How To Date 22 Models In 2022 – The Ultimate Guide

If you’ve ever wondered how to consistently date the top 5% of beautiful women…

The models, the fitness influencers, the club dancers, Strippers & OnlyFans stars, the sexy cosplay girls, I have great news for you today.

My Lifestyle Design Academy is finally LIVE!

This is an 8-month mentorship program personally taught by me as I take you through my secret blueprint to design a Masterpiece social & sexual lifestyle from scratch. Click HERE to check it out.

Now, in order to start bringing more of these high-level women into your life, you need to understand something first…

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In most cases, cold approach seduction is not enough.

That’s because these top-tier females are NOT normally found in the streets and bars most guys go to, ready to be approached. They’re part of exclusive high-barrier social scenes designed by strategic groups of men to enjoy them without having to compete for their attention with the rest of the world.

Sure, if you are really stubborn and approach thousands of new women every year, eventually you might be lucky to score a couple of those rare birds.

 

But with the right tools and blueprint to follow, you can 10X your results by strategically designing a Seductive Lifestyle that does the hard work for you, often passively on autopilot.

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After spending the first 17 years of my adult life learning how to do this myself, I now teach it to my private 1-on-1 students as a simple 3-step process to max out their social & dating lives.

The first step is Targeting

Before you start attracting models and high-status women in your life on autopilot, you need to understand where and who these girls normally hang out with. Your bombshell fitness trainer will probably not spend her nights and free time in the same places and with the same crew that a hot tattooed BDSM queen would.

For the former, it would probably be a VIP social circle with other health-conscious people, probably not obsessed with crazy partying and more devoted to private daytime events, exclusive dinners, yoga retreats, and so on. For the latter, a very Elite group of practitioners that meet in underground settings and rarely accept new members.

Once you have targeted the precise social scene you want to access, finally you need to find an entry point or–as we call it in the Lifestyle Design Academy–a “Gatekeeper”.

These figures are normally not so hard to find. They are the connectors, they know everyone, and for this reason, and are social butterflies. With the right system, you can confidently approach them and proceed to…

 

The second step: Penetrating & Building Bonds

When you find a gatekeeper, it is paramount that you know precisely how to connect with him or her and offer unique value in exchange for being introduced to his social scene.

This is the most delicate moment in the entire Lifestyle Design process and where most men fail and never get to access those top 5% of women.

For example, if you want to seduce stunning club dancers and you approach a well-connected nightclub owner asking him to introduce you to his girls without offering anything in return, he will probably categorize you as another thirsty dude and forever ban you from his network.

And when that happens, your reputation is burned and you might have to wait a long time before coming across another good opportunity.

The key to getting this right the first time is knowing how to read everyone’s emotional blueprint and offer in return something valuable (e.g., help their business, give them advice, introduce them to a new network, etc) they would not be able to find anywhere else.

If you get this right, you’ll be able to enter their social environment right from a top position in its hierarchy, with attractive factors like status and power working for you as a result of being introduced as an honorable guest.

This brings us to…

 

The third step: Leveraging it all

The moment you get access to a VIP social scene your goal should be to create as much Leverage as you can, as fast as possible.

This means accumulating many new social assets such as great friends, lovers, business allies, and other people that you can make part of a larger social ecosystem that works proactively to help you get more hot women, connections, and income streams on autopilot.

 

A primary example of this is what I and my private student call “booty calls by referral”.

If you seduce and sleep with a model and she tells her friends that you are a guy who is chill, good in bed, and will treat them with respect, of course, they’ll take this option on recommendation over a random rich guy in a club or tinder hookup. Think of it like YELP reviews for sex:) This may sound crazy but it’s a common practice in female social circles. There are often a couple of reliable stuntc*cks handed around female groups, and, as long as you is discrete and treat everyone well, the ladies are happy to share.

If you found the information inside this email useful, this is just the tip of the educational iceberg of what I will teach you the moment you join my Lifestyle Design Academy.

 

And if you’re really serious about dating the most exclusive women on the planet and building a cool network of epic friends & allies, join me and your LDA brothers right NOW because…

To reward the TRUE action takers who are willing to put in the work to see real changes (while most people just wait for the world to go back to “normal”), I’ve included THREE value-packed extra bonuses for those who join the Academy within the next 36 hours. That’s on top of 9 other bonuses which include over 200 hours of exclusive content, guaranteed to help you experience wild results & growth for many years to come on your lifestyle design journey.

CLICK HERE to join me in this new, crazy adventure as we turn your life into a Masterpiece of social, sexual, and personal success.

Hope to see you on the first day of class.

Peace,

James

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5 Top Seduction Tips For Shy Guys

Shy guys often wonder if they’ll ever meet a girl. Some of them turn to the internet for seduction tips. This can be confusing when they come across extroverted ‘life-of-the-party’ style pickup artists and seduction coaches.

“Could that really be me?” They ask, wondering if they’ll ever be able to feel comfortable in a nightclub.

The good news is, you don’t have to! Here are my 5 Top Seduction Tips For Shy Guys:

1. You don’t have to be high energy

If you’ve ever watched infield videos of James Marshall you’ll see that he’s cool, calm and collected, almost to the point of being boring. A natural introvert, he likes to keep things low key. Many guys assume that because some pickup artists they watch shout and yell and are high energy, that this is the ONLY way to meet girls. If you are a shy guy, this is going to make things WORSE for you, as you burn up your energy, stress yourself out, and adopt behaviours that don’t fit your natural temperament. Low energy can be as powerful, if not more powerful approach, as it gives the girl space and time to relax, get to know you, and allows sexual tension to develop.

2. Some girls think shy guys are cute

Not every girl wants a muscle bound suit wearing rich guy. Some girls find shy guys cute and endearing. Does this mean you can just ‘be yourself’? Not exactly. You still need to approach women, show sexual intent, and make a move. But it doesn’t have to be super smooth. Awkwardness transforms into sexual tension if she likes you.

3. Sometimes the girl is just as shy as you

Many guys think that all girls are the same. Some are confident, and some are super shy! Knowing this helps you to stop interpreting every awkward moment as your fault… sometimes she’s just nervous too.

4. Speaking less is better

You don’t have to dominate the conversation. In fact, leaving space for her to talk puts more pressure on her to invest in the conversation, allows you to listen more and find out about her. This is a good chance to give her a flirtatious look with your eyes to turn friendly chit chat into sexually charged conversation.

5. With practice you will relax

Rejection is good! If you are shy, the best thing you can do is go an get rejected. You will start to realize it’s not so bad, and avoid becoming obsessed over trying to make the seduction go perfectly. Learning to be relaxed and comfortable after rejection is a vital skill for the rest of your life. Go get rejected today!

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How To Be More Direct Without Being A D*ck

James Marshall’s Story

Can you be direct?

Do you know how to ask for what you want? Or do you do nice things and hope people (women specifically) will realize your needs and give them to you? If someone cuts in line or a waiter is rude to you, do you apologize, deflect and stay silent? When a girl you’re dating contradicts you or makes fun of your passion in public, do you let it slide or do you sit her down for a talk? The answer to these individual examples is all encapsulated under the principle of directness. 

For a long time, an argument has divided men in the seduction community…

“When approaching women is it better to go DIRECT or INDIRECT?”

A Harsh Truth

Right now most of the world is under some kind of social distancing measures to avoid the spread of the novel coronavirus COVID 19 so no one is approaching anybody. So while we’re all on the bench, it’s a good time to dissect the way you used to relate to women in pre-corona days. And, just as importantly, it’s a good time to start making changes internally so that when you come out of the lockdown cocoon you won’t waste any more of your life. Yes, I am telling you that you have wasted large parts of your life so far. We all did in some ways; spending months or years in toxic relationships, dead-end jobs, addictions, depression, living for other people’s expectations, worrying about things that may never happen. The question is, how much did you waste? A few months, a year in total? We can live with that level of regret. 5 years, 10 years… That is huge chunks of your adult life you can’t get back.

How do I define waste? Were you enjoying your life, were you doing the things you wanted and were you with the people you wanted to be with in healthy, mutually respectful and pleasurable relationships? If the answer for long periods is no then that time was wasted. The truth is if that is a fact for you and you don’t change your internal patterns and external behaviour you will keep wasting big, priceless blocks of your life. I have to be blunt, none of us have any more time for living in denial, distraction or ignorance. It’s time to wake the fuck up.

Don’t ‘do’ direct, ‘be’ direct

Now, where was I…back to seduction technicalities:) When thinking about directness a lot of guys assume that it boils down to walking up to an attractive girl and telling her she’s hot. That is one example of an expression of a direct person but it isn’t directness in the bigger sense. How do I, James Marshall, the biggest supporter of direct game rights in the world, define good direct seduction? Ultimately, approaching women directly just means being honest and expressing why you like them and decided to meet them, versus, for example,"asking for directions" and hoping to covertly attract them in the process. 

That’s really it. 10 years of TNL teachings, in a nutshell, presented to you for free. The biggest problem, however, that most of our students face when following this advice, is that they often copy-paste my lines into what they say with the result of being uncalibrated and creeping the girl out, or worse, getting ignored. The words I say aren’t magic, they have no power at all. It is the direct man delivering them, or whatever variation feels natural for him, that makes the difference. If you have been struggling with this in the past, the first thing you need to realize is that…


Directness is not an opener


What I mean by that is that you cannot transition from being a very reserved, non-confrontational, wallflower type of guy for most of your life to a fearless seducer just by using one line. Directness is an attitude, a way of living. It’s not something that you have to do in order to get the girl. Rather, it’s the way you approach life, as a man who knows what he wants from it (or at least is on the resolute path to find out).

So how can you develop this trait more without sounding fake or offending people around you? First, start with small steps. Remember, it is all about developing the habit of expressing what you truly desire without too many filters. Next time someone asks your opinion on something, just tell him what you think and don’t worry about being rude. See what it’s like to have a debate, to disagree, to point out the flaw in an argument. Second, learn to embrace the idea of positive confrontation. I’m not suggesting you go out in the street and start a fight with the grocery store clerk, but that when you’re not happy with the way someone is treating you, you just point it out to them and have a constructive conversation about the issue. Third, for a deeper dive into this book a constructive conversation with one of our online coaches and start developing your ability to be direct and get what you want without trampling others and being a dick.

Peace,

James

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