16th April 2022
James Marshall

Will you waste 2022 too? – 24 hours left

When you look back at the past year, what do you see?

2021 was far from the Renaissance period most expected…

Instead of rapid regrowth, endless opportunities, and going back to normal, we experienced a strong global recession and still lived through the shockwaves of the earlier pandemic, fearing new restrictions.

If you too feel like you’ve been ‘robbed’ of a few years of your life because of lockdowns & greater forces of chaos, then what is your next move?

As you can see, the situation is far from over yet…

In Trouble Ugh GIF by The Animal Crackers Movie

By the time one problem starts to disappear, a new one materializes on the horizon.

And if you plan to just wait until the government sorts this new geopolitical crisis out, you’ll probably again waste one, or more years in the process.

That’s the exact reason why I’ve launched my Lifestyle Design Academy, my premium 8-month live mentoring program that teaches you how to thrive and maximize your dating, social & financial success even during these challenging times.

Click HERE to learn more about it.

Over the past few days, hundreds of men from dozens of countries globally have already joined the program and started to bond with each other, sharing their goals and planning epic projects in the LDA brotherhood group.

If you’re interested in learning precisely how the Academy works and how it can help you max your social, sexual, and career results in 2022, check my latest video.

In it, I run a detailed walkthrough of every single part of the Academy, revealing how the coaching, networking, accountability systems & practical modules function and develop week by week.

Click on the link below to check it out:

P.S. Less than 24 hours left to join the Lifestyle Design Academy. Join me today and let’s make this year pivotal to our future!

I’ve opened the enrollments for this program one week ago and we’re very close to reaching the maximum student capability for this round of the L.D.A.

The ambitious & committed guys who will manage to book their spots are in for a very epic ride…

That’s because taking part in the Academy is the closest thing you get to being mentored 1-on-1 by me in person, for a full eight months.

This is not another cookie-cutter, pre-recorded nonsense program that will sit on your hard drive for years.

This is a 100% Live program with live weekly Zoom lectures, 6 months of live masterclasses with world-class guest coaches, and 24/7 networking & accountability on our global LDA group including 600+ members from the previous years.

And if you join, you also get access to an exclusive suite of bonuses including 200+ hours of value-packed webinars, entire conferences, courses, Q&A panels, seduction encyclopedias & more.

If you’re tired of wasting your life and want to make 2022 a year worth remembering, click HERE to start your journey.

See you in the first class 😉

Why most guys suck in the bedroom (women reveal their worst turnoffs)

16th April 2022
James Marshall

Why most guys suck in the bedroom (women reveal their worst turnoffs)

They say Ego is the enemy of growth.

I’d argue it’s pretty damaging to your sex life as well.

After working with tens of thousands of men in the past two decades and gathering feedback from hundreds of women; it became clear that most men are falling well short of the type of pleasure possibilities they could give and receive in the bedroom.

For most guys, it’s all about ‘performing’…

Endurance.

Powerful thrusts.

Staying hard.

Thinking about maths equations to try and last 10 minutes

It sounds more like a mechanical chore than a lustful and mindblowing love-making session that leaves her quivering and ruined.

If you’re robotic, repetitive, and unresponsive to her cues and trigger points, your partners will likely have average experiences, possibly fake orgasms and eventually grow dissatisfied and look for a truly good f*ck elsewhere. Brutal I know, but it’s true.

The amazing part is, most never bother to even try to learn the erotic arts, but with a little humility, study, and experimentation, you can easily become part of the 1% of unforgettable lovers.

If you’re seriously committed to becoming the best lover she’ll ever meet, I strongly urge you to keep these two rules in mind:

First, there is a whole world of extreme pleasure beyond classic penetrative intercourse.

In fact, for a large percentage of women, the climax will only be reached through extensive foreplay and good mental stimulation (aka mindfuc*ing).

Second, every girl likes it differently.

Just because your ex enjoyed a tornado tongue down there, it doesn’t mean other women will. Paradoxically, the same ‘technique’ and intensity of stimulation that will make a girl c*m within a minute might cause intense discomfort and pain to a different one.

Never assume you know what she likes, but always ask her.

To learn more on this topic, watch the latest and final video chapter in my ‘Female Sexuality’ series with Psychology Ph.D. Saida Desilets. Link below:

P.S. In less than 48 hours, I’m going to permanently close the enrollments to my 8-month personal mentorship program, the Lifestyle Design Academy.

So far, hundreds of brave men from very diverse backgrounds, age groups, and locations have joined this year’s LDA and are already getting involved in the community.

With me as your guide, we’ll get straight into completely recreating your life, optimizing it for fun, sexy ladies, a fulfilling career, passions, and loyal brothers on the journey ahead this year.

You also get six months of advanced coaching webinars with elite guest mentors like Saida where they reveal top tier secrets and practical strategies to maximize results in key areas of your lifestyle––most of this stuff is way too controversial, and X rated to be uploaded on YouTube ;)

If you’re ready to leave your Ego at the door and embark on a journey that will absolutely transform your life:

> Click here to join the LDA

How to approach a girl with her friends watching (field-tested method)

14th April 2022
James Marshall

How to approach a girl with her friends watching (field-tested method)

Lots of men are way too technical and linear about seduction strategies.

They always need a precise, step-by-step, action plan for every situation…

How to approach a single girl walking.

How to talk to her when she’s sitting instead.

How to start a conversation if you’re both in a bar.

But there is one situation that most beginner seducers universally dread:

What to do when she’s with other people.

The sudden inclusion of more friends completely puzzles most guys, to the point they often abandon the idea of talking to a girl they like just because she’s not alone.

Nonsense.

Truth is that there are no fundamental rules of differences between seducing girls with or without a friend.

All you need to do is acknowledge the other person, introduce yourself, and then go back to the lady you’re interested in. If you’re generally friendly and charming, the friend will often help you, or at least she’s been disarmed.

Check out my latest infield pickup video (it’s an unreleased classic from the TNL vault)

In it, I demonstrate all of this in front of the camera as I successfully get a hot Czech opera singer’s contact while she’s sitting right next to her girlfriend. Pay careful attention to the look they give each other when I leave, that’s what you want:)

Click on the link below to watch it

P.S. The best guys in the dating game get consistent results with hot girls NOT because they’ve systematically internalized hundreds of techniques and patterns like human computers to predict any variable…

They are amazing with women because they can effortlessly adapt to any situation.

They are not rendered static and powerless by rigid dogmas but are minimalist masters of core principles, they can use dynamically to get the best seductive results wherever they are.

For the past 20 years, we at TNL have taught thousands of men in person and tens of thousands online – a practical, direct method to start meeting the women they want and consistently get them on dates.

If you too want to learn from us and transform your dating life, the best way to do so is by joining one of our upcoming live workshops.

We currently have still 2 spots available for our Barcelona Intensive running from May 4th-May 7th, 2022.

Or you can join us for our first US workshop in 2 years, this summer for our epic 7-day New York Program running July 25th-July 31st, 2022––only one spot remaining for this one!

> Click here to learn more about our 2022 coaching schedule

The #1 Attraction Mistake In Dating

12th April 2022
James Marshall

The #1 Attraction Mistake In Dating

Attraction is way too over-hyped these days.

Most men believe that to spark sexual interest in girls they need to consistently display their top game and involve them in the most intriguing conversations.

The goal is to strategically force attraction on her, often also via manipulative techniques like forging fake high-value stories or flexing your financial power so that she is down to sleep with you.

These toxic mindsets stem from a default assumption of scarcity:

‘ Women are not interested in me, so I must do something to get them to like me ‘ .

That’s the opposite of how the most elite natural seducers think and operate.

As I often remind my students in workshops: if a girl agrees to meet you on a date, she’s already attracted to you.

You don’t have to prove yourself or impress her to move things forward.

Just be relaxed, focus on genuinely getting to know her, make incremental physical touch and often proximity plus time spent together will do the rest for you.

This is also the topic of my latest video where I interview my long-time friend and Seduction legend, Gareth Jones.

Gareth is a true OG in the industry, having spent two decades as a men’s coach and personally befriended many dating pioneers including Neil Strauss and Mystery before moving onto “Natural Game”.

Watch our video to learn how his perception of female attraction changed over the years as he transitioned from the heavily indirect, routine-based pickup philosophy of the late 90s to joining TNL and witnessing first-hand the epic advantages of direct-style Natural Seduction.

Click on the link below to watch it:

P.S. Want to be personally coached by me, Gareth, and my elite mentors for 8 months to unlock peak dating, social, and business results?

In my Lifestyle Design Academy, now open for enrollment until April 17th, you get the chance to have some of the world’s most experienced and in-demand specialists in many areas of lifestyle excellence by your side as you build your own Masterpiece lifestyle.

Through monthly calls, live Q&A panels, and dozens of missions and drills, these mentors will save you years of beginner mistakes by helping you eradicate poor habits from the start and effortlessly overcome sticking points as you advance in your journey.

It goes without saying that by holistically improving every aspect of your lifestyle, you’ll collaterally become a much more attractive ‘high-value’ man who has consistent opportunities to date and have sexy adventures with hot girls without feeling the need to constantly prove himself.

To learn more about the Academy and see how it can practically help you to build the life of your dreams, click on the link below:

> Join the LDA

4 proven steps to world-conquering charm

11th April 2022
James Marshall

4 proven steps to world-conquering charm

Likability. Charm.

If you do not possess these two qualities, you end up invisible.

Over the past month, you’ve heard me talking about the importance of having an elite social crew around you that proactively helps you to enjoy more sexual and financial success.

And in my latest emails and videos, I’ve shared many practical strategies and insights to meet such high-value people, invite them into your group, and build strong collaborative relationships with them,

But the truth is that no matter how religiously you apply my advice, no one will ever stick around if you’re not a likable and intriguing person in the first place.

It’s near impossible to build an epic, extraordinary lifestyle if you’re a socially-awkward, boring person.

In fact, most successful men and hot women out there spend time only with people who are stimulating and from whom they can always learn or experience something new.

I’ll be honest with you…

Becoming more charming is not something you can do overnight by learning some formula.

It’s also not something you can fake by recording yourself doing cool adventurous stuff like skydiving or traveling to exotic locations and posting it on Instagram.

Real fascination is not really created by extraordinary experiences––it’s the way you approach and interact with reality.

If you’re committed to unlocking powerful charm, check my latest video linked below. In it, I reveal 4 life-changing habits anyone can practice to become irresistible to most people within months.

P.S. Looking to take your personal charm skills to the next level?

Inside my Lifestyle Design Academy, now open for enrollment until April 17th, 2022, we have an entire sub-course dedicated to developing elite charm & charisma skills: The Marshall Charm School.

Charm School is a large database with dozens of resources––sent to Academy students every week––including book recommendations, niche psychology & politics keynotes, poems, articles, scientific reviews, and videos that are guaranteed to help you stimulate your mind and develop a more objective, culturally-rich worldview.

What sets apart the LDA, however, is the incredible vastity of new people, specialists, and thinkers you’ll be exposed to during the eight months of mentoring.

This is no standard online course.

The LDA is a live digital program where you receive ongoing real-time coaching from me, a select group of world-class guests including my mentors, as well as literally hundreds of fellow lifestyle designers on your same path who love to collaborate and support each other.

Here’s how one of our newest members who just joined puts it:

This revolutionary, hybrid methodology of coaching is guaranteed to help you become the most interesting man in the room, in every room you go.

Ready to build an epic life?

> Join the LDA!

How To Date 22 Models In 2022 - The Ultimate Guide

10th April 2022
James Marshall

How To Date 22 Models In 2022 – The Ultimate Guide

If you’ve ever wondered how to consistently date the top 5% of beautiful women…

The models, the fitness influencers, the club dancers, Strippers & OnlyFans stars, the sexy cosplay girls, I have great news for you today.

My Lifestyle Design Academy is finally LIVE!

This is an 8-month mentorship program personally taught by me as I take you through my secret blueprint to design a Masterpiece social & sexual lifestyle from scratch. Click HERE to check it out.

Now, in order to start bringing more of these high-level women into your life, you need to understand something first…

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In most cases, cold approach seduction is not enough.

That’s because these top-tier females are NOT normally found in the streets and bars most guys go to, ready to be approached. They’re part of exclusive high-barrier social scenes designed by strategic groups of men to enjoy them without having to compete for their attention with the rest of the world.

Sure, if you are really stubborn and approach thousands of new women every year, eventually you might be lucky to score a couple of those rare birds.

But with the right tools and blueprint to follow, you can 10X your results by strategically designing a Seductive Lifestyle that does the hard work for you, often passively on autopilot.

After spending the first 17 years of my adult life learning how to do this myself, I now teach it to my private 1-on-1 students as a simple 3-step process to max out their social & dating lives.

The first step is Targeting

Before you start attracting models and high-status women in your life on autopilot, you need to understand where and who these girls normally hang out with. Your bombshell fitness trainer will probably not spend her nights and free time in the same places and with the same crew that a hot tattooed BDSM queen would.

For the former, it would probably be a VIP social circle with other health-conscious people, probably not obsessed with crazy partying and more devoted to private daytime events, exclusive dinners, yoga retreats, and so on. For the latter, a very Elite group of practitioners that meet in underground settings and rarely accept new members.

Once you have targeted the precise social scene you want to access, finally you need to find an entry point or–as we call it in the Lifestyle Design Academy–a “Gatekeeper”.

These figures are normally not so hard to find. They are the connectors, they know everyone, and for this reason, and are social butterflies. With the right system, you can confidently approach them and proceed to…

The second step: Penetrating & Building Bonds

When you find a gatekeeper, it is paramount that you know precisely how to connect with him or her and offer unique value in exchange for being introduced to his social scene.

This is the most delicate moment in the entire Lifestyle Design process and where most men fail and never get to access those top 5% of women.

For example, if you want to seduce stunning club dancers and you approach a well-connected nightclub owner asking him to introduce you to his girls without offering anything in return, he will probably categorize you as another thirsty dude and forever ban you from his network.

And when that happens, your reputation is burned and you might have to wait a long time before coming across another good opportunity.

The key to getting this right the first time is knowing how to read everyone’s emotional blueprint and offer in return something valuable (e.g., help their business, give them advice, introduce them to a new network, etc) they would not be able to find anywhere else.

If you get this right, you’ll be able to enter their social environment right from a top position in its hierarchy, with attractive factors like status and power working for you as a result of being introduced as an honorable guest.

This brings us to…

The third step: Leveraging it all

The moment you get access to a VIP social scene your goal should be to create as much Leverage as you can, as fast as possible.

This means accumulating many new social assets such as great friends, lovers, business allies, and other people that you can make part of a larger social ecosystem that works proactively to help you get more hot women, connections, and income streams on autopilot.

A primary example of this is what I and my private student call “booty calls by referral”.

If you seduce and sleep with a model and she tells her friends that you are a guy who is chill, good in bed, and will treat them with respect, of course, they’ll take this option on recommendation over a random rich guy in a club or tinder hookup. Think of it like YELP reviews for sex:) This may sound crazy but it’s a common practice in female social circles. There are often a couple of reliable stuntc*cks handed around female groups, and, as long as you is discrete and treat everyone well, the ladies are happy to share.

If you found the information inside this email useful, this is just the tip of the educational iceberg of what I will teach you the moment you join my Lifestyle Design Academy.

And if you’re really serious about dating the most exclusive women on the planet and building a cool network of epic friends & allies, join me and your LDA brothers right NOW because…

To reward the TRUE action takers who are willing to put in the work to see real changes (while most people just wait for the world to go back to “normal”), I’ve included THREE value-packed extra bonuses for those who join the Academy within the next 36 hours. That’s on top of 9 other bonuses which include over 200 hours of exclusive content, guaranteed to help you experience wild results & growth for many years to come on your lifestyle design journey.

CLICK HERE to join me in this new, crazy adventure as we turn your life into a Masterpiece of social, sexual, and personal success.

Hope to see you on the first day of class.

Peace,

James

James Marshall
CEO
The Natural Lifestyles
www.thenaturallifestyles.com

How to propel spiritual growth (no drugs, no hippies)

6th April 2022
James Marshall

How to propel spiritual growth (no drugs, no hippies)

Inner exploration can lead to tremendous self-growth…

…Or grandiose delusions.

See, the real purpose of spirituality and meditation systems out there is to assist you in unlocking higher states of consciousness and clarity of focus.

I’m a big advocate of them, but they’re just tools, although powerful ones.

The moment you elevate them to ‘absolute truths’ and become too obsessed and dogmatic about them, they lose their effectiveness and start damaging your life.

Trust me, I’ve been there…

Trying to live a celibate, stoic monastic life in my mid-twenties.

Meditating several hours every single day and restraining from all earthly pleasures.

I’ll let you decide how that went 😉

Paradoxically, this fanatical ‘all in’ approach to spirituality that many advertise is the exact reason why the majority of men never get involved with inner practices in the first place.

They don’t want to turn into dazed hippies dancing around campfires or restrict everything as if they live in a monastery.

If you are interested in getting started in spirituality but want to skip all the nonsense, watch my latest video below.

In it, I and our executive Inner game Coach, Shae Matthews, break down the most effective ways to kickstart your spiritual & character growth without having to subscribe to absurd dogmas.

P.S. Want to extend success to all aspects of your lifestyle including dating, inner game & spirituality, career, and sexuality?

Then be on the lookout for my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy launching this Saturday, April 9th.

LDA is an 8-month live mentoring program taught through weekly live lectures with me on core lifestyle design concepts like social circle penetration, outsourcing your business, organizing and getting invited to elite events, traveling the world for free, dating 9s & 10s, befriending high-value mentors, building personal tribe & networks, and a lot more.

You also get access to several live masterclasses with my own mentors and coaches guiding you to take your learnings and results into the stratosphere, like our student J:

To learn more about how the Academy can help you build a masterpiece life, join my free 60-min ‘Lifestyle Hacking’ live webinar this Thursday, April 7th, at 8 pm (CET). This is a live coaching webinar, so spots are limited to guarantee the optimal teaching experience.

> Save your spot today here

Your Girlfriend’s Darkest Fantasy

4th April 2022
James Marshall

Your Girlfriend’s Darkest Fantasy

There is one thing most women don’t want you to know.

It’s because once you are aware of it, your seductive power and charm over them will tenfold almost immediately.

See, lots of men think that the secret to getting girls into bed is about being a smooth, masculine guy who is direct, confident, and not afraid to go for what he wants.

And that’s spot on.

Being capable of taking action and approaching women is the fundamental prerequisite for true dating success.

But that’s only step 1…

Step 2 is about making the girl want you. To turn her on so much that she starts making moves to get physically and emotionally closer to you as soon as possible.

That’s when most men spectacularly fail.

Deeply out of touch with their sensual side, they try to rationalize their way into the highly irrational female erotic mind, often achieving the opposite effect and killing her libido.

Understanding female sexuality is a complex inner journey that requires you to undo much of what society taught you.

It’s about stopping being judgmental and letting go of outdated, limiting beliefs about morality and power dynamics.

To learn more about this controversial topic, watch my latest video linked below. In it, I share the stage with Saida Desilets, a psychology Ph.D. & TEDx speaker, to dive deep into the paradoxes of the female erotic mind.

P.S. Want to get personally coached by me, Saida, and five other world-class mentors to experience wild seductive results this year?

In my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy launching on April 9th, you get access to eight months of intense live interactive coaching lectures, missions and accountability systems to rapidly 10x results in every key area of lifestyle success like dating, social dynamics, sexuality, business, health, and spirituality.

Every weekly class serves both as a coaching opportunity to learn new concepts and advance in your path to lifestyle mastery, as well as a personalized Q&A session where I help you break through your unique sticking points to guarantee perpetual growth.

To learn more about this first of its kind program and get access to a free invite-only webinar on Lifestyle Hacking on April 7th, click on the link below:

> Free Lifestyle Design Webinar!

3 Steps To Build A Rockstar Lifestyle In 2022 (no b.s.)

2nd April 2022
James Marshall

3 Steps To Build A Rockstar Lifestyle In 2022 (no b.s.)

Nothing saddens me more than witnessing men wasting their potential.

Most guys patiently follow the societal script, waiting for their turn, only to realize as the years go by that they’re still stuck in the same average, unfulfilling routine.

But life is not fair…

And unless you are willing to take action and start to assemble the type of destiny you want, no one else will ever do it for you.

Over the past seventeen years, as I coached thousands of men in person and tens of thousand online, I realized that there are three steps my most successful clients execute to get extraordinary results in both dating, friendships, and business.

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First: they focus on what THEY want.

It might sound obvious to some, but most people still design their lifestyle to please and impress others.

If you’re only idea of an epic life is being a show-off Dan Bilzerian type of character who hangs out with celebrities and Victoria’s Secrets models at yacht parties, you might be in for some disappointments.

For starters, this type of baller lifestyle takes many years of financial and networking strategies to be set into motion, and, to be completely honest, it’s not something many enjoy in the long term.

True lifestyle design is about consciously building a life that YOU can enjoy without having to prove anything to anyone.

It can be as ‘simple’ as making your career location-independent and traveling the world while you earn and meet international friends and as wild as infiltrating and becoming the king of the local BDSM scene.

Here is how one of our students, I, describes this process:

Second: they forge alliances with others on the same path to accelerate growth

This separates those who build a rockstar life in a few months and those who take years or decades to start enjoying elite-level seductive results.

Despite what society and corporate culture advocate, true lifestyle success is not a cutthroat, individual competition––it’s a collaborative process.

And when you find people who are aligned with your goals, you can team up with them to instantly multiply your results, overcome obstacles together, and ultimately make your life more fun and adventurous.

For example, you could refer to each other clients and business prospects or pool your brains and creative energies to start organizing epic events like our student D…

Third: they automate & scale their hustle

If you do the above correctly, as time goes by, you’ll have created around you one or more social crews that operate independently without you having to put consistent effort into them. Your friends and allies now fully trust you and respect you and proactively try to help you improve your lifestyle even when you’re in a different country and don’t spend hours every day with them.

This is the coveted moment when you have rockstar-level success on autopilot, and so you can invest your time into repeating the process with new people to scale your life to Masterpiece levels.

That’s it,Alex!

Hope this helped give you clarity on how to finally craft an epic, abundant lifestyle of your own choice!

I cover this at great lengths in the Lifestyle Design Academy, my upcoming 8-month mentorship program launching on April 9th.

In the LDA, I and my team of elite guest coaches help you week-by-week to design your unique lifestyle blueprint and experience major peaks of social, sexual, friendship, and career success in 2022.

You also get to join––from day 1 in the program––a secret global network of hundreds of fellow lifestyle designers and ambitious men who are keen on collaborating to escape the rat race and experience true freedom and adventure.

To learn more about the program, join my free 60-min live webinar ‘Lifestyle Hacking in 2022’ by clicking on the link below:

> Free Lifestyle Hacking Webinar!

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