I’m not talking about being disrespectful or creating false expectations about you.
But to just stay authentic to your character and enforce your boundaries even if others might not agree with you.
This is a fundamental personality trait that women, and people in general, perceive as attractive.
Unfortunately, lots of guys deliberately avoid it in favor of a people-pleasing, “nice guy” kind of mentality…
Putting others’ satisfaction and approval before their self-interest.
But make no mistake, the above has nothing to do with having a good heart or being unconditionally kind to others…
It’s just a tactic.
A covert contract where you help someone and act nice just because you expect something in return.
A striking example of this is men who traditionally buy women flowers and invite them to fancy dinners on the first date just because they hope they’ll reciprocate and sleep with them in return.
That is the worst dating strategy ever conceived, and ultimately just delusional.
A much better and more effective option is daring to express your true masculine desire and honest opinion to girls and see how they react.
You’ll be surprised to notice that often, the more you challenge and disagree with her, the more she’ll become attracted to you.
I explain more about this topic and how to make the transition from pathological nice guy to independent and attractive male in my latest video.
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P.S. If this hits home hard for you and you want to rapidly improve the way you operate around women and people in general, I’ve got you covered!
Our live coaching programs offer 4, 7, and 10-day curriculums teaching men the fundamental and most effective aspects of dating and building socially and seductively fulfilling lifestyles.
Not only you’ll learn everything you need to know about how to approach and constantly get new beautiful women on dates (and into the bedroom without buying your way in) regularly, but you’ll also gain tremendous insight and clarity into your current and past relationship patterns so that you can correct and improve them as you want.
If this sounds like something you’re interested in and want to learn more about how our programs can help you solve your specific dating issues, just book a free no-obligation call with me, and I’ll show you the way.
How to get her to take you home (my secret trick revealed!)
The worst pains and ordeals in dating can be avoided if you do one thing…
Actively try to understand women.
I’ve seen guys doing hundreds of approaches.
Practicing relentlessly the best social freedom drills & routines.
Improving their appearance, vocal tonality, and status.
And still struggling to barely get girls to pay attention to them.
Or they do get women on dates but never manage to sleep with them as they get zero seductive compliance and tons of resistance.
What did they do wrong?
In short, they ignored the girl’s responses.
Perhaps the most paradoxical trait of the dating & seduction industry is how many men within it are clueless about what women are telling them.
It takes two to tango––the sooner you realize it, the better your results will be.
Conversation frameworks, escalation techniques––all these things don’t matter if you are not aware of how she feels around you. It’s just an act.
And women have built-in B.S. detector when it comes to picking the best guys.
On the other side, for those few adepts who truly understand the subtleties of female psychology, life becomes easy ––tons of dates, zero resistance, and some girls will even take you home themselves.
If you want to truly start understanding the complexities and miracles of the female mind, check my latest video masterclass.
This is an epic 100-min crash course I’ve just released for free on YouTube in collaboration with TNL’s female coach Virag Tierra that explains everything you need to know in 2021 to fully understand women.
If you take your time and study thoroughly, it will make you realize how blind you may be in certain areas of dating. Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. If you want to personally learn from me, Virag, and the whole TNL crew to take your romantic life and overall lifestyle to new peaks of abundance, NOW is the time!
We only have one spot left for our upcoming 10-day tour of hedonistic madness known as the EuroTour, running from May 26th-Jun 6th 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine.
After in-depth research and consulting other world-class dating coaches, I have specifically chosen Kyiv as the permanent location for all our upcoming programs in 2021, and that’s for a very good reason…
Currently, no other place in the world compares to it in terms of seductive logistics… It’s easy to get in and out, everything is super safe and open, and most importantly, every single street, cafe, and even shopping market is filled with socially open, eastern European beauties.
Take advantage of this, before it becomes just another hyper-saturated dating bubble dominated by lots of male competitors 😉
Some try to overcompensate for their insecurities by becoming overly touchy or sexual, creeping the girl out.
While others do not initiate any kind of escalation to make the girl feel comfortable and get friend-zoned on the first date.
Lastly, there is a small niche of guys who have mastered the art of playing with seductive pressure.
They’ve learned how to physically interact with a girl in a way that sparks her desire and willingness to be taken home while still building tons of comfort––the sweet spot.
This is a topic we cover at length in our live workshops through many hours of class drills with female instructors, and then in the field as the students start to approach and take girls on sexy dates.
If you want to get a sneak peek into one of our “physical escalation classes”, check my latest video.
In it, joined by TNL’s new female coach Virag Tierra, I demonstrate in real-time how to master the physical aspect of seduction and exponentially increase the quality of your 1st dates.
Currently, we have a handful of spots open for our 4 and 7-day residential programs running in May and June 2021, as well as for our 10-day flagship EuroTour course.
Our live, in-person programs are the most effective way to receive dozens of years of seduction & dating mastery experience condensed in a practical and minimalistic method that builds on your unique personality & tastes when it comes to women and lifestyle creation.
Everyone can benefit from them. College dudes as well as 40+ silver foxes are welcome and are guaranteed to get the tools to build the dating life they’ve always wanted but never knew how to get.
Currently we’re running most workshops in Kiev, Ukraine – very easy to get in, safe, everything open and most importantly endless amounts of insanely hot women everywhere:)
That doesn’t change the fact that a strong work ethic and discipline are major assets required to succeed in a man’s life.
But you need to balance them out with something else equally as important.
To find out what that is, check my latest video. Link below:
P.S. I’m back on the road for a new epic season of seduction & lifestyle design workshops!
That means you can now spend 4, 7, or 10 intensive days (up to 80+ hours of personalized coaching per student) learning from me and the entire TNL crew as we mentor you in achieving your most satisfyingresults in your romantic and social lives.
Currently, to guarantee the maximum safety for both our students and team coaches, as well as the bare minimum level of social restrictions, we decided to host most of our programs in Kyiv, Ukraine.
As I write this, I’m in the city myself, and the whole scene is vibrant and dazzling. Probably one of the best locations in 2021 to meet some of the most attractive, socially & sexually liberated women in the world.
To join me on your next epic journey of ultimate seductive success, click HERE.
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Being social is not to be confused with being a high-energy dancing monkey or artificially trying to behave as an extrovert.
Being social means, above all other things, interacting with a large variety of people daily without trying to directly get something from them (e.g. sleeping with them).
Ultimately, a social man is social with everyone.
Including other men, older people, kids, and even women he is not attracted to.
Why? Because personal charm, empathy, and good conversation skills are not something you can just switch on/off.
And by the time you’re put in front of a beautiful woman, you must be ready.
If you want to learn how to become more social and magnetic naturally, and without faking your personality, check my latest video. Link below:
P.S. If you want to get 40+ hours of intensive, in-person mentorship on how to expand your social & seductive universes, I’ve got great news for you…
Our 2021 coaching season has recently begun, and you can now join the entire TNL team on a personal journey to build your dream dating lifestyle as the world slowly begins to open back.
We currently have a few spots left for our 4-day Intensive program in Kyiv, Ukraine, running from May 20th-23rd, 2021. We’ve run several live workshops in Ukraine in the past year, and I can confidently say this is probably the best place in the world right now to meet tons of stunning, socially open women in a very safe way.
Click HERE to learn how the program works and why there’s nothing like it available elsewhere on how to transform your masculine reality.
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Are you satisfied with your life up to this very day?
Before you answer, realize the following:
Wherever you are right now, that’s exactly where you need to be.
Of course, the past year and a half have been pretty rough for everyone.
But still, some people experienced severe depression and boredom while others thrived even during lockdown.
Why is that?
If you’ve been following me for a while, you’ve probably heard me talking about the importance of having a well-designed lifestyle and social world––that’s the most important step towards true happiness.
But sometimes, none of that can happen unless you first break the chains that have been holding you down for years…
Your past stored painful memories.
Those are responsible for nearly every major confidence, social, and dating issue you’ve ever experienced.
Contributing to a constant internal “state of emergency” that never allows you to relax and connect with others.
If you want to learn how to effectively clean your past in order to build a successful future, check my latest video. Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to change the course of your life and become confident in dating high-quality women in 2021? Our coaching season has just begun!
For the next few months, you can get coached personally by me and the entire TNL crew by joining our upcoming 4, or 7-day live seduction workshops.
Every workshop covers extensively everything you’ll ever need to know about approaching women in multiple environments, having intriguing conversations, building masculine charisma, getting her number, texting frameworks, setting up social media funnels, organizing sexy dates, taking her back to your place without resistance and more.
I handpicked every program location to make sure it fulfills 3 fundamental criteria:
✓ Lockdown free.
✓ Safe to travel to & easy to reach no matter where you are located in the world.
✓ Filled to the brim with exotic, socially open stunners.
Alternatively, you can speak to one of our coaches to design a personalized training solution that fits your exact needs & challenges. Click HERE for that.
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Are you pursuing women and social success for the right reasons? It might sound counterintuitive to some, but “proving” yourself by getting more girls into bed doesn’t necessarily mean you’re improving as a man.
In fact, it might actually be an indicator of the opposite: regression.
Lots of guys are drawn to seduction and lifestyle work as ways to compensate for their wounded egos and get “revenge on the world” more than to enjoy themselves & the company of others.
Realistically, you cannot completely detach yourself from your past experiences, neither should you want to. But don’t let them dictate every single choice you make in the future either.
Instead, adopt the Adventurer Mindset…
Stop trying to live up to some external fantasies to prove yourself and others you’re cool and seek new experiences for the sake of it.
No expectations, nor unhealthy attachment to results, but simply following your inspiration.
Paradoxically, your success rate with girls will explode once you start doing this.
That’s because they’ll realize you don’t need them to feel good about yourself, and so they will begin to “chase”.
But this is something you cannot fake.
If you want to learn how to authentically give a lot less fuc*s in life and start improving as a man, check my latest video below.
P.S. If you want to make sure that your 2021 is full of epic adventures & seductive opportunities but don’t know how to make that happen, keep reading…
Our new coaching season has just started, and that means you get the opportunity of being mentored 80+ hours live in the entire TNL dating & lifestyle design curriculum.
Currently, we have some spots left for the intensive 4-day programs, the complete 7-day workshop, and even the infamous 10-day EuroTour.
Every workshop is guaranteed to teach you everything there is to know to get great at approaching women, having intriguing conversations, texting, setting dates, taking her home, organizing social circle events & more.
All our locations are completely lockdown-free, safe to travel to, and filled to the brim with attractive & socially open women.
To learn more about our coaching calendar and how the programs work, click HERE.
Ever had a conversation with a girl where she’s too quiet and only replies in short statements?
“Yes”. “Oh, cool”. “No, I don’t”.
I’ve been in that situation many times, and it feels pretty awkward.
Like she has no consideration for you, and you gotta do insane amounts of talking to avoid losing her.
So, how do you get her to invest more in the conversation?
Most guys view this as an “attraction problem”, and so they try to impress her by teasing her, telling funny jokes or crazy stories to prove they’re cool.
That’s a major mistake.
If you only focus on that, you’ll just create excessive pressure and she will close up even more.
And you actually want the exact opposite to happen: to make her open up.
Because most of the time, if a girl is comfortable and feels a strong connection with you, she will naturally become attracted.
If you want to learn how to create comfort verbally and overall improve your success rate in a natural, non-manipulative way, watch my latest video.
In it, I analyze some brand new infield footage I’ve recorded in 2021 and reveal to you the most important cues on how to connect with girls during daygame.
Click on the link below to watch it
P.S. If you want to ignite your dating & social success in a weird year such as 2021, without having to get lost in hyper-saturated apps like Tinder, we’ve got your back…
Our 4-day live workshops are the perfect solution for those brave men wanting to master the art of dating & re-design their lifestyle to go from scarcity to seductive abundance.
In them, you’ll be coached intensively and individually for over 30 hours combined, learning state of art blueprints for approaching in all sorts of environments, having seductive conversations, texting & social media, taking girls back home, and more.
Currently, we have a few spots left for the Kyiv Intensive running from May 20th-May 23rd, and one of them can be yours if you’re swift and motivated enough to join.
To learn more about it, or speaking with me directly to see whether it is a good fit for your current situation and obstacles, click HERE.
P.P.S. If you need further proof that it’s still possible to have an epic lifestyle and get lots of good seductive results even during lockdown times, follow me on my personal Instagram by clicking HERE (https://www.instagram.com/alexovertheocean/)
When you look back at the past 12 months, what do you see?
2020 was definitely what some investment analysts refer to as “a black swan” event and we all lived through its shockwaves.
If you too have “lost” one year of your life because of lockdowns & pandemic restrictions, then what is your next move?
As you can see, the situation is far from over yet…
And if you plan to just wait some more time until the government sorts this out, you’ll probably waste one, or more years in the process.
That’s the exact reason why I’ve launched my Lifestyle Design Academy, my premium 12-month live mentoring program that teaches you how to thrive and maximize your dating, social & financial success even during lockdown.
Over 450 men from 42 countries globally have joined the program so far and experienced tremendous progress & transformation in their lives.
If you want to learn how it works and if it can help you achieve your goals for 2021, check my latest video.
In it, I run a detailed walk-through of every single part of the Academy, revealing how the coaching, networking, accountability systems & practical modules function.
Click on the link below to check it out:
P.S. There are less than 24 hours left to join the Academy. Join me to make this year pivotal to our future
I’ve opened the enrollments for this program one week ago and we’re very close to reaching the maximum student capability for this round of the L.D.A.
The ambitious & committed guys who will manage to book their spots are in for a very epic ride…
That’s because taking part in the Academy is the closest thing you get to being mentored 1-on-1 by me in person, for one whole year of your life.
This is not another cookie-cutter, pre-recorded nonsense program that will sit in your hard drive for years.
This is a 100% Live program with live weekly Zoom lectures, live masterclasses with world-class guest coaches, and 24/7 networking & accountability on our global LDA group including hundreds of members.
And if you join, you also get access to an exclusive suite of bonuses including 100+ hours of value-packed webinars, entire conferences, courses, Q&A panels, seduction encyclopedias & more.
If you’re tired of wasting your life and want to make 2021 a year worth remembering, click HERE to start your journey.
Ever wondered to what extent your age affects your dating opportunities?
On my live workshops, one of the common fears preventing guys from approaching is:
“I’m too old for her.”
As a man in his mid-thirties or his early 40s, you may feel uncomfortable at the idea of approaching women who are ten or fifteen years younger.
The underlying limiting belief is that she might consider you boring and less sexy when compared to her peers, and that’s not entirely false…
Lots of men after a certain age—as they get completely absorbed by their draining careers and duties—stop putting effort into their appearance & personality.
As a result, their seductive value on the marketplace plummets, and their opportunities with hotties dwindle.
But that’s only one side of the coin…
The best seducers I’ve ever met, who are dating models & young attractive women on a regular basis, are mostly men who are in their mid to late thirties and 40’s.
That’s because when you take proper care of yourself, stay young in your mindset and spirit, and embody the right archetype, being an older dude has tremendous advantages.
I explain to you what they are, and how to consistently date younger girls in my latest video. Click the link below to check it out:
P.S. If your current life routine is flat and unattractive, to the point that it limits your seductive results and social opportunities, you need to change––and redesign––the script…
That’s the focus of my Lifestyle Design Academy, my 12-month mentorship program that teaches you how to build your dream lifestyle & access insane levels of seductive success, even during the lockdown.
This is by far the most in-depth and value-packed program I’ve ever released, and that’s for a special reason…
In contrast to most courses out there, which contain a bunch of pre-recorded theory videos and little guidance or accountability on how to execute, the L.D.A is 100% Live training.
That means you’ll personally contribute to shaping its structure and outcomes by participating every week on a Live Zoom training webinar with me, followed by personalized missions to implement what you’ve learned while receiving 24/7 accountability & feedback on our L.D.A global brotherhood group that includes over 400 other students & mentors.
You also get immediate access to 100+ hours of epic bonuses that I’ve carefully selected to guarantee you’ll receive the most life-altering education known to man in 2021 on how to build a masterpiece life in a practical, no B.S. fashion.
However, this opportunity won’t be available forever…
Hundreds of guys have already joined and so the enrollments for the Academy will close in less than 48 hours from now, on Monday at midnight.
If you’re tired of living a “traditional” life that lacks adventure, real purpose, and time to pursue what you really love, this is your chance to get a fresh start.
