Let’s be fair, nobody likes getting rejected.

It sucks as much on day one as it does after a decade of approaching countless women.

But what separates the beginner from the man who is actually great with the ladies is the capacity of not letting a bad interaction discourage him from continuing to find the right girl.

You’re not for everyone, and everyone is not for you as my good friend John Keegan says.

Within this duality lies the true essence of a rejection-proof mindset.

Sure, as your social skills improve and you accumulate references, you will succeed more and more at dating, but you will never fully eliminate blowouts.

Because the factors that drive a woman to turn you down are often not in your control…

Maybe you’re just not her type, she’s already emotionally invested in someone and doesn’t want to cheat, or she’s simply having a bad day or not in the headspace to meet new guys.

With these premises in mind, why would you take it so personally when she quickly dismisses you? Accept it, politely walk away, and keep going…

And when you do, you will find that after a disheartening interaction often comes an unexpected encounter with a stunning and sexy “dream” type of girl who is very much into you.

For a prime example of this concept, give a watch to my latest video below…

In it, you will initially see me getting blown out three times in a row, but if you keep watching, you’ll witness how, immediately after that I score a fun flirty conversation with a fitness model who, by the end of it, is very keen to give me her number and see me again.

Some men think they always need to be in exactly the right “state” to successfully approach women…

Well rested, in a good mood, great levels of energy, the weather should be not too hot nor too chilly.

But the reality is that you don’t always need A-level, incredibly smooth game to get results in dating.

You should own whatever mental and energy state you’re in and adapt your seduction style to it, instead of trying to emulate a golden standard that doesn’t feel authentic in the moment.

If you’re feeling low-energy and introverted, carry on with it and allow silence, eye contact, and the expression of your burning intent in the conversation to do the work.

And when you’re feeling pumped and social, let your banter take over, and don’t be afraid to engage in longer interactions, instead of playing the cold mysterious type who doesn’t talk a lot.

Ultimately, this is about being very comfortable in your skin… Because if you can’t accept yourself, how can you expect a woman to do it?

For proof of what I’m talking about, watch my latest video below. In it, I venture into the streets of Budapest in a very lazy, low-energy mood and still manage to get it on with multiple attractive women and take home some solid results.