4th September 2020
alex

How To Read Her Signals

Making the right move on a woman is paramount to lead things from an interesting conversation all the way to the bedroom. But unless you’re able to calibrate your actions properly, and read the various signals she’s giving you, you’re doomed to fail…

Getting girls to teach you game

There is a famous saying in the seduction world…

If you’re a good listener, the girl will tell you how to close her.

In the past 2 years coaching for TNL, I’ve seen students struggling with this all the time…

Going for the number and leaving, when the girl is obviously free and down to spend more time together for a coffee, maybe even at your place 😉

Continuously changing surface-level topics, instead of diving deeper into one she seemed intrigued by.

On a date, talking endlessly, when it’s clear she just wants you to shut up and kiss her.

If this resonates with you and you want to stop missing out on solid opportunities, you have to understand something…

Being a good seducer is as much about leading and having the power, as it is about giving it away and letting the girl do the moves when needed.

The problem is, most guys get the timing completely wrong.

They physically escalate and increase pressure, when they should make the girl feel more comfortable - and thus creeping her out.

Reading women’s signals

What is her current emotional state?

Is she just socially polite or sexually invested?

Is she ready for me to escalate things to a more intimate level?

These are all questions you must be able to answer yourself before you make a move on a girl you like. Good news is that you don’t have to spend years earning a psychology degree, or practicing gimmicky lines, to understand what’s going on in a girl’s mind, because in most cases she will literally coach you on how to close her––if you’re capable of listening.

The Principle of Awareness

At TNL, we call this the Principle of Awareness––one of the foundational blocks of our very successful method of Natural Seduction.

For our students, being Aware means being receptive at all times to what is going on in people’s minds and bodies: firstly their own, and later women’s.

They achieve this capacity by going through an intense personalized training curriculum consisting of dozens of infield hours with a coach (2:1 student to instructor ratio) giving them feedback in real-time, internal spirituality & re-wiring drills, roleplay classes with female models, seduction theory, and a lot more.

Watch my latest video, to learn more about this. Click HERE to watch it.

And hit this link to find out more about my next live coaching opportunities.

Talk to you soon.

Alex

Wingmanship 101 (finding allies, not competitors)

4th September 2020
James Marshall

Wingmanship 101 (finding allies, not competitors)

Finding the right wingman can double your results overnight. But how can you choose one?

Lone Wolves Vs Tribal Hunters

Back in the Stone Age, our ancestors realized that by entering into alliances and forming tribes of hunters & gatherers every member could enjoy much more food and vital resources without risking dying of hunger by trying to survive individually.

That’s what I want to talk about to you today: how not to “starve” in your dating life and rapidly increase your results with women.

When you’re lucky enough to find a like-minded and positive dude––or a small tight-knit crew of them–– to team up with when meeting girls, your results can literally double overnight.

But unless you have a proven system and some basics to follow when going out with your wingman, you’re bound to fail a lot (and possibly even ruin some friendships).

Building a kickass group of wingmen

Finding a guy to go out with to meet women can be easy, but building a long-term relationship of trust, support and mutual respect with one or more men takes work and commitment on both sides.

When I coach my students at one of our live workshops, there are 3 main rules I tell them to keep in mind when going out in pairs in order to better wing each other…

1-He who approaches “owns” the girls

This golden rule of Seduction was as valid 20 years ago as it is today. In short, whoever approaches a girl, or a group of females, first is the one who has all the power of choice and can pick the woman he likes the most.

What about the other guys? This leads us to rule #2...

2-The main purpose of a wingman is to help the guy who opened succeeding with his girl

When you’re winging another dude, your primary goal should be to help him succeed with the girl he likes.

You can do so by entertaining her friends, flirting with them, and even saying to them that your buddy looks good with their girlfriend. But avoid at all costs interrupting another dude’s conversation with his girl––you’ll just ruin his interaction.

3-If closing your girl helps your wing close his girl, do it.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should sleep with her less attractive friend when you don’t want to in order to help your buddy to sleep with his girl.

But realize that the majority of women, especially the less beautiful ones, tend to always receive less attention when compared to, and develop jealousy towards, their stunning girlfriends, so they end up cockblocking everyone in order to not feel like shit.

So what can you do to help your wingman close in a situation like this?

It is as easy as also taking the less attractive girl’s number––even if you don’t plan on dating her––so that she also gets to feel beautiful and seduced by a cool guy.

Perhaps she can even offer you social circle opportunities and become a good friend in the future. Keep an open mind 😉

In my latest video, you can see me coaching two of my brave students in the streets of Barcelona on how to correctly co-operate with each other and become good Wingmen.

If this is something you want to learn, click HERE to check it out!

I’m sure there is something in it you can take away and apply to your own approaches.

How to join the most élite masculine network on the planet

if you really want to find like-minded, positive guys who are smart enough to know that working together brings more women into everybody’s life then TNL is the best place to get started. We have built an extensive, global online network of these kinds of guys over the past 15 years and, as you can see in the video, a TNL workshop is the perfect place to find your wing.

Click on this link to find out more about our upcoming live coaching programs in 2020.

Dealing With Rejection(s)

4th September 2020
alex

Dealing With Rejection(s)

No matter how great you’re at seduction, some women will still say “No” to you. The way you decide to handle those rejections is pivotal for your future success in the game…

How do you feel when a girl rejects you?

Today I want to share with you a little Inner Game strategy I teach to my students on our live workshops.

Let’s begin with a very important question, and please be honest with yourself about the answer…

“How do you feel when a woman rejects you?”

Do you feel anxious and hurt deep down inside?

Does your confidence diminish afterward, indirectly damaging all the next interactions?

Or do you just ignore the negative sensations, pretending you’re tougher than that?

Reality is that––in most cases––when you’re learning Seduction you’ll get rejected a LOT, and the way you decide to deal with it can either make-or-break your future results. So, the next time a woman rejects you, try this…

Second, realize you’re the true Hero in a word of passive spectators

If you get rejected in a public place like a crowded street, or a cafeteria, you might feel social pressure from other people watching you “fail”. That’s totally understandable.

And that’s the exact moment you should give props to yourself for being the only guy having the b*lls to approach her, proactively becoming the Real Hero of your story, while most people just watch and passively hope for life to get better.

If you follow these mindsets, every time you approach, no matter the outcome you’ll feel good and come out as a better, more masculine, and attractive man.

Watch the latest video I’ve released to see me coaching one of my brave students struggling with blowouts, and how he takes my advice to the next level by becoming truly fearless and magnetizing in his next approaches.

Link down below 😉

I really hope this helps you a bit to re-program your mind for success and positively improve your future interactions with women.

If by reading this you also got inspired to leave the house right now, but do not know where to start, and want to ignite your dating success & lifestyle in a matter of days ( and not years of trial-and-error on your own), by working with me personally, consider joining one of our upcoming Live Workshops (workshop page).

Click HERE to check the next available dates & different training opportunities.

Talk to you soon,

Alex

How To Read Her Signals

Getting girls to teach you game

Being a good seducer is as much about leading and having the power, as it is about giving it away and letting the girl do the moves when needed.

Reading women’s signals

The Principle of Awareness

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Wingmanship 101 (finding allies, not competitors)

Afraid Of Creeping Girls Out? Read this

Lone Wolves Vs Tribal Hunters

Building a kickass group of wingmen

How to join the most élite masculine network on the planet

Dealing With Rejection(s)