5th March 2023
James Marshall

How to make her your willing servant in bed

What do you think of when you hear the word kink?

Chains, whips, leather outfits, and dungeons?

Theatrics aside, Kink is about bringing out our hidden, wildest desires…

Most women dream about surrendering in bed to a confident, expert lover who will sweep them off their feet and take them through their darkest desires.

Handcuffs and collars, are excellent ways to playfully dominate your partner and turn her into your obedient, naughty servant in the bedroom.

To find out the hottest ways to cuff and restrain a girl in bed, and what positions to do with her to express masculine dominance, check my latest video below.

In it, I also demonstrate every technique with a foxy female assistant so that you can better understand it and immediately use it with your lovers.

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1st March 2023
James Marshall

4 types of touch that instantly make her horny

There are many ways to touch a woman.

No, I’m not referring to that.

Even before you get in bed, you should use your touch skills to make your partners literally melt in your hands and surrender to you.

This is the forgotten art of erotic touch.

And it’s something that all the most elite lovers know and use consistently to make women so horny that they beg to end up in their bed.

Think of all the times you’ve been on a date and didn’t know how to smoothly get her back to your place…

You can do it with a random excuse, hoping she catches the hook and goes home with you.

Or you can start implementing sensual touch right from the start of the date so that by the end, she’s so turned on and craving that she needs no convincing.

To find out my favorite 4 types of touch that drive all women wild, and see what they look like in real life as I demonstrate them on one of my sexy assistants, check my latest video below:

Why she doesn’t want a nice guy in bed (what she really craves)

1st March 2023
James Marshall

Why she doesn’t want a nice guy in bed (what she really craves)

Although women want a man to treat them like a princess on the streets, paradoxically, most women want the opposite of a nice sweet guy during sex…

They crave an experienced lover who can dominate them and bring out their wildest desires.

Something that most men are uncomfortable with because they erroneously assume it means hurting women or taking advantage of them.

In reality, however, being dominant and pushing her physical boundaries by spanking, choking, role-playing, or restraining her, when done safely, is excellent to help her let go and experience incredible pleasure unlike any she ever felt before.

Unlike many think, being dominant means being extremely committed to her pleasure in the most selfless way possible––in direct opposition to “bedroom nice guys” who act sweet and kind only because they expect something from her in return…

It’s a unique experience based on trust: she surrenders completely to you and in exchange, you take her further than she’s ever been.

To learn more about how to use sensual dominance to give her mind-blowing orgasms and pleasure, check my latest video below:

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27th February 2023
James Marshall

Three naughty words girls wants to hear in bed (not what you think)

There are three words many girls want to hear in bed.

And they’re not “I love you”…

But “my little sl*t”.

It might sound controversial, but women love when you talk dirty to them during sex.

That’s the female equivalent of when a girl is moaning loud and passionately and begging you to f*ck her harder––a massive turn-on that drives her incredibly wild.

Of course, context and timing are paramount for this.

This is merely a theatrical game that begins and ends within the bedroom to make HER feel sexy and powerful.

So if you want it to work smoothly she needs to feel that you respect her and that there will be no negative consequences after the fantasy ends.

Plus, there are several escalating levels to effective sex talk. Depending on how open-minded your partner is, you might need to begin just with playful teasing remarks first and attempt the more nasty wordplay only later after you know that she can handle it.

In fact I’ve developed an “escalation ladder” for grading dirty talk.

To learn more about the gentleman’s way of dirty talking, watch my latest video below where I dive deep into how to use your verbal skills to help her unleash her most liberated, slutt*est self.

Why even Nice Girls like it Freaky

17th February 2023
James Marshall

Why even Nice Girls like it Freaky

Ever heard men making random value assumptions about women’s sex lives like:

“She’s not THAT type, she’s a such nice girl”.

Or even…

“She would never do that in bed! She’s not a sl*t”.

Opinions like these, especially if spoken carelessly without even knowing the girl, are the reason why so many women close up and struggle to express their full sexuality.

The truth is that ALL girls, especially the “innocent” next-door types who get reminded constantly how pure they look, want to get freaky and be ravaged in bed…

…by the right guy who does not pre-emptively judge them and has the skill set to make their erotic dreams come true.

Of course, it’s also fundamental that you introduce variety in the bedroom: there’s a time to get rough and naughty and a time to make sweet love to your woman.

If you want to learn more about how to uncover her unique desires and help her relax so that she opens up and is willing to try anything with you in bed, watch my latest video below.

In it, I, Shae Matthews, and our colleague Sir Dominic (Australia’s #1 BDSM master), dive deep into mindsets shifts and subtleties required to turn any woman into a freak in the sheets.

2 Steps To Make Any Girl Orgasm

14th February 2023
James Marshall

2 Steps To Make Any Girl Orgasm

Ever wondered why so many women fake in bed?

When they could, you know, just tell you how to take them to climax.

The problem is that the way men and women experience pleasure is vastly different.

And that makes it ever-challenging to understand the sexual needs of one another.

For us, a nice view of her breasts and buttocks, coupled with strong penetration in one of the classic positions, will get the job done within minutes.

But for the majority of women, these things, although appreciated and fundamental for her bedroom satisfaction, are often not enough for peak orgasmic results.

If you want her to remember you as the lover who made her cum the hardest and more often than anyone else, you need to look beyond just physical stimulation…

You must f*ck her mind thoroughly as well.

By eliciting her deepest desires and hidden fantasies, so that she can stop holding back and unleash her wildest, freakiest, and slutt*est side with you.

Wanna learn how to do so? Then check my latest video below where I cover the two things any woman wishes you’d know on how to effortlessly take her to orgasm:

Why NoFap is dangerous for your Sex Life

11th February 2023
James Marshall

Why NoFap is dangerous for your Sex Life

Know what’s the most effective way to last as long as you want and have total control over your performance in bed?

It’s certainly not by being overly strict or obsessive about it.

In recent years, we’ve seen several schools of thought centered around male sexual empowerment rising to prominence.

From classic Taoist “semen retention”, to the modern NoFap movement, all the way to extremist groups preaching prolonged periods of total abstinence (even from intercourse).

What once started as a practical solution to the common problem of having low libido and bedroom stamina, has now evolved into something else entirely.

Leading men to accumulate shame and fanatical behaviors around their masturbation habits and, by extension, their sex lives.

This not only makes sex unnecessarily stressful and ultimately a lot less enjoyable but, when taken to extremes, also poses considerable risks to your sexual health.

Especially if you hit the dreaded flatline where your libido ceases to exist and sometimes never recovers.

To discover a more effective solution to boost your desire and sexual energy without the suffering of NoFap, watch my latest video. In it, I interview Dr.Saida Desilets, a world-class Ph.D. psychologist, and sexologist on how to turn masturbation into training to be amazing in bed.

Link below.

Secret Female Fantasies - How To Make Her BEG For It

6th February 2023
James Marshall

Secret Female Fantasies – How To Make Her BEG For It

Are most women you get in bed with as wild and naughty as you want them to be?

Or are they a little too quiet and not open-minded enough for your tastes?

Be honest with yourself…

One thing I’ve learned from my twenty years of obsession with seduction, sleeping with hundreds of ladies, is that girls will behave very differently during sex depending on who she’s with.

I’ve met far too many chicks who never got to be their most submissive, slutt*est selves, even in long relationships with men they were very attracted to and in love with.

Yet they did with me, a stranger, often on the first night.

If this sounds triggering, it’s not by judging them that you’re going to make sense of it…

Because ANY woman, including your girlfriend, your ex, and your innocent-looking coworker ‘who would never do crazy things in bed’ will, under the right circumstances, turn into a horny nympho begging for more.

And she should! Because it feels very sexy and rewarding for her.

I cover this and other hidden truths on female pleasure in my latest video, where I interview a very open-minded young woman on how to become the elite lover she wants.

Watch it below:

10 Positions All Women Go Crazy For

31st January 2023
James Marshall

10 Positions All Women Go Crazy For

Things in bed can get boring real quick…

If all you’re able to do is last ten minutes in the three positions we all know.

As a lifelong sex nerd, I’ve devoted the past two decades (while growing my elite dating coaching company) to exploring all realms of human sexuality, bedding countless women, and seeking out the world’s best sexual masters.

Over 10 years ago I found my way to studying Tantra in India, which honestly I had mixed feelings about.

On the one hand, many of the subtle sexual techniques and partner meditations were life changing.

However, there was too much religious dogma and ritual around the practices for my liking. I found it slow and unnecessarily convoluted.

After keeping the gems and discarding the sectarian practices, I started teaching Tantric techniques to my students, giving them tools to control arousal, increase intimacy and ecstatic sensation in them and their partners.

This was the bridge between dominance and sensuality and it made all areas of their sexual skills vastly improve

In my latest video, I demonstrate variations on sex positions you may already know but didn’t know how nuanced and varied they can be.

In it, I demonstrate––as explicitly as it gets for YouTube––my top 10 positions with a foxy female assistant AND show you how to integrate Tantric breathwork into them.

I strongly encourage you to take notes and give these a try, no matter how ‘strange’ it feels at first.

The results will speak for themselves.

Women pay to f*ck me

25th January 2023
James Marshall

Women pay to f*ck me

Are all women truly submissive nymphos willing to do anything in bed?

Or is it just a male fantasy used to sell cheap p*rn subscriptions?

The answer is: it depends on who they are with.

See, it’s one thing to be technically proficient at penetrating her for ten minutes.

But it takes a LOT more to help a woman fully express her untamed, slutt*est self so that she can turn into the wild, creative lover we all desire.

The secret lies in knowing how to effectively lead and dominate her in bed so that she trusts you to take her through new intense sexual experiences.

There’s much more to this than just barking orders like a drill sergeant, or whipping out the handcuffs.

The few guys who can take women over their erotic edges, do so through responsive leading, calibrated with empathy, to the needs of each woman

Only if she feels safe, sexy and unjudged, will she will lose control and reveal her true sexual nature to you.

The best part? Relieved of all judgement, and given permission to express herself, sex will turn into a powerful cathartic experience for her.

It’s so good that many of my lovers joke that they should pay me for f*cking them so well 😉

To learn more on how to apply dominance in your encounters, watch my latest video where I interview Australia’s top BDSM master and dive into the nuances of making girls addicted to you:

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