How I got good with women fast (the no b.s. truth)
Looking back at my early seduction days, I realize my stubbornness was my biggest asset…
One of the reasons, if not the main reason, why I started getting great results with women within months of starting is that I never looked only for easy, ‘safe’ opportunities.
Instead of wasting time waiting for ideal scenarios, like a cute tourist sitting alone on a bench for hours, or a college girl looking bored in a coffee shop, I just went for it, no matter how unprepared I felt.
And I mostly failed spectacularly, in the beginning…
But with time, that helped me fast-track my dating progress massively as I didn’t get stuck in the classic beginner comfort trap of only approaching in one type of situation.
One girl, two girls, a mixed group with guys, daygame, bars, nightclubs, at the supermarket…
…It made no difference to me as it was all part of my larger journey to master this art.
Recently I went through some very old infield footage, from my early days in the game, to chart my progress and show how even when imperfect, big balls trump technical skill.
This is part 2 of my self-roast series (watch part 1 HERE) where I analyze some old approaches of two girls at once, revealing my biggest mistakes as a newbie and what I would do differently today.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to work with me this year to become adept at meeting hot women anywhere, having intriguing conversations and flirting, and confidently getting them to dates?
If you’re serious about transforming your seductive lifestyle in 2022, be quick…
There are only three spots left to join our last and most epic workshop of the year!
Running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, our 7-day Residential is a proven system that will take you from beginner to natural, while saving you years of struggle (and providing enough material for you to thrive with women for decades!).
From how to confidently approach girls anywhere and create instant attraction, to building connection and truly getting to know her through conversations, to reversing the power dynamic and making her chase and invest to see you again, to texting and taking her back to your place within hours into the date––it’s all covered!
You also get to practice every concept until it becomes second nature by spending over 80 hours training, meeting hot women infield (and likely getting your first dates within days) as I and the coaches provide you constant feedback in real-time.
To learn more and save your spot before we sell out, click on the link below to speak with our student success team:
Do you often get stuck in boring conversations with women that lead nowhere?
Or worse, where she’s actually almost silent, looks confused, and you have to do all the talking?
Sorry to break it to you but if that’s something you constantly experience in your approaches, chances are YOU are the one causing the problem.
See, it’s totally normal that some girls are shy and need time to open up and engage back…
But that should happen within the first five minutes of talking.
Once she realizes you’re a chill, charming guy and feels comfortable in your presence, commonly, woman will naturally invest and contribute to keeping the conversation going.
And that’s when most guys out there predictably mess up.
Overly excited that a hot girl is talking to them and impatient to score, they start doing too much instead of focusing on the one thing that is proven to yield the best results:
Give her space, slow down, ask good questions and shut up and let her talk.
Most inexperienced guys, pepper her with irrelevant questions, cut her off, stumble over their words and as a consequence, she quickly loses interest and turns into the speechless, stone-faced female creature every seducer knows.
If you’re looking to prevent that from happening again and start having better, sexier, and more intriguing conversations with women that actually lead to dates, make sure to watch my latest video below.
In it, I break down the four most common conversation mistakes guys make that turn women off.
P.S. Want to work with me in person to get past most beginner mistakes within hours (and not years) and rapidly start getting more dates and adventures with beautiful women?
Then join me and the full TNL team including Alex, Shae, Virag, and Gareth Jones this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, in Barcelona, Spain, for our last andmost popular Residential Workshop of the year.
Seven days of intensive coaching, theory masterclasses to access the latest insights and discoveries on what actually works with women, inner game sessions to unleash authentic confidence & charisma, roleplay workshops to practice every concept in a safe space with our team of hot female assistants and, most importantly, dozens of hours of approaching gorgeous women in the streets, cafès, parks, and beaches of the Catalan capital while getting constant 1-on-1 feedback from the coaches.
Only four spots left as the workshop is already 50% sold out.
To learn more about this training opportunity and see if it’s right for your goals, click on the link below and get on a free introduction call with our student success team:
The best summer to meet hot women (+ June 2022 TNL Recap)
A long, epic summer lies ahead.
Although the world is lurching through turmoil, we’re now experiencing the first open summer in years.
Hot girls are looking to meet new exciting lovers that will sweep them off their feet, help them disconnect from routine, and take them on sexy adventures.
If you want to become the kind of man who can confidently approach women anywhere, seduce them, and smoothly take them home within the first couple of dates, listen up..
TNL is back on the road and our 2022 summer workshops are on and getting close to sold out!
If you always wanted to get coached by me, Shae, Alex, Virag, and Gareth check out the following dates:
Aug 23rd-Aug 26th, 2022, 4-day Barcelona Intensive––only 1 spot left!
Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, our premium, week-long Residential program in Barcelona, Spain––3 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022 final 7-day program in New York City––4 spots available.
These are your best opportunities to fast-track your progress with women exponentially, literally saving years of trial and error, to get your love life handled this year.
We won’t only teach you the most effective, proven through years of field-testing, principles to become great with the ladies. We will also guide you to intensively practice every single concept in real life by meeting and approaching dozens of beautiful women while getting personalized real-time feedback and corrections.
With over 80 hours of taking action infield and receiving constant feedback from the coaches, you’ll know by instinct what’s the best way to approach a girl you like in any situation, get her into a conversation, build connection & sexual tension, and successfully see her again on a date.
If looking to learn more and make things happen before spots are over, click on the link below to speak with our enrollment team:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos: …
Our inner game wizard, Shae Matthews, released a mind-bending rant on how to progressively get over any type of social anxiety and insecurity and start taking effortless action in dating and life. Check it out HERE
Alex Leòn has shared his raw uncensored insights, gained through years of infiltrating elite social circles and meeting top-level women like models & celebrities, on how money truly affects your dating results. Check it out and get ready to be triggeredHERE
We also have released some awesome coaching transformation videos showing our brave students getting smoother and more successful at seducing girls in the street within hours of starting our programs. Check out the full clip HERE
Last but not least, I released my very first self-roast video. Going back through my infield archives and ripping apart my younger self, like I would a student. As it turns out, even the best used to suck at this, but persistence pays off 😉
That’s all for today.
Wishing you a naughty adventure-filled summer,
James
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Why women ignore you in the street (& how to fix it)
A true master of any art understands that foundations and core basics are the ultimate bedrock of future success.
Trying to jump ahead and learn the flashy moves first, whether it’s martial arts, music or seduction without understanding footwork, breathing, scales, or how to approach a woman correctly, will lead to frustration and mediocre results at best.
When it comes to dating, nothing else matters until you can competently approach with the right intent and body language to get her to stop and willingly talk to you.
Because if she won’t stop to talk, or is weirded out by you before you even open your mouth, you’re going to get nowhere.
The good news is, it is actually very easy to learn, once you know the common mistakes and how to calibrate to each woman you meet.
In my latest video, I give a detailed masterclass on one of my signature moves, “The Jedi Stop”. This is a simple, smooth and field proven way to stop women walking on the street in a way that grabs their attention, projects confidence and charm without being pushy, or rude.
Click on the link below to check it out:
By the way, this value packed clip comes from my 3-week foundation’s online course, The Dating Accelerator.
With over 20 hours of detailed instructional videos on all aspects of approaching, openers and frameworks for getting into engaging and flirty conversations, how to close with charm and decisiveness. Plus modules on creating intimate and fun dates that lead to the bedroom, infield inner game to get over approach anxiety, weekly lectures, missions & accountability systems and 10+ hours of bonuses.
Right now, I’m hosting a flash sale, where you can get lifetime access to DA for 50% off the regular price, for only 97 euros.
Offer is on for 72 hours only, so if you want the most comprehensive natural game foundations course out there, for a crazy discounted price, click on the link below and use coupon code “DA2022” when checking out:
Especially when it comes to getting better with women, you can’t ‘force’ or ‘rush’ results.
Sure, if you lower your standards and play on mere quantity by approaching hundreds of drunk girls in bars or clubs, you might score the odd, awkward one-night-stand rather quickly.
I, for one, was much less confident and effective at this when I first got into the dating scene in my late twenties.
In fact, I was very dorky and uncalibrated…
But instead of taking rejections personally and talking myself out of it, I persisted and focused on making the process enjoyable, turning even the cringiest moments into fun, learning experiences.
Over a decade later, I’ve not only lived all the romantic and sexual fantasies most men only dream about, but I’ve also helped tens of thousands of others to do the same.
So, if you’re curious to see a much less experienced ‘newbie’ James Marshall in action, go and watch my latest video.
In it, I analyze and roast some of my first ancient infield approaches, breaking down all major seduction mistakes and strengths of my younger self. Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S.Looking for me and my elite team to ‘roast’ you and mentor you for one full week and kickstart a lifetime of abundance and success with beautiful women?
Then join us in Barcelona, Spain, from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, for our last and most epic workshop of the year.
Including eight hours of intensive coaching per day, this program will truly leave no stone unturned in your masculine evolution.
We start every morning with in-depth theory masterclasses, covering our famous principle-based method of natural seduction and the latest insights into what truly works with girls in 2022. Yet, the bulk of the day and the core ‘soul’ of the program is devoted to something else:
Practice.
From day 1 in the workshop, you’ll learn practical ways to overcome your fears and confidently meet and interact with dozens of hot women. From catwalk models who frequently visit Barcelona, to local South European beauties, to the many hot ex-pats, you’ll approach and have more dating opportunities in seven days than in the past seven years of your life.
Only 3 spots remaining, and we plan on selling out by the end of the month.
Knowing how to be playful and charge mundane conversations with sexual energy is a fundamental capacity that shows girls you know what you’re doing.
It’s also, by coincidence, the best way to guarantee you’ll never end in the friend zone again.
Smoothly establish yourself as a sexual prospect from the getgo, and trust me, your dating life will massively improve.
This is also ironically one of the things men struggle the most with, and it’s not their fault…
See, there is a lot of pressure and cultural shame in society surrounding the whole idea of expressing your masculine desire and honest self.
‘You’ll offend girls. ‘You’ll get rejected’.
So be it.
The fastest way to propel your results with women is to get out of your way and stop assuming things.
Stop assuming she’s in a rush and doesn’t want to talk.
Stop assuming she’s a cold-hearted b*tch just because of her facial expressions.
Stop thinking you have to play it safe and act like a friend, or that’s exactly what you’ll end up becoming for her.
If ready to unleash epic levels of sexual confidence and finally become a master at flirting, watch my latest video linked below:
P.S.Looking to venture out of your comfort zone and make 2022 the year when you finally take full control of your dating life?
Be quick! Our last workshop of the year is approaching, and we have only 3 spots left to join.
Running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022 in Barcelona, Spain, the Residential is a week-long journey that will free you from all the toxic romantic habits you’ve accumulated in your life and install new upgrades that will make you effortlessly more seductive and confident around women.
From how to approach and get girls into intriguing conversations anywhere to spicing things up with sexual tension and making them chase you, to get their contacts, texting & building comfort with social media, to successfully take them home (or have them invite you over) within the first couple of dates, the tools you’ll get in this elite workshop are guaranteed to have you experience insane dating success and breakthroughs for many years to come.
Plus, you get to put everything you learn into practice by spending 40+ hours infield with me and the crew. We’ll be hitting the best streets, cafès, and hot spots of sunny Barcelona and approach dozens of sexy Latinas and stunning tourists until this becomes second nature for you (and you finally experience your first successes).
To learn more and save your spot before they sell out:
No matter how many times we cover the topic and how many hundreds of guys we coach per year, we still get the same question asked almost every week:
‘How do I overcome my fear of talking to women?’
It sure is a burning issue for most men and a very critical one.
In the end, being unable to talk to girls because of social anxiety is not just some minor sticking point but an UNPENETRABLE roadblock.
And unless you solve it rapidly and permanently, you will waste precious years of your masculine prime stuck in unwanted celibacy and scarcity.
Now, onto the good news…
This is something every man CAN solve.
I got rid of it, my coaches did, and so did countless students who attended our elite programs over the past seventeen years.
The only reason so many men are still stuck with it is that they seek a one-time ‘medicine-like’ solution when, in fact, curing approach anxiety.
Is a dynamic process.
There are just too many variables to consider when diagnosing why a guy feels paralyzing fear when at the prospect of talking to an attractive stranger.
Past traumas, hardwired conservative or religious beliefs, self-image issues, and lack of desire, to list some.
Our proven way to solve this is to work on the condition from multiple angles.
There are four main layers to this process: inner, outer, short-term, and long-term.
For example, when working in the outer dimension, you can progressively reduce anxiety by executing intermediate steps starting with holding eye contact during conversations and slowly building up to confidently approaching a stranger.
But unless you look at the full spectrum of things, your results will be short-lived.
To learn more about this topic and permanently solve your fear of talking to women, go and watch my latest video linked below now!
P.S. Want to personally collaborate with me and my elite team this Summer to smash your social & inner blockages and finally start dating more high-quality, sexier women?
Then join us in Barcelona from Aug 29th-Sep 4th for our last and most epic Residential workshop of the year.
Let me reassure you…
In only seven days, you’ll experience more breakthroughs and practical success with women than you did in the past few years of your life.
That’s because the entire workshop is designed to make you take intensive, smart action that quickly leads to the high level of results you’ve always wished for but didn’t know how to get.
This is no confusing theory seminar. From day 1 in the program, you will be out in the field meeting and getting dates with dazzling Mediterranean women, helping you quickly make the skillset second nature.
Only four spots left, so if you want to permanently smash your approach anxiety and get to the fun parts of seduction…
Without a clear understanding of ‘why’ you’re putting yourself out there, withstanding theinitial rejections and failures becomes quickly unbearable until you give up.
And no…
‘To look cool in front of my buddies’ or ‘to make my ex suffer back by seeing me with other girls’ are not good reasons to kickstart your seduction journey.
In practical terms, this is about becoming more resilient.
Embracing the struggle and beautiful chaos of this unique path not only until things get better and you start getting results but until you also fall in love with the process.
Alex, I’ll be honest with you, this is no quick-fix task…
And if you’re looking to stay in the game long-term to experience all the crazy and insane opportunities it has to offer you, you need to be driven by something more than childish wishes from your Ego.
To learn more on how to identify your unique purpose and unleash powerful intent that will make your dating and social results feel almost effortless, watch Shae’s latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work personally with me, Shae, Alex, and the rest of the elite TNL team to unravel your dating life and design a clear path to guaranteed success with women?
Our live workshops are the perfect testing ground to practically meet dozens of hot girls in real life and sharpen your skills while progressively refining your mindset and developing confidence until you truly think and behave like a Natural.
Currently, we’re fully sold out for most of the upcoming summer coaching season including our July New York program…
However, you can still join us starting Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022 in Barcelona, Spain for our 7-day Residential program. 8+ hours of personalized coaching per day including advanced theory classes, infield sessions, night-game sessions, elite masterclasses with surprise guests on texting, social media, and all the most relevant strategies to confidently meet & seduce high-level women in 2022.
To learn more about them and save your spot before this one too gets fully booked over the next few days:
7 ways to tie women up (& stop being boring in bed)
Nothing ruins relationships and fuels infidelity more than lies and….bad sex.
Women are especially sensual creatures..
If you’re not able to continually give pleasure to your partner in new ways by experimenting in the bedroom, chances are she’ll get bored of you rather quickly. And, it’s very likely you too are missing out on unknown pleasure that only the most skilled lovers experience.
The good news is that introducing variety during sex and keeping a girl satisfied is not that difficut. Thankfully, because most men don’t try to improve or don’t care about their partner’s pleasure, the bar is so low that ANY effort made to communicate and improve in the bedroom, sets you apart.
The main problem? Most guys’ egos and pride get in the way of improving sexually. Either they’re hiding insecurities or falling into delusional arrogance.
Johnny Soporno once said “If you have a special sex move that always, always gets the ladies off… They’ve all been faking it.” Meaning, that what works for one woman, may need to be adapted or completely changed for the next. And if you always fuck the same way, you’re no doubt missing the cues about what each woman wants differently.
For these men, admitting their ignorance about sex feels like a direct threat to their manliness.
As a result, they always end up fuc*ing in the same four positions, and when they try to spice things up, they’re often clumsy and rarely achieve their goal.
Take something like restraints and tying up girls to introduce exciting dynamics of dominance and submission.
Many men buy furry handcuffs to use awkwardly, not really knowing what to do next, or tie women’s wrists too tight causing unnecessary bruises and pain to the girl (and zero pleasure).
On the other side, true Bondage masters consistently give their women mind-blowing orgasms by stimulating erogenous zones simultaneously, using psychological dominance and reward patterns and making the whole experience an immersive sensual journey.
Know what makes the difference? Expertise. Humbleness.
The most experienced and memorable lovers out there are constantly open to trying new methods and seeking external advice.
I myself have worked for years with world-class mentors to take my BDSM and sexuality skillset to world class levels. I’m happy to admit my ignorance and the more I learn, the more I seek guidance. and girls love the results 😉
If you too are looking for inspiration and proven methods to satisfy women in bed, watch my latest video.
In it, I demonstrate with my female assistant my seven favorite, very simple ways to tie women and use Bondage techniques to drive them wild. Link below:
P.S.Looking to take things to the next level sexually and study under three elite mentors to completely overhaul your bedroom skills and become the wild, sensually dominant lover that women get wet thinking about?
Our Sex God Masterclass is the world’s first and only 7-day live program that offers you a practical path to mastery in the complete spectrum of sexual experience and pleasure.
From positions, toys, leading seduction to the bedroom, to learning to last for as long as you want by using ancient Tantra systems, to roleplay and advance dominance fantasies, to BDSM and restraints.
This is the kind of training I wish existed when I was first learning. You get the combined knowledge of 60 years of the coach’s exploration and get to practice all the techniques with our team of fun, sexy ladies.
We only run SGM once a year from Oct 31st-Nov 6th, 2022, in Budapest, Hungary. There’s only 6 places total due to the high level of personalized coaching and only 3 spots remaining.
One of my main challenges as a dating & relationship coach is making men comfortable and motivated by the idea of talking to hot women.
It sounds paradoxical, but many of the guys who pay me hefty fees to help them become better with girls often freeze and come up with all sorts of excuses to avoid meeting hot ladies in the first place.
On one side, they rationally want a better dating life. On the other, they deliberately waste good opportunities and sabotage the progress they long for.
Why?
Most pick up gurus out there quickly dismiss this as ‘approach anxiety’, a physiological fight-or-fly response triggered by trying to operate outside your comfort zone.
But the truth is that many social and dating dysfunctions can also be caused by something much more complex…
Your unprocessed emotional traumas and inner pain.
Negative or awkward experiences with girls during childhood and high school, for example, can come to haunt you in your thirties by manifesting as feeling not enough to go and talk to the hottie that just smirked at you in a bar.
Very conservative and antiquated beliefs you might have been exposed to during your adolescent years might trigger a fear and guilt response when trying to get sexual and projecting your desire onto women.
The list goes on and on.
If you want to learn three very effective ways to detect and heal your emotional wounds and annihilate irrational fears and triggers in your dating and life, watch my latest video linked below:
P.S. Want to personally work with me and my team to experience true success and abundance with women?
Our Summer workshop dates are officially out––and 70% of the available coaching spots have already been taken!
If you’re determined to optimize yourself, both externally in your communication & seduction skillset and internally on a confidence and inner game level, to unlock epic dating results, you might still be in time; but not for long.
There is still 1 spot available for our week-long New York City program, running from July 25th-July 31st, 2022.
Alternatively, you can join the team in Europe for our Barcelona intensives, running Aug 23-Aug 26 and Aug 29-Sep 4,2022.
Click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team and find out the best training opportunity for your unique needs and goals:
