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Learn the Fundamentals
of Approaching

This field-tested course will guide you step-by-step on how to start approaching and meeting women in your everyday life.
  • Even if you're a complete beginner
  • Even if you've never cold-approached before
  • Even if you have no idea where to start

Why Most Guys Never See Any Results and what to do about it

If you’ve just started out on your seduction journey, it’s perfectly normal to be completely confused about how to seduce beautiful women.

The Dating Accelerator - a comprehensive online video course by James Marshall is the perfect place to start.

In this 3-week program you’ll learn the fundamentals of approaching beautiful women, getting numbers and going on dates, with lifetime access to all video modules to return to as you develop in skill and results.

Why isn’t everybody dating beautiful women?

Before I explain the course, I’m going to let you in on a little secret that men don’t talk about.

Most men spend their lives living with ‘oneitis’, an obsession with one girl they know (and often repeating this pattern with another girl every year or so).

They have their eye on a girl who’s ‘special’. Which means she’s not like the rest, in fact she’s better than any other girl out there. He hopes that one day he’s going to finally confess his love for her, and she’ll fall head over heels in love with them.

Happily ever after, right?

Not likely. Most of the time the girl thought of them only as friends, is completely taken off guard by the sudden confession and gently but firmly makes it clear that he needs to stay where he belongs..

That’s right. In the Friendszone.

The brutal truth about your dating life

Meanwhile, some guys have managed to convince themselves that they’ve got their dating life ‘under control’. Things are going ‘according to plan’.

Girls sometimes check them out when they’re at a bar with friends, they have a couple of options they could ‘make a move on’ in their social circle, and of course, the ace up their sleeve - Tinder.

Which to be brutally honest are just distraction strategies to ignore the cold, hard fact that most of their single life is spent, alone, frustrated and horny.

Last but not least is the guy who has retreated almost completely from women and dating. Faced with the prospect of having to take responsibility for meeting women, he’s decided to burrow down in a bunker, to hide away from the world and focus on his studies, career, or worse, video games...

hoping that one day the right girl will come along.

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Starting to sound familiar?

I get it. After all, this whole puzzle of dating and meeting women can seem incredibly confusing.

It’s not like they taught it to you in school, and unless you had an alpha guy around to show you the ropes when you were growing up how were you supposed to figure it out?


Beginner's Hell

As someone who has been through this phase, what I call ‘Beginner’s Hell’, I can tell you right away that unless you start taking responsibility and make something happen, it’s never going to change.

I can count on one hand the amount of times girls have asked me out on a date.

I don’t even need hands to count the amount of times I’ve had girls initiate sex with me.

The illusion that you either ‘have it’ or you don’t, that you’re either ‘good with women’ or a total lost case is just that: an illusion.

But right now, if you’ve just found out about seduction, you’re sitting somewhere in between. If you’ve never been coached by someone who knows what they’re doing, never taken a workshop and aren’t out approaching women every day, you’re in ‘Beginner’s Hell’.

This means that you’re convincing yourself that what you’re doing is working, when really it’s the seduction equivalent of running on a hamster wheel.

Waiting around and hoping that life will present you the perfect opportunity so you don’t have to try, don’t have to take any risks and most importantly…

You don’t have to get rejected.

You are not doing enough to fix this

Maybe you occasionally stumble into a conversation with a girl at a bar, party, or even the odd cold approach on the street and it can be easy to think you’re getting somewhere. In truth that level of effort is like going to the gym and doing one bicep curl a week.

Sure, you can lull yourself to sleep at night justifying that you’re going to the gym.

But you’re not really putting the work in.

And you're not going to see any gains.

Now, maybe you’re happy to play it safe. Maybe you’re fine with the slow results you’re getting so far and have convinced yourself there’s no need to do any more.

If that’s you, I’d suggest you just stop reading right here.

Because what I’m about to reveal to you is going to change the way that you think about dating and seduction.


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I Know How You Feel

Up until now you may have believed that you’re doing everything you can to get the women you really want.

That working on your career, or improving your physique, or trying to fill your life with nice suits, fancy cars and a slick apartment that will one one day, eventually, sometime in the future, land you your dream girl.

Trust me, I know the feeling

I used to be a musician with dreams of making it big and having women throwing themselves at me, just BEGGING for a chance to share the limelight with a famous rock star, even if just for a moment.

Yet this never happened. I’d walk away utterly disappointed having played my heart out to another tiny audience, settling for the same few groupies who were into me but weren’t exactly the amazing quality women I had in mind in my rock star fantasy.

I had everything banking on this. I believed that if I didn’t hit the bigtime, I was never going to get the women I dreamed about.

It’s a skill you can learn.

I was terrified I'd spend the rest of my life jealous of other guys who made it seem so easy, who had hot girls hanging off them and acted like it was no big deal.

Until I realized that seduction isn’t some elusive skill reserved for the Don Juan’s of the world.

How Martial Arts Turned Me Into the World’s Best Dating Coach

Within months of learning how to approach women on the streets and out at night, I was dating the kinds of women I’d fantasized about and who NEVER turned up to my shows. It was a bizarre wakeup call to realize that all that complicated, time consuming effort I’d put into trying to win women over with status had been wasted and in fact...

..the solution was far simpler.

By now very likely you’ve been watching guys like me and other dating coaches online approaching women on the street.

You’ve wondered if that’s possible for you. If you could ever just walk up to a beautiful woman on the street, a complete stranger, and not only stop her dead in her tracks, but have a flirty fun conversation AND get her number.

Who knows, maybe you’ve even tried it, but haven’t seen the results you were expecting.

Either way, I’m sure the question that’s still on your mind is this:

"How do I go from being a complete beginner to being as good as these dating coaches?"

For me to answer that question, let me take you back to my early days as a young man, starting out as a martial artist…

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Now, growing up as a kid, I wasn’t exactly part of the cool crowd

In fact, as someone who was into opera singing and playing the flute, I’d often get beaten up after school and have to walk home with bruises and cuts everywhere.

Masculinity in Australia in the 80’s didn’t really exist along a spectrum. It’s more just black and white. You’re either a beer drinking, sports loving ute driver (that’s like a pick-up truck, but easier for Australian men to pronounce when they’re drunk), which means you qualify as a man, or you’re a poofta (aka a homosexual), and definitely NOT a man.

Not exactly a lot of room in there for a young kid with artistic talent. I didn’t really like sports, or drinking beer, and I wasn’t old enough to drive a ute...in fact, none of the kids were. But they didn’t really need any more reasons to beat me up.

Now of course, my parents and teachers suggested I dealt with the savage bullying diplomatically: “Why don’t you just settle the argument with words?”. “Try reasoning with them!”. “Report them to the teachers!”. I tried that and ended up with more beatings.

Eventually I started looking for a way to defend myself...and as a kid I was fascinated by Kung-Fu movies.

You know, seeing Bruce Lee fend off 10 guys by himself, Jet Li effortlessly taking down a guy twice his size and Jackie Chan’s crazy moves.

And I thought to myself “man, I need to learn how to fight like those guys!”

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That’s when I came across Shaolin Kung Fu

From the moment I saw the instructors practicing I knew this was the style for me. They moved with such grace, yet wielded such power. Not to mention the amazing things they could do with their energy…

Excited, I signed up for lessons, only to find it nothing like I imagined. No swinging swords around or exotic looking White Crane combinations.

First, my master made me practice painful postures for hours on end.

Picture it. Me just standing there, moving from what I thought was basic boring pose to pose while the advanced students were doing super cool kung fu forms.

Then I had to strike a bag of sand over and over until my hands ached.

And when the bag of sand seemed to have been hit enough for one day, I’d have to hit it some more the next!

It started to feel less like “Enter The Dragon” and more like “Karate Kid”, waxing on and waxing off for the rest of time, eventually fading away and dying of old age…

I’ll be honest with you. Eventually I got fed up and was about to quit, when my master sat me down and said ...

The ones who stay and eventually reach mastery

„James. Less than 1 in 10 guys who join this class last more than a year. The ones who stay and eventually reach mastery are the ones who fall in love with the first movement they were taught.

They return to it over and over, finding endless depth and grace in it until they see the whole system is help in that first movement.

I’ve given you the key to the kingdom, it’s your choice if you stay and explore its mystery."

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A light bulb went off in my head.

Becoming a master

For the first time I was able to see that really learning Kung Fu, I mean actually becoming a master, wasn’t about being able to pull off some flashy moves.

It wasn’t going to be like those movies I had been watching where the hero learns some special killer move, or discovers the secret manual with the ancient technique that beats all of the others.

I didn’t care anymore about beating the bullies, or looking like an action star. I wanted to embody this artform and dedicate myself to this truth.

What makes the difference is learning the fundamentals, and mastering them.

Going through that process

Without going through that process, I had no hope of learning the impressive looking jump kicks and Eagle Claw techniques that had got me into Kung Fu in the first place. Even if I tried to mimic them, I wouldn’t understand the principles behind them and their combat applications.

The reason I was practicing these basics over and over again was to build a solid foundation which would then be the base for the more advanced moves.

That one key insight had relit the burning fire within me, and I was suddenly determined to do whatever it took to master the basics.

What did that look like you ask?

  • Repetition
  • Timing
  • Dedication
  • Awareness of what’s going on.
  • Meticulous attention to detail.

Mastering the basics

I applied myself to mastering every single nuance of the basics, no matter how insignificant it may have seemed.

And over time I saw the pieces coming together. I saw my form improving, the moves becoming more natural, and a sense of ease and relaxation whenever I went to train.

The biggest lesson I had learned was not how to throw a perfect punch, or how to do a flying kick.

It was that the old adage which we hear from our parents over and over again, but never truly take to heart, is true.

Practice makes perfect.

Actually, perfect practice makes perfect.

That is, having the right teacher, a pure and effective method and then countless hours of perfect practice.

“But James...what the hell does that have to do with meeting girls?”

Remember how I said that seduction isn’t something you’re just gifted with by fate, being good with women isn’t something you’re born with. It’s something you can learn. It’s not about memorising some snappy list of lines and tricks to impress women with.

Having seen the level of mastery I could achieve with Kung Fu simply by focusing on the basics, I knew that I could do the same thing with dating and meeting women.

I went back to basics and focused on the fundamentals

Instead of expecting to pull off some super smooth James Bond banter with the first girl I approached, sweeping her off her feet and whisking her away to the bedroom, I went back to basics and focused on the fundamentals.

I went out and approached.
A lot.
And I got rejected.
A lot.

But all throughout this process I kept my focus on the longer game.

I realized this wasn’t about that one special girl who I was going finally get with, it was about many girls. Over many years.

It was about the rest of my life.

If I wanted to get good and this, and I mean, REALLY good, I needed to master the fundamentals first.

It wasn’t going to be some hit or miss process, hoping the girl I approached just happened to think I was handsome enough to sleep with me.

Nor was I going to wait around to be in some kind of peak ‘state’ in order to meet women.

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When I was in ‘Beginner’s Hell’, all I was focused on was getting good at the fundamentals.

And let me assure you, it wasn’t easy. But it was worth it. Within a year I was dating women I previously thought were well outside my league.

The year after that I had 5 incredible girlfriends who all knew about each other. Since then I’ve had a decade of sexual adventures that most rock stars would be envious of.

Looking back on those early years, it's crystal cIear to me that the difference that made the difference, was about consistently working on those fundamentals.

Since becoming a dating coach, I recognize the same mistaken mindsets in students who come to me for help.

Hidden secret that would fix all of their problems

I know that somewhere deep inside they hope that I’m going to give them some hidden secret that would fix all of their problems.

Some of them even confessed to copying down word for word the openers they’d seen me use on YouTube, thinking that it was a magical pick-up line, only to find it didn’t get the same result.

So if you’re reading this, I know you’re probably wondering how you’re ever going to make the leap from watching videos of me approaching gorgeous women in the middle of the day to actually doing it yourself, AND getting the girl out on a date.

You’ll never know why it works or doesn't

You could try to understand the basics by watching our videos, things like holding eye-contact, giving her a compliment, even posture and body language. Admittedly some guys see small success from doing this.

This is the equivalent of watching a Kung Fu movie and trying to dissect the moves you see and guess the principles behind them, pausing and rewinding back dozens of times to try to get it right.

But even if you mimic the moves and words, you’re never going to understand what you’re doing. You’ll never know why it works or doesn't.

As soon as you get thrown a curveball, some unexpected situation that you haven’t seen in my videos, you’ll be clueless as to how to deal with it.

Eventually you’re going to end up confused and frustrated. You’ll be watching these women walk away from you completely helpless to change it.

That’s the first step on the road to burnout, and soon enough you’ll have quit for good. You’ll tell yourself that it doesn’t work, that those videos were faked, and that you will never get the girls you really want.

I don’t want that to happen to you.

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There is a solution

Move steadily through ‘Beginner’s Hell’

If you really want to learn the exact steps you need to be taking when you’re approaching, the complete A-Z that will get the girl to stop, give you her attention, and agree to go on the date with you, I’m here to tell you that it’s possible for you this year.

I’ve released online courses before, like the 5 Principles of Natural Seduction which is designed to teach you the deeper underlying principles of how seduction works.

But before you even get to the stage where you can “see the matrix” and master your social and sexual world, it’s important that you move steadily through ‘Beginner’s Hell’. That you master the fundamentals you need to be ready for those deeper principles.

You need to know...

  • How to stop a girl
  • How to get her to relax and give you her attention
