Getting Dates In Your 20s Vs 30s (Realistic expectations)
No matter your current challenges with women right now, I can promise you one thing:
IT IS going to get much better if you have patience.
Nature has a weird way of compensating men for all the sh!t and rejection they had to experience in dating in their teens and early twenties.
In fact, while girls make use of their youth and physical beauty to gain access to incredible lifestyle opportunities (such as VIP parties, free travels, and holidays), guys reach their seductive peak much later.
Your late twenties and early/mid-thirties are critical in setting a foundation for success and defining the kind of social and romantic results you’ll be able to achieve for the remainder of your life.
That’s why, If you’re a young man (and by today’s standards, being less than 35 is still young), I urge you to think twice before settling exclusively with one woman…
…As you might have just scratched the surface in terms of quantity and quality of girls that you can date/have casual fun with.
I cover this topic, as well as how to realistically make the best out of your 20s and 30s lifestyle-wise in my latest video.
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Over the past fifteen years, we at The Natural Lifestyles have helped tens of thousands of men acquiring the skill set, confidence, and social intelligence to quickly rise above their peers and gain access to more high-quality dates and relationships.
By attending one of the several live programs we host every year, you’ll become well-versed in the art & science of approaching, interacting, and getting on sexy dates with several high-quality women regardless of what stage of your life you’re in.
If you’re tired of settling and want to start living like a true King, you can join me and my team of elite coaches for 10 days of epic training and seductive adventures by participating at our infamous EuroTour running from September 1st – September 12th, 2021 in Kiev, Ukraine.
There are only two spots left to join, so if you’re interested in joining, I highly recommend you speak with my team asap.
The quality of your life is largely dictated by one choice: to be a Prey or a Predator.
Some people strive big time to be accepted and believe that the only way to conduct a happy life is by conforming to what everyone else is doing while ignoring, or repressing, their masculine instincts.
If conflict with others or unplanned challenges arise, they’re unable to respond, frozen like deers in headlights. Those are the prey.
Then you got the Predators, a rare breed of men who live according to their true will and nature. Guys who have managed to unleash their inner aggression and instincts and channel them to quadruply their results and opportunities.
Despite the negative connotations that the term has acquired in recent history, predators do NOT improve their lives by feeding on others’ work or wreaking havoc on the prey. Instead, they use their inner strength, resilience, and empathy to help and assist those in need.
To be top of the social & seductive food chain is as much a mental as a physical endeavor.
First, to feel strong and able to optimally adapt to life’s challenges, you need to be physically strong. This is a tricky area as most men associate physical strength to stiff, bulky bodybuilder type of bodies –– all show no go.
Second, it’s about developing the right kind of mindset. Mastering your inner power and aggression is the total opposite of being a douchy, boisterous individual.
You can find a comprehensive explanation of how to transition from Prey to Predator in my latest video.
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Coming up very soon my Natural Warrior Training program is the pinnacle of over fifty years of combined research and teaching in the fields of deep men’s inner work, masculinity training, and social skills enhancement.
Running from August 15th – August 22nd, 2021 at my private property in Portugal, you’ll be joined by a small, cohesive brotherhood group of ten men as we embark on an epic journey of self-discovery and mind-bending character transformation.
If you’re at a point in your life where you often ask yourself “Is that it?” and struggle to find a real purpose or a way to escape the comfort-patted, safe but ultimately dull existence most people go through and are seeking a real adventure, then NWT is going to change your life!
We only have one spot left to join right now, so if you’re interested in joining, or learning more about the program, as well as asking safety and travel-related questions to get to Portugal easily, I recommend you book a call with my team ASAP.
One Girlfriend Vs Multiple Chicks (The BEST dating strategy)
“To get a girlfriend and settle, or have fun with several chicks and stay single, that is the question…”
Whether you’re a seasoned seducer with years of experience, or a guy who is starting to get his first results with women, you’re likely to encounter a unique kind of hamletic doubt along the way:
Should you keep seeing her and eventually transition into a classic monogamous relationship?
Should you keep things open and keep seeing other girls on the side to further fuel your seductive abundance?Or shall you just break things off to avoid future drama?
Unfortunately, there is no one magic answer to this situation…
In fact, traditional exclusive relationships can be great for connecting and developing strong mutual trust and connection, but so can polyamorous ones.
The real question you should ask yourself before jumping into any sort of romantic arrangement is: “what do I want to get out of this?”.
Stay true to your intentions, and you will piss a few girls off but live happily.
Ignore your instincts to please others, and you’ll end up regretful.
In our latest video, my close friend and fellow TNL coach, Shae Matthews, dives deep into choosing the best kind of relationship for your unique masculine and emotional needs.
I strongly recommend you check it out now before it goes viral 😉
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Our live coaching programs are infamously known to be some of the best and most powerful shortcuts available in the entire world for those men looking to build epic dating & social lives.
From the basics of approaching women and entertaining intriguing conversations to building seductive tension and taking their contacts, all the way to see them again on a date and taking them home (often by their suggestion) real fast, I and my team of coaches will teach you how to rapidly build an abundant pool of hot ladies in your life to date, whether seriously or casually, at your will.
If you’re ready to ignite your seductive life in 2021, I strongly recommend you speak with my team…
…We have only a few spots left for the remainder of the year, so you should act asap!
To savagely punish that “old you” who chickened out and missed on many great opportunities and adventures.
To wipe that weak and insecure guy that women were never attracted to off the face of earth…
…In order to build a better, stronger, and more successful “new you”?
Let’s be honest we all feel like that at some point in our lives.
Especially after getting the first taste of any sort of worldly success…
That’s the eureka moment for the most: the realization that they can actually aspire to more than a mediocre and scarce life.
And so they begin to hustle, aggressively trying to accumulate and achieve as much as they can to prove themselves and the world they’re not the same losers they used to be.
The bottom line?
They often end up in a much darker, more scarce, and desperate place than they used to be in before.
Why?
Because every part and facet of us, especially the cringy and less attractive ones, play a fundamental role in our masculine growth.
Find out more about this topic and how to stop hating your past mistakes in my latest video. Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Looking for a way to evolve into the strongest, most seductive, and truly confident man you could be?
My 8-day Natural Warrior Training program is the culmination of over fifty years of combined experience in developing powerful masculinity and accelerating men’s lifestyle growth to epic levels taught in an intensive, safe, and brotherhood-oriented environment.
Personally taught at my private property in Portugal, the next round of NWT will run from August 15th – August 22nd, 2021 and will be hosted by a faculty of world-class teachers specialized in key areas of masculinity such as movement, sensuality, Tantra, nonlinear fitness, shamanic healing, sensory awareness classes, wildman training and much more.
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The Reality Of A Hot Girl’s Life (Trigger warning)
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One Girlfriend Vs Multiple Chicks (The BEST dating strategy)
Would love to travel the world 1st class for free, getting hosted at epic private mansions in places like Mykonos year-round? No problem.
Put bluntly, most guys’ wet dreams could be easily achieved within a week if they were attractive women.
Understanding and accepting this cold truth will massively improve your seductive results for TWO reasons…
First, it will shift your focus away from superficial displays of value.
Nothing wrong with wearing fancy clothes and saving to buy a sports car if you like it, but realize that most hot girls won’t be impressed as they’re surrounded by a plethora of guys trying to buy their attention with flashy stuff.
Second, it will help you to spark true emotional connection.
In a world where attractive women are traded like commodity items, you can stand out and date plenty of them by appealing to something only a few men can: their emotions.
To learn more about the crazy world and reality of hot girls, check my latest video.
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P.S. Want to learn the world’s most effective method to consistently get dates with high-quality girls?
For the past 15 years, we at The Natural Lifestyles have specialized in taking (tens of thousands of) men from a state of lack of choice to absolute abundance in their dating and social lives.
Our live coaching programs will give you the exact insights and practical knowledge(workshops page) required to approach, attract and sleep with beautiful women without having to buy them out with lavish gifts, dinners, or travels.
In fact, once you see for yourself at our workshops how simple it is to seduce girls you just met in the streets or cafes, you’re likely to experience the same level of opportunity and abundance hot women do.
Our next coaching program runs from Sep 1st – Sep 12th, 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine, and there are only a couple spots left to join!
Way too often I see guys overemphasizing the “tactical” and strategy-based aspects of dating to––allow me the word––fool girls into thinking they’re attractive…
Bragging about their careers and hobbies to “display value” or by excessively teasing the girl until she feels insecure.
That is a WASTE of time.
Either she will see through the smoke and mirrors right away and ignore you/reject you.
Or even worse, she will fall for it only for you to realize that she doesn’t like the real you but your fabricated pickup persona.
A better way to go about it is to invest quality time and focus on developing the #1 source of sexiness: your character.
And nothing makes your character more interesting and seductive than the first thing people get to know about you…
Simply put, the way you talk and sound is a huge indicator of your personality and masculinity.
A deep, articulate, and slow voice can instantly attract and turn on women at a very visceral and powerful level often more than words do.
After devoting over two decades to the professional study of theater, drama, and singing before joining TNL, I now regularly coach our students on how to render their voices more masculine and seductive with epic results.
If you want to learn more on how to improve your voice for dating success, check my latest video. Click the link below to watch it:
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You can now join me, James, Alex, and all the other coaches as part of either our 7 and 4-day programs or, if you’re really committed and want the best out of your life, as a 1-on-1 private student.
We will personally coach you and make you unstoppable at meeting women anywhere, develop supernatural charisma, texting, organizing several sexy dates per week as well as growing your social circle and overall seductive lifestyle.
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Why your body is cockblocking you (this is awkward)
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Why your body is cockblocking you (this is awkward)
Let’s face it, lots of guys hit the gym for dating reasons.
The general thinking is that by having a hotter body, you’ll attract hotter girls.
And there’s no denying that.
What most guys don’t know, however, is that their strategy can also backfire in very negative, unpredictable ways…
Severely limiting their masculinity, libido, and overall seductive success among others.
Truth is that there is much more to your body than the way it looks.
Like your senses of coordination, balance, and grace, your posture and flexibility –– aka your movement capacities.
Or your physical sensations such as stiffness, fatigue, pleasure, or pain –– your sensual reality.
All these massively contribute to shaping the way you feel and behave around others.
Believe it or not but over my long career as a world-famous dating coach I’ve coached dozens of traditionally fit guys whose main seductive issue was of a physical nature…
Their poor posture, lack of physical & mental flexibility, and sleepy senses eventually led to often awkward and clumsy interactions.
If you want to learn how to truly optimize your body for masculine success, improve your body language, and master non-verbal attraction, watch my latest video.
In it, I explain how to achieve all of the above by embracing the idea of non-linear thinking and training.
Link below to watch it:
P.S. Looking to become stronger, more relaxed, and in tune with your mind and body while developing killer instinct and confidence?
Look no further…
My Natural Warrior Training workshop gives you the chance to spend 8 days with me and my cadre of elite masculinity coaches as we intensively upgrade your physical and inner reality through a blend of ancient and modern character enhancement systems.
This is the most exclusive and in-demand program currently available in the TNL curriculum, and that’s for a precise reason…
The epic mix of movement training, tribal initiations, spiritual mastery drills, Tantra, grounded masculinity coaching, and psychedelic healing (with a real pro shaman joining the coaching team) is guaranteed to take your self-worth, mental & physical strength, and overall sense of masculinity to legendary levels.
The next round of NWT is happening August 15th-22nd, 2021, at my property in Portugal and there are only 2 spots left to join!
Our self-representation and beliefs coupled with lived past experiences define who we are and how we interact with the world.
As a result, most people constantly make false, negative assumptions about themselves and future outcomes based on how they believe things work.
Assumptions like…
“If I approach her, she’s definitely going to reject me right away”.
“I’m not interesting enough for these people”.
“If I don’t agree with them, they’re not going to like me”.
These internal statements are often repeated enough to the point that they become ingrained in our character and DNA affecting everything we do.
Good news is that by replacing those negative beliefs with positive, functional ones, you’ll be effortlessly successful in any scenario.
After coaching men live week in, week out for the past fifteen years, I realised that those who can successfully “upgrade” their subjective models of reality are the ones who can smoothly transition through 3 distinct character phases:
Suffering, Awareness and Self-Liberation.
To learn how they all work, as well as how to start your unique self-transformation journey, check my latest video.
Link below:
P.S. Want to transition from a life of suffering and insecurity into one of strength, adventure, and total abundance?
Deep character work is only a part of a much larger toolbox that I consistently use with my elite students to upgrade their self-worth and seductive results to world-class levels.
In fact, if there’s one thing that all my years as a dating & lifestyle coach have taught me is that often poor dating skills are NOT the problem.
They sure are extremely important but only if you’ve already developed something else before:
A powerful sense of masculinity.
Get that first, and everything else––including meeting women or building an epic social circle––will be downhill.
Coming up in august, I’ll be personally leading the Natural Warrior Training at my property in Portugal. 8 days of movement, meditation, masculine core work, tribal and psychedelic initiations.
Why successful people don’t stay in one place (the lifestyle fastlane)
A major part of being successful is removing yourself from infertile grounds.
In other words, no amount of hard work, training, or talent is going to make up for a lack of resources and opportunities in a specific place.
If your current city is lacking basic seductive criteria like a high percentage of young people, a vibrant nightlife, and good housing prices, you’ll likely struggle setting up a decent lifestyle no matter how committed or persistent you are.
Living in the right location, at the right time, is the best dating & social circle hack I’ve ever come across in my entire life.
Your average London salary, for example, could get you baller apartments and a vastly higher standard of living in the center of Budapest or Prague. Plus the overall quality of women dwarfs what you’d find in many western cities.
The act of relocating to a new country can put you years (or even decades) ahead of your peers in terms of seductive results.
That’s why nearly all the most successful people I know have mastered the art of going nomad.
If you want to know how it works and how you can apply it to your life to potentially skyrocket your dating & lifestyle results, check my latest video.
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P.S. Looking to become the kind of man who can captivate women and inspire fellow males with his mere presence and masculine aura?
My Natural Warrior Training program will teach you how to do so, while also giving you the tools to develop your physical, spiritual, and mindset dimensions to their absolute peak.
NWT is an 8-day long workshop I host every year at my private property in Portugal with my team of world-class masculinity masters. The teachings and principles we cover during the program will develop and reshape/strengthen your character like nothing else you tried before.
This is about becoming the most powerful, socially savvy, sensually aware, and interesting version of yourself you could ever be.
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You can sleep with dozens of women, forge the most impressive physique through grueling training, and achieve great financial success…
But still feel insecure and experience major agitation around others, and especially girls.
That’s because the pursuit and collecting of masculine trophies is just a form of egoistic anesthesia.
When you get one, you’re temporarily relieved from your inner pain and poor self-esteem––until you’re back…
After mentoring tens of thousands of guys over the past fifteen years as a world-famous dating coach, I realized that most men struggle to experience true masculine success because they simply have no clue what masculinity is about.
Can you blame them?
Historically, most tribes reserved special attention to initiating young boys into strong, mature males. With support, multiple family and tribal males nurturing and testing them.
One’s identity, confidence, and sense of manhood were quickly developed as a result of facing daily challenges and threats and embarking on adventurous quests.
But in our hyper-safe, soft and tribeless society, much of that has been lost, and so has the collective sense of manhood.
Things are about to change…
In my latest video, I detail perhaps the most important piece of my legacy: the masculinity manifesto – through my Natural Warrior Training.
This is an extensive video guide detailing all the most effective, proven steps, tools, and strategies you should implement in your life right now to break societal barriers and reach your peak as a seductive Man.
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Our Natural Warrior Training program is the world’s first and most-encompassing 8-day workshop that offers you a modern initiation into manhood while developing your core archetypal masculine qualities.
Through intense study and practice with several world-class masters, you’ll deeply explore both your physical, spiritual and mental dimensions while building strength, grace, and suppleness in each one.
This will ignite your dormant sense of masculinity like nothing before, producing a rapid surge in your self-esteem, sense of purpose, and seductive opportunities as a result.
You’ll join a brotherhood of sincere and supportive seekers, that have your back.
