Although good approaching and seduction skills are paramount to consistently taking women home, you also need to make sure they feel comfortable once there.

Setting up the right mood in your crib, and especially in your bedroom, is key if you want sex to happen effortlessly.

I can’t recall how often I’ve been in men’s apartments that were messy, dirty, poorly lit, and generally uninviting.

Ignoring this will result in a weird, non-sexual atmosphere in which she might pull back at the last minute, saying that she “doesn’t feel like it”.

Or you take notice of it and start making the environment work in your favor…

From the moment a woman walks into my bedroom, the environment leads her into sensual surrender and relaxation, and sex is a natural consequence.

You don’t need expensive silk sheets or luxurious interior design in your sex location––it’s the details that matter.

Like the intensity and warmth of your light, a seductive fragrance in the air, and a speaker with a pre-made playlist, while also knowing what things to avoid that ruin immersion.

To learn more about this, watch my latest video, where I give you a tour of my boudoir and share 5 tips to turn your bedroom from a man cave into a sex temple:

Again and again, over the years, I’ve been asked to give my opinion as a sex and men’s dating coach on the popular subject of semen retention.

As we’re in the middle of the trending “No Nut November Challenge”, I thought no moment could be more fitting…

See, I’ve helped dozens of private clients (and hundreds online) to solve annoying issues like poor libido, weak erections, and lack of masculine energy, and extreme abstention from ejaculation has never been the solution.

For lots of men, the context in which they practice masturbation is far more damaging than the act itself…

Associating self-pleasuring to frequent extremely graphic p*rn consumption will often desensitize you towards regular sex (which is often not as extreme as in movies unless you know how to make it so).

Or, for example, masturbating frequently with a very tight grip will cause you to lose your erection whenever the intensity of your hand is not matched (especially when you’re inside a woman).

But strictly prescribing a month without ejaculating won’t solve these problems. If anything, it will make them worse…

Building unnecessary stress around your sexuality and guilt once you inevitably relapse.

Through decades of personal research and work, I discovered that the best way to control and grow your desire is NOT by putting it on a leash, but by exploring it.

Learning to cycle sexual energy so you can stay on the edge as long as you want without finishing is, for example, one way to use masturbation to train yourself to be great in bed.

There are many others…which I detail in my latest video, shot in collaboration with our executive coach & Tantra expert Shae Matthews, which you can check below:

Without any feedback or guidance, it’s pretty much impossible to get past the mediocre, beginner stage in any skill set.

Sexual mastery is no different.

Unfortunately, as most of us know, communication in the bedroom can often be awkward, if not non-existent.

For decades, I’ve been routinely asking liberated women, many of whom I slept with, for sexual advice. And their brazen insights into what they love, dislike, and crave in bed have been pivotal in shaping me into the confident, expert lover I am today.

However, after working with thousands of men as a dating coach, I realized that many guys lack female mentors in their lives, and the ability to inquire clearly.

That’s why I just released a video where I ask my sexy, open-minded assistant Maria to answer ten intimate sex questions every man always wanted to know. Check it out HERE.

The questions I asked her were the following:

• What is good sex for you?
• What do you define as bad sex?
• Would you date a sexually incompatible man?
• How do you like to be treated after sex?
• What phrases/words do you like in bed?
• Are you submissive? Why?
• How often do you think about sex and masturbate?
• Do you watch p*rn?
• Tell me your best sexual experience.
• What makes a man a good lover?

And I recommend you listen to her answers carefully.

Far from being obvious or predictable, this intimate interview offers you a rare, honest view of female sexual psychology, as well as what you need to work on to please any woman in bed.

Watch it below:

My latest video on unforgivable sex mistakes is rapidly getting popular on YouTube, so check out what the buzz is all about.

In this highly anticipated clip, I reveal and demonstrate with my foxy assistant Maria five killer bedroom mistakes (and how to correct them).

These sexual errors are way more common and ingrained in most people’s sex lives than you think…

Chances are you’re making one or more of them too.

In fact, most people are so used to them that they become hard to correct habits.

Or deliberately prefer to ignore them to protect their ego, rather than dropping their pride to get rapid improvements.

But if you care about realizing your fullest sexual potential and becoming in control of any girl’s pleasure, you cannot afford to skip this video.

Plus, in it, I not only cover in great length men’s most common erotic fu*kups but also women’s.

So that you can also use this knowledge to easily correct your partners and guide them through the best sex you’ll both ever experience.

Is the fear of not being up to her standards holding you back in dating?

Over and over, I’ve witnessed charming, motivated men talking themselves out of an approach because they assume she’s way out of their league and must have better options.

And in this post, I will prove why that’s rarely the case.

See, unless we strictly talk about magazine-cover supermodels, the reality of a regular hot girl is far less glamorous than you might think.

Being an attractive woman in 2023 means being constantly bombarded by attention from males trying to sleep with you; that’s undeniable.

Except that a high quantity of something does not automatically reflect its quality…

In our digital, online-first era a lot of potentially “high-value” guys lack the social skillset to make things happen with stunning women in person.

Life is not like Tinder…

Even if she notices you first, nothing will ever happen unless you’re bold enough to make a move.

That means your typical hot girl will often receive far more attention from men she’s not interested in to begin with than those she seeks to date.

Just ask any of your attractive female friends or coworkers…

You’ll be surprised to discover that they mostly get approached by a combination of socially uncalibrated, cat-calling, and overall weird types of guys.

Plus, not every good-looking woman has ballers and A-list actors sliding into her DMs; most ladies also have small social circles lacking the sexual options they’re after.

That’s why there’s never been a better moment in history for men with social charm, empathy, and seductive intent to easily date some of the hottest women out there.

And I reveal how you too can use loopholes in the modern sexual market to date your dream women in the video below:

Wanting to become great with women without really understanding how they think and operate is a sure path to failure and painful confusion.

When it comes to mastering the art of cold approaching, many guys fall into the pessimistic assumption that women do not want to be talked to or bothered.

That by stopping a girl in the street, she will quickly label you, at best, a nuisance or weirdo and, at worse, a creep.

This is more relevant now than it has ever been…

With feminist views on the rise and countless reports of street harassment and cat-calling being shared daily by girls on social media, it’s easy to believe that women categorically hate to be approached.

Leading to severe social anxiety and refusal to take action.

Except it’s far from the truth.

After devoting decades of my adult life to mastering the art of seducing strangers and teaching it to thousands of clients, I can easily tell you that ladies love to be approached…

…by the right man with the skills, charm, and empathy to do it properly.

Most women are so used to shit*y courtship that once they realize you’re a cool, respectful guy with good intentions, they’ll be very excited at the idea of meeting you again on a date (and if you play your cards right, jump in bed with you for hot sex 😉 ).

If you often feel discouraged when talking to hot strangers for fear of bothering them, I strongly recommend you watch our latest video below ASAP.

In it, our resident Inner Game coach Shae Matthews reveals to you 3 instant mindset shifts you can adopt to make your approaches more effective and effortless:

Generational studies reveal that men are getting increasingly lonelier.

Unrealistic models propelled by social media and dating apps make countless guys question their worth.

Driving them to put in insane hours at work, in the gym, and in business to become “one day” the type of man who gets the attention of beautiful women.

Everyone tells you that if you focus on yourself long enough, the right woman will walk into your life…

Except she rarely and most likely never will.

Which leads a large number of modern men to fall into deep depressions, resentment, turning to porn, drugs and other destructive comfort habits to at least get quick dopamine releases and stay afloat.

It feels awful to be invisible.

And chances are that if you identify with any of the above, your situation is only going to get worse…

…unless you stop expecting women to notice you and develop the courage and skills to make things happen in your romantic life.

Being angry or boycotting women won’t help either, you can’t guilt them into wanting you and most men still need the feminine as they need us.

The game isn’t fair and I suggest intelligently cheating the “rules”.

Don’t try to compete solely on impersonal qualities like status and wealth. Work smarter on the emotional and seductive skills that get attractive women’s desire and attention.

To find out more on this topic, check my latest interview with relationship podcaster & coach Patricia Palombi at the link below: