Without a clear understanding of ‘why’ you’re putting yourself out there, withstanding theinitial rejections and failures becomes quickly unbearable until you give up.
And no…
‘To look cool in front of my buddies’ or ‘to make my ex suffer back by seeing me with other girls’ are not good reasons to kickstart your seduction journey.
In practical terms, this is about becoming more resilient.
Embracing the struggle and beautiful chaos of this unique path not only until things get better and you start getting results but until you also fall in love with the process.
Alex, I’ll be honest with you, this is no quick-fix task…
And if you’re looking to stay in the game long-term to experience all the crazy and insane opportunities it has to offer you, you need to be driven by something more than childish wishes from your Ego.
To learn more on how to identify your unique purpose and unleash powerful intent that will make your dating and social results feel almost effortless, watch Shae’s latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work personally with me, Shae, Alex, and the rest of the elite TNL team to unravel your dating life and design a clear path to guaranteed success with women?
Our live workshops are the perfect testing ground to practically meet dozens of hot girls in real life and sharpen your skills while progressively refining your mindset and developing confidence until you truly think and behave like a Natural.
Currently, we’re fully sold out for most of the upcoming summer coaching season including our July New York program…
However, you can still join us starting Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022 in Barcelona, Spain for our 7-day Residential program. 8+ hours of personalized coaching per day including advanced theory classes, infield sessions, night-game sessions, elite masterclasses with surprise guests on texting, social media, and all the most relevant strategies to confidently meet & seduce high-level women in 2022.
To learn more about them and save your spot before this one too gets fully booked over the next few days:
This might trigger some, so apologies if you get offended.
See, I’ve worked with thousands of clients in the past decade, and here’s the truth
Most men are very bad at flirting.
It’s one of the main reasons why so many guys struggle to meet women and go on dates consistently.
Up to a certain point, they do everything right.
They approach her smoothly, quickly get into a conversation and build connection.
But when it comes to spicing things up and creating sexual tension, they are clueless and often very awkward.
Either making uncalibrated witty remarks that turn her off or even upset her or just playing it too safe, so they get buried into the friend zone.
That’s because flirting is not like any other ‘technical’ dating skill.
It’s an attitude––a calibrated expression of an honest desire.
You can’t fake it or force it by memorizing some lines or endlessly teasing the girl in the hopes of getting her attracted.
It has to start with you.
You’re not approaching hot women to make friends (unless you want to!)
If you’re interested in her romantically and sexually, don’t make fun of her like one of her annoying coworkers. Don’t ask her predictable questions, like a dorky uncle. Allow a cheeky smile to radiate from within, look at her like you want to devour her, and let her know, through touch, insinuation and intent why you’re really there.
Curious to learn how to truly flirt like a pro and seduce beautiful women without unnecessary b.s.?
Go watch my latest video then! In it, you can see my coaching one of my students in Barcelona as he rapidly transitions from nice guy, friend-zone material to flirty and sexy within just one coaching session.
Link below:
P.S.Want to work with me and my elite team of coaches to unlock more epic social and seductive opportunities than you can handle in 2022?
Our summer coaching season is live and selling out fast!
From July 25th-July 31st, 2022, you can join us in New York City for our 7-day Residential Program. Ranging from dating & approaching basics, conversation strategies, and texting to advanced seduction systems to get the most elite women in the Big Apple. This workshop is guaranteed to have you experience more breakthroughs in your dating life in one week than you did in the past decade.
Alternatively, if you’re looking for a shorter, value-packed experience, you can join me and the crew in Barcelona from Aug 23rd-Aug 26th, 2022, for our 4-day Intensive.
Only a handful of spots left for both locations.
If you’re serious about making it happen and taking charge of your love life this year:
How to make women fight to date you (my proven system)
Dating is evolving. Pretty rapidly.
Herein lies the paradox:
Nowadays, to get tons of girls fast, you must move slowly.
That’s why I highly encourage you to restrain from the ego-driven need to hit on beautiful girls as soon as you meet them and instead adopt a more low-effort, laidback style of seduction.
Making the environment and proximity do the work for you instead of having to muscle through and force attraction and connection with her.
The best example of what I am talking about is the idea of social circle game.
Building networks of high-value males and dating elite women through your social circle is the ultimate example of a patient, non-needy game plan.
In fact, it’s by far one of, if not the best way to meet girls and get plenty of dates in 2022.
The main reason why social circle game is so incredibly effective is that it allows you to get to know and work on a girl for an extended period of time.
As a result, you can relax and allow her to get comfortable in your presence so that she invests more in conversations and flirting each time you meet.
Plus, by interacting with other women in front of her and showing that you’re a socially savvy, in-demand guy, you can spark some jealousy and have her literally fight for you and make sexual moves first––getting rid of last-minute resistance altogether.
To learn more on how to properly master the delicate social circle game and make dating success way more relaxed and straightforward, watch my latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Looking to personally work with me to elevate your lifestyle, grow your social networks, and effortlessly attract many elite women this year?
This is a one-on-one mentoring system focusing on four key areas of masculine success: confidence training, approaching & seduction skills, social media & digital seduction and lifestyle design\social circle mastery.
It includes weekly calls with me, daily accountability systems, and private phone access to me to instantly troubleshoot sticking points you encounter so you can keep smashing your goals, access to elite digital courses & blueprints, and much more!
Every session is fully tailored to your unique goals, challenges, and vision.
If interested in learning more and see if you qualify for it, click on the link below:
7 ways to tie women up (& stop being boring in bed)
Nothing ruins relationships and fuels infidelity more than lies and….bad sex.
Women are especially sensual creatures..
If you’re not able to continually give pleasure to your partner in new ways by experimenting in the bedroom, chances are she’ll get bored of you rather quickly. And, it’s very likely you too are missing out on unknown pleasure that only the most skilled lovers experience.
The good news is that introducing variety during sex and keeping a girl satisfied is not that difficut. Thankfully, because most men don’t try to improve or don’t care about their partner’s pleasure, the bar is so low that ANY effort made to communicate and improve in the bedroom, sets you apart.
The main problem? Most guys’ egos and pride get in the way of improving sexually. Either they’re hiding insecurities or falling into delusional arrogance.
Johnny Soporno once said “If you have a special sex move that always, always gets the ladies off… They’ve all been faking it.” Meaning, that what works for one woman, may need to be adapted or completely changed for the next. And if you always fuck the same way, you’re no doubt missing the cues about what each woman wants differently.
For these men, admitting their ignorance about sex feels like a direct threat to their manliness.
As a result, they always end up fuc*ing in the same four positions, and when they try to spice things up, they’re often clumsy and rarely achieve their goal.
Take something like restraints and tying up girls to introduce exciting dynamics of dominance and submission.
Many men buy furry handcuffs to use awkwardly, not really knowing what to do next, or tie women’s wrists too tight causing unnecessary bruises and pain to the girl (and zero pleasure).
On the other side, true Bondage masters consistently give their women mind-blowing orgasms by stimulating erogenous zones simultaneously, using psychological dominance and reward patterns and making the whole experience an immersive sensual journey.
Know what makes the difference? Expertise. Humbleness.
The most experienced and memorable lovers out there are constantly open to trying new methods and seeking external advice.
I myself have worked for years with world-class mentors to take my BDSM and sexuality skillset to world class levels. I’m happy to admit my ignorance and the more I learn, the more I seek guidance. and girls love the results 😉
If you too are looking for inspiration and proven methods to satisfy women in bed, watch my latest video.
In it, I demonstrate with my female assistant my seven favorite, very simple ways to tie women and use Bondage techniques to drive them wild. Link below:
P.S.Looking to take things to the next level sexually and study under three elite mentors to completely overhaul your bedroom skills and become the wild, sensually dominant lover that women get wet thinking about?
Our Sex God Masterclass is the world’s first and only 7-day live program that offers you a practical path to mastery in the complete spectrum of sexual experience and pleasure.
From positions, toys, leading seduction to the bedroom, to learning to last for as long as you want by using ancient Tantra systems, to roleplay and advance dominance fantasies, to BDSM and restraints.
This is the kind of training I wish existed when I was first learning. You get the combined knowledge of 60 years of the coach’s exploration and get to practice all the techniques with our team of fun, sexy ladies.
We only run SGM once a year from Oct 31st-Nov 6th, 2022, in Budapest, Hungary. There’s only 6 places total due to the high level of personalized coaching and only 3 spots remaining.
After four very intense years in the dating industry, coaching hundreds of guys live every other week, I can confidently reveal to you something most guys don’t want to admit..
The average man in 2022 is severely limited in the way he meets hot women.
It’s just a fact.
To put it in investment terms, most guys often keep all their eggs in one basket instead of strategically diversifying their profit streams.
The problem is that to thrive in something so unpredictable and irrational as dating, you must have a variety of options.
It’s very unlikely you’ll get into bed with every single hot girl that comes into your life. If you don’t have plan B ready when a woman you just approached rejects you or flakes on you before the date, you’re set for a lot of unwanted celibacy and waiting around.
To deal with this, many guys try their luck in the biggest meat market available in recent years: dating apps.
The lure of apps like Tinder or Bumble is hard to resist.
Hundreds of sexy and single partners who are just a swipe away from you.
It’s a strong illusion of abundance that keeps men glued to their screens hoping to finally get a match.
But that’s all it is: an illusion.
Swiping right on dozens of girls per day does not guarantee you the level of dating success that approaching just a handful of women in real life does. In most cases, you won’t get anything out of it.
Truth is that the Tinder algorithm is rigged, and unless you are part of the 1% of model-looking people on this planet, it’s a very precarious and ineffective way to build an epic dating life.
A much better, field-tested, and overall my personal favourite to get dates online is just using Instagram.
This is not an online cold-approach funnel of any kind. I strongly recommend against DMing random hot girls hoping to strike a conversation.
What IG is truly effective for is keeping in touch and solidifying connection and attraction leading to a date.
Many hot girls you talk to in person might be hesitant to give their number away to a stranger, but that’s no case with social media like Instagram. For most women, it’s no big deal.
And once you have several beautiful women who follow you and engage with your content, guess what you also have?
That’s right! Dating options.
If you want to learn more about using Instagram to get dates in 2022, watch my latest video below:
P.S.Want to learn more on how to get tons of dates online thanks to Instagram and social media? I’ve created a FREE 3-part online course teaching you the basics of digital seduction. Get access to it HERE
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What I’m about to share with you might upset some, so apologies in advance if you get triggered.
Ready to hear it?
In 2022, if you don’t have a good social media profile and online presence, you’re destined for a mediocre dating life.
That’s it. Being active and posting good content on platforms such as Instagram has become to dating the equivalent of what being literate and knowing grammar is to general communication.
It’s not ‘optional’ anymore.
But a fundamental requirement to any kind of seductive success.
The more you try to ignore this or play the part of the ‘cool’ old-fashioned guy who doesn’t care about all this techie Gen-z stuff, the more you’re shooting yourself in the foot when it comes to dating hot girls.
Of course, as with every good thing, it’s your responsibility not to abuse it…
Spending five hours a day on Instagram or Tik Tok consuming funny memes and random videos does not add anything to your life––in fact, it’s just a big waste of time.
What makes social media great for dating is it helps you to smoothly continue any interaction you started in person, and even increase attraction, virtually and often on autopilot.
Your online profile, pictures, and content are perfect to allow girls to get a deeper insight into who you truly are and build connection.
So that instead of having to take her number and then spend days, or weeks, getting to know each other via traditional texting, they’re often comfortable enough to meet you on a date right away.
Best part? This takes less than a couple of minutes of work per day to produce insane results.
To find out more on how to use social media to increase connection and improve your dating life, watch my newest video below:
P.S. Looking to learn more on how to practically use social media to multiply the quantity and quality of your dates? To help as many guys as possible get this critical aspect of seduction right, I’ve created a FREE 3-part online course teaching you the basics of digital seduction. Get access to it HERE.
P.P.S. Want to take things to the next level and get coached by me in person on how to optimize and unlock abundance both in your online and offline dating lives?
Then join me for one of our upcoming Summer workshops in Europe or the US. > Full calendar of training dates here.
One of my main challenges as a dating & relationship coach is making men comfortable and motivated by the idea of talking to hot women.
It sounds paradoxical, but many of the guys who pay me hefty fees to help them become better with girls often freeze and come up with all sorts of excuses to avoid meeting hot ladies in the first place.
On one side, they rationally want a better dating life. On the other, they deliberately waste good opportunities and sabotage the progress they long for.
Why?
Most pick up gurus out there quickly dismiss this as ‘approach anxiety’, a physiological fight-or-fly response triggered by trying to operate outside your comfort zone.
But the truth is that many social and dating dysfunctions can also be caused by something much more complex…
Your unprocessed emotional traumas and inner pain.
Negative or awkward experiences with girls during childhood and high school, for example, can come to haunt you in your thirties by manifesting as feeling not enough to go and talk to the hottie that just smirked at you in a bar.
Very conservative and antiquated beliefs you might have been exposed to during your adolescent years might trigger a fear and guilt response when trying to get sexual and projecting your desire onto women.
The list goes on and on.
If you want to learn three very effective ways to detect and heal your emotional wounds and annihilate irrational fears and triggers in your dating and life, watch my latest video linked below:
P.S. Want to personally work with me and my team to experience true success and abundance with women?
Our Summer workshop dates are officially out––and 70% of the available coaching spots have already been taken!
If you’re determined to optimize yourself, both externally in your communication & seduction skillset and internally on a confidence and inner game level, to unlock epic dating results, you might still be in time; but not for long.
There is still 1 spot available for our week-long New York City program, running from July 25th-July 31st, 2022.
Alternatively, you can join the team in Europe for our Barcelona intensives, running Aug 23-Aug 26 and Aug 29-Sep 4,2022.
Click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team and find out the best training opportunity for your unique needs and goals:
Yet, do nothing to very little about it, except complain.
As if by just complaining and continuously enduring a stressful and unexciting routine, others are going to pity you and finally help you turn your life around.
Let me break it to you.
No one is coming for you.
No divinities, no friends, and not even your family.
If you’re not actually happy with how things are going and where your life is heading, you have to step up and make the difference.
It’s about first taking ownership of all the time and opportunities wasted.
And promise to yourself that from now you’ll only pursue what truly adds value and happiness to your destiny.
The longer you keep missing out on epic opportunities and adventures only to avoid pissing off your parents or getting judged by your social circle, the more miserable you’ll feel.
If you feel ready to finally live by your rules, watch the video below. I’ll take it from there 😉
P.S.Want to take things to the next level and work with an elite team that has decades of experience in coaching men on how to build epic lives of social and seductive success?
Our summer coaching season has just begun!
And as the world gets hotter and hornier, I and the TNL are about to hit the road for a legendary workshop season.
Right now we have one spot left for our 7-day New York City Program, running from Jul 25-Jul 3, 2022.
And if you fancy meeting and dating many exotic, sexy southern European women, you can also join us from Aug 29-Sep 4 in Barcelona, Spain, for our 7-day intensive training––Three spots left for this one.
To learn more about these and find the perfect coaching opportunity for your needs, click on the link below to speak with my team:
Why most guys suck in the bedroom (women reveal their worst turnoffs)
They say Ego is the enemy of growth.
I’d argue it’s pretty damaging to your sex life as well.
After working with tens of thousands of men in the past two decades and gathering feedback from hundreds of women; it became clear that most men are falling well short of the type of pleasure possibilities they could give and receive in the bedroom.
For most guys, it’s all about ‘performing’…
Endurance.
Powerful thrusts.
Staying hard.
Thinking about maths equations to try and last 10 minutes
It sounds more like a mechanical chore than a lustful and mindblowing love-making session that leaves her quivering and ruined.
If you’re robotic, repetitive, and unresponsive to her cues and trigger points, your partners will likely have average experiences, possibly fake orgasms and eventually grow dissatisfied and look for a truly good f*ck elsewhere. Brutal I know, but it’s true.
The amazing part is, most never bother to even try to learn the erotic arts, but with a little humility, study, and experimentation, you can easily become part of the 1% of unforgettable lovers.
If you’re seriously committed to becoming the best lover she’ll ever meet, I strongly urge you to keep these two rules in mind:
First, there is a whole world of extreme pleasure beyond classic penetrative intercourse.
In fact, for a large percentage of women, the climax will only be reached through extensive foreplay and good mental stimulation (aka mindfuc*ing).
Second, every girl likes it differently.
Just because your ex enjoyed a tornado tongue down there, it doesn’t mean other women will. Paradoxically, the same ‘technique’ and intensity of stimulation that will make a girl c*m within a minute might cause intense discomfort and pain to a different one.
Never assume you know what she likes, but always ask her.
To learn more on this topic, watch the latest and final video chapter in my ‘Female Sexuality’ series with Psychology Ph.D. Saida Desilets. Link below:
P.S.In less than 48 hours, I’m going to permanently close the enrollments to my 8-month personal mentorship program, the Lifestyle Design Academy.
So far, hundreds of brave men from very diverse backgrounds, age groups, and locations have joined this year’s LDA and are already getting involved in the community.
With me as your guide, we’ll get straight into completely recreating your life, optimizing it for fun, sexy ladies, a fulfilling career, passions, and loyal brothers on the journey ahead this year.
You also get six months of advanced coaching webinars with elite guest mentors like Saida where they reveal top tier secrets and practical strategies to maximize results in key areas of your lifestyle––most of this stuff is way too controversial, and X rated to be uploaded on YouTube ;)
If you’re ready to leave your Ego at the door and embark on a journey that will absolutely transform your life:
The sudden inclusion of more friends completely puzzles most guys, to the point they often abandon the idea of talking to a girl they like just because she’s not alone.
Nonsense.
Truth is that there are no fundamental rules of differences between seducing girls with or without a friend.
All you need to do is acknowledge the other person, introduce yourself, and then go back to the lady you’re interested in. If you’re generally friendly and charming, the friend will often help you, or at least she’s been disarmed.
Check out my latest infield pickup video (it’s an unreleased classic from the TNL vault)
In it, I demonstrate all of this in front of the camera as I successfully get a hot Czech opera singer’s contact while she’s sitting right next to her girlfriend. Pay careful attention to the look they give each other when I leave, that’s what you want:)
Click on the link below to watch it
P.S.The best guys in the dating game get consistent results with hot girls NOT because they’ve systematically internalized hundreds of techniques and patterns like human computers to predict any variable…
They are amazing with women because they can effortlessly adapt to any situation.
They are not rendered static and powerless by rigid dogmas but are minimalist masters of core principles, they can use dynamically to get the best seductive results wherever they are.
For the past 20 years, we at TNL have taught thousands of men in person and tens of thousands online – a practical, direct method to start meeting the women they want and consistently get them on dates.
If you too want to learn from us and transform your dating life, the best way to do so is by joining one of our upcoming live workshops.
We currently have still 2 spots available for our Barcelona Intensive running from May 4th-May 7th, 2022.
Or you can join us for our first US workshop in 2 years, this summer for our epic 7-day New York Program running July 25th-July 31st, 2022––only one spot remaining for this one!
