15th July 2021
James Marshall

Why your body is cockblocking you (this is awkward)

Let’s face it, lots of guys hit the gym for dating reasons.

The general thinking is that by having a hotter body, you’ll attract hotter girls.

And there’s no denying that.

What most guys don’t know, however, is that their strategy can also backfire in very negative, unpredictable ways…

Severely limiting their masculinity, libido, and overall seductive success among others.

Truth is that there is much more to your body than the way it looks.

Like your senses of coordination, balance, and grace, your posture and flexibility –– aka your movement capacities.

Or your physical sensations such as stiffness, fatigue, pleasure, or pain –– your sensual reality.

All these massively contribute to shaping the way you feel and behave around others.

Believe it or not but over my long career as a world-famous dating coach I’ve coached dozens of traditionally fit guys whose main seductive issue was of a physical nature…

Their poor posture, lack of physical & mental flexibility, and sleepy senses eventually led to often awkward and clumsy interactions.

If you want to learn how to truly optimize your body for masculine success, improve your body language, and master non-verbal attraction, watch my latest video.

In it, I explain how to achieve all of the above by embracing the idea of non-linear thinking and training.

Link below to watch it:

P.S. Looking to become stronger, more relaxed, and in tune with your mind and body while developing killer instinct and confidence?

Look no further…

My Natural Warrior Training workshop gives you the chance to spend 8 days with me and my cadre of elite masculinity coaches as we intensively upgrade your physical and inner reality through a blend of ancient and modern character enhancement systems.

This is the most exclusive and in-demand program currently available in the TNL curriculum, and that’s for a precise reason…

The epic mix of movement training, tribal initiations, spiritual mastery drills, Tantra, grounded masculinity coaching, and psychedelic healing (with a real pro shaman joining the coaching team) is guaranteed to take your self-worth, mental & physical strength, and overall sense of masculinity to legendary levels.

The next round of NWT is happening August 15th-22nd, 2021, at my property in Portugal and there are only 2 spots left to join!

Click here for more details

How To Stop Self-Sabotaging (Permanently)

12th July 2021
James Marshall

How To Stop Self-Sabotaging (Permanently)

There is no such thing as objective reality.

Our self-representation and beliefs coupled with lived past experiences define who we are and how we interact with the world.

As a result, most people constantly make false, negative assumptions about themselves and future outcomes based on how they believe things work.

Assumptions like…

“If I approach her, she’s definitely going to reject me right away”.

“I’m not interesting enough for these people”.

“If I don’t agree with them, they’re not going to like me”.

These internal statements are often repeated enough to the point that they become ingrained in our character and DNA affecting everything we do.

Good news is that by replacing those negative beliefs with positive, functional ones, you’ll be effortlessly successful in any scenario.

After coaching men live week in, week out for the past fifteen years, I realised that those who can successfully “upgrade” their subjective models of reality are the ones who can smoothly transition through 3 distinct character phases:

Suffering, Awareness and Self-Liberation.

To learn how they all work, as well as how to start your unique self-transformation journey, check my latest video.

Link below:

P.S. Want to transition from a life of suffering and insecurity into one of strength, adventure, and total abundance?

Deep character work is only a part of a much larger toolbox that I consistently use with my elite students to upgrade their self-worth and seductive results to world-class levels.

In fact, if there’s one thing that all my years as a dating & lifestyle coach have taught me is that often poor dating skills are NOT the problem.

They sure are extremely important but only if you’ve already developed something else before:

A powerful sense of masculinity.

Get that first, and everything else––including meeting women or building an epic social circle––will be downhill.

Coming up in august, I’ll be personally leading the Natural Warrior Training at my property in Portugal. 8 days of movement, meditation, masculine core work, tribal and psychedelic initiations.

⇒ Click here to check all details

Why successful people don’t stay in one place (the lifestyle fastlane)

8th July 2021
James Marshall

Why successful people don’t stay in one place (the lifestyle fastlane)

A major part of being successful is removing yourself from infertile grounds.

In other words, no amount of hard work, training, or talent is going to make up for a lack of resources and opportunities in a specific place.

If your current city is lacking basic seductive criteria like a high percentage of young people, a vibrant nightlife, and good housing prices, you’ll likely struggle setting up a decent lifestyle no matter how committed or persistent you are.

Living in the right location, at the right time, is the best dating & social circle hack I’ve ever come across in my entire life.

Your average London salary, for example, could get you baller apartments and a vastly higher standard of living in the center of Budapest or Prague. Plus the overall quality of women dwarfs what you’d find in many western cities.

The act of relocating to a new country can put you years (or even decades) ahead of your peers in terms of seductive results.

That’s why nearly all the most successful people I know have mastered the art of going nomad.

If you want to know how it works and how you can apply it to your life to potentially skyrocket your dating & lifestyle results, check my latest video.

Link below:

P.S. Looking to become the kind of man who can captivate women and inspire fellow males with his mere presence and masculine aura?

My Natural Warrior Training program will teach you how to do so, while also giving you the tools to develop your physical, spiritual, and mindset dimensions to their absolute peak.

NWT is an 8-day long workshop I host every year at my private property in Portugal with my team of world-class masculinity masters. The teachings and principles we cover during the program will develop and reshape/strengthen your character like nothing else you tried before.

This is about becoming the most powerful, socially savvy, sensually aware, and interesting version of yourself you could ever be.

To find out more about this unique program, click HERE

How to be a Man (a lifetime in the making)

7th July 2021
James Marshall

How to be a Man (a lifetime in the making)

You can’t fake being a Man.

You can sleep with dozens of women, forge the most impressive physique through grueling training, and achieve great financial success…

But still feel insecure and experience major agitation around others, and especially girls.

That’s because the pursuit and collecting of masculine trophies is just a form of egoistic anesthesia.

When you get one, you’re temporarily relieved from your inner pain and poor self-esteem––until you’re back…

After mentoring tens of thousands of guys over the past fifteen years as a world-famous dating coach, I realized that most men struggle to experience true masculine success because they simply have no clue what masculinity is about.

Can you blame them?

Historically, most tribes reserved special attention to initiating young boys into strong, mature males. With support, multiple family and tribal males nurturing and testing them.

One’s identity, confidence, and sense of manhood were quickly developed as a result of facing daily challenges and threats and embarking on adventurous quests.

But in our hyper-safe, soft and tribeless society, much of that has been lost, and so has the collective sense of manhood.

Things are about to change…

In my latest video, I detail perhaps the most important piece of my legacy: the masculinity manifesto – through my Natural Warrior Training.

This is an extensive video guide detailing all the most effective, proven steps, tools, and strategies you should implement in your life right now to break societal barriers and reach your peak as a seductive Man.

Click on the link below to watch it:

P.S. Want to take things even further?

Our Natural Warrior Training program is the world’s first and most-encompassing 8-day workshop that offers you a modern initiation into manhood while developing your core archetypal masculine qualities.

Through intense study and practice with several world-class masters, you’ll deeply explore both your physical, spiritual and mental dimensions while building strength, grace, and suppleness in each one.

This will ignite your dormant sense of masculinity like nothing before, producing a rapid surge in your self-esteem, sense of purpose, and seductive opportunities as a result.

You’ll join a brotherhood of sincere and supportive seekers, that have your back.

To learn more about NWT, click HERE

4 girls in 30 minutes (minimalist dating method)

4th July 2021
James Marshall

4 girls in 30 minutes (minimalist dating method)

There is nothing like daygame.

Of all the colorful and various ways a guy can meet women and get regular dates, nothing beats daytime cold-approaching when it comes to fast results and personal growth.

Compare it to crowded dating apps, and you have a way to instantly meet attractive girls without having them swipe first on you.

And in contrast to VIP nightclubs or bars, the hottest women are not hidden behind velvet ropes and hordes of high-value dudes, but right in front of you ready to be approached.

It’s simple, it’s fun, and it’s extremely effective.

Yet, I often see guys complaining that they don’t have time for it…

As if you should dedicate hours upon hours every day to approaching girls.

Truth is that daygame is a lot less about having allocated 4-hour sessions of meeting women––which are very useful in a coaching setting but unsustainable in the long run––and more about making the best out of every good opportunity that comes your way.

Like exchanging eye contact with a cute girl on your way to the office, or spotting a hot brunette during your lunch break.

If you want a living proof of this minimalistic, time-efficient, approach to meeting women, check my latest value-packed infield video.

In it, you’ll see me approaching, getting numbers, and arranging dates with 4 different women, within a little more than 30 minutes spent in the streets.

Click on the link below to watch it:

P.S. Want to take your daygame skillset to the next level?

In two weeks, I’ll be hosting a 7-day residential program in Kiev, Ukraine, where I’ll be coaching a select group of men on how to become incredible with girls and build the seductive lifestyle they’ve always dreamed of.

Dates are July 11th-July 18th, 2021, and you get over 60 hours of personalised training including both theory lectures, practice with hot female models, and dozens of hours of infield daygame coaching with me and the entire TNL team.

If this is something you might be interested in joining, click here to speak with my team.

How to get instant confidence ( nervous system hacking)

1st July 2021
James Marshall

How to get instant confidence ( nervous system hacking)

Your sense of confidence is connected to your relationships with people.

If you struggle to interact and not having your needs met socially, you will feel weak and insecure.

And once your ego registers this vulnerable state, it will actively work to protect you from experiencing it ever again.

As a result, lots of men have serious blind spots in the way they operate around others and ultimately in their dating life as well.

This is the reason why toughening up or accumulating trophies (e.g., women, finances, cars) will never really solve deeper self-esteem issues or help you attract more high-quality partners…

Feeling confident is a process of accepting, not replacing.

The first step to getting rid of the aforementioned egoistic fight-or-flight type of response is to get comfortable with being put in a vulnerable state.

And luckily for you, there are tons of ways to do so.

One of the most effective and rapid ones is what I call “physically hacking your nervous system”.

If you want to learn how that works, as well as learning other methods to instantly ignite your self-confidence, check my latest video.

Link below:

P.S. Want to embrace your vulnerability, get out there and build an epic seductive lifestyle?

Our very successful 4 and 7-day training programs are designed to help you do so while giving you a lifetime worth of tools and principles to take your social interactions and self-worth to the next level.

Our most upcoming program is a week-long intensive in Kyiv, Ukraine, running from July 11th-July 18th, 2021, personally hosted by me and the entire TNL team.

Currently, there are only 2 spots left to join, so if you’re serious about instantly improving your seductive reality, click here to learn more.

The best lifestyle for men? (why it’s a trap)

10th June 2021
James Marshall

Why I started therapy (the shocking truth)

Nothing hurts more than reminiscing about past mistakes.

Especially those that you could now easily prevent from happening. Or traumatic events you had no control over.

Learning from and taking time to analyze a hard failure or trauma can be beneficial to avoid future ones.

But don’t start to excessively condemn your past actions and character like most “tough guys” do.

If you identify everything that belongs to your formative years as weak or stupid, you’ll not get any stronger as a man but just calcify and go to war against yourself in the present.

You did the best you could, with what you had at the time.

This is a liberating mindset that I encourage you to embrace both at a logical and an unconscious level.

Accepting your past f*ckups, however, won’t be easy.

Every fiber of your being will urge you to punish yourself and overcompensate in the now to avoid coming face-to-face with your demons.

But that’s exactly what you need to do, if you want to get rid of them.

There are many methods and schools that deal with this, and after trying most of them––from psychedelic ceremonies to guided hypnosis––throughout most of my adult life, I can tell you that…

Therapy is an incredible addition to your journey to self love and acceptance.

(Yes! Even the best ladies’ men and most skilled social masters in the world need therapy.)

If you want to learn more about my personal experience with therapy and compare it with yours to see whether it’s something that can benefit you, watch my latest video.

Link below:

P.S. Want to permanently transition from a past of scarcity, uncertainty and chaos to present social and seductive abundance?

My Natural Warrior Training program is the world’s first and only 8-day accelerated initiation into manhood that teaches you how to holistically develop your masculinity and character so that you can become the most powerful, attractive, and socially supple version of yourself possible.

NWT leaves no stone unturned in your masculine evolution, covering all aspects of your character, from coordination, strength, flexibility & movement tools of expression, all the way to inner exploration, self-healing methods, sensuality, Tantra basics, tribal training, charisma development, and psychedelic ceremonies.

This is for every guy that currently feels, or perhaps has always felt, a lack of a proper education for it really means to be a Man.

The next round of the Natural Warrior Training runs from August 15th-August 22nd, 2021, at my private property in Portugal, and there are only 2 spots left to join.

If this is something you need in your life right now, click HERE to book a call with my team.

Using seduction principles to improve your career & finances

6th June 2021
James Marshall

Using seduction principles to improve your career & finances

Choosing the right career is a major struggle in most men’s lives.

Many guys dream of working for world-class companies or starting businesses to fuel a life of adventure and epic financial gain.

But the reality is often much less exciting than that…

Unable to stand out amidst fierce competition in hyper-saturated industries, guys settle for average routines and outcomes.

Living vicariously through their favorite TV-shows characters and social media creators.

Good seduction skills can however radically improve your chances to bridge the gap between your dreams and day-to-day life.

That’s because if you’re able to understand people’s unique needs and supply something very valuable to them, you’ll gain an unfair advantage over anyone competing for their attention.

This can be used both for getting famous bosses and companies to pick you for a job, as well as penetrating the inner circle of a mentor you want to learn from.

If you want to learn more on how to apply dating skills to career and business situations, check my latest video. In it, I detail a very simple framework on how to provide incredible value to elite people:

P.S. If you want to get mentored by me, James, and Alex on how to build a lifestyle that brings you tons of social and seductive opportunities, you can now join us in our upcoming 7-day workshop running from July 11th-July 18th, 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine.

Our live program combines over 80+ hours of individualized coaching per student, covering everything from the basics of approaching women, setting dates and inviting them back to your place, to developing strong charisma and influence skills, to healing emotional traumas and inner issues that are currently preventing you from enjoying your dream life.

There are only 2 spots left to join, so if this is something you’re interested in, I suggest you book a free call with me ASAP to get started.

Click HERE to speak with me.

Why men lose their desire (libido killers revealed)

4th June 2021
James Marshall

Why men lose their desire (libido killers revealed)

There’s an assumption that men should be ready to get it on with girls 24/7.

That the male sex drive is a vigorous fire that never stops burning.

However, most guys’ experience proves quite the opposite…

Masculine libido is a very delicate thing.

It’s not ever-present but fluctuating.

The more you try to control it and fake it when you don’t feel it, the less you experience it.

But why is it that some men have a stronger sensual desire than others?

On one side, physiological reasons such as sleep patterns, diet, stress, or even the weather can affect your hormonal responses and your libido.

On the other, bedroom issues and a lack of motivation to even attempt sleeping with girls can also be extreme forms of self-sabotaging.

Untreated emotional wounds and chronic insecurities will often surface in the least expected ways…

Such as when you’re about to have a good time with a girl you like, and you suddenly feel numb, anxious or dissociated.

If you want to learn how to diagnose and treat most masculine sex drive issues, watch my latest video. In it, I break down the most common inner & outer libido killers I’ve encountered with thousands of students in the past 15 years and how to treat them.

Click the link below to watch it:

P.S. Want to go at the root cause of any social, seductive, and confidence issues you will ever experience?

Masculinity problems are often a symptom of a common problem: a poorly formed and immature sense of self.

The lack of masculine role models and proper initiations into manhood (which have been part of human history for thousands of years) has caused men to become stiff, self-doubting, and emotionally numb.

These inner issues will often manifest in your relationship with others, and especially with women.

After working with thousands of male clients over the past fifteen years, I’ve developed a framework for rapidly installing masculinity upgrades in guys and guiding their healing path to confidence and inner balance.

Through both ancient and cutting edge transformational systems, I’ve brought together my elite crew of world class coaches to run the Natural Warrior Training.

NWT is TNL’s most innovative and intensive workshop, with over 8 days of full-spectrum masculine character training ranging from physical movement, & strength training, tribal initiations, Tantra & sensuality coaching, internal martial arts, psychotherapy, shamanic ceremonies, trauma healing, and more.

The next round of NWT runs from August 15th-August 22nd, 2021, at my property in Portugal. There’s only two spots left to join,

CLICK HERE to learn more about it.

Can you take girls home on day 1? (Here’s how I do it)

26th May 2021
James Marshall

Why being a tough guy won’t work

It’s no secret that most men want to be tough.

Whether it’s business, dating, fitness, or even personal development, the ideal is to be a badass who is reckless and ‘crushing it’ all the time.

Being this “tough” guy often entails pep-talking in front of the mirror and scheduling every minute for maximum productivity, always pushing yourself to the edge to avoid being called a p*ssy.

This relentless pursuit of new conquerings and achievements turns you into a fiercely competitive individual who visualizes and enjoys destroying his opponents.

Most of this occurs as a reaction to unhealed emotional trauma.

We are all broken as we emerge as humans. Some heal and find healthy ways to motivate and discipline themselves while others just ‘tape it up,’ learning to love their pain and making it the rocket fuel of rage.

But is it possible to be a strong man without turning into this kind of twisted tough guy?

Can you face pain with a supple rather than calloused mind?

In my latest video, I talk with Erros Chiodo, one of the coaches from James’s Natural Warrior Workshop, about ex-NAVY SEAL and ultra-athlete David Goggins and his controversial ‘24hr Beast Mode’ approach to motivation and discipline in fitness.

Erros is a Holistic Movement coach who has successfully merged his 10-year experience as a personal trainer, competitive bodybuilder, and strongman with more flexible, chaos-oriented practices such as contemporary dance, gymnastics, and movement culture as a whole. His work now focuses on an integrated approach to strengthening as well as healing the body by addressing the emotional world of his clients.

Together we analyze Can’t Hurt Me, Goggins’ autobiography/self-help book, to reveal whether his advice is useful or potentially harmful to men.

Click the link below to check it out:

P.S.Want to learn how to go beast-mode without destroying yourself, explore your senses of embodiment and sensuality and master flexible training methods to improve your physical strength & appearance?

Our 8-day Natural Warrior Training program is designed to holistically improve all the core aspects––physical, mental & spiritual––of attractive manliness while also serving as an intensive healing and conditioning journey for your inner self.

You’ll be taken through a modern initiation into manhood by our world-class team of experts in powerful schools of masculine potential, such as movement, traditional shamanic healing, psychotherapy, NLP, dance, fighting, sensuality, and Tantra. These will unlock new peak levels of confidence, seductive charm, and social success in your life for years to come.

The next round of NWT runs from August 15th-August 22nd, 2021, at James’ property in Portugal, and there are only 2 spots left to join…

If this is something you’re interested in, and want to learn how it can specifically help you overcome your current romantic & social obstacles, just book a free coaching call with me, and I’ll show you the way.

Click HERE to get started.

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