Know what’s one of the most flawed, dangerous assumptions guys make in dating?
“If she agrees to go out with you, you’ve already won”.
In some way, there’s truth to it…
When a woman agrees to meet you for a first date, chances are she feels more attraction and connection than a total stranger.
But it’s not a guarantee she will go home with you or see you again.
True stories of hilariously awkward first dates have inspired countless films, series, and works of fiction.
Just ask any of your female friends.
Nearly every girl can list a dozen or more guys she went for drinks with but deeply regrets.
If you want to make sure you don’t end up in any, I suggest you go and watch my latest video below asap.
In it, I outline four subtle mistakes and ‘logistical problems’ that are spoiling your chances to close the deal and build relationships:
P.S.Want to learn the #1 skill that will scientifically help you convert more approaches into dates?
I’m talking about social media (but NOT in the way you know it!).
If curious to discover why Instagram has become one of the best opportunities in 2022 to get hotter women, check my free 3-part guide HERE.
Summer is passing, and so is the opportunity to get coached by TNL in person this year.
We only have a handful of spots left for those looking to work intensively with me, James, and the crew––in some of the most socially-vibrant cities on the planet––to take their dating and lifestyle results to elite levels.
If determined to make it finally happen, book a call with my enrollment team below asap:
But in today’s society, real, solid, independent men are getting harder and harder to come by.
Drained by chronic use of porn and socially weakened through atomized communities and by meeting women only via dating apps, many guys have become so needy, they’d tolerate anything to get laid and get a cute girlfriend.
Even if you luck apon a hottie who likes the attention.. while it might feel exciting and novel, for the first couple of weeks, to date a servile, agreeing, overly-providing type of man, the vast majority of women will inevitably get bored and turned off by it soon into the relationship.
That’s when the constant nagging, or ‘testing’, begins.
A woman will make her man’s life hell when she feels there’s no consequences, and the man doesn’t command any respect in general.
Whereas, if he’s able to state clear boundaries, and to underwrite his authority by having command of his life and the life he brings her into, most women will become picky kittens.
Set your boundaries soon, set them as early as possible, and don’t be afraid to enforce them.
If you want to learn a practical method to do so and finally get unconditional respect and loyalty from women, watch my latest video below:
P.S.It’s official! By popular demand, we’ve just added one more workshop to our 2022 US coaching tour.
Lots of guys who couldn’t make it to our first programs this summer messaged me begging for more coaching opportunities overseas…now you have no excuses!
If you want to get trained by the best naturals in the world to learn how to effortlessly meet hot womenanywhere, confidently flirt with them, and deeply seduce them so they crave your presence and want to meet you again on a date, apply for one of the programs below:
From Sept 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, for our 7-day Residential Program in New York City – 3 spots left.
From Oct 4th-Oct 8th, 2022, for our last US-based workshop of the year, the 4-day NYC Intensive – 5 spots left.
80+ hours of personalized coaching per student divided into theory classes, roleplay events with female models to practice the concepts in a safe space, and daily infield sessions approaching and flirting with Manhattan babes, with the world’s best coaches by your side.
To learn more and pick the best program for you, speak with our coaching team for free below:
My 3 favorite cities for meeting hot women (book your tickets!)
Ever wondered why some guys progress fast in dating while others take years to get their first results?
There’s a lot involved with seductive success, and hard work is not always the answer.
Like in real estate investing, for example, your location is critical to define the magnitude of what you can realistically accomplish in your romantic and social lives.
So ask yourself: are your current city and living situation helping you to meet hot girls…
…or are they cock-blocking you?
Being stuck in a small town where everyone knows everybody might not be ideal in the initial phase of your journey where approaching dozens of women and getting reference experiences is generally recommended.
Likewise, moving to a vibrant and popular European capital, only to rent one hour outside the city center in a sketchy neighborhood to save money, will definitely impact how easily you can convince girls to come back to your place at the end of a date.
Logistics are and will always be a major make-or-break factor in dating: “Location! Location! Location!”
After years of traveling around the globe every other weekend to coach guys for TNL, I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to pick the best home base to build your dream lifestyle.
Good news is that there are plenty of good options to choose from: whether you’re a young student looking to live close to the good bars and hipster cafes or a self-made entrepreneur seeking luxury and elite women.
Watch my latest video to find out my 3 personal favorite cities (and the three to avoid!), discovered in nearly a decade of research, to meet hot girls this year. Link below:
P.S.Want to have instant access to me and dozens of other action takers all over the world, for FREE, and receive the latest daily insights on what truly works with women, lifestyle, sexuality, social circles, wealth-creation, and a lot more in 2022?
I’ve recently launched a free, secret Discord accountability group, and the response has been phenomenal with guys teaming up, networking, and mentoring each other within less than a week from starting.
If you want to join, click on the link below. Only a few more spots are available this month, then you’ll have to join the waitlist:
If you also want to work with me, James, and the team in person, in one of the most proven cities on the planet to seduce hot cosmopolitan women, then join us from Sept 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, in NYC (spoiler), US, for our legendary seven-day Residential program.
Daily theory classes and personal mentoring from the entire TNL team, daily infield sessions where you’ll meet dozens of elite women and get dates in real life, inner game & confidence training with our psychology specialists, photoshoots for your social media, and a lot more.
Three spots left. We expect to sell out this week.
As cities get hotter and clothes thinner, hormones start raging.
It’s that time of the year again!
And with hordes of hot female tourists traveling around the globe and local beauties looking to get wild, your dating opportunities have never looked so good.
This is your reminder to get off those apps and start talking to girls. In real life.
If this sounds good, but you don’t know where to start or struggle to get past the initial chit-chat and convert your approaches into actual dates leading to sex, I have good news for you…
Dozens of our summer workshops(link) students have already transformed their seductive and social lives this past month, and YOU too can become our next success story.
If you’re looking to get mentored by me, Alex, Shae, and the rest of the TNL crew this summer to finally unlock the romantic results you deserve, join us on the following dates:
Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, for our 4-day Barcelona Intensive––2 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, in New York City, US, for our 7-day Residential––4 spots left.
After many requests, we have also added one more date in New York to guarantee coaching to as many brave men overseas as possible:
Oct 4th-Oct 8th, the 4-Day New York Intensive––6 spots left.
We expect the above to fill up very quickly. If serious to work with us, click and book a free introductory call with the training team below:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos:
Alex Leòn has released an advanced, in-depth guide on how to develop one of the most effective seduction skills men largely ignore: connection. He’s so good at teaching it that one of his students literally made a girl he just approached involuntarily weep by bonding deeply (he also got her contact and set a date). Watch the full thing HERE
I also highly recommend you check Alex’s very moving and insightful ‘origin’ story video. From attending a conservative, all-male boarding school and never getting physical with a girl until college to traveling the world with me and throwing baller parties with models and micro-celebrities, the guy is an excellent example of pro-level lifestyle design. He breaks down the truth behind his fast progress HERE
Talking about humble beginnings…I’ve recently uploaded part 2 of my ‘self-roast’ series. In this one, you’ll see me tearing apart some more unreleased infields from my first year in the game (over a decade ago). Will young James Marshall succeed at charming two cute tourists in a park in Prague? Find out the answer HERE
Closing off with some wisdom from an interview I recently posted with my old friend and seduction legend Zan Perrion…
Ever wondered how to stay young in your body and spirit virtually forever, effectively slowing down aging and enjoying epic libido and energy well after your thirties? Zan has figured out ‘a process’, and he reveals it in his full enlightening interview below:
That’s all for today,
Time to cool off.
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Why most relationships don’t work (how to fix it)
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Every man is faced sooner or later with the critical decision of focusing on one girl and attempting the relationship path or keep playing the field, travel solo, and meet new lovers.
In most cases, what often feels like the safest option, settling, is far from a comfortable and effortless task.
It’s one thing to hold hands and declare love and commitment…
…but to really make it work in the long term, you must know what you’re doing.
Research conducted in 2021 in Europe on people aged 25-35 shows that nearly 70% of new couples break up within six to twelve months.
And while self-improvement strategies are nowadays widely encouraged to get more dates, the vast majority of men still approach relationships with a mainstream ‘just be yourself’ type of thinking that doesn’t work.
If you want to improve your chances at the long-term dating game, watch my latest video.
In it, our inner game and sexuality specialist, Shae Matthews, breaks down the most critical mistakes men make when interacting with their partners and how to keep the attraction going well beyond the initial spark phase. Link below:
P.S. Want to join me, Shae, Alex, and the rest of the team in person to learn how to confidently meet, seduce and embark on epic romantic adventures with elite women this year?
Then be quick! There are only two workshops left in 2022 to transform your dating life:
From Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day Intensive Workshop–three spots remaining.
From Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022, in New York, US, for our flagship seven-day Residential Program–five spots remaining.
Whether you’re looking to enter a stable, healthy relationship with a gorgeous, loyal, and mature girlfriend or travel the world and have casual affairs with exotic beauties, it all begins with one key step…
Knowing how to walk up to her and make it happen.
And that’s what you’ll learn in any of our world-class programs! Revealing theory masterclasses and practical skills that we never release on YouTube with our coaching team and many hours spent infield putting it all into practice by meeting and interacting with hot women in real life, you’ll leave the program as the guy ‘who just gets it’.
If serious about starting this journey, book a free introductory call with our coaching team below:
I used to be extremely uncomfortable around women.
Even the less attractive ones…
In fact, up until my late teens, I hadn’t even touched a girl intimately, literally.
To be honest, I wasn’t really advantaged in the dating department.
Growing up in a strict, all-male boarding school. Stuck in a small town in rural Austria.
Many of my old friends now reach out in pure disbelief as I upload videos of approaching stunners in the street and partying on boats with exotic hotties.
“You?! a seduction coach?! of all people”
But it’s not only possible. It’s also easily replicable for you.
In my last video, I break down my entire journey of becoming a natural in three core lessons.
This is the entire unfiltered story of what it takes to build abundance in this day and age.
From getting blind drunk at college after-parties in order to talk to girls.
To attend sketchy seminars ran by manipulative pick-up companies.
Then landing an internship at The Natural Lifestyles at age 22.
My first attempts at street approach.
My countless rejections and moments of crippling anxiety.
Crashing on friends’ couches for years to follow James and the team on crazy adventures around the world as a broke student.
To finally become the guy CEOs, famous millionaires, and hundreds of brave men hired to fix their dating lives.
I sum it all up in three steps you also can take to unlock your dream seductive results TODAY. Click on the link below to watch the full video:
P.S.Motivated to make stuff happen in your social and dating lives but lacking the necessary guidance and support?
I’ve just launched a 100% free Discord community where I, my top students, and several ambitious guys like you all over the world interact daily to build masterpiece lifestyles.
If wanting to join, click on the link HERE and apply asap! Very limited spots, for now, to keep the group tight and action-oriented.
Want to take it to the next level and work with me, James, and the crew in person to get the highest seductive results possible in the shortest amount of time?
Combining a heavily practical curriculum, where you get to put every concept of our highly successful training method into action by spending several hours every day approaching hot women in real life, with constant individualized feedback based on your unique goals and expectations, our programs are guaranteed to help you unlock years’ worth of progress in as little as four days.
To find out more about the best workshop for you, speak with our student success team by clicking on the link below:
Success at any craft requires consistent, diligent practice.
We are all very aware of the importance of hard work by now.
So why aren’t most guys getting the results they’re after in dating, career, or life simply by just…pushing harder?
It can be convenient to blame it all on laziness, lack of discipline, or bad luck.
But the reality IS that the vast majority of men out there get it completely wrong when it comes to progressing at anything past the beginner stage.
I’ve just uploaded a new video covering the true path to skill development & mastery I’ve learned through years of coaching students and seeing them evolve daily.
Reality is that putting in the hours is a very effective strategy and possibly the fastest way to experience growth––when you’re a novice.
Eventually, as you dive deeper into any skill, you’ll start getting less and less ROI out of your time spent practicing the same way over and over.
This is what Seth Godin calls ‘the dip’: the phase of your journey where nothing seems to work anymore, and you’re the most likely to quit.
And many people do give up.
But you don’t have to be one of them! In my latest video, I reveal the smart and proven way to actually keep improving and skyrocket your results discovered in a decade of personal and teaching experience.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to work with me, James, and the team to get past your current blockages and effortlessly keep experiencing results with women for the rest of your life?
Our proven, no b.s. natural seduction method is designed to help you unleash confidence & masculinity and strategically learn to meet and spark attraction with women anywhere without putting on any false facade.
With us, you’ll master life-changing men’s skills like:
-How to properly approach and nail your first impression.
-How to make her intrigued and turned on by you through conversations & flirting.
-Getting her number or social media and smoothly get her on a date within 24 hours.
-The easy way to take her home (or have her invite you to her place) without resistance.
Currently, you can get coaching from us in person by joining our 4-day Intensive infield program in Barcelona, Spain running from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, 2022. To learn more about it and speak with the enrollment team to see if it’s right for you, click HERE.
Alternatively, you can train with me 1-on-1 remotely by applying for my 4-week Online Mentoring. Only a few spots available per month, so, if interested, apply for it asap HERE.
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How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
Very commonly, gorgeous women are seen in pairs or groups.
If you’re unable to approach a duo, you’ll miss out on huge numbers of good seduction opportunities
Beautiful women are people magnets, always surrounded by girlfriends and men competing for their attention.
So if you want to have a chance to get them on dates, you have to know how to deal with their group.
This puts a lot of pressure on guys who think they need to pull off some major social stunt, win the crowd over, and spin multiple plates, trying to keep all the friends entertained.
Or even worse, they solely focus on their “target” and ignore her friend even when she’s standing two feet away, meaning you come across as rude and socially uncalibrated.
The good news is, succeeding at group dynamics is a lot easier than you think.
All you have to do, whether it’s just one girlfriend or a mixed ensemble of five or more people, is show that you’re a cool and socially aware guy.
Divide your social attention 70/30 between your girl and her friend, while directing 100/0 seductive intent at the pair.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised to discover that her friends will often assist you rather than cockblock.
Watch my latest video to learn how to properly deal with groups and approach two or more women.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work with me and my own group of elite coaches to ignite your romantic and social life this year?
Then join us this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day intensive coaching program.
Get access to the best education available on the planet to men on how to successfully meet tons of hot women through Natural, direct style approaching and get them on dates consistently.
From what to say to start the conversation, building tension and compliance through smart flirting, getting her number, and setting the date via texting, to physically escalating and taking her home without resistance…
You will not only learn what truly works with girls but also make every concept second nature by spending dozens of hours infield with us meeting beautiful women and getting them on dates in real life.
This is your opportunity to set the foundation for years (and potentially decades) of true abundance and sexual success.
This is our last European workshop for the year, with spots selling fast, so jump on an obligation-free call with us this week:
Ever felt like your age is catching up with your dating life?
It’s one thing to be a testosterone-raging, twenty-something college student with endless free time to socialize, get wasted at parties, work out, and plan adventures.
But as soon as you hit your thirties, for most men things start to worsen.
Demanding jobs, poor nutrition, chronic lack of sleep, and a very sedentary lifestyle render males weak, nervous, and overall less powerful in the bedroom, resulting often in less confidence and relationship problems.
That’s why it’s paramount for a modern man to have a basic self-maintenance routine.
I’m not talking about adding even more stress by destroying yourself in the gym for hours every day, micro-scheduling every nutrient you absorb, or turning into a full-on self-development junkie who meditates for hours at a time.
What I’m referring to is to start incorporating a series of small daily habits that will, in the long-term, slow down aging and allow you to truly enjoy your peak masculine years as you deserve.
To learn what they are, go and watch my latest video.
In it, I and legendary seduction & masculinity master Zan Perrion break down the most vital tips to stay nimble in body and spirit and keep rocking in life and the bedroom for the rest of your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want work together this summer to finally build a rockstar dating & sexual life, no matter your current age or romantic challenges?
Over eight hours of customized training per day covering all the fundamentals and advanced strategies that will save you years of rejection and set you on a path of thriving with women for the rest of your life.
From how to approach, effortlessly build engaging conversations, getting her contacts and properly following up via text or social media, to finally seeing her again on a date and taking her home..
We’ll leave no stone unturned in your masculine education, giving you access to an evolving database of knowledge and tools to age-proof your confidence, mindset, and body and make success truly inevitable.
Only a few spots left.
If interested in joining, click on the link below and book a call with the enrollment team:
How I got good with women fast (the no b.s. truth)
Looking back at my early seduction days, I realize my stubbornness was my biggest asset…
One of the reasons, if not the main reason, why I started getting great results with women within months of starting is that I never looked only for easy, ‘safe’ opportunities.
Instead of wasting time waiting for ideal scenarios, like a cute tourist sitting alone on a bench for hours, or a college girl looking bored in a coffee shop, I just went for it, no matter how unprepared I felt.
And I mostly failed spectacularly, in the beginning…
But with time, that helped me fast-track my dating progress massively as I didn’t get stuck in the classic beginner comfort trap of only approaching in one type of situation.
One girl, two girls, a mixed group with guys, daygame, bars, nightclubs, at the supermarket…
…It made no difference to me as it was all part of my larger journey to master this art.
Recently I went through some very old infield footage, from my early days in the game, to chart my progress and show how even when imperfect, big balls trump technical skill.
This is part 2 of my self-roast series (watch part 1 HERE) where I analyze some old approaches of two girls at once, revealing my biggest mistakes as a newbie and what I would do differently today.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to work with me this year to become adept at meeting hot women anywhere, having intriguing conversations and flirting, and confidently getting them to dates?
If you’re serious about transforming your seductive lifestyle in 2022, be quick…
There are only three spots left to join our last and most epic workshop of the year!
Running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, our 7-day Residential is a proven system that will take you from beginner to natural, while saving you years of struggle (and providing enough material for you to thrive with women for decades!).
From how to confidently approach girls anywhere and create instant attraction, to building connection and truly getting to know her through conversations, to reversing the power dynamic and making her chase and invest to see you again, to texting and taking her back to your place within hours into the date––it’s all covered!
You also get to practice every concept until it becomes second nature by spending over 80 hours training, meeting hot women infield (and likely getting your first dates within days) as I and the coaches provide you constant feedback in real-time.
To learn more and save your spot before we sell out, click on the link below to speak with our student success team:
