Why men fail at dates (try this instead)

Setting dates with girls is NOT the goal.

Taking things as far as you can after you approached her should be your #1 priority.

Sometimes, you’re both too busy to keep talking, and all you can do is exchange contacts and invite her out for a coffee or cocktail date in the following days.

On tons of occasions, however, you can make things happen right away if you’re bold and socially skilled enough to move the interaction forward.

The ‘instant dating’

In short, you skip the canonical ‘give me your number and let’s meet soon’ part and instead take her on a quick date on the spot.

But why would you do this?

First, because waiting kills attraction.

A short conversation on the street, no matter how good you are, will keep her thinking about you only for so long; that’s often why many women flake. Spending more time together often improves your chances of building seductive tension and a powerful connection with the girl.

Second, it eliminates the need for a classic first date.

By focusing on the usual ‘getting to know each other’ conversation right away, your next date will be much more relaxed, fun, and often leads more quickly to the bedroom. After all, if she already knows you, trusts you, and wants to see you again, chances are she likes you and is ready for more.

In fact, it’s not even unusual for some of our students to approach a girl, take her on an instant date, and then back to their place within a few hours.

To learn more on this topic and see one of my awesome students approaching and taking a hot Ukrainian dancer on a date in a matter of minutes, watch the video below:

P.S. Want to work with me in 2022 to kickstart your seductive life and get more dates and opportunities with high-quality women?

Say no more…Our coaching season has officially started!

I’m now accepting 5 brave men to coach intensively in Budapest with me, Shae, Alex, and Virag, for 7 full days – from May 9th-May 15th, 2022.

Together, we’ll break down what’s currently preventing you from enjoying your desired level of success with women and rapidly install massive upgrades in your approach, conversation, and escalation skills. You also get to spend many hours infield with me personally, giving you real-time feedback as you approach (and likely go on instant dates with) eastern European stunners in the streets of Budapest.

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Beauty Vs Brains – Can women really have both?

The world is filled to the brim with high-quality women, many of whom got both the looks and the brains you’re looking for.

Unfortunately, many guys still tend to typecast women into two categories: hot party girls and less attractive but more trustworthy girlfriend material types.

That creates a scenario where settling for a not-so-exciting and average partner is justified and encouraged because ‘at least she’s loyal and well-educated’.

Throughout my fifteen-year-long career as a men’s coach, I’ve seen countless guys exploiting concepts such as ‘intelligence’ or ‘personality’ to rationalize why they could not get hotter, sexier women.

The reality is that there are tons of great girls out there who could match your physical, intellectual, and emotional needs…

…if you dared to meet them.

The sooner you start to interact and approach girls you genuinely like and are attracted to, the faster you’ll discover that many of them have a lot to offer outside of their mere physical attributes.

To learn more about this topic, watch my latest video linked below. In it, you will witness one of my brave workshop students smoothly approaching and seducing a stunning yet very nerdy Ukrainian girl. Talk about the perfect mix…

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P.S. Want to work with me personally in 2022 to learn how to attract, go on epic dates and create relationships with your dream type of girl?

Running from May 9th-May 15th, 2022, I’ll be personally leading a week-long intensive live workshop in Budapest that will provide you with a lifetime worth of tools and strategies to effortlessly meet and seduce new high-quality girls––as well as tons of opportunities to practice them firsthand in real life during the program.

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Why ugly guys date the hottest women (you won’t believe this)

Let’s cut to the chase: looks matter.

In fact, they are key if your primary way to get dates is to exchange eye contact and furtive smiles in bars with drunk girls hoping for them to make a move.

Been there, done that.

But if you dream of dating women who are aesthetically ‘above your league’, and who would never approach a guy first, the way you look doesn’t play that big of a role.

Sure, having a basic level of hygiene, grooming, and fitness, mixed with a decent fashion sense will do wonders to the average guy entering the dating game…

…But it’s the ability to go for it without waiting for any obvious sign of interest from the girl that ultimately makes the difference.

Again and again, on our live workshops, I’ve witnessed very average-looking guys outclassing beautiful men by miles when it came to approaching and making things happen with girls.

With no inherent advantage or shortcut, the ‘uglier’ guys had to work for it, learning how to face rejection and blow-offs and ultimately succeeding in getting the level of women they wanted.

The good-looking men, on the other hand, often experienced massive approach anxiety and problems to lead conversations, getting discouraged very easily.

So, no matter how good you might look, my advice is that you approach any girl from now on as if your appearance was an hindrance.

With that in mind, you’ll focus naturally on what really matters the most in seduction 😉

To learn more about this and the real impact of looks in dating, watch my latest video linked below:

P.S. Want to put an end to the idea that ‘she’s out of your league’ and date more women than you can handle?

Running from May 9th – May 15th, 2022, I’ll be leading a week-long intensive workshop in Budapest, Hungary, aimed to teach eight men how to become incredible with the ladies for the rest of their lives.

From what to say and how to exactly approach women, to starting and leading intriguing conversations, to escaping the dreaded friend-zone and building seductive tension, all the way to getting her number and taking her home on the first date…you get to master it all.

I and my team of elite coaches have over sixteen years of experience in turning ordinary guys into extraordinary, sexually-fulfilled men, and you could very well be our next success story!

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Why being nice to women sucks (if you expect something back)

Being nice carries a terrible ROI…

…If you expect people, and women specifically, to be nice back to you.

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See, there is no unwritten rule of life or the cosmos that states that being very complaisant and providing unsolicited favors to others entitles you to get social or sexual rewards from them.

It’s a losing strategy.

One that countless ‘nice guys’ have been using for eons hoping to get girls to like them in return.

It rarely works, and even if it does it means you’ve attracted women that value only what you can provide to them rather than the real you.

If you recognize yourself in the above, it’s fundamental that you stop what you’re doing and start implementing a new system for getting what you want from people in your life.

I call it ‘the godfather method’.

In short, you deliberately act on your intentions, not hiding your true motifs as most nice guys do, but consistently give out small bits of value to others that is not so expensive to you (i.e., career advice, cooking for a night, hosting a party, epic sex).

Do this for a length of time, and you will build tons of trust, respect, and likability with people who will gladly help you back whenever you ask them to (for example, by introducing you to several attractive female friends).

To learn more about how to self-diagnose a chronic nice guy syndrome and then make the transition to a healthier and more effective approach to getting the most out of life, watch the video below:

P.S. Want to work personally with me in 2022 to guarantee you never have to please or buy women’s attention ever again to get dates?

Our 2022 coaching season is about to start.

And from May 9th-May 15th 2022, you can join me and three of my elite coaches in Budapest, Hungary, for a week-long intensive program that will teach you the nuts and bolts of building a lifestyle filled with more social and seductive opportunities than you can handle.

How to approach and talk to women anywhere without getting rejected instantly, date setting strategies, sparking an emotional connection without getting friend zoned…we cover it all!

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Master this skill —> get dates in 2022

Let’s get to the point: 365 days of new opportunities.

Last year was a very uncertain and tentative time for most of us.

We expected freedom and unrestrained fun like in the good old days, but we got a slow burn, marathon-type of return to normal.

Nevertheless, for hundreds of brave TNL brothers, it was one of the most socially-productive and seductively-rewarding years of their lives.

That goes to show that by following proven strategies and taking massive action, anyone can make rapid upgrades in his lifestyle, even during a global crisis.

Now, if I had to pick a single thing you should tackle first to guarantee epic lifestyle success in 2022…

that would definitely be mastering the art of cold-approaching

However, this is not merely about chit-chatting to girls on random occasions like when waiting for the bus.

It’s a conscious decision to walk up to any woman you’re attracted to, no matter where you are, and start a conversation with the intent of meeting her again on a date.

Might sound terrifying or unrealistic to you right now, but it’s something anyone can learn in a few weeks or months by mastering some basic steps.

The best place to start? Watch my latest video linked below.

It’s a detailed ‘caught-on-camera’ compilation of five of the best approaches I and Alex Leòn did in 2021, from the ‘hi’ to getting her number and setting up the date.

Click below to watch it:

P.S. Want to work directly with me and my team in 2022 to take your seductive life to the next level?

Our first 7-day workshop runs from May 9th-May 15th, 2022, in Budapest, Hungary, and one-third of the available spots are already booked.

If serious about wanting to learn how to approach, get on dates, and back to your place several stunning women this year, click on the following link to speak to the enrollment team:

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