Your seductive potential is directly proportional to how you handle women’s objections.
Plenty of guys give up way too soon, often confusing a ‘not yet’ with a resolute ‘no’.
Others try to pierce through girls’ resistance with arrogance and sleaziness, creeping them out and encountering the inevitable rejection.
Reality is that objections are to be expected with pretty much any girl you date, so knowing how to solve them in a lighthearted and relaxed manner will pretty much make the difference between a life of abundance and one of frustration and scarcity.
The good news is that there’s no complex formula to learn to be successful at this.
All you have to do is execute two basic actions: acknowledging and overcoming.
The first one is about making sure she feels heard and understood in her moment of resistance. Many girls do not comply initially with requests like going to your place for drinks or even giving you their number because they don’t feel safe about it.
Perhaps they don’t know you enough to trust you, or they don’t want to feel like ‘one of those girls’, and so they start resisting your seductive moves. Your duty here is to listen to each girl carefully and determine whether she just needs to be reassured about it or if there’s really nothing you can do (e.g., she really has a boyfriend and doesn’t want to text you).
The second part is the trickiest one: once you address her logical and emotional worries, you must go back to seducing her. Don’t spend more time than necessary diving into her insecurities, or she’ll categorize you as the ‘male friend she does therapy with’ and will lose all attraction.
For a detailed explanation and practical demonstration of these concepts, watch my latest video by clicking on the link below:
P.S. Lacking abundance and quality in your current dating life?
Knowing how to consistently approach and get attractive women on dates in real life without needing others to introduce you at parties or hope for some miraculous Tinder moment is the keystone for feeling free and fulfilled as a man.
Over the past fifteen years, as I coached several hundred students in person and tens of thousands online on how to improve their success and relationships with girls, it became apparent how the most successful guys are masters at two things: approaching and closing.
If you too want to learn the world’s best strategies to approach and take home beautiful women from anywhere, check my free 3-Part Honest Dating Course.
It contains several lectures on the basics of cold-approach seduction, and it’s a great start to really understand what we do at TNL.
Far too many guys underestimate the importance of women’s advice.
Eventually, our goal as heterosexual males wanting to get better at seduction is to get more, hotter, and interesting girls in our lives.
Yet, many of us deliberately refuse to acknowledge or listen to girls’ feedback.
That’s because of a biased and delusional view of the dating process compared to some kind of “great hunt” where girls––the preys––understandably will not reveal men––the hunters––the best ways to get caught.
Good luck improving your seductive results with that mindset…
And that won’t happen if you approach them in a confrontational ‘me vs you’ kind of way.
Women want the same things we want: fun, good emotions, and epic sex.
So there’s no point in competing with them…Collaboration is the answer!
For many years, we at TNL have recognized the immense value and learnings men can tap into by having honest, constructive conversations with girls.
That’s why we collaborate with female coaches on most live workshops and often interview them to get the most accurate insights into female psychology, sexuality, and dating dynamics.
If you want to understand how to properly ask women for dating advice and get honest actionable feedback from them, watch my latest video. In it, you’ll see me interviewing several different ladies on core subjects like sex, what turns them on in guys, and, most importantly, how to properly escalate without resistance.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to get past a life of settling for average girls and getting few dates only out of your groups of friends or when drunk in bars?
My3-Part Honest Dating Course is the fastest and most practical way to get started on the art & science of cold-approaching girls during daytime, and it’s completely free!
Just register for it to get access to three epic lectures that will teach you how to efficiently approach,start conversations and get on tons of sexy dates with stunning girls from literally anywhere without having to know them first.
Many girls are far too immature, narcissistic, and selfish to make good long-term partners––being around them for too long will eventually make your life worse than it currently is.
The ideal type of woman you should be proactively screening for is what call ‘a giver’.
Someone who is willing and capable of sharing and devoting herself to you in a selfless way.
Ultimately, the true “girlfriend material” type of girls are those who can genuinely accept you for who you are without judgment or the need to control you and possess you.
If this sounds like less than five percent of all the women you’ve ever dated, don’t worry…
In our latest video, our Inner Game and relationship wizard, Shae Matthews, dives deep into the complexities and emotional alchemy of successful relationships. Watch it to get access to practical blueprints and tips to stop settling for incompatible and unsupportive women and finally start attracting true keepers in your life.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. An exciting and satisfying sex life is one of the most important keystones of any successful relationship.
Unfortunately, most guys are only capable of classic ‘vanilla’ lovemaking, always using the same three positions and lasting the same amount of time in bed, on average.
Over the long term, this is a classic recipe for disaster as both people in the couple will get bored of having sex and start doing it less and less, leading to mutual frustration.
See, over the past 15 years, I’ve been developing a comprehensive methodology and training to take regular guys and transform them into the best lovers any woman could wish for: the S*x God Masterclass.
Joined by some of the world’s best and most in-demand experts in Tantra, BDSM, meditation, roleplay, masculine enhancement, and more, the SGM is a 7-intensive apprenticeship in the full-spectrum of sexual abilities. From connection-based fantasies to experience strong feelings of love and togetherness, to ‘darker’ aspects of sexuality like punishment and pain/pleasure roleplay, this ‘hands-on’ masterclass is guaranteed to give you the tools to enjoy and gift others the best sex of your lives.
The SGM 2021 will be running from October 24-October 30 in Kyiv, Ukraine, and there is only one spot left to join. If serious about mastering this fundamental yet confusing area of any man’s life permanently, click on the link below to speak with the enrollment team:
Not only is the relationship some of the best and healthiest you’ve ever experienced…
…But she never seems to get enough of you.
It’s like she’s intoxicated by your mere presence, and so she reveres and nurtures you in any possible way she can, never behaving erratically or throwing tantrums as most women do.
Other guys try to hit her up all the time, but she coldly ignores them as she is already satisfied and attracted to you as never before in her life.
Sounds like some Hollywood playboy fairytale?
Just another day in the life of a Sex God.
See, the irony is that most men spend incredible amounts of time, effort, and energy trying to get hot girls into bed only to have very average and disappointing sex with them.
And this is not just about how long and how hard you can keep going…
You can hammer her for one hour, and she might still feel low to no pleasure (women are epic liars when it comes to this!).
Truth is that most guys think they’re amazing lovers, except they are not (just ask your female friends…).
As a result, those who can truly make women climax in bed––through a strong mix of physical and emotional experiences––are in extreme demand and hold the keys to most girls’ hearts.
To learn more about incredible bedroom skills most men ignore, check my latest video. Link below:
P.S. Looking to master the full spectrum of advanced sexual and psychological abilities and become the lover most girls obsess over?
My 7-day S*x God Masterclass running from October 24th-October 30th in Kyiv, Ukraine, is the world’s first and only intensive “hands-on” workshop that teaches guys how to become literal gods in the bedroom.
That’s because at the SGM you don’t only learn about bedroom mastery but also get to practice every single skill(minus penetration) with our team of professional female coaches.
From the best positions and physical tips to increase your pleasure to Tantra hacks to last as long as you want and defeat ED, all the way to darker aspects of sexuality like BDSM and restraints, this is your chance to internalize decades worth of research and practice into the realms of sensuality and pleasure in less than a week.
Only 1 spot left at the moment!
If serious about massively enhancing your dating and seductive life in 2021, click on the link below to speak with our team about the enrollment process, and whether you qualify for it.
Is it because they enjoy putting guys down and turning them into needy, unattractive beta-males…
…Or is it for a very different reason?
See, we can all agree that there are some very annoying and disrespectful girls (and men) out there, but whenever you’re being tested, always remember this:
It’s a great sign! Keep going!
Let me repeat. A woman qualifying you is often a strong indicator of interest because it means that she’s attracted enough that she wants to meet the real you.
That’s all a sh!t test is: a proof of congruence exacted in a flirty, challenging way.
To learn more about tests & how to deal with them, watch my latest video. Link below:
P.S. Want to master the art of using pressure & challenge to turn women on at feral levels and radically transform your results in the bedroom?
MyS*x God Masterclass running from October 24th-October 30th, 2021, is the world’s first and only live workshop aimed to teach you the complete skillset to become the best lover she will ever meet (and keep fantasizing about for her whole life).
What makes the SGM different from every other sexuality class out there is its strong emphasis on live physical practice.
The coaching curriculum combines several theory classes with dozens of hours of “hands-on” training sessions where you will get to try and refine every concept until it becomes second nature with our team of sexy roleplay models.
Due to the exclusive nature of this kind of training, we can only accept a handful of guys every year, and right now we only have two coaching spots remaining.
If you want to join, click HERE and get on a call with my team before it’s too late.
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The #1 Hollywood dating lie (wish I knew this 20 years ago…)
The funny thing about how society educates men about the dating process is that often it teaches the exact opposite of what actually works…
Take the number one thing most guys struggle with: approaching strangers.
Decades of Hollywood romantic comedies and soapy series have built incredible expectations around talking to women for the first time.
“It has to feel magical”.
That’s the widespread belief that in order to pick up girls, one must impress them with witty, extremely smooth, carefully assembled lines.
Or even better, to wait and try meeting women in a “struck by destiny” fashion, bumping into them randomly at parties, or getting in a conversation at the park because your dog likes her dog.
Here’s the truth…
Out of all the valuable, mind-altering lessons I’ve accumulated in over twenty years as one of the world’s leading dating experts, nothing beats understanding that you don’t actually need to say or do cool things to get girls.
Because the entire science of natural seduction is built on that single assumption.
To learn more on how to make a strong, lasting first impact on girls, watch my latest video by clicking on the link below:
P.S. Looking to get laid like a movie star without the unnecessary cheesy lines and tricks?
Our upcoming 7-day training in Barcelona, Spain, is your last chance in 2021 to learn how to successfully, and spontaneously, approach and date any girl you like from the very best in the world.
Running next week from October 4th-October 10th, this week-long program will teach you everything you’ll ever need to know to build an abundant seductive lifestyle and be surrounded by the women of your dreams.
Our unique combination of theory classes, meditation & inner discovery tools, roleplay practice with hot female models, and dozens of hours spent approaching and talking to women in the streets, bars, and cafès of the Catalan capital is guaranteed to take your current dating skills to epic levels of mastery in a very short time.
As of today, we only have one spot left to fill, and soon we will close the workshop’s enrollment permanently.
If you want to be our last 2021 successful case study, I strongly recommend you get in touch with us asap.
From the very moment we are born, we’re taught that selfishness is bad.
Parents, teachers, and even the holy books preach an unconditional “others before you” approach to life.
Molding young boys into strongly altruistic, sensitive, pleasing, and most importantly confrontation-adverse men.
If you’ve been there, you know how the story continues…
Life f*cks you mercilessly in the ass. No lube.
And to make matters worst, you soon realize that those who actually enjoy epic success and earthly pleasures are those who purposely chose to ignore their conditioning: the selfish guys.
Not only do they suffer a lot less, but they seem to be literally magnetic to others, and especially women
That’s because a man who is not shy of prioritizing what he wants and knows how to get it will always elicit strong attraction from girls.
To learn more about how selfishness affects your dating results, watch my latest video on the topic by clicking on the link below:
P.S. Want to get mentored by the world’s best in helping men to unleash their full masculine and seductive potential?
7 days of intense theory masterclasses, individualized inner game coaching, roleplay sessions with hot female models to practice every concept in a safe environment, and more importantly dozens of hours spent in the field meeting, attracting and ultimately going on dates with several sexy and tanned Mediterranean girls.
If you’re tired of always falling short in your dating life and feel ready to shamelessly go after those women you truly like, this is your chance!
Program runs October 4th-October 10th, 2021, and we only have two spots left to join. To learn more about it and inquiry about enrolling…
How To Spank Women Like A Pro (they’ll love you for It!)
Just uploaded a new coaching clip that is causing controversy on our YT channel!
This is not your typical dating and lifestyle advice TNL content…
It’s an exclusive behind the scene look at our most secretive workshop.. the S*x God Masterclass.
In this clip from our 7-day, hands-on workshop on mastering the complete sensuality & pleasure toolkit, I show how to spank or flog a lady.
When done right, most women absolutely adore this but struggle to find guys who know what they’re doing and are open-minded enough to learn. Check out this sexy clip with my cheeky assistant by clicking on the link below 😉
In the SGM, running from October 24th-October 30th, 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine you have the chance to learn dozens of bedroom skills that few men will ever even imagine, everything from rough play, sensual dominance, tantra, toys, role-playing and so much more.
There are only 2 spots left, so if you’d like to join me, Shae, and 6 sexy ladies for your complete bedroom mastery training, I highly suggest you get in touch with my team asap.
Not denying that being rich, high-status, or very attractive can improve your chances with girls…
But ultimately, what I’ve noticed after being surrounded by hundreds of elite women for the past decade as a world-famous dating coach, is that most of them tend to like different types of guys at once.
They might be dating a much older, very wealthy, and stable CEO-type of dude one moment and then fall for a broke young artist the next.
Or they could be drooling and craving a young, adonis-bodied stud one day, only to feel incredible attraction towards a scrawny hipster boy a week after.
Confusing, innit?
If there is one lesson you can take away from all this is that no matter where you are and who you are now, you must proudly own your current situation.
Young and broke? Skinny and baby-looking?
While working on improving your seductive metrics should be the long-term goal, your #1 priority right now is to accept and have epic fun with your current self.
Watch my latest video to learn more on this topic. Link below:
P.S. Want to become rapidly enhance your seductive skills, develop strong realness & charm and unlock a lifetime of success with women?
Then come join me and my elite crew of TNL coaches in Barcelona for a journey that is going to absolutely transform your masculine life!
Running from October 4th until October 10th, 2021, our upcoming 7-day intensive is the last chance to get coached by us and smash your dating goals for the rest of the year.
The Intensive includes 60+ hours of combined theory classes, specialized workshops, roleplay practice with hot female models, and of course infield sessions where you’ll successfully learn to approach and get on dates several sexy Spanish ladies 😉
Only 2 spots left by the time I’m writing this, and pretty sure that they’ll be sold out real soon, so if you’re interested to join…
This is going to spoil the whole idea of Hollywood romance for many, but here’s the truth…
There is no such thing as “love at first sight”.
In fact, there is no point in making any serious plans with a girl unless you already slept together (or at least got to know each other on a few dates).
Because why would you?
Why would you ever assume that she’s so special and unique that she deserves your total commitment without actually knowing her deeply?
And why should you stop pursuing other women and concentrate all your attention on her before knowing if she truly wants you or not?
I’ll tell you why…
Scarcity.
When men have few dating options or no options at all, they tend to behave irrationally and idolize every decent-looking girl that pays attention to them.
It’s pretty sad because oftentimes this behavior strongly turns off the girl who immediately cuts things off, breaking the poor guy’s heart.
Fortunately, I’ve been helping hundreds of such needy and unaware guys over the past 15 years to make the transition to fulfilled, seductive men who have several stunners drooling over them at most times.
To learn how they did it, watch the video below:
P.S. Want to become the kind of man who has plenty of choice of gorgeous women to date for the rest of his life?
Running from October 4th until October 10th, 2021, this is your chance to re-engineer and optimize your entire masculine lifestyle for future greatness.
Seven days of theory classes, intensive practice with our team of attractive female models to make every concept second nature, and most importantly dozens of hours spent infield meeting, seducing, and going on sexy dates with tons of attractive and spicy Mediterranean women (while receiving real-time feedback by your coaches).
So, far we’ve sold out every live program we had planned for the year, and I’m pretty sure this one will be no exception…
Currently, there are only 3 spots available, so if you’re serious about building an incredibly abundant dating life, get on a call with my team asap.
