Nobody is born good with women. Every man goes through multiple phases in his dating life.
With rare exceptions, we all begin as single and clueless about how to get it on with the opposite sex.
Some guys remain celibate for years and passively hope their situation improves.
While others take the matter into their own hands, pursuing results by going out and socializing more, upgrading their wardrobe, downloading Tinder, and talking to girls in bars…
That eventually lands them some lovers, developing their understanding of women and sexual skills further.
Until they settle on one girl, commit to a monogamous relationship, and after some time break up restarting the cycle.
Do you know what separates those who quickly get it handled from those who eternally struggle in the process? Reference experiences.
Statistically, men who have dated many women in their prime years fare a LOT better romantically in the long term than those who only had a handful of people.
Not that you should base your entire confidence and identity on how many sexual partners you had…
But meeting multiple women, with diverse personalities and needs, and dating them, casually or not, will teach you tons and make you more prepared to seize any romantic opportunity you will encounter.
So, if curious to learn my favorite “strategy” to quickly get more dates, and bring new lovers into your life, predictably, every month…
Lots of great sex is lost every day due to gross misunderstandings.
Especially when transitioning from social to sexual, moving from the date to a wild night in the bedroom…
If you find yourself in an erotic situation and she strongly says “NO” when you try taking things forward, you should immediately stop and respect her choice.
When a woman lets you know far in advance, for example, as you’re entering your apartment together or sometimes even during the date, that she’s not gonna sleep with you.
Why does she tell you so early, and what does she mean by it?
In most occasions, women try to set things straight beforehand not because they hate the idea of sex with you but because they want it to happen spontaneously and not feel “expected” and compelled to get into bed every time they see a new guy.
So, how do you handle this unique concern and turn the situation into a win-win erotic climax?
Watch my latest video below to find out the answer:
Your purpose and masculine destiny have been long hijacked.
Trapped by social conditioning and others’ projections of who you should be and what you should aim for…
This self-prison is so powerful and intricate that every time we try to escape it, we get violently pushed back in…by insecurities, anxieties, and censorship thoughts imposed by our ego.
But there is a way out, which although not easy, will lead you to be finally in control of how far you can get in life.
The first step is learning how to master your internal emotional states.
And it all begins with one seemingly minor yet challenging action: relaxing.
Can you lie down and bring calm within yourself without being assaulted by endless thoughts and worries?
The idea is not to stop thinking but to observe your inner states without interpreting them.
You’ll notice that what you call “feelings” are just mere feedback loops brought by the interaction of your beliefs with the outside reality.
When they align, you feel great, but when they collide, you suddenly fall into a negative state.
By stopping to label your emotions, you’ll quit being controlled by them, so you can act and do as you wish despite how you feel.
To learn how to fully claim control of yourself and hack your potential, watch our latest video guide below from the one and only inner game wizard Shae Matthews:
No matter how many women you talk to or how good you get at striking up conversations with strangers, “just going with the flow” when you see her again is a one-way ticket to the friendzone, or having to go through multiple awkward dates that often lead nowhere.
This doesn’t mean you should overly plan or structure your dates to the point they become scripted, but you must know how to move things forward…
Sparking up chemistry and building sexual tension so that getting intimate and taking her home becomes effortless.
In my latest video, I share a 30-minute sneak peek into one of our live workshop classes where I coach multiple students and reveal 6 ways to rock your first dates.
Check it out below:
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Hot women start approaching you (the ultimate experiment)
In this first-of-a-kind social experiment, I, a professional dating coach and consummate seducer with decades of experience, challenge Valeria, a 23-year-old beauty, to an hour of daygame.
In the final episode of this funny and eye-opening series, we find out who has the best game – The veteran pick up artist or the first-timer hot model?
Check it out below:
Now the reality is, for better or worse, it’s your job as the man to make most if not all the moves to progress from stranger to lover.
No amount of social media clout, hours in the gym, or cash in your pocket will make up for an inability to boldly approach women you don’t know.
Seduction isn’t an optional hobby, it’s an integral survival skill.
As amazing as it would be to live in a world where women took the initiative, that’s not the reality we live in, so YOU need to be the one to develop the confidence and skills to make it happen.
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I challenged a 23yo model at daygame (Experience Vs Beauty, the epic showdown)
Calling one of my own young and beautiful female friends, 23yo model and force of nature – Valeria, and shooting the ultimate infield daygame challenge in Budapest:
My twenty years of seduction experience and mastery versus a first-timer girl with confidence and social skills who never approached in her life.
