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Things have changed

Gentlemen!

Things have changed…

In case you haven’t noticed the landscape of seduction and lifestyle design is always evolving and unless you know how to stay on track, you’ll waste a lot of time stuck with concepts that do not apply anymore. For example, it is much more common in 2020 to exchange Instagram with a woman than it is to ask for her number, but knowing how to convey your attractive personality on social media like Instagram is anything but intuitive or basic.

Ask any of the dozens of guys who remained unanswered in her DMs…

Or you might be feeling disappointed by a lifestyle and social circle that doesn’t match your ambitious expectations. In a world full of life coaches where can you find a group of real leaders who live out their principles in seduction, lifestyle design and inner game and can share their valuable perspectives on these areas. At the same time it  can be hard to find people who are like-minded in their willingness to think outside of the box with life, guys who know that it’s good to approach women, guys who expect more out of life, potential collaborators and wingmen.  

So how do you stay ahead of the curve and get really good at all of this, once and for all?

These are the kinds of problems our sell-out annual tribal gathering known as the Masculine Mastermind Conference engages with. This unique 3-day event gives you the rare opportunity to meet and greet the entire TNL team and join a powerful worldwide brotherhood of positive men. Whether you’re a beginner taking your first steps in seduction and you’re looking for the freedom to approach any woman you want in any situation, or you’re an intermediate or higher level guy struggling to achieve consistency of results and become surrounded by the top 5% of people. Our incredible team of coaches and guests, whose combined seduction and lifestyle enhancement experience exceeds over 100 years, will help you to find your own roadmap and action plan to keep developing yourself. The MMC has taken place the past three years in Budapest, Hungary. This year the usual date has been pushed forward due to the COVID 19 crisis and has been scheduled for September 25th to 27th. One attendee described the conference as “an opportunity to learn more in 3 days than in the past 3 years of my life”.

Do not waste further time with outdated concepts and gift yourself an upgrade in the way you experience life. 2020 is the year.

 

Peace,
James

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What’s up!

Alex here,

Today I want to help you with a problem many men are experiencing as we slowly approach the end of the Corona lockdown...

“What should I do if I meet a girl (online or in real life) I feel natural chemistry and attraction towards, but she lives far away in a different city/part of the world? 

Is it a good idea to fly over and spend some time together? ”

To really answer this question(and many other relationship-related ones) in-depth, you need to adopt three different perspectives: the dating perspective, the lifestyle design perspective, and the inner game perspective. That's the topic of my latest #AskTheNaturals video, hit the link to check it out.

So, let’s start from the beginning...

Does it make sense in terms of seduction success to fly over and meet a girl you’ve been only texting with most of the time?

If you’re young and have the money and time I’d say yes. No matter the result it makes for a cool adventure and good memory. But before you go for it, I have a couple of recommendations to avoid disappointments…

Set the right expectations

Do not assume stuff about her, but get a genuine feel for her character and personality. For example, if you meet a girl and she seems like a very sexual and open-minded female, find a way to validate this idea.

Get her on a phone call and start narrating a little roleplay fantasy to her or have a hot video chat to see how she reacts––use savvy and good calibration skills when doing this. Smart timing makes the difference between a thirsty dude and a potential lover 😉

 

 

That’s why I’d generally suggest you visit her and not vice-versa. At least, if you end up not liking each other you’re not stuck together at your place for days, so...

Have some other reasons to visit her city

A short seminar, a business meeting, time to focus on a passion. This way you’ll remove lots of pressure from her and make the whole experience more casual and light-hearted.

Now, if you still perceive it as a big deal and place a lot of importance on the outcome of your visit, you might have a lifestyle design issue.

Let me explain,

 

If one woman has the power to make you obsessed about getting her at all costs, your problem is not dating-related but lifestyle-related. In short: Your setup needs work.

 

You need to start thinking about how to surround yourself with enough female energy, potential partners and interesting people to let go of this scarce mindset as a result.

Remember, ultimately being around women––not just lovers, but especially friends, acquaintances, and co-workers–– is what makes you good with women.

The absence of this might lead to a recurring negative relationship pattern...

Always falling for and obsessing over girls that are very hard to love

These girls are the ones that live far away from you and the ones that are too busy to date or commit to someone seriously. 

This is a complex topic. But falling into the same pattern again and again might be a by-product of a lack of self-worth and confidence in your abilities to attract and love others and be loved by them.

An impossible situation is much easier to rationalize than suffering from a traditional, and possible relationship. But that’s a big part of your journey and a paradox you really need to come to terms with.

If you have been struggling with all this for a while and want to improve your romantic situation and lifestyle once and for all, I suggest you seek the mentorship of those who have been in your shoes and successfully reversed the odds  - the TNL crew. Join us on one of our upcoming live workshops.

Until then, all the best.

Alex

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Women suffer from approach anxiety too. Here is how to handle it…

Approach Anxiety: a female perspective

Often when I coach guys on how to meet gorgeous girls in the street, they feel shy and anxious at the idea of talking to attractive strangers. 

It applies to both ends.

What most men ignore is that during the approach, most times, they’re not the only ones feeling anxiety

Women feel it too! 

If a guy is direct and projects his masculine intent the right way in the first few seconds of the interaction, the girl will be positively surprised and attracted, but, on some occasions, also a bit intimidated. 

Your duty as a seducer is to help her to feel calmer and more at ease about meeting you.

Tension is a great tool to master to spark arousal and excitement in a conversation but to make it really effective you need to mix it with another important quality: calibration. 

In my latest video––handpicked from TNL’s private past workshop infield archive––I take two of my courageous students in sunny Barcelona throughout their first-ever live infield session. 

Youll see how they create tension during the first approaches, and how I help them to reduce it in the next ones to make the girls more relaxed about meeting them.

Just click HERE to watch it.

How to become a more calibrated Seducer

If this is a sticking point you’re personally experiencing in your interactions with women and you’re ready to make the best out of dating life and ignite your personal transformation, now that things are slowly easing out…

Check out our new updated tour workshop dates by clicking HERE.

My next 4-day intensive seduction workshop is already happening on August 13-16th 2020 in Budapest, Hungary, and there is only ONE spot left to join.

We closely monitored the global situation, tourist flows, and health recommendations to make sure everyone can have a complete, and safe, life-changing experience.

You also have the opportunity to speak directly to me, or one of the coaches over a free-consultation call to make sure the coaching fits your own unique situation and challenges and design a personal seduction & lifestyle curriculum for a post-Corona world. 

Just click HERE to get started.

Talk to you soon.

Alex

 

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