12th January 2022
James Marshall

Why ugly guys date the hottest women (you won’t believe this)

Let’s cut to the chase: looks matter.

In fact, they are key if your primary way to get dates is to exchange eye contact and furtive smiles in bars with drunk girls hoping for them to make a move.

Been there, done that.

But if you dream of dating women who are aesthetically ‘above your league’, and who would never approach a guy first, the way you look doesn’t play that big of a role.

Sure, having a basic level of hygiene, grooming, and fitness, mixed with a decent fashion sense will do wonders to the average guy entering the dating game…

…But it’s the ability to go for it without waiting for any obvious sign of interest from the girl that ultimately makes the difference.

Again and again, on our live workshops, I’ve witnessed very average-looking guys outclassing beautiful men by miles when it came to approaching and making things happen with girls.

With no inherent advantage or shortcut, the ‘uglier’ guys had to work for it, learning how to face rejection and blow-offs and ultimately succeeding in getting the level of women they wanted.

The good-looking men, on the other hand, often experienced massive approach anxiety and problems to lead conversations, getting discouraged very easily.

So, no matter how good you might look, my advice is that you approach any girl from now on as if your appearance was an hindrance.

With that in mind, you’ll focus naturally on what really matters the most in seduction 😉

To learn more about this and the real impact of looks in dating, watch my latest video linked below:

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Why being nice to women sucks (if you expect something back)

10th January 2022
James Marshall

Why being nice to women sucks (if you expect something back)

Being nice carries a terrible ROI…

…If you expect people, and women specifically, to be nice back to you.

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See, there is no unwritten rule of life or the cosmos that states that being very complaisant and providing unsolicited favors to others entitles you to get social or sexual rewards from them.

It’s a losing strategy.

One that countless ‘nice guys’ have been using for eons hoping to get girls to like them in return.

It rarely works, and even if it does it means you’ve attracted women that value only what you can provide to them rather than the real you.

If you recognize yourself in the above, it’s fundamental that you stop what you’re doing and start implementing a new system for getting what you want from people in your life.

I call it ‘the godfather method’.

In short, you deliberately act on your intentions, not hiding your true motifs as most nice guys do, but consistently give out small bits of value to others that is not so expensive to you (i.e., career advice, cooking for a night, hosting a party, epic sex).

Do this for a length of time, and you will build tons of trust, respect, and likability with people who will gladly help you back whenever you ask them to (for example, by introducing you to several attractive female friends).

To learn more about how to self-diagnose a chronic nice guy syndrome and then make the transition to a healthier and more effective approach to getting the most out of life, watch the video below:

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Master this skill —> get dates in 2022

30th December 2021
James Marshall

Want women to care for you? Quit this behavior

Building an emotional connection with women is way too over hyped these days.

The idea, the fantasy, that you should bond with girls on a molecular level to spark attraction is exactly what prevents many men from sleeping with any woman.

Truth is that you don’t need to share painful memories and sorrows from the past.

Or to know all her favorite foods and how her first pet was named.

Nor do you need to soul-gaze at each other in a candle-lit room to get intimate with her.

Quite the opposite…

I always keep my game light and fun, focusing more on generating and releasing seductive pressure than building deep emotional attachment with the girl.

After all, you want her to perceive you as a potential lover and not as her psychotherapist or curious uncle.

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Of course, emotions play a central role in this, but not the one you think…

It’s all about stimulating her deepest fantasies with your masculine presence and not about acting as an over-caring boyfriend right off the bat.

To learn more on how to properly create emotional impact without being friend-zoned or laughed at, check my latest video.

In it, I and the legendary Zan Perrion dive deep into common beta behaviors and how to effectively build a ‘seductive vibe’ with women that makes them heavily invested in you. Click on the link below to watch it:

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Why men feel miserable

20th December 2021
James Marshall

Why men feel miserable

Women like different men, at different times.

Sometimes, you fit perfectly into the masculine archetype she’s attracted to at the moment, and things will be ridiculously easy.

Others, no matter how good your game is, it will be an uphill effort.

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The only way to overcome the unfair entropy of the dating process is to develop what I often refer to as ‘real masculine abundance’

In other words, you try to keep as many doors open with different women as possible so that you’re never desperate and begging for one specific girl to take you.

However, this doesn’t mean you should never settle with one great loving woman if you choose to…

…But you should be resourceful and confident enough to move on and find new romantic partners in the future if things do not go as planned.

The opposite of this is what most men, unfortunately, experience: scarcity.

A chronic state of insecurity, misery, and thirst for female attention often culminating in prioritizing women’s needs over your own.

If you want to stop being attached to girls’ approval and stop selling yourself short to women, make sure to watch my latest video.

In it, I reveal everything that two decades of being a world-famous dating & masculinity coach taught me on how ordinary guys can build incredibly abundant seductive lives.

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The ‘Core’ of any successful approach (no lies)

14th December 2021
James Marshall

The ‘Core’ of any successful approach (no lies)

You can’t fake your way through when seducing women.

Sure, you can invent some grandiose stories and pretend to be smooth and confident…

…For a date or two.

But ultimately, who you truly are will always come through.

And if you lack self-love and trust in the fact that others can be seduced by the ‘real you’, things will fall apart.

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That’s why we at TNL focus a great deal of our work with each student on the internal aspects of dating.

The so-called ‘core’ of attraction and seduction––your character and set of beliefs.

Only after tackling these pivotal foundations, you can start exploring the outer layers of the seductive process––the technical aspects.

Think about it, a Ferrari will never win a race despite having the best suspensions, tires, or experienced pilot if it lacks an engine.

In the same way, no seduction skills will ever make up for poor self-esteem and sense of self.

If you want to learn how to practically get better at dating, both internally and externally, watch our latest video. In it, you’ll see TNL’s newest female instructor Virag Tierra coaching in real-time some of our students on how to become both effortlessly more confident and successful with girls.

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How To Become A Hot Guy (My tested method)

22nd November 2021
James Marshall

How To Become A Hot Guy (My tested method)

Hot guys have it much easier in dating.

It would be absurd trying to deny it.

Women will always pick a man who is attractive over several more average options.

The good news, however, is that what “hot” and “sexy” mean to women is something radically different than it does to men.

For most girls, hotness in guys is not merely physical but vastly connected to behavioral traits as well as to perceived social value.

We all have met men who were constantly smashing around with stunners despite not being model-looking or over six feet tall.

In fact, I highly suggest next time you meet one of such unicorns you don’t get envious but instead carefully study every move he makes.

Once you do, you’ll be quick to realize that certain male traits are universally considered attractive and sexy by most women.

Things like being the organizer of a cool event, or being creative and cultivating artistic passions on the side.

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Yet, probably the powerful and magnetic quality a man can own is being capable of saying no to women.

After all, having firm dating standards and politely rejecting people who do not conform to them is the exact thing most attractive women do.

It’s the strongest indicator of non-neediness and abundance a guy can display, but something only a tiny fraction has the courage and confidence to pull off.

To learn more about no b.s.‘high-status’ cheat codes and how to make your character sexier, watch my latest video by clicking on the link below:

Stop being every girl’s boyfriend!

15th November 2021
James Marshall

Stop being every girl’s boyfriend!

Do you find yourself falling into the boyfriend role way too often?

Perhaps you want to keep things casual and fun and are not looking to commit to one girl at the moment.

But, somehow, every woman you hang out with starts asking for more.

And so you find yourself in the tough spot of either cutting things off abruptly or being forced to settle into something you’re not fully convinced of.

This is not coincidental or a case of bad luck…

In fact, you’re getting what you specifically asked for.

Or, as I like to call it, it’s your lack of ability to communicate and enforce your focus on others.

For example, let’s say that your current intention is to get better at dating and explore your sexuality with several attractive women.

But every time you meet one of such women, you start acting all romantic, holding hands in the street and going to candlelight dinners and cute brunches the morning after where she predictably posts stories of you and her on Instagram.

See what you’re doing? Deviating from your original focus in order to keep her sticking around.

The result? She sticks around, but as a demanding girlfriend and not a casual lover.

If you want to learn how to smoothly enter casual ‘friends with benefits’ type of affairs, as well as smoothly transition into traditional monogamous relationships once you’re sure she’s good for you, watch our latest video.

In it, you’ll find comprehensive advice and practical tips on how to properly define your seductive frame and focus and later communicate them to women to get what you truly want without compromise.

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The #1 thing every girl secretly wants from you

11th November 2021
James Marshall

The #1 thing every girl secretly wants from you

Realize this: what you do or say to women matters far less than you think.

It’s all about how you make them feel.

Being able to impact others at deep emotional levels is what ultimately makes the difference between a guy who is friendly and likable and a man that is craved by women and respected by other males

But there is a reason if this is something only a small percentage of people are capable of.

A fundamental prerequisite must be met: getting rid of all expectations.

The expectation that she will laugh at your jokes.

Or that she will be nice to you if you compliment her.

This is exactly what most nice guys do, provide good emotions to others hoping to get something––most often sex––in return for their chivalrous manners.

Doing the opposite won’t work either…

You know, the whole ‘being an as*hole and disrespecting girls to get them attracted to you’ strategy––that’s still expectation-based (also makes you look like a sociopath).

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What you want to develop is a strong dose of non-neediness.

To express yourself and give to others without wanting anything from them in return.

And, paradoxically, the moment you stop hiding your agendas, women will be much more into you.

Because that’s all they really need: to feel something (not necessarily always positive) with you and from you.

Learn how to appeal to their emotional side, and your dating potential will know no limits.

To learn more about this, watch my latest video interview I just released in collaboration with my good friend and enlightened dating coach, Zan Perrion. Click on the link below to watch it:

Why Women Should Perceive You As ‘The Prize’

4th November 2021
James Marshall

Why Women Should Perceive You As ‘The Prize’

Let’s be honest, if being nice and agreeable was enough to attract women, half of the world would be drowning in pus*y.

But they are not.

In fact, things seem to work almost the opposite way if you study dating dynamics carefully…

Girls constantly ditching and friend-zoning the nice guy who respects and nurtures them for the f*ck boy/bad boy type who is selfish and always puts himself first.

Truth is that women love ‘challenges’.

They crave the addictive feeling of being around a masculine guy who is firmly unapologetic about his actions and is not afraid to call them out whenever they do something he doesn’t like.

Are you that kind of guy?

If not, the first thing you have to understand is that being an asshole here is absolutely not the goal. In fact, a large part of being successful with women and socially is owning a strong element of likability.

What you’re looking for here is to develop personal standards.

The next step is holding women accountable to them by qualifying them…

Is she your type?

Do you share the same interests and similar views on the world?

Does she care about the same things you care about?

Finding answers to questions like these is fundamental to getting the right woman by your side and making her perceive you as the real ‘prize’. This can easily be achieved in a flirtatious way by using a little banter and ‘challenging’ her in a teasing way whenever she does or says something you don’t like.

To learn more about this complex topic, watch my latest video. In it, you’ll also see one of our brave workshop students struggling and succeeding at creating solid connections with several women while remaining unapologetically true to himself.

Click on the link below to watch it

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Why Girls Make You Wait For It (Sometimes Forever)

28th October 2021
James Marshall

Why Girls Make You Wait For It (Sometimes Forever)

There is no magic number of dates to go through to get every girl from ‘Hi’ to the bedroom.

In reality, all women are different, some take more time and effort to open up and feel comfortable getting intimate with you while others are naturally more confident and uninhibited when it comes to sex.

However, when talking with clients and students about logistics and smooth escalation, I often notice how most of them tend to absolutely over-exaggerate and overestimate the effort it takes to get sexual with girls. Truth is that, in most cases…

She wants to f*ck you much sooner than you think.

Simply put, women crave sex as much as we do, and in most cases, if they’re attracted to a guy and feel relatively relaxed around him, they will seek physical intimacy as soon as possible.

Sure, some girls won’t just sleep with you the first night or first date, no matter how great you are at seduction, but they generally will on the second and third date.

Ultimately, it all depends on your mindset…

Do you feel sex is a big deal and judge girls who hook up with guys “fast”?

Do you see getting physically intimate as a prerequisite for any emotional connection and so you strive to sleep with women as soon as possible without judging them?

Whatever you feel, the girl will feel.

It’s as simple as that.

To learn more about this controversial topic, watch my latest video. In it, I also reveal other two of the most important lessons and epiphanies I’ve learned in over 20 years as a dating coach and consummate seducer.

Click on the link below to watch it:

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