real-time, explicit demonstration with my female assistant. Watch it below before YouTube takes it down
P.S.Ladies LOVE toys, but they are only a fraction of the greater skillset men need to master in order to truly become legendary in bed…
The above video is just a sneak peek (part 1 of 118) into a much larger project I’ve been working on in secret for the past five years…
The Master Lover Method.
Coming to you in early 2023, this is by far the most ambitious, in-depth program I’ve ever put together: a comprehensive, 5-week exploration into real sexual mastery.
We’ll cover it all, from the basics of escalation and anatomy, turning her on so that she begs for sex, role play and dominance, restraints and BDSM, Tantric techniques to strengthen libido and deepen intimacy, through to multi-orgasms, thre3somes, squ!rting, an*l, using toys, fantasy creation and embodiment techniques to last for hours…literally everything you need to become the best she’s ever had.
All demonstrated explicitly on camera with sexy female models, as I break down all key techniques in clinical detail, creating a huge toolkit for you to play with.
I’ll be dropping more juicy morsels from the course soon and stay tuned for the launch early next year;)
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Calling it quits on this whole dating thing and settling with one below-average girlfriend like most guys do.
Look, we’ve all been there.
Repetition is the key to mastering the seductive skill set.
But things do in fact get repetitive and lose their spontaneous, adventurous aspect after a while…
…If you approach all women the same way, in the usual locations, week in, week out.
That’s why I’m not going to advise you against it…
Just quit it.
Abdicate it.
Take a break for a few days, or for as long as necessary, and find novel ways to meet women.
Until you get excited and hungry for results again…
I discuss this in detail, as well as all my best strategies to deal with ‘dating burnout’ in my latest video. Check it out below:
P.S.If you got the opposite problems and haven’t been approaching enough, or struggle to turn conversations into actual dates leading to your bed…
We have just opened spots for our 2023 coaching season.
You can join us on the sunny beaches and jam-packed with hotties streets of Barcelona, Spain, and finally, make your dating dreams a reality.
We’ll cover it all, from approaching to flirting, texting, making her chase you, and taking her back home.
Drilling it until it becomes second nature and success becomes fun and in flow.
Join us on the world’s best seduction workshops, so that your only excuse not to go out and meet more girls… is that you’re already too busy jostling multiple adoring lovers.
Since I was young and trying to get laid, the dating landscape has changed drastically.
With Tinder, Instagram, and Onlyfans surging, young men are vanishing into their rooms to blink at screens all night, instead of meeting girls at the skate park with a cask of cheap wine, as we did in my day.
Nowadays, it’s all about satisfying the algorithm’s cravings: picking the right pictures, swiping all day, and crafting the perfect first message in the hopes that she replies with a dry-ass ‘Hi’.
Or is it?
We can’t ignore the impact that online dating has made on modern society, yet…
Cold approach is still the great equalizer that allows guys without high status or carefully constructed social funnels to sweep beauties off the street.
The good news is, you have way less competition as the years go by. If you become one of the tiny fraction of men who learn how to approach women competently, your options become limitless.
Or.. you can go back to swiping.
If you’re interested in watching me and Gareth Jones discussing recent trends in seduction and our favorite methods to get dates in this digitally-confusing era, watch the video below:
P.S.All coaching workshops for 2022 are completely sold out!
If you want to join me and the crew to learn the world’s most effective method to effortlessly meet women and get them on dates in real life, without wasting time in front of a screen, check our training availability for the 2023 season below:
It’s no mystery that most men will benefit tremendously from doing therapy.
Getting your sh*t together, sorting through your traumas and fears, and finding a person who knows how to help you dig isn’t easy but it is necessary.
I for one have been deeply involved with inner exploration work, both in the forms of traditional psychotherapy and Eastern spiritual practices, for over two decades.
Paradoxically, I credit a large part of my early seductive success more to my extensive experience with meditation than just having approached tons of women.
Being present, focused, and able to stay relaxed under pressure.
These skills are as vital for the aspiring monk as they are for the modern-day Casanova.
Now, while getting a feel for the epic benefits of self-discovery is simple, finding good analysts and spiritual guides is becoming increasingly more complex.
Especially when you consider that virtually anyone with the motivation can open a YouTube channel and start selling his ‘life coaching’ services overnight.
Alex, as I mentioned before, I’ve been actively involved with this since before the Internet was a thing––to put it in another way, I had time to learn a thing or two.
Below you will find a concise video guide where I openly share my best tips and criteria to pick the right therapist and finally start healing your inner wounds:
P.S.What I also have been up to for nearly twenty years is coaching tens of thousands of men like you building insanely abundant and fulfilling dating lives.
From how to approach any woman in an honest and charming way, to rapidly making her interested in you without reciting awkward lines or inventing stories, to setting a date and seeing her again soon so that she becomes your devoted lover.
What started as intense, spontaneous research into what actually works in dating soon sprouted into the world’s most effective and no b.s. method any guy can use to get the romantic results he deserves.
If you too want to access the TNL system at its full power and personally work with me and my team to turn your desires into reality, join us next month, from Oct 4th-Oct 8th, 2022, in New York (US), for our last coaching workshop of the year (next training round starts late spring 2023).
Only two spots remaining. For more details and questions, speak with the team for free below:
We all know life is finite, so are you spending your time the right way?
Look, I’m nobody to tell you what you should or should not prioritize.
But will you look back one day at a ripe old age and say:
“Damn, those ten years I devoted to Instagram were a total blast!”
Might read funny now, but that’s where a large percentage of young men are heading nowadays.
Hooked to the instant validation and fake sense of connection of social media, research shows the average person consumes content for at least two hours a day––and that’s at the low end. .
That’s about fifteen hours per week, sixty hours per month, and…you can keep doing the math.
This is not another rant about the dangers of technology and going back to primal ways of living. I’m a big proponent of milking the sh*t out of whatever tools are available to enhance your life and find success faster than previous generations.
What I’m warning you against is passiveness.
The exact kind of spectator mindset you reinforce with hours of mindlessly scrolling your phone every day rapidly transfers to most other areas of your offline reality.
Like, not knowing anymore how to make friends, reduced work productivity, and you guessed it…your dating results.
If you want to learn more about this and find out how to switch from a static consumer type to a ‘let’s make stuff happen’ creator type, watch my latest video below:
P.S.Tired of wasting your prime years dating average, uninteresting girls? Want to start meeting true stunners and finally unlock abundance in your sexual and romantic life?
Then join us overseas, in one of the best seduction locations in the world, for our last workshop of 2022 running from Oct 4th-Oct 8th in New York City, USA.
40+ hours of advanced theory masterclasses built around your unique sticking points and daily long infield sessions where you get real-time ‘over-the-shoulder’ feedback from us as you approach and get on dates with dozens of hot cosmopolitan girls in the Big Apple.
To learn more and guarantee your spot before we sell out, get in touch for free with the coaching team below:
But in today’s society, real, solid, independent men are getting harder and harder to come by.
Drained by chronic use of porn and socially weakened through atomized communities and by meeting women only via dating apps, many guys have become so needy, they’d tolerate anything to get laid and get a cute girlfriend.
Even if you luck apon a hottie who likes the attention.. while it might feel exciting and novel, for the first couple of weeks, to date a servile, agreeing, overly-providing type of man, the vast majority of women will inevitably get bored and turned off by it soon into the relationship.
That’s when the constant nagging, or ‘testing’, begins.
A woman will make her man’s life hell when she feels there’s no consequences, and the man doesn’t command any respect in general.
Whereas, if he’s able to state clear boundaries, and to underwrite his authority by having command of his life and the life he brings her into, most women will become picky kittens.
Set your boundaries soon, set them as early as possible, and don’t be afraid to enforce them.
If you want to learn a practical method to do so and finally get unconditional respect and loyalty from women, watch my latest video below:
P.S.It’s official! By popular demand, we’ve just added one more workshop to our 2022 US coaching tour.
Lots of guys who couldn’t make it to our first programs this summer messaged me begging for more coaching opportunities overseas…now you have no excuses!
If you want to get trained by the best naturals in the world to learn how to effortlessly meet hot womenanywhere, confidently flirt with them, and deeply seduce them so they crave your presence and want to meet you again on a date, apply for one of the programs below:
From Sept 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, for our 7-day Residential Program in New York City – 3 spots left.
From Oct 4th-Oct 8th, 2022, for our last US-based workshop of the year, the 4-day NYC Intensive – 5 spots left.
80+ hours of personalized coaching per student divided into theory classes, roleplay events with female models to practice the concepts in a safe space, and daily infield sessions approaching and flirting with Manhattan babes, with the world’s best coaches by your side.
To learn more and pick the best program for you, speak with our coaching team for free below:
As cities get hotter and clothes thinner, hormones start raging.
It’s that time of the year again!
And with hordes of hot female tourists traveling around the globe and local beauties looking to get wild, your dating opportunities have never looked so good.
This is your reminder to get off those apps and start talking to girls. In real life.
If this sounds good, but you don’t know where to start or struggle to get past the initial chit-chat and convert your approaches into actual dates leading to sex, I have good news for you…
Dozens of our summer workshops(link) students have already transformed their seductive and social lives this past month, and YOU too can become our next success story.
If you’re looking to get mentored by me, Alex, Shae, and the rest of the TNL crew this summer to finally unlock the romantic results you deserve, join us on the following dates:
Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, for our 4-day Barcelona Intensive––2 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, in New York City, US, for our 7-day Residential––4 spots left.
After many requests, we have also added one more date in New York to guarantee coaching to as many brave men overseas as possible:
Oct 4th-Oct 8th, the 4-Day New York Intensive––6 spots left.
We expect the above to fill up very quickly. If serious to work with us, click and book a free introductory call with the training team below:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos:
Alex Leòn has released an advanced, in-depth guide on how to develop one of the most effective seduction skills men largely ignore: connection. He’s so good at teaching it that one of his students literally made a girl he just approached involuntarily weep by bonding deeply (he also got her contact and set a date). Watch the full thing HERE
I also highly recommend you check Alex’s very moving and insightful ‘origin’ story video. From attending a conservative, all-male boarding school and never getting physical with a girl until college to traveling the world with me and throwing baller parties with models and micro-celebrities, the guy is an excellent example of pro-level lifestyle design. He breaks down the truth behind his fast progress HERE
Talking about humble beginnings…I’ve recently uploaded part 2 of my ‘self-roast’ series. In this one, you’ll see me tearing apart some more unreleased infields from my first year in the game (over a decade ago). Will young James Marshall succeed at charming two cute tourists in a park in Prague? Find out the answer HERE
Closing off with some wisdom from an interview I recently posted with my old friend and seduction legend Zan Perrion…
Ever wondered how to stay young in your body and spirit virtually forever, effectively slowing down aging and enjoying epic libido and energy well after your thirties? Zan has figured out ‘a process’, and he reveals it in his full enlightening interview below:
That’s all for today,
Time to cool off.
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Every man is faced sooner or later with the critical decision of focusing on one girl and attempting the relationship path or keep playing the field, travel solo, and meet new lovers.
In most cases, what often feels like the safest option, settling, is far from a comfortable and effortless task.
It’s one thing to hold hands and declare love and commitment…
…but to really make it work in the long term, you must know what you’re doing.
Research conducted in 2021 in Europe on people aged 25-35 shows that nearly 70% of new couples break up within six to twelve months.
And while self-improvement strategies are nowadays widely encouraged to get more dates, the vast majority of men still approach relationships with a mainstream ‘just be yourself’ type of thinking that doesn’t work.
If you want to improve your chances at the long-term dating game, watch my latest video.
In it, our inner game and sexuality specialist, Shae Matthews, breaks down the most critical mistakes men make when interacting with their partners and how to keep the attraction going well beyond the initial spark phase. Link below:
P.S. Want to join me, Shae, Alex, and the rest of the team in person to learn how to confidently meet, seduce and embark on epic romantic adventures with elite women this year?
Then be quick! There are only two workshops left in 2022 to transform your dating life:
From Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day Intensive Workshop–three spots remaining.
From Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, in New York, US, for our flagship seven-day Residential Program–five spots remaining.
Whether you’re looking to enter a stable, healthy relationship with a gorgeous, loyal, and mature girlfriend or travel the world and have casual affairs with exotic beauties, it all begins with one key step…
Knowing how to walk up to her and make it happen.
And that’s what you’ll learn in any of our world-class programs! Revealing theory masterclasses and practical skills that we never release on YouTube with our coaching team and many hours spent infield putting it all into practice by meeting and interacting with hot women in real life, you’ll leave the program as the guy ‘who just gets it’.
If serious about starting this journey, book a free introductory call with our coaching team below:
How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
Very commonly, gorgeous women are seen in pairs or groups.
If you’re unable to approach a duo, you’ll miss out on huge numbers of good seduction opportunities
Beautiful women are people magnets, always surrounded by girlfriends and men competing for their attention.
So if you want to have a chance to get them on dates, you have to know how to deal with their group.
This puts a lot of pressure on guys who think they need to pull off some major social stunt, win the crowd over, and spin multiple plates, trying to keep all the friends entertained.
Or even worse, they solely focus on their “target” and ignore her friend even when she’s standing two feet away, meaning you come across as rude and socially uncalibrated.
The good news is, succeeding at group dynamics is a lot easier than you think.
All you have to do, whether it’s just one girlfriend or a mixed ensemble of five or more people, is show that you’re a cool and socially aware guy.
Divide your social attention 70/30 between your girl and her friend, while directing 100/0 seductive intent at the pair.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised to discover that her friends will often assist you rather than cockblock.
Watch my latest video to learn how to properly deal with groups and approach two or more women.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work with me and my own group of elite coaches to ignite your romantic and social life this year?
Then join us this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day intensive coaching program.
Get access to the best education available on the planet to men on how to successfully meet tons of hot women through Natural, direct style approaching and get them on dates consistently.
From what to say to start the conversation, building tension and compliance through smart flirting, getting her number, and setting the date via texting, to physically escalating and taking her home without resistance…
You will not only learn what truly works with girls but also make every concept second nature by spending dozens of hours infield with us meeting beautiful women and getting them on dates in real life.
This is your opportunity to set the foundation for years (and potentially decades) of true abundance and sexual success.
This is our last European workshop for the year, with spots selling fast, so jump on an obligation-free call with us this week:
Ever felt like your age is catching up with your dating life?
It’s one thing to be a testosterone-raging, twenty-something college student with endless free time to socialize, get wasted at parties, work out, and plan adventures.
But as soon as you hit your thirties, for most men things start to worsen.
Demanding jobs, poor nutrition, chronic lack of sleep, and a very sedentary lifestyle render males weak, nervous, and overall less powerful in the bedroom, resulting often in less confidence and relationship problems.
That’s why it’s paramount for a modern man to have a basic self-maintenance routine.
I’m not talking about adding even more stress by destroying yourself in the gym for hours every day, micro-scheduling every nutrient you absorb, or turning into a full-on self-development junkie who meditates for hours at a time.
What I’m referring to is to start incorporating a series of small daily habits that will, in the long-term, slow down aging and allow you to truly enjoy your peak masculine years as you deserve.
To learn what they are, go and watch my latest video.
In it, I and legendary seduction & masculinity master Zan Perrion break down the most vital tips to stay nimble in body and spirit and keep rocking in life and the bedroom for the rest of your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want work together this summer to finally build a rockstar dating & sexual life, no matter your current age or romantic challenges?
Over eight hours of customized training per day covering all the fundamentals and advanced strategies that will save you years of rejection and set you on a path of thriving with women for the rest of your life.
From how to approach, effortlessly build engaging conversations, getting her contacts and properly following up via text or social media, to finally seeing her again on a date and taking her home..
We’ll leave no stone unturned in your masculine education, giving you access to an evolving database of knowledge and tools to age-proof your confidence, mindset, and body and make success truly inevitable.
Only a few spots left.
If interested in joining, click on the link below and book a call with the enrollment team:
