I’ve always liked this piece of advice, but at the same time, I feel it creates as many problems as it solves.
Don’t get me wrong, there is an important truth to it…
Having a strong network of elite friends and allies who care about you is perhaps the most effective way to speed-up your business & social results.
Still, most people make inherently some misunderstandings when it comes to “networking”.
The biggest one is probably treating it as a one-off type of situation, such as:
-Attending a networking conference.
-Joining a party hosted by influential people.
-Sending lots of connection requests on LinkedIn premium.
Most of these traditional networking methods have a single, specific goal: exchanging contacts with others hoping to magically make something profitable together in the future.
Spoiler alert…Most times, it won’t happen.
Strong partnerships and 6-figure deals are rarely born out of 5-minute chit-chats between strangers, followed by exchanging business cards –– unless you’re a well-established millionaire already ;)
If you want to turn conversations into profitable alliances, you must first create deep bonds of trust and respect with others. Check my latest video for a comprehensive guide on how to do so. Link below…
P.S. If you want to learn a practical, no b.s system to network the right way and 10X your social, sexual & career success, I have great news for you…
On March 14th, 2021, I will be officially opening the enrollments to my Lifestyle Design Academy.
L.D.A is TNL’s most successful digital program ever, with hundreds of transformation stories from guys like you who took the core principles taught in the course and applied them to their own situation, rapidly enhancing the quality of their lifestyles.
What makes the Academy different from anything else I’ve ever put out there is that you will not only be coached by me, live on a weekly basis, with opportunities to interact and receive personal feedback…
…But you will also get to join my own personal network of elite specialists (which took me over 20 years to build) as I will often invite guest coaches from very unique schools of human potential to join me for the lectures.
Click HERE to get a sneak peek into one of our lectures.
Are you tired of living a repetitive and predictable life?
Perhaps, at night you dream of escaping the corporate rat-race and becoming your own boss…
Traveling the world more often, and re-locating in a different city now and then to experience diverse cultures and of course ladies.
After all, you got only one life. Why waste it doing something that doesn’t truly fulfill you?
If you identify with these yearnings, thedigital nomad lifestyle might be what you’re looking for.
For most people, being a digital nomad boils down to three things: freedom, opportunity, and adventure.
Popularised by self-development author Tim Ferris in his iconic book The 4-Hour Workweek, the premise of digital nomadism keeps fascinating tens of thousands of guys every year.
What’s more, virtually everyone can join the movement. All you need to start is your laptop, a one-way ticket to Bali, and the ambition to make this kind of life a reality.
But is the grass really greener on the other side?
I and my crew of close associates have been living the digital nomad dream since way before the term was coined–– it is a rewarding life path, but a very challenging one as well.
Isolation, overworking breakdown, difficulty to build a new social circle every time you move places. This road less traveled is paved with complexity and a need for true self-reliance.
That’s why I’ve recorded a brand new video explaining to you in detail how to build your own digital nomad lifestyle from scratch without shooting yourself in the foot.
In it, I interview my fellow TNL coach and Pro digi nomad, Alex León, breaking down the most important steps, mindsets, and practical strategies that took him from a shy Austrian nerd to world-traveler and business owner in a couple of years.
Click on the link below to watch it.
P.S. Digital nomadism is one of the several lifestyle options that you will learn to master and execute in the Lifestyle Design Academy.
Contrary to most online business, travel-hacking, or social dynamics courses out there, the L.D.A method is not another cookie-cutter lifestyle program, but an intensive mentorship focused on assisting you in designing and implementing your personalized lifestyle design strategy.
We had hundreds of student joining the first edition of the Academy back in 2020, and many of them successfully developed new, diverse, lifestyles such as: making a living as creative artists, exploring the international BDSM scene, launching an online business, turning into well-connected socialites in their own cities, starting a modeling agency, as well as just freeing more personal time to spend with their friends and family.
If you too want to dynamically transform your life in 2021 from average to epic, make sure to book your spot in the newest edition of the Lifestyle Design Academy launching on March 14th.
More details on the program coming soon. Stay tuned 😉
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4 Steps To Start A Business (No Lambos, No B.S. promises)
4 Steps To Start A Business (No Lambos, No B.S. promises)
Are you tired of grinding in the corporate hamster wheel?
Spitting blood and putting all your time into someone else’s dream…
“It’s 2021…Time to start a business bro…To become your own boss!”
All you need is a laptop, a video course costing a few hundred bucks teaching basic service providing, and you’re all set for lifetime entrepreneurial success.
But is it really that simple?
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics (US), nearly 70% of new businesses fail within 10 years of their launch.
This data is not meant to scare you off from pursuing your own entrepreneurial dream, but if you’re truly firm about going this route, you must understand what you’re getting into…
Although I’ve managed to create a successful business that has steadily grown for over 10 years, I’m no “business guru” boasting Lambos and bookshelves…
…Neither do I aspire to become one, but as I’ve befriended and coached many wealthy entrepreneurs throughout the years, I’ve learned that the most successful ones are those who focus on 4 main things:
First, they pick a good business idea. This is perhaps the hardest part of the process because most people either waste years trying to come up with something, or they dive headfirst into business by following a passion that leads nowhere (e.g entering a hyper-saturated market).
Second, they make a realistic Income Plan. They assess their expenses to start the venture and keep it going, while also considering how long before they’ll able to make a real profit.
Third, they continually test & implement new methods to optimize their hustle. In fact, the best biz. owners I know are those who progressively managed to remove themselves from the business and “work less” by delegating mid-level tasks to others.
Finally, the most successful entrepreneurs schedule “off-time” in their calendar. In my opinion, the whole point of choosing self-employment is to ultimately create a life of freedom and fulfillment. Unfortunately, many business owners let the business completely eat their life. Learning to black in “off time/you time” is vital for your long-term health and happiness.
As you probably realized by now, starting and running your own venture––while keeping your social & dating lives intact––is no easy task, despite what all the Instagram motivational posts will tell you.
To help you better understand how real digital and offline entrepreneurs conduct their operations, I’ve released a video explaining the 4 steps above in detail and how to adapt each one of them to your situation to successfully “become your own boss”.
Click the link below to watch it.
P.S. Perhaps the most common trait shared by my elite business contacts is that each one of them has built large global networks, throughout the years, of collaborators and friends who are willing to help them out whenever challenges arise and to trade insider secrets, investment opportunities and evolving strategies for success.
When first starting out in your early years of business it can be hard to access elite and knowledgeable networks and mentors.
But the good news is that you’ll be able to join the largest and most diverse network I’m part of, by booking your place in my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th.
When you join the L.D.A, you’ll get immediate access to our global “Lifestyle Design Inner Circle”, a secret task-force group counting hundreds of elite members, including many of our TNL coaches & business partners, all sharing epic visions for our collective and individual ambitions.
Lots of these guys are successful entrepreneurs themselves, while others have built incredibly successful careers, and no matter who you are…they’ll help you and your business out.
Stay tuned for some epic LDA Insiders content, and a very special invitation, coming your way in the next few days 😉
Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably heard about the latest insane investment opportunities:
BTC’s price skyrocketing, teenagers turning into millionaires after purchasing shares from a semi-deceased videogame retailer company.
You might be asking yourself: how do these people do it?
Here’s the caveat...
According to research, up to 40% of the “new rich” internet investors have acquired their wealth not because of some secret understanding of the market but by merely trusting someone else’s advice.
I myself have earned significant profits from cryptocurrencies and real-estate, despite knowing very little about those subjects.
In my case, my network of mentors, élite specialists, and close friends does the work for me, suggesting to me when to short, buy, or hold.
But this is not limited only to financial opportunities.
After coaching very successful men in the social arts for the past 12 years, I realized that individual skills and expertise are often not enough to make a difference in terms of real success.
What separates the real pros in any field from everyone else is not what they know…
…But who they know (and what you know about who you know AND… how much they give a sh*t about you).
Work hard as a lone-wolf and you will get somewhere, collaborate with ten other elite guys and you will get 10 times as far.
It is as simple and effective as that.
Without the ability to connect with people beyond a baseline level of politeness and turn them into loyal friends and allies, you’re bound to experience only a fraction of your full potential.
Once you start approaching things this way, you’ll realize that there is ONE key asset you must own before you can start to make money, and people, work for you.
To find out what that is, watch my latest video. Link below.
P.S. If you’ve always wanted to learn the exact steps to build a social circle & tribe and gain access to epic adventures, investment opportunities, and abundance with women, you can do so by joining my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy 2.0.
This is an 8-week accelerated mentorship program in which you’ll be coached by me personally through weekly interactive live lectures, Q&A sessions, weekly practical missions drills, and get access to dozens of hours of unreleased TNL lifestyle teachings.
The course will open for enrollments on March 14th, 2021, and will accept applications for one week only; after that time is over, the coaching sessions will begin right away 😉
Stay tuned for more information and exclusive bonuses that I will send to you in the coming weeks.
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The Art Of Gardening (& Rockstar-Level Lifestyle Success)
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The Art Of Gardening (& Rockstar-Level Lifestyle Success)
We all have guilty pleasures.
Many people crave sweets, booze, psychedelic drugs, and steamy orgies.
I prefer gardening, (actually I like some of those too) and here’s why you should too…
In 2020 alone, I invested significant amounts of my capital and time in renovating my 40-acre property in Portugal by combining advanced landscape architecture techniques with permaculture principles.
See? That’s me 😉
The thing that fascinates me the most about gardening work is the possibility to use proven techniques and tools to artificially speed-up––and complete in a few years––natural processes that organically would take decades to realize (if they did at all).
It really feels like having god-like powers of some sort.
Now, bear with me for one second and imagine you’re a gardener as well, and you decide to join me for some time to plant seeds together.
But instead of olive trees and edibles, we strategically plant seeds in your social life that with the right treatment are going to germinate and increase your social and sexual opportunities 10x faster compared to what you’ve tried before.
Would you give it a try?
For the past 12 years, while growing TNL, I’ve been coaching a small focus group of elite, high-paying clients on the side in what I believe to be a true “germination accelerator” of social success…
I called it the “Seductive Economy” method.
Today, after years in the vault, and to help as many men as possible to make the best of these hard times, I decided to release a video explaining in detail how the Seductive Economy works and how you can apply it to your own life.
Click the link below to watch it.
P.S. If you liked the idea of us spending four seasons together breaking down your social life and planting scientifically engineered super-seeds that will tremendously enhance it, I’ve got good news for you…
You can do so by joining my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy launching on March 14th.
L.D.A is an intensive 8-week mentorship followed by ten months of lectures entirely hosted by me and a number of selected world-class coaches that I regularly invite on weekly live Zoom classes to coach the students. In the program, we cover very diverse lifestyle design topics such as advanced sexual mastery, BDSM, Tantra, but also online (& offline) business strategies, traveling hacks, social circle engineering, movement culture, masculinity rewiring, archetypal psychology, shamanism, and many more others.
There are over 50 hours of live lectures and 50+ hours of never-before-released support material in the upcoming LDA.
The whole idea behind the training is to give you the most effective toolbox ever released to build (or improve) your dream lifestyle under all the most important metrics.
You need to invest resources into them regularly if you want to make real profits, and the risk of getting screwed big time is always present.
Yet, unlike gambling and stocks, having a kickass network of friends, partners, and wingmen around you is a core necessity if you want to lead a joyful and successful life.
Does that mean that betrayal and painful conflicts between friends are inevitable?
Maybe, but not necessarily.
If you know how to establish solid boundaries from the get-go and effectively confront others, you can keep the damages to a minimum and maximize the good stuff.
Part of the “maximizing” process is also knowing when to fight to prevent the boat from sinking, and when to just let go of people.
Sometimes even the best partnerships are bound to end in a few years’ time.
Priorities change, and people who were once aligned in both vision and purpose suddenly depart from each other; a new cycle of the hero’s journey begins, and new potential collaborators enter your reality.
Only the strongest, most authentic, and mutually-invested relationships will survive.
The good news? Most of this process is completely within your control.
Once you understand how to quickly spot red flags, use direct negotiation skills to permanently clear misunderstandings, and get other people to invest in you to create unbreakable trust, your social success & confidence will reach new peaks.
I reveal some of my most powerful strategies of the above in my latest video. Click the link below to watch it.
P.S. Finding the right new friends and collaborators isn’t easy.
If you’re not involved in some environment that encourages socializing and getting to know each other like high-school or college (that’s why most people reach their “popularity peak” during those years), it will take you a while before stumbling into someone compatible with you.
Back when I started seduction almost 15 years ago, I waited a good couple of years before finding my first real wing-man and the same amount of time to break things off with him.
But you don’t have to go through the same hurdle…
In my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th, I give you complete access to my entire personal network of elite coaches, business owners, fitness & sexuality specialists, and many more.
Plus, when you join the L.D.A community you’ll be instantly introduced to hundreds of aspirant lifestyle designers from around the world, like you who are resolute both in mindset and purpose and are willing to collaborate with you on epic projects, such as our current Academy member Tobias…
To make sure you receive all the updates & some EPIC bonuses when I officially open the enrollment to a limited number of men on March 14th, keep checking my next emails.
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The Truth About Ayahuasca
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I’ve always been fascinated by the complexities of the subconscious mind.
Such an obscure and unexplored place, yet wielding tremendous power.
“The Philosopher’s Stone”
That’s how the legendary Hermetic tradition used to refer to the transformative capacities of our inner world.
In the past two hundred years, dozens of methods and toolboxes have been assembled to help people “dive in”…
Traditional schools of psychoanalysis, hypnosis, advanced meditation practices, and self-development literature, among others.
The most notable problem with these is they begin to produce results after a long time, in most cases years of practice (that’s how long it takes on average to overcome our conscious barriers and finally begin to remodel the sub psyche).
For thousands of years, however, a very effective catalyst for the inner journey has been used extensively by Amazonian tribes: Ayahuasca.
Referred to as the “vine of the soul”, this unique psychotropic brew prepared by the local curanderos (healers/shamans) has achieved worldwide notoriety, spawning hundreds of “Ayahuasca seminars” all over the world claiming to offer westerners the original thing.
Over the past 15 years, I’ve taken dozens of doses of the “holy drink” in very different settings and under the guidance of very diverse masters.
What I realized is that most people underestimate the powers of Ayahuasca.
If not taken properly or under a toxic/untrained mentor, one single trip can mess you up mentally and physically for months, or worse…
With the right teacher, setting and mindsets, it can propel you into uncharted areas of growth, joy, and insight.
That’s why I decided to film a short guide on doing Ayahuasca the right way. Click the link below to check it out!
P.S. Traditional shamanic medicine is an excellent way to get started on your healing journey and develop your character.
But it’s only a tool in a larger arsenal of personal transformation and masculine enhancement systems that you can master to truly “evolve” your spirit & body.
After helping thousands of men over the past 12 years to conquer their fears and build amazing social and sexual lives, I’ve realized how the lack of a proper initiation into manhood is the core issue behind most chronic masculine character problems.
That led me to design a very unique and hybrid kind of coaching program focused on helping you reclaim and express your dormant masculine power: the Natural Warrior Training.
I’m running the next Warrior program start of May this year at my personal retreat center in Portugal. Join me and an elite mind/body/soul coaching crew and yes… You’ll get to trip down the rabbit hole with an experienced shaman (and me).
On workshops, I often get asked what’s the best way to approach women: directly or indirectly?
My answer often surprises the students…
Directness is not a style of seduction, but a way of life.
You cannot shyly tiptoe through life, never daring to express your honest opinion, pleasing others instead of confronting them, and then expect to boldly approach a woman in the streets.
Think about that, in terms of how you’ve lived your life so far.
If you want to develop a brave, straightforward attitude, you must live authentically according to your will 24/7.
Make no mistake, being direct is not about bossing people around with arrogance either.
It boils down to two consequential steps:
First, develop your self-awareness to realize what you truly want in life, or in a given situation.
Second, express your honest intentions in clear, no b.s. way, while still taking into consideration other people’s feelings –– empathy is the key.
For a concise guide to developing a direct approach to your own life, refer to my latest video. Link below.
P.S. If you really desire to finally start living a reality that matches your social, romantic, and financial expectations, I’ve got good news for you.
On March 14th, 2021, I’ll be opening the enrollments of my Lifestyle Design Academy 2.0.
The Academy is TNL’s most successful program ever, with hundreds of positive success stories, and a practical method anyone can follow to start designing and bringing to life their own masterpiece lifestyle.
By joining the LDA brotherhood, you’ll learn not only how to achieve the external goals & success you’ve always fantasized about, but also how to develop your character and inner qualities so that you can finally start feeling worthy of more.
Keep checking your inbox in the coming weeks for more details on the LDA relaunch and heaps of more free life-changing content
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3 Principles Everyone Starting Daygame Should Learn
3 Principles Everyone Starting Daygame Should Learn
The more I advance in my masculine path and collaborate with other élite specialists, the more I realize true mastery is NOT attained by learning hundreds of different techniques…
…But by executing a few principles in a flawless way.
It’s like having a limited amount of fuel to reach a destination: if you constantly change your path, you’ll gas out before getting to the end.
But how do we determine whether a principle is superior to another one or not?
The answer is a subjective one: it depends on the individual necessities.
For example, when I started my seduction journey, I didn’t experience many of the so-called beginner’s hell problems…
My Shaolin training had taught me to reach very high levels of presence and the ability to get out of my head.
And all the years I had spent on stages with my funk band had pretty much annihilated my social anxiety.
Still, I was far from perfect, and getting physical with a girl was a major issue for me.
But that’s just my story.
Some of the best seducers I’ve met throughout my journey had a very different set of challenges to deal with.
That’s why at our live workshops I often invite a number of external guest teachers to join the TNL coaching team…
So that every student is guaranteed to learn from someone they can deeply relate to.
You can get a glimpse of what I’m talking about by watching my latest video.
In it, I team up with fellow dating coaches and long-time collaborators, Sasha Daygame and John Keegan, to reveal to you the 3 most important principles you should learn when getting started in seduction.
Recently I’ve been wondering..Why is it that some guys come across as masculine and sexy while others struggle to be seen as attractive no matter what?
It is as if some men have an X-factor that gets girls attracted to them on the spot.
You’ve seen it too before…
Take famous actors like Sean Connery or Daniel Craig.
Very different looking, but they both nail the 007 part; what do they share in common?
They exude pure masculinity.
They don’t need to speak or act cool to prove themselves worthy, they know a woman is winning by spending time with them.
As a dating coach, I often come across guys who interact with women in very nice-guy, soft kinds of ways who need to be taught how to be more masculine in their demeanor…
To their surprise, the way I approach this initially is through meditation.
That’s because true masculinity is obtained only by re-arranging a number of inner factors. It is not a matter of just toughening up, but mainly enhancing your awareness in key character areas such as love, compassion, conflict resolution, and more.
If you want to learn more about how to develop a healthy masculine mindset, check my latest video.
In it, joined by our executive coach Shae Matthews, I dive deep into the unexplored world of Masculine Archetypes, and how to re-integrate them into your persona. Link below to watch it.
P.S. If you want to learn a complete method of inner work that will teach you how to interact with the different aspects of your archetypal self, check my premium 6-weekAwareness Meditation Course. In it, you will learn a system to effectively start your Inner journey towards a socially-free, more masculine, healthy version of yourself.
