No matter how many women you talk to or how good you get at striking up conversations with strangers, “just going with the flow” when you see her again is a one-way ticket to the friendzone, or having to go through multiple awkward dates that often lead nowhere.
This doesn’t mean you should overly plan or structure your dates to the point they become scripted, but you must know how to move things forward…
Sparking up chemistry and building sexual tension so that getting intimate and taking her home becomes effortless.
In my latest video, I share a 30-minute sneak peek into one of our live workshop classes where I coach multiple students and reveal 6 ways to rock your first dates.
Check it out below:
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Hot women start approaching you (the ultimate experiment)
In this first-of-a-kind social experiment, I, a professional dating coach and consummate seducer with decades of experience, challenge Valeria, a 23-year-old beauty, to an hour of daygame.
In the final episode of this funny and eye-opening series, we find out who has the best game – The veteran pick up artist or the first-timer hot model?
Check it out below:
Now the reality is, for better or worse, it’s your job as the man to make most if not all the moves to progress from stranger to lover.
No amount of social media clout, hours in the gym, or cash in your pocket will make up for an inability to boldly approach women you don’t know.
Seduction isn’t an optional hobby, it’s an integral survival skill.
As amazing as it would be to live in a world where women took the initiative, that’s not the reality we live in, so YOU need to be the one to develop the confidence and skills to make it happen.
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I challenged a 23yo model at daygame (Experience Vs Beauty, the epic showdown)
Calling one of my own young and beautiful female friends, 23yo model and force of nature – Valeria, and shooting the ultimate infield daygame challenge in Budapest:
My twenty years of seduction experience and mastery versus a first-timer girl with confidence and social skills who never approached in her life.
One hour to get as many dates as possible––may the best seducer win!
To find out the shockingly hilarious results of the experiment, watch part 1 of it below.
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From Cringe to Crushing It - Getting FASTER Results with Women
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Whether it’s keeping track of your progress with a wingman or simply writing down your daily “to-dos”, knowing how to stay consistent and avoid slacking in your approaches is key to building momentum and accumulating a solid base of learning experiences.
Second, find someone who is already getting the results you want with women, and spend LOTS of time with them.
This will spare you the painful “trial by error” learning phase and give you plenty of real-life insights into how successful ladies’ men operate (it’s often very different than what you see in movies…).
When you have these winning factors under control, results will come faster than you can handle––sometimes even in a matter of hours and days…
For a prime example of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, you’ll see one of my students going from “never having approached in his life” to a couple of days of training later lining up two dates in a row in less than 20 minutes.
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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)
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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)
Let’s be fair, nobody likes getting rejected.
It sucks as much on day one as it does after a decade of approaching countless women.
But what separates the beginner from the man who is actually great with the ladies is the capacity of not letting a bad interaction discourage him from continuing to find the right girl.
You’re not for everyone, and everyone is not for you as my good friend John Keegan says.
Within this duality lies the true essence of a rejection-proof mindset.
Sure, as your social skills improve and you accumulate references, you will succeed more and more at dating, but you will never fully eliminate blowouts.
Because the factors that drive a woman to turn you down are often not in your control…
Maybe you’re just not her type, she’s already emotionally invested in someone and doesn’t want to cheat, or she’s simply having a bad day or not in the headspace to meet new guys.
With these premises in mind, why would you take it so personally when she quickly dismisses you? Accept it, politely walk away, and keep going…
And when you do, you will find that after a disheartening interaction often comes an unexpected encounter with a stunning and sexy “dream” type of girl who is very much into you.
For a prime example of this concept, give a watch to my latest video below…
In it, you will initially see me getting blown out three times in a row, but if you keep watching, you’ll witness how, immediately after that I score a fun flirty conversation with a fitness model who, by the end of it, is very keen to give me her number and see me again.
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The LAZY, No Stress Way To Meet Hot Women This Summer (Without apps, or going to clubs)
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The LAZY, No Stress Way To Meet Hot Women This Summer (Without apps, or going to clubs)
Some men think they always need to be in exactly the right “state” to successfully approach women…
Well rested, in a good mood, great levels of energy, the weather should be not too hot nor too chilly.
But the reality is that you don’t always need A-level, incredibly smooth game to get results in dating.
The idea of showing up consistently, no matter how you feel, is far more important than “how” you show up.
You should own whatever mental and energy state you’re in and adapt your seduction style to it, instead of trying to emulate a golden standard that doesn’t feel authentic in the moment.
If you’re feeling low-energy and introverted, carry on with it and allow silence, eye contact, and the expression of your burning intent in the conversation to do the work.
And when you’re feeling pumped and social, let your banter take over, and don’t be afraid to engage in longer interactions, instead of playing the cold mysterious type who doesn’t talk a lot.
Ultimately, this is about being very comfortable in your skin… Because if you can’t accept yourself, how can you expect a woman to do it?
For proof of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, I venture into the streets of Budapest in a very lazy, low-energy mood and still manage to get it on with multiple attractive women and take home some solid results.
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“You’re too old for me” – How to deal with age objections
Most men are masters at finding reasons to avoid approaching the women they desire and wasting great opportunities.
One of the main excuses I hear all the time is the classic “But I’m too old for her…”, usually coming from clients in their 30s & 40s after I send them to talk to a twenty-something smoke show during the infield part of my workshops.
Which is ironic because virtually every man I meet craves to get in bed with younger, hotter women, but most succumb to social taboos and the idea that it is ‘unacceptable’ to date someone a decade (or more) younger than them (provided that you’re both well above the legal age of consent obviously).
But is there anything such as “too old” to approach and get dates?
In my latest video, I show you how to effortlessly handle age-related objections and get younger hotties like Leo DiCaprio would, without needing fame and fortune. You can watch it HERE.
Let me tell you, I’ll be turning 44 this year, and things are only getting better…
Most males mature at a much slower pace than ladies do and therefore reach their peak of attractiveness and abundance of options far later in life.
A guy in his twenties has very often accumulated not even half of the crazy character-building experiences and social references that a hot girl his peer has; at thirty, he’s only getting started…
That’s why it’s senseless to compare yourself to women and not go after some potentially epic dating experiences just because you’re worried about your age.
I’m not gonna lie, some ladies will poke you about it to see how you react and, in some cases, will walk away, BUT, if you’re willing to take a few L’s; you’ll meet countless hot girls who will be very excited to date and get freaky with a mature, non-judgmental gentleman who’s got his sh*t together.
For a prime example of this watch my last video below where I approach a stunning and bratty 25 y.o. Latina in the streets of Barcelona:
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My Craziest infield Video Yet! Barcelona pickup spree on film
My Craziest infield Video Yet! Barcelona pickup spree on film
Most of you know me as a low energy brooding seducer. Certainly I can be and there’s a lot of power in using intense intent, being grounded and choosing opportune moments to make a move.
However, there’s many other sides to me and when the mood takes me, I like to cut loose and get a little crazier and more fun in my interactions. Especially for guys who are fairly new to approaching, learning to get loose and meet lots of different people, bounce positive energy off them and really learn to enjoy the process, helps disintegrate fear and hesitation.
In my latest video, I show you why being a little silly and having genuine fun when talking to ladies will make them rapidly interested in you and you get you in a charismatic flow state.
Check out my latest video where I treat Barcelona like an amusement park and turn a walk in the park into a hilarious adventure, while picking up a few hotties on the way.
Knowing how not to take yourself too seriously is a fundamental part of becoming a more seductive and socially capable man.
Of course, there are moments to be playful and moments to get razor sharp with your intent.
And all the best seducers know when to step off the silliness pedal to transition into a simmering, direct sexual frame that will ultimately make her fall for you.
If you want to see me kick up the craziness like never before on film and score a super hot Serbian gal in the process, check out my latest video below.
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To be or not to be dominant?
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Do you often struggle being dominant in bed, or can you confidently take charge of your lovers’ mind, body and pleasure?
Lots of men feel some degree of shame about harnessing their natural dominance tendencies, as they may perceive it as an ultimately selfish, or even toxic expression of their masculinity, that degrades women and does not take in account their needs, settling instead for a safer vanilla mentality and type of lovemaking.
Although this comes from a good place, it’s a mistaken attitude, because so many women crave to be led and taken by a confident and caring man.
Are dominant men all assh*les?
Do women want these type of men ?
And what do ladies actually want in the bedroom?
This is exactly what I answer in my latest video where I sit down with my old friend and frequent channel guest Dr.Saida Desilets. You can watch it HERE.
We examine every aspect of the dilemma, and Saida’s decades of scientific research as a sexologist and psychologist working with thousands of women to unleash their ultimate erotic beings, helps us to shine light on several female sexuality truths and nuances that far too many guys are unaware of.
To find out what we discovered, check the video below…and remember to keep an open mind 😉
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How to get dates this summer
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Summer is finally here, which means for proactive men with a little street hustle.. endless possibilities for igniting hot dating opportunities.
Or it means another humid stretch of frustration and inaction, mixed with the FOMO as the world seems to have fun and get laid without you.
The difference is the ability to connect with strangers.
Not only through a focussed cold approach, using “game” to maximize your chances.
Just as importantly it’s through embodying a social vibe, closing the gap between you and people in general while flexing your conversational skills, allowing you to hit flow states where true “natural” game occurs.
Men who can genuinely enjoy the company of strangers and women – having a joke, a flirt or passing special moment, regardless of whether it becomes a seduction – get massive results over time.
Ironically by not always focusing on getting the girl.
Knowing how to have fun and just enjoy socializing with strangers will do a lot more for your seductive skills, charisma, and confidence than just plowing through approaches with a win/lose mentality.
Of course when it’s time to pull the trigger; make your intent crystal clear and go for it.
But also learn to break the ice, vibe, and enjoy the human interactions that build so many correlating skills and you might have some fun as well along the way:)
In my latest video, I bounce around gorgeous Barcelona on my recent coaching trip and show first hand how to get loose and meet a heap of cool and sexy people in a couple of hours, without anything flashy or scripted.
By the end I’ve made some good pals, had some laughs, and lined up a few dates.
When you get in the flow and make the city feel like your social and seductive playground and then you come across a girl you’re attracted to.. reaching out and starting a natural, cool, improvisational, and confidently seductive interaction becomes easy.
Whereas, fixating on only ever attempting to talk to specific types of hotties while ignoring and avoiding all other possible social interactions tends to lead to slow or stagnant progress, as too much pressure is put on performing in zero-sum attempts to pick up a woman.
Unfortunately, many guys just buckle under the pressure and end up sitting the summer out.
Check out the new video to learn how to kick-start your dating life this summer.