One hour to get as many dates as possible––may the best seducer win!
To find out the shockingly hilarious results of the experiment, watch part 1 of it below.
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Whether it’s keeping track of your progress with a wingman or simply writing down your daily “to-dos”, knowing how to stay consistent and avoid slacking in your approaches is key to building momentum and accumulating a solid base of learning experiences.
Second, find someone who is already getting the results you want with women, and spend LOTS of time with them.
This will spare you the painful “trial by error” learning phase and give you plenty of real-life insights into how successful ladies’ men operate (it’s often very different than what you see in movies…).
When you have these winning factors under control, results will come faster than you can handle––sometimes even in a matter of hours and days…
For a prime example of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, you’ll see one of my students going from “never having approached in his life” to a couple of days of training later lining up two dates in a row in less than 20 minutes.
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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)
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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)
Let’s be fair, nobody likes getting rejected.
It sucks as much on day one as it does after a decade of approaching countless women.
But what separates the beginner from the man who is actually great with the ladies is the capacity of not letting a bad interaction discourage him from continuing to find the right girl.
You’re not for everyone, and everyone is not for you as my good friend John Keegan says.
Within this duality lies the true essence of a rejection-proof mindset.
Sure, as your social skills improve and you accumulate references, you will succeed more and more at dating, but you will never fully eliminate blowouts.
Because the factors that drive a woman to turn you down are often not in your control…
Maybe you’re just not her type, she’s already emotionally invested in someone and doesn’t want to cheat, or she’s simply having a bad day or not in the headspace to meet new guys.
With these premises in mind, why would you take it so personally when she quickly dismisses you? Accept it, politely walk away, and keep going…
And when you do, you will find that after a disheartening interaction often comes an unexpected encounter with a stunning and sexy “dream” type of girl who is very much into you.
For a prime example of this concept, give a watch to my latest video below…
In it, you will initially see me getting blown out three times in a row, but if you keep watching, you’ll witness how, immediately after that I score a fun flirty conversation with a fitness model who, by the end of it, is very keen to give me her number and see me again.
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The LAZY, No Stress Way To Meet Hot Women This Summer (Without apps, or going to clubs)
Some men think they always need to be in exactly the right “state” to successfully approach women…
Well rested, in a good mood, great levels of energy, the weather should be not too hot nor too chilly.
But the reality is that you don’t always need A-level, incredibly smooth game to get results in dating.
The idea of showing up consistently, no matter how you feel, is far more important than “how” you show up.
You should own whatever mental and energy state you’re in and adapt your seduction style to it, instead of trying to emulate a golden standard that doesn’t feel authentic in the moment.
If you’re feeling low-energy and introverted, carry on with it and allow silence, eye contact, and the expression of your burning intent in the conversation to do the work.
And when you’re feeling pumped and social, let your banter take over, and don’t be afraid to engage in longer interactions, instead of playing the cold mysterious type who doesn’t talk a lot.
Ultimately, this is about being very comfortable in your skin… Because if you can’t accept yourself, how can you expect a woman to do it?
For proof of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, I venture into the streets of Budapest in a very lazy, low-energy mood and still manage to get it on with multiple attractive women and take home some solid results.
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How to pick up a hot bartender (without going to bars…)
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How to pick up a hot bartender (without going to bars…)
How many times have you been around a top-tier woman everyone craved and couldn’t take their eyes off but felt impossible to get?
…the hot bartender, the sensual dancer, the model visiting a nightclub.
A view to kill for, surely, but ultimately just an unattainable fantasy for most guys who cannot overcome the incredibly fierce competition of men willing to pool in all their money and status, buying endless drinks and bottle services just to get her attention.
It’s an uphill battle not worth partaking in unless you can outbid everybody else in resources and effort.
But there is a shortcut to meeting and dating these hard-to-get women: approaching them in a totally different scenario.
Outside of their bubble of clout and where nobody else does: during daytime in the street, at a cafè or library when they feel relaxed, open, and not on a pedestal.
In such situations, if you’re charming, socially aware, and flirty you’ll immediately stand out and get the chance the remaining 99% would kill for but never receive.
For a great example of what I’m talking about watch my latest video below where I approach a stunning and very playful Argentinian bartender in the streets of Barcelona and arrange a date with her within minutes:
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