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- 20th December 2021
- James Marshall
Why men feel miserable
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- 14th December 2021
- James Marshall
The ‘Core’ of any successful approach (no lies)
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- 22nd November 2021
- James Marshall
How To Become A Hot Guy (My tested method)
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- 15th November 2021
- James Marshall
Stop being every girl’s boyfriend!
Do you find yourself falling into the boyfriend role way too often?
Perhaps you want to keep things casual and fun and are not looking to commit to one girl at the moment.
But, somehow, every woman you hang out with starts asking for more.
And so you find yourself in the tough spot of either cutting things off abruptly or being forced to settle into something you’re not fully convinced of.
This is not coincidental or a case of bad luck…
In fact, you’re getting what you specifically asked for.
Or, as I like to call it, it’s your lack of ability to communicate and enforce your focus on others.
For example, let’s say that your current intention is to get better at dating and explore your sexuality with several attractive women.
But every time you meet one of such women, you start acting all romantic, holding hands in the street and going to candlelight dinners and cute brunches the morning after where she predictably posts stories of you and her on Instagram.
See what you’re doing? Deviating from your original focus in order to keep her sticking around.
The result? She sticks around, but as a demanding girlfriend and not a casual lover.
If you want to learn how to smoothly enter casual ‘friends with benefits’ type of affairs, as well as smoothly transition into traditional monogamous relationships once you’re sure she’s good for you, watch our latest video.
In it, you’ll find comprehensive advice and practical tips on how to properly define your seductive frame and focus and later communicate them to women to get what you truly want without compromise.
Click on the link below to watch it:
- 11th November 2021
- James Marshall
The #1 thing every girl secretly wants from you
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- 4th November 2021
- James Marshall
Why Women Should Perceive You As ‘The Prize’
Let’s be honest, if being nice and agreeable was enough to attract women, half of the world would be drowning in pus*y.
But they are not.
In fact, things seem to work almost the opposite way if you study dating dynamics carefully…
Girls constantly ditching and friend-zoning the nice guy who respects and nurtures them for the f*ck boy/bad boy type who is selfish and always puts himself first.
Truth is that women love ‘challenges’.
They crave the addictive feeling of being around a masculine guy who is firmly unapologetic about his actions and is not afraid to call them out whenever they do something he doesn’t like.
Are you that kind of guy?
If not, the first thing you have to understand is that being an asshole here is absolutely not the goal. In fact, a large part of being successful with women and socially is owning a strong element of likability.
What you’re looking for here is to develop personal standards.
The next step is holding women accountable to them by qualifying them…
Is she your type?
Do you share the same interests and similar views on the world?
Does she care about the same things you care about?
Finding answers to questions like these is fundamental to getting the right woman by your side and making her perceive you as the real ‘prize’. This can easily be achieved in a flirtatious way by using a little banter and ‘challenging’ her in a teasing way whenever she does or says something you don’t like.
To learn more about this complex topic, watch my latest video. In it, you’ll also see one of our brave workshop students struggling and succeeding at creating solid connections with several women while remaining unapologetically true to himself.
Click on the link below to watch it
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Every workshop comprises several theory classes, followed by roleplay sessions with our team of hot female coaches to test and internalize the concepts in a safe environment and most importantly dozens of hours spent approaching and talking to beautiful women in real life in the streets, bars, cafès, shopping malls and more.
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- 28th October 2021
- James Marshall
Why Girls Make You Wait For It (Sometimes Forever)
There is no magic number of dates to go through to get every girl from ‘Hi’ to the bedroom.
In reality, all women are different, some take more time and effort to open up and feel comfortable getting intimate with you while others are naturally more confident and uninhibited when it comes to sex.
However, when talking with clients and students about logistics and smooth escalation, I often notice how most of them tend to absolutely over-exaggerate and overestimate the effort it takes to get sexual with girls. Truth is that, in most cases…
She wants to f*ck you much sooner than you think.
Simply put, women crave sex as much as we do, and in most cases, if they’re attracted to a guy and feel relatively relaxed around him, they will seek physical intimacy as soon as possible.
Sure, some girls won’t just sleep with you the first night or first date, no matter how great you are at seduction, but they generally will on the second and third date.
Ultimately, it all depends on your mindset…
Do you feel sex is a big deal and judge girls who hook up with guys “fast”?
Do you see getting physically intimate as a prerequisite for any emotional connection and so you strive to sleep with women as soon as possible without judging them?
Whatever you feel, the girl will feel.
It’s as simple as that.
To learn more about this controversial topic, watch my latest video. In it, I also reveal other two of the most important lessons and epiphanies I’ve learned in over 20 years as a dating coach and consummate seducer.
Click on the link below to watch it:
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- 26th October 2021
- James Marshall
2 Steps To Get Every Girl To Say ‘YES’
Your seductive potential is directly proportional to how you handle women’s objections.
Plenty of guys give up way too soon, often confusing a ‘not yet’ with a resolute ‘no’.
Others try to pierce through girls’ resistance with arrogance and sleaziness, creeping them out and encountering the inevitable rejection.
Reality is that objections are to be expected with pretty much any girl you date, so knowing how to solve them in a lighthearted and relaxed manner will pretty much make the difference between a life of abundance and one of frustration and scarcity.
The good news is that there’s no complex formula to learn to be successful at this.
All you have to do is execute two basic actions: acknowledging and overcoming.
The first one is about making sure she feels heard and understood in her moment of resistance. Many girls do not comply initially with requests like going to your place for drinks or even giving you their number because they don’t feel safe about it.
Perhaps they don’t know you enough to trust you, or they don’t want to feel like ‘one of those girls’, and so they start resisting your seductive moves. Your duty here is to listen to each girl carefully and determine whether she just needs to be reassured about it or if there’s really nothing you can do (e.g., she really has a boyfriend and doesn’t want to text you).
The second part is the trickiest one: once you address her logical and emotional worries, you must go back to seducing her. Don’t spend more time than necessary diving into her insecurities, or she’ll categorize you as the ‘male friend she does therapy with’ and will lose all attraction.
For a detailed explanation and practical demonstration of these concepts, watch my latest video by clicking on the link below:
P.S. Lacking abundance and quality in your current dating life?
Knowing how to consistently approach and get attractive women on dates in real life without needing others to introduce you at parties or hope for some miraculous Tinder moment is the keystone for feeling free and fulfilled as a man.
Over the past fifteen years, as I coached several hundred students in person and tens of thousands online on how to improve their success and relationships with girls, it became apparent how the most successful guys are masters at two things: approaching and closing.
If you too want to learn the world’s best strategies to approach and take home beautiful women from anywhere, check my free 3-Part Honest Dating Course.
It contains several lectures on the basics of cold-approach seduction, and it’s a great start to really understand what we do at TNL.
- 25th October 2021
- James Marshall
Do you trust girls on this?
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- 18th October 2021
- James Marshall
How To Get A Perfect Girlfriend (No money needed)
Men look for love in the wrong places.
Just because a girl is fun and sexy with you, it’s no guarantee that she will make a good girlfriend.
Knowing how to find and select women for long-term relationships is a very different, but equally as important, skill than cold-approach seduction.
Many girls are far too immature, narcissistic, and selfish to make good long-term partners––being around them for too long will eventually make your life worse than it currently is.
The ideal type of woman you should be proactively screening for is what call ‘a giver’.
Someone who is willing and capable of sharing and devoting herself to you in a selfless way.
Ultimately, the true “girlfriend material” type of girls are those who can genuinely accept you for who you are without judgment or the need to control you and possess you.
If this sounds like less than five percent of all the women you’ve ever dated, don’t worry…
In our latest video, our Inner Game and relationship wizard, Shae Matthews, dives deep into the complexities and emotional alchemy of successful relationships. Watch it to get access to practical blueprints and tips to stop settling for incompatible and unsupportive women and finally start attracting true keepers in your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. An exciting and satisfying sex life is one of the most important keystones of any successful relationship.
Unfortunately, most guys are only capable of classic ‘vanilla’ lovemaking, always using the same three positions and lasting the same amount of time in bed, on average.
Over the long term, this is a classic recipe for disaster as both people in the couple will get bored of having sex and start doing it less and less, leading to mutual frustration.
That is…unless you are a living Sex God.
See, over the past 15 years, I’ve been developing a comprehensive methodology and training to take regular guys and transform them into the best lovers any woman could wish for: the S*x God Masterclass.
Joined by some of the world’s best and most in-demand experts in Tantra, BDSM, meditation, roleplay, masculine enhancement, and more, the SGM is a 7-intensive apprenticeship in the full-spectrum of sexual abilities. From connection-based fantasies to experience strong feelings of love and togetherness, to ‘darker’ aspects of sexuality like punishment and pain/pleasure roleplay, this ‘hands-on’ masterclass is guaranteed to give you the tools to enjoy and gift others the best sex of your lives.
The SGM 2021 will be running from October 24-October 30 in Kyiv, Ukraine, and there is only one spot left to join. If serious about mastering this fundamental yet confusing area of any man’s life permanently, click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team:
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