“Hey, we’re not gonna have sex tonight…”

Lots of great sex is lost every day due to gross misunderstandings.

Especially when transitioning from social to sexual, moving from the date to a wild night in the bedroom…

If you find yourself in an erotic situation and she strongly says “NO” when you try taking things forward, you should immediately stop and respect her choice.

However, what truly confuses most guys is a different type of scenario

When a woman lets you know far in advance, for example, as you’re entering your apartment together or sometimes even during the date, that she’s not gonna sleep with you.

 

Why does she tell you so early, and what does she mean by it?

In most occasions, women try to set things straight beforehand not because they hate the idea of sex with you but because they want it to happen spontaneously and not feel “expected” and compelled to get into bed every time they see a new guy.

So, how do you handle this unique concern and turn the situation into a win-win erotic climax?

Watch my latest video below to find out the answer:

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How to Take Control of your Feelings & Emotions

Your purpose and masculine destiny have been long hijacked.

Trapped by social conditioning and others’ projections of who you should be and what you should aim for…

This self-prison is so powerful and intricate that every time we try to escape it, we get violently pushed back in…by insecurities, anxieties, and censorship thoughts imposed by our ego.

But there is a way out, which although not easy, will lead you to be finally in control of how far you can get in life.

 

The first step is learning how to master your internal emotional states.

And it all begins with one seemingly minor yet challenging action: relaxing.

Can you lie down and bring calm within yourself without being assaulted by endless thoughts and worries?

The idea is not to stop thinking but to observe your inner states without interpreting them.

You’ll notice that what you call “feelings” are just mere feedback loops brought by the interaction of your beliefs with the outside reality.

When they align, you feel great, but when they collide, you suddenly fall into a negative state.

By stopping to label your emotions, you’ll quit being controlled by them, so you can act and do as you wish despite how you feel.

To learn how to fully claim control of yourself and hack your potential, watch our latest video guide below from the one and only inner game wizard Shae Matthews:

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6 Ways to Build Insane Chemistry on Dates

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6 Ways to Build Insane Chemistry on Dates

Guys are obsessed with finding newer ways to meet hotter women…

Whether on apps, at clubs, through their social groups, or even by learning cold approach––the thirst for more is insatiable.

But they pay little thought to another fundamental part of the seductive process:

How to Have Successful Dates

No matter how many women you talk to or how good you get at striking up conversations with strangers, “just going with the flow” when you see her again is a one-way ticket to the friendzone, or having to go through multiple awkward dates that often lead nowhere.

This doesn’t mean you should overly plan or structure your dates to the point they become scripted, but you must know how to move things forward

Sparking up chemistry and building sexual tension so that getting intimate and taking her home becomes effortless.

In my latest video, I share a 30-minute sneak peek into one of our live workshop classes where I coach multiple students and reveal 6 ways to rock your first dates.

Check it out below:

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Hot women start approaching you (the ultimate experiment)

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Hot women start approaching you (the ultimate experiment)

Picture a world where the roles of seduction are reversed…

Hot women approaching you in the street, playfully flirting and doing their best to get you out on a date.

How would you react?

 

I turned this fantasy alternate reality into real life recently when filming the ultimate pick up challenge

In this first-of-a-kind social experiment, I, a professional dating coach and consummate seducer with decades of experience, challenge Valeria, a 23-year-old beauty, to an hour of daygame.

In the final episode of this funny and eye-opening series, we find out who has the best game – The veteran pick up artist or the first-timer hot model?

Check it out below:

Now the reality is, for better or worse, it’s your job as the man to make most if not all the moves to progress from stranger to lover.

No amount of social media clout, hours in the gym, or cash in your pocket will make up for an inability to boldly approach women you don’t know.

Seduction isn’t an optional hobby, it’s an integral survival skill.

As amazing as it would be to live in a world where women took the initiative, that’s not the reality we live in, so YOU need to be the one to develop the confidence and skills to make it happen.

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I challenged a 23yo model at daygame (Experience Vs Beauty, the epic showdown)

When I often say that women are more emotionally intelligent and skilled at making social connections, many people think I’m exaggerating…

This is one of the reasons why I strongly encourage you to get not only female lovers, but also female friends.

Their feedback on dating dynamics and understanding of social cues is unparalleled.

 

Anyway, I’m not asking you to blindly trust me on this…You gotta see it for yourself.

Which is why I recently uploaded on YouTube the craziest dating experiment

in the history of TNL…

Calling one of my own young and beautiful female friends, 23yo model and force of nature – Valeria, and shooting the ultimate infield daygame challenge in Budapest:

My twenty years of seduction experience and mastery versus a first-timer girl with confidence and social skills who never approached in her life.

One hour to get as many dates as possible––may the best seducer win!

To find out the shockingly hilarious results of the experiment, watch part 1 of it below.

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From Cringe to Crushing It – Getting FASTER Results with Women

How quickly can you expect to improve with women?

“After how many approaches will I get a date?”

 

These are questions that I get asked daily from clients in workshops and guys who comment under TNL videos. 

The answer depends on factors like your previous experience with women, how confident you’re in conversations, or your current lifestyle.

However, there are ways to massively shortcut the process, no matter who you are…

First, you need accountability. 

Whether it’s keeping track of your progress with a wingman or simply writing down your daily “to-dos”, knowing how to stay consistent and avoid slacking in your approaches is key to building momentum and accumulating a solid base of learning experiences.

Second, find someone who is already getting the results you want with women, and spend LOTS of time with them.

This will spare you the painful “trial by error” learning phase and give you plenty of real-life insights into how successful ladies’ men operate (it’s often very different than what you see in movies…).

When you have these winning factors under control, results will come faster than you can handle––sometimes even in a matter of hours and days…

For a prime example of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, you’ll see one of my students going from “never having approached in his life” to a couple of days of training later lining up two dates in a row in less than 20 minutes.

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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)

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How to date your dream woman (by getting rejected a lot!)

Let’s be fair, nobody likes getting rejected.

It sucks as much on day one as it does after a decade of approaching countless women.

But what separates the beginner from the man who is actually great with the ladies is the capacity of not letting a bad interaction discourage him from continuing to find the right girl.

 

You’re not for everyone, and everyone is not for you as my good friend John Keegan says.

Within this duality lies the true essence of a rejection-proof mindset.

Sure, as your social skills improve and you accumulate references, you will succeed more and more at dating, but you will never fully eliminate blowouts.

Because the factors that drive a woman to turn you down are often not in your control…

Maybe you’re just not her type, she’s already emotionally invested in someone and doesn’t want to cheat, or she’s simply having a bad day or not in the headspace to meet new guys.

With these premises in mind, why would you take it so personally when she quickly dismisses you? Accept it, politely walk away, and keep going…

And when you do, you will find that after a disheartening interaction often comes an unexpected encounter with a stunning and sexy “dream” type of girl who is very much into you.

For a prime example of this concept, give a watch to my latest video below…

In it, you will initially see me getting blown out three times in a row, but if you keep watching, you’ll witness how, immediately after that I score a fun flirty conversation with a fitness model who, by the end of it, is very keen to give me her number and see me again.

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The LAZY, No Stress Way To Meet Hot Women This Summer (Without apps, or going to clubs)

Some men think they always need to be in exactly the right “state” to successfully approach women…

Well rested, in a good mood, great levels of energy, the weather should be not too hot nor too chilly.

But the reality is that you don’t always need A-level, incredibly smooth game to get results in dating.

The idea of showing up consistently, no matter how you feel, is far more important than “how” you show up.

You should own whatever mental and energy state you’re in and adapt your seduction style to it, instead of trying to emulate a golden standard that doesn’t feel authentic in the moment.

If you’re feeling low-energy and introverted, carry on with it and allow silence, eye contact, and the expression of your burning intent in the conversation to do the work.

And when you’re feeling pumped and social, let your banter take over, and don’t be afraid to engage in longer interactions, instead of playing the cold mysterious type who doesn’t talk a lot.

Ultimately, this is about being very comfortable in your skin… Because if you can’t accept yourself, how can you expect a woman to do it?

For proof of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, I venture into the streets of Budapest in a very lazy, low-energy mood and still manage to get it on with multiple attractive women and take home some solid results.

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How to pick up a hot bartender (without going to bars…)

How many times have you been around a top-tier woman everyone craved and couldn’t take their eyes off but felt impossible to get?

…the hot bartender, the sensual dancer, the model visiting a nightclub.

A view to kill for, surely, but ultimately just an unattainable fantasy for most guys who cannot overcome the incredibly fierce competition of men willing to pool in all their money and status, buying endless drinks and bottle services just to get her attention.

It’s an uphill battle not worth partaking in unless you can outbid everybody else in resources and effort.

But there is a shortcut to meeting and dating these hard-to-get women: approaching them in a totally different scenario.

Outside of their bubble of clout and where nobody else does: during daytime in the street, at a cafè or library when they feel relaxed, open, and not on a pedestal.

In such situations, if you’re charming, socially aware, and flirty you’ll immediately stand out and get the chance the remaining 99% would kill for but never receive.

For a great example of what I’m talking about watch my latest video below where I approach a stunning and very playful Argentinian bartender in the streets of Barcelona and arrange a date with her within minutes:

 

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Why hot women ignore you (& how to be noticed)

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Why hot women ignore you (& how to be noticed)

Do you ever feel invisible to attractive women?

Barely acknowledging your presence, and even if you try to initiate conversations they act cold and uninterested––a perpetual puzzle that feels impossible to solve.

But the reality is that no girl is truly mean or heartless, she just has better options…

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Because everyone in her life, office, social circle, out in the street, and even at family gatherings is trying to compete for her attention. When she enters a room men immediately change personalities, competing with each other and pounding their chests to appear cooler and impress her.

As a result, she instantly rejects almost everyone because she needs to: it’s not personal, just a defense mechanism.

But there are ways to crack it and get on a hot woman’s radar most guys are just not aware of them…

In my latest video, I reveal to you four proven methods to stand out and go from average and unnoticed to an intriguing dating prospect no woman could ignore.

It’s a long, in-depth guide covering all the fundamental aspects I and dozens of my private clients used to increase their seductive market value.

From tips on how to improve your looks using the right type of fashion to social & mindset hacks to bring more stunners into your life and feel more confident and relaxed around them.

Once you develop these traits, you’ll finally have what it takes to be taken seriously by a really hot girl and allow the seduction to happen.

To get started, watch the full video below:

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