The Natural

I met James mid last year(2006)whilst working on a film(he was the lead actor). I didn't really have that much to do with him during shooting but we bonded on the night of the wrap party. I would have to say that I hadn't met anybody as intriguing as him for a long while(considering I meet lots of people everyday, that's a big arse compliment)I dropped him off home in the wee hours of the morning and we swapped cards and promised to hook up again. And we did. Over and over again.

It wasn't till we truly bonded that he told me about the Seduction community and his involvement in it. I laughed at him and said "come on show us what your made of." Right there at the bar I then witnessed what I'd only seen in movies and read about in books. This guy was the real deal. I wanted to know more. He showed me. He's still showing me. I always thought I was a natural and in some ways I am. But adding this knowledge to my repertiore, I'm not only a natural, but a lady killer to boot.

Thanks James. Without you I would still be hitting on girls that didn’t really do it for me, thinking that I couldn't do any better. 

Hey James,

Well I finally decided to check out your web site, so you were telling the truth hey?

Its Lisa from Perth, we met at  the Marrakesh. Nice site, really like the section on ethics, good to see. I think I told you I was a Drama teacher and an actor, its interesting to see that it doesn't matter what you do in life, if you don't have the inner beauty and a self focus that embraces integrity, you really don't have the attractive qualities that have depth and  realness to them.

You were very smooth and funky, you certainly haven't lost that quirky edge, left of field always holds a certain mystery, but what am I doing???

You already know this stuff. It was interesting that you told me what you were doing that night, perhaps that was the way to let me know I was just a workshop in progress, its fine, I’m laughing as I type, I’m just trying to work out if it was a compliment or not..ha ha

Well I just wanted to commend you on improving peoples self esteem and belief in themselves, there is nothing more rewarding than giving someone wings, and I imagine that can happen anywhere from a class and a stage to a Natural workshop.

Take care Mr Funk,

I have just recently taken The  Natural weekend intensive workshop with James in Vilnius, Lithuania. I must say I spent a glorious weekend with him. James is a great instructor, and I have much respect for him.

He’s cool and friendly, it was a pleasure to hang out with him, but most importantly James is a professional instructor, having him by your side everything just seems so easy and natural. Before the workshop I hadn’t approached many girls in my life, but during workshop I had no problems with approaching, James somehow made me forget all my anxieties. It’s great, but most thankful I am for his advices and field insights, those were priceless for me.

Also we did a role playing practice with two female models. I have to admit I was very skeptical about it and haven’t expected much value from that, but in reality I’ve got a lot of value from this role playing practice, I’ve learned how to touch girls in a cool and confident way, and I’ve become much more confident with touching and having conversations with girls. Actually it improved my game big time.

And of course I want to brag a little.. On the second day of workshop I’ve actually pulled the girl and have had my first one night stand in my life! Of course I wouldn’t have been able to do that without help from James. He’s great teacher and great wing, and together we pulled a two set home. Glory times.

All in all, I have had one of the best weekends in my entire life, and I feel like a better person after that weekend, I feel like I have some positive aura around me now, and I don’t care if it sounds funny J.

I want to thank James for awesome weekend I’ve had, for teaching me how to deal with the girls, as well as for helping me with my personal issues and problems, for helping me to decide on my goals, for encouraging me to stand my ground and inspiring me to take what I really want from this life. I feel in control of my life now.

Best regards,

He also gave me some really specific advice about how to make the most of an upcoming overseas trip. Ultimately this is about how you want to live your life and the kind of person you want to be and it's helpful to have a friendly voice questioning and prodding you in the right direction.

James Marshall, a trainer for The Naturals, someone who in my eyes has lived (I mean REALLY LIVED) and has accumulated far greater experience and wisdom than over 95% of the population, was on the other end of the line, presenting me the opportunity to join The 2009 Natural's Masterclass. At the time I was looking for anything to really grab onto, and I'm very glad that I chose to be a part of something that can only be described as life-changing.

After a few intense sessions of classes, the first infield night was underway and this was where we were ready to put what we'd learned into practice with feedback that would prove to be invaluable to the fundamental and lasting change that we would experience. I was pumped and excited for the night, it felt like nothing could stop me or get in my way. I was ready, at least I thought I was..I approached my first set of the night, a group of 3 girls eating at an outdoor cafe, things didn't go to well and I was solidly rejected by them, it seemed that they didn't really appreciate my company as a stranger and so I tried to move on from this..

Frankly, my experience didn't go so well for the first night, I was down from the rejection and didn't do anything else for the rest of the night..internally there was something inside me that resisted and made me really confused and lost without much hope. James, at the end of the night, in his own time, spent a good few hours, going through this with me and I really connected with what he had to say and felt very much at ease after the shocking rejection I'd gone through earlier..I also found out about James' life and how he went from meditating in the mountains of Asia to living the adventures of a rock-star (yes, that means sex.. lots of it! hedonistic lifestyle of the rich and the famous normal guy who grew to become one of the most down-to-earth motherfuckers the world has seen. In our coaching, he also demonstrated game whilst we were out, his game from what I saw was kinda flawless. I don't know how that works but damn was he smooth, I respected him and all before but it was that day that I really became inspired by him. I figure it must have been the mixture of his coaching with his experiences and his demonstration of game that led me to where I am today, right now.