I used to be extremely uncomfortable around women.
Even the less attractive ones…
In fact, up until my late teens, I hadn’t even touched a girl intimately, literally.
To be honest, I wasn’t really advantaged in the dating department.
Growing up in a strict, all-male boarding school. Stuck in a small town in rural Austria.
Many of my old friends now reach out in pure disbelief as I upload videos of approaching stunners in the street and partying on boats with exotic hotties.
“You?! a seduction coach?! of all people”
But it’s not only possible. It’s also easily replicable for you.
In my last video, I break down my entire journey of becoming a natural in three core lessons.
This is the entire unfiltered story of what it takes to build abundance in this day and age.
From getting blind drunk at college after-parties in order to talk to girls.
To attend sketchy seminars ran by manipulative pick-up companies.
Then landing an internship at The Natural Lifestyles at age 22.
My first attempts at street approach.
My countless rejections and moments of crippling anxiety.
Crashing on friends’ couches for years to follow James and the team on crazy adventures around the world as a broke student.
To finally become the guy CEOs, famous millionaires, and hundreds of brave men hired to fix their dating lives.
I sum it all up in three steps you also can take to unlock your dream seductive results TODAY. Click on the link below to watch the full video:
P.S.Motivated to make stuff happen in your social and dating lives but lacking the necessary guidance and support?
I’ve just launched a 100% free Discord community where I, my top students, and several ambitious guys like you all over the world interact daily to build masterpiece lifestyles.
If wanting to join, click on the link HERE and apply asap! Very limited spots, for now, to keep the group tight and action-oriented.
Want to take it to the next level and work with me, James, and the crew in person to get the highest seductive results possible in the shortest amount of time?
Combining a heavily practical curriculum, where you get to put every concept of our highly successful training method into action by spending several hours every day approaching hot women in real life, with constant individualized feedback based on your unique goals and expectations, our programs are guaranteed to help you unlock years’ worth of progress in as little as four days.
To find out more about the best workshop for you, speak with our student success team by clicking on the link below:
Success at any craft requires consistent, diligent practice.
We are all very aware of the importance of hard work by now.
So why aren’t most guys getting the results they’re after in dating, career, or life simply by just…pushing harder?
It can be convenient to blame it all on laziness, lack of discipline, or bad luck.
But the reality IS that the vast majority of men out there get it completely wrong when it comes to progressing at anything past the beginner stage.
I’ve just uploaded a new video covering the true path to skill development & mastery I’ve learned through years of coaching students and seeing them evolve daily.
Reality is that putting in the hours is a very effective strategy and possibly the fastest way to experience growth––when you’re a novice.
Eventually, as you dive deeper into any skill, you’ll start getting less and less ROI out of your time spent practicing the same way over and over.
This is what Seth Godin calls ‘the dip’: the phase of your journey where nothing seems to work anymore, and you’re the most likely to quit.
And many people do give up.
But you don’t have to be one of them! In my latest video, I reveal the smart and proven way to actually keep improving and skyrocket your results discovered in a decade of personal and teaching experience.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to work with me, James, and the team to get past your current blockages and effortlessly keep experiencing results with women for the rest of your life?
Our proven, no b.s. natural seduction method is designed to help you unleash confidence & masculinity and strategically learn to meet and spark attraction with women anywhere without putting on any false facade.
With us, you’ll master life-changing men’s skills like:
-How to properly approach and nail your first impression.
-How to make her intrigued and turned on by you through conversations & flirting.
-Getting her number or social media and smoothly get her on a date within 24 hours.
-The easy way to take her home (or have her invite you to her place) without resistance.
Currently, you can get coaching from us in person by joining our 4-day Intensive infield program in Barcelona, Spain running from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd, 2022. To learn more about it and speak with the enrollment team to see if it’s right for you, click HERE.
Alternatively, you can train with me 1-on-1 remotely by applying for my 4-week Online Mentoring. Only a few spots available per month, so, if interested, apply for it asap HERE.
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How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
How to approach two or more women (group seduction 101)
Very commonly, gorgeous women are seen in pairs or groups.
If you’re unable to approach a duo, you’ll miss out on huge numbers of good seduction opportunities
Beautiful women are people magnets, always surrounded by girlfriends and men competing for their attention.
So if you want to have a chance to get them on dates, you have to know how to deal with their group.
This puts a lot of pressure on guys who think they need to pull off some major social stunt, win the crowd over, and spin multiple plates, trying to keep all the friends entertained.
Or even worse, they solely focus on their “target” and ignore her friend even when she’s standing two feet away, meaning you come across as rude and socially uncalibrated.
The good news is, succeeding at group dynamics is a lot easier than you think.
All you have to do, whether it’s just one girlfriend or a mixed ensemble of five or more people, is show that you’re a cool and socially aware guy.
Divide your social attention 70/30 between your girl and her friend, while directing 100/0 seductive intent at the pair.
Once you do, you’ll be surprised to discover that her friends will often assist you rather than cockblock.
Watch my latest video to learn how to properly deal with groups and approach two or more women.
Link below:
P.S. Want to work with me and my own group of elite coaches to ignite your romantic and social life this year?
Then join us this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 2nd in Barcelona, Spain, for our four-day intensive coaching program.
Get access to the best education available on the planet to men on how to successfully meet tons of hot women through Natural, direct style approaching and get them on dates consistently.
From what to say to start the conversation, building tension and compliance through smart flirting, getting her number, and setting the date via texting, to physically escalating and taking her home without resistance…
You will not only learn what truly works with girls but also make every concept second nature by spending dozens of hours infield with us meeting beautiful women and getting them on dates in real life.
This is your opportunity to set the foundation for years (and potentially decades) of true abundance and sexual success.
This is our last European workshop for the year, with spots selling fast, so jump on an obligation-free call with us this week:
Ever felt like your age is catching up with your dating life?
It’s one thing to be a testosterone-raging, twenty-something college student with endless free time to socialize, get wasted at parties, work out, and plan adventures.
But as soon as you hit your thirties, for most men things start to worsen.
Demanding jobs, poor nutrition, chronic lack of sleep, and a very sedentary lifestyle render males weak, nervous, and overall less powerful in the bedroom, resulting often in less confidence and relationship problems.
That’s why it’s paramount for a modern man to have a basic self-maintenance routine.
I’m not talking about adding even more stress by destroying yourself in the gym for hours every day, micro-scheduling every nutrient you absorb, or turning into a full-on self-development junkie who meditates for hours at a time.
What I’m referring to is to start incorporating a series of small daily habits that will, in the long-term, slow down aging and allow you to truly enjoy your peak masculine years as you deserve.
To learn what they are, go and watch my latest video.
In it, I and legendary seduction & masculinity master Zan Perrion break down the most vital tips to stay nimble in body and spirit and keep rocking in life and the bedroom for the rest of your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want work together this summer to finally build a rockstar dating & sexual life, no matter your current age or romantic challenges?
Over eight hours of customized training per day covering all the fundamentals and advanced strategies that will save you years of rejection and set you on a path of thriving with women for the rest of your life.
From how to approach, effortlessly build engaging conversations, getting her contacts and properly following up via text or social media, to finally seeing her again on a date and taking her home..
We’ll leave no stone unturned in your masculine education, giving you access to an evolving database of knowledge and tools to age-proof your confidence, mindset, and body and make success truly inevitable.
Only a few spots left.
If interested in joining, click on the link below and book a call with the enrollment team:
How I got good with women fast (the no b.s. truth)
Looking back at my early seduction days, I realize my stubbornness was my biggest asset…
One of the reasons, if not the main reason, why I started getting great results with women within months of starting is that I never looked only for easy, ‘safe’ opportunities.
Instead of wasting time waiting for ideal scenarios, like a cute tourist sitting alone on a bench for hours, or a college girl looking bored in a coffee shop, I just went for it, no matter how unprepared I felt.
And I mostly failed spectacularly, in the beginning…
But with time, that helped me fast-track my dating progress massively as I didn’t get stuck in the classic beginner comfort trap of only approaching in one type of situation.
One girl, two girls, a mixed group with guys, daygame, bars, nightclubs, at the supermarket…
…It made no difference to me as it was all part of my larger journey to master this art.
Recently I went through some very old infield footage, from my early days in the game, to chart my progress and show how even when imperfect, big balls trump technical skill.
This is part 2 of my self-roast series (watch part 1 HERE) where I analyze some old approaches of two girls at once, revealing my biggest mistakes as a newbie and what I would do differently today.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to work with me this year to become adept at meeting hot women anywhere, having intriguing conversations and flirting, and confidently getting them to dates?
If you’re serious about transforming your seductive lifestyle in 2022, be quick…
There are only three spots left to join our last and most epic workshop of the year!
Running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, in Barcelona, Spain, our 7-day Residential is a proven system that will take you from beginner to natural, while saving you years of struggle (and providing enough material for you to thrive with women for decades!).
From how to confidently approach girls anywhere and create instant attraction, to building connection and truly getting to know her through conversations, to reversing the power dynamic and making her chase and invest to see you again, to texting and taking her back to your place within hours into the date––it’s all covered!
You also get to practice every concept until it becomes second nature by spending over 80 hours training, meeting hot women infield (and likely getting your first dates within days) as I and the coaches provide you constant feedback in real-time.
To learn more and save your spot before we sell out, click on the link below to speak with our student success team:
Do you often get stuck in boring conversations with women that lead nowhere?
Or worse, where she’s actually almost silent, looks confused, and you have to do all the talking?
Sorry to break it to you but if that’s something you constantly experience in your approaches, chances are YOU are the one causing the problem.
See, it’s totally normal that some girls are shy and need time to open up and engage back…
But that should happen within the first five minutes of talking.
Once she realizes you’re a chill, charming guy and feels comfortable in your presence, commonly, woman will naturally invest and contribute to keeping the conversation going.
And that’s when most guys out there predictably mess up.
Overly excited that a hot girl is talking to them and impatient to score, they start doing too much instead of focusing on the one thing that is proven to yield the best results:
Give her space, slow down, ask good questions and shut up and let her talk.
Most inexperienced guys, pepper her with irrelevant questions, cut her off, stumble over their words and as a consequence, she quickly loses interest and turns into the speechless, stone-faced female creature every seducer knows.
If you’re looking to prevent that from happening again and start having better, sexier, and more intriguing conversations with women that actually lead to dates, make sure to watch my latest video below.
In it, I break down the four most common conversation mistakes guys make that turn women off.
P.S. Want to work with me in person to get past most beginner mistakes within hours (and not years) and rapidly start getting more dates and adventures with beautiful women?
Then join me and the full TNL team including Alex, Shae, Virag, and Gareth Jones this summer from Aug 29th-Sep 4th, in Barcelona, Spain, for our last andmost popular Residential Workshop of the year.
Seven days of intensive coaching, theory masterclasses to access the latest insights and discoveries on what actually works with women, inner game sessions to unleash authentic confidence & charisma, roleplay workshops to practice every concept in a safe space with our team of hot female assistants and, most importantly, dozens of hours of approaching gorgeous women in the streets, cafès, parks, and beaches of the Catalan capital while getting constant 1-on-1 feedback from the coaches.
Only four spots left as the workshop is already 50% sold out.
To learn more about this training opportunity and see if it’s right for your goals, click on the link below and get on a free introduction call with our student success team:
Why women sleep with you (it’s not about attraction)
Alex here.
Today want to briefly cover one of the most fundamental principles of effective seduction that most men ignore all the time:
Women go home with guys they trust and feel comfortable with, not guys they’re just attracted to.
At the end of the day, this is largely a comfort game.
It’s about meeting a stranger, making her feel safe around you, and then inviting her to follow you on adventures into your world.
Believe me, if you were to focus on operating within this key reality of dating and drop all the ‘sparking attraction’ stuff for a moment, your results would still be way better than 99% of men out there.
By the way, this has nothing to do with acting like a massive nice guy, striving for comfort so much that you end up instantly friend-zoned.
What I’m talking about is knowing to connect emotionally and romantically with any woman.
So that she feels right away that she can trust this charming stranger who just approached her and is deeply intrigued to learn more about him.
If you want to learn more about this topic, go and watch my latest video.
In it, you will also see one of my workshop students taking the idea of emotional impact & connection to a whole new level by making a girl feel so understood that she literally starts weeping in front of him––of course, he also took her contacts and set a date right after 😉
Link below:
P.S. Want to work with me directly to take your results with women and entire lifestyle to a whole new level of fun and epic abundance?
This summer, I’m hosting a number of premium, advanced, and extremely-limited capacity 1-on-1 programs all over Europe and in New York.
These are the most intensive and fastest way to take your romantic and social results from where they are now to beyond your wildest dreams within less than one week of working together.
The entire coaching curriculum is built around YOUR needs. From how to approach elite women, connecting with them through conversation, texting & social media seduction, how to take her home on the first date, as well as how to make more female friends and build a high-level social circle––everything is catered around your unique goals and challenges.
Dates are the following and there are only a few spots available to guarantee the highest quality of training:
From July 11th-17th in Warsaw, Poland.
From Aug 2nd-10th in NYC, USA.
From Aug 11th-21st in Barcelona, Spain.
From Sep 5th-10th in Barcelona, Spain.
To learn more about my private immersions and see if you qualify for them, click on the link below to book a free, no-obligation introductory call with me or our student success manager below:
Alternatively, if looking for more budget-friendly options, you can join our group workshops with other 5-10 students and the entire TNL crew coaching you.
Currently, we still have four spots open for our 7-day Residential running from Aug 29th-Sep 4th in Barcelona, and our week-long NYC program from Sep 26th-Oct 2nd.
The best summer to meet hot women (+ June 2022 TNL Recap)
A long, epic summer lies ahead.
Although the world is lurching through turmoil, we’re now experiencing the first open summer in years.
Hot girls are looking to meet new exciting lovers that will sweep them off their feet, help them disconnect from routine, and take them on sexy adventures.
If you want to become the kind of man who can confidently approach women anywhere, seduce them, and smoothly take them home within the first couple of dates, listen up..
TNL is back on the road and our 2022 summer workshops are on and getting close to sold out!
If you always wanted to get coached by me, Shae, Alex, Virag, and Gareth check out the following dates:
Aug 23rd-Aug 26th, 2022, 4-day Barcelona Intensive––only 1 spot left!
Aug 29th-Sep 4th, 2022, our premium, week-long Residential program in Barcelona, Spain––3 spots left.
Sep 26th-Oct 2nd, 2022 final 7-day program in New York City––4 spots available.
These are your best opportunities to fast-track your progress with women exponentially, literally saving years of trial and error, to get your love life handled this year.
We won’t only teach you the most effective, proven through years of field-testing, principles to become great with the ladies. We will also guide you to intensively practice every single concept in real life by meeting and approaching dozens of beautiful women while getting personalized real-time feedback and corrections.
With over 80 hours of taking action infield and receiving constant feedback from the coaches, you’ll know by instinct what’s the best way to approach a girl you like in any situation, get her into a conversation, build connection & sexual tension, and successfully see her again on a date.
If looking to learn more and make things happen before spots are over, click on the link below to speak with our enrollment team:
In case you missed our latest content, here’s a recap of last month’s videos: …
Our inner game wizard, Shae Matthews, released a mind-bending rant on how to progressively get over any type of social anxiety and insecurity and start taking effortless action in dating and life. Check it out HERE
Alex Leòn has shared his raw uncensored insights, gained through years of infiltrating elite social circles and meeting top-level women like models & celebrities, on how money truly affects your dating results. Check it out and get ready to be triggeredHERE
We also have released some awesome coaching transformation videos showing our brave students getting smoother and more successful at seducing girls in the street within hours of starting our programs. Check out the full clip HERE
Last but not least, I released my very first self-roast video. Going back through my infield archives and ripping apart my younger self, like I would a student. As it turns out, even the best used to suck at this, but persistence pays off 😉
That’s all for today.
Wishing you a naughty adventure-filled summer,
James
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Why women ignore you in the street (& how to fix it)
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Why women ignore you in the street (& how to fix it)
A true master of any art understands that foundations and core basics are the ultimate bedrock of future success.
Trying to jump ahead and learn the flashy moves first, whether it’s martial arts, music or seduction without understanding footwork, breathing, scales, or how to approach a woman correctly, will lead to frustration and mediocre results at best.
When it comes to dating, nothing else matters until you can competently approach with the right intent and body language to get her to stop and willingly talk to you.
Because if she won’t stop to talk, or is weirded out by you before you even open your mouth, you’re going to get nowhere.
The good news is, it is actually very easy to learn, once you know the common mistakes and how to calibrate to each woman you meet.
In my latest video, I give a detailed masterclass on one of my signature moves, “The Jedi Stop”. This is a simple, smooth and field proven way to stop women walking on the street in a way that grabs their attention, projects confidence and charm without being pushy, or rude.
Click on the link below to check it out:
By the way, this value packed clip comes from my 3-week foundation’s online course, The Dating Accelerator.
With over 20 hours of detailed instructional videos on all aspects of approaching, openers and frameworks for getting into engaging and flirty conversations, how to close with charm and decisiveness. Plus modules on creating intimate and fun dates that lead to the bedroom, infield inner game to get over approach anxiety, weekly lectures, missions & accountability systems and 10+ hours of bonuses.
Right now, I’m hosting a flash sale, where you can get lifetime access to DA for 50% off the regular price, for only 97 euros.
Offer is on for 72 hours only, so if you want the most comprehensive natural game foundations course out there, for a crazy discounted price, click on the link below and use coupon code “DA2022” when checking out:
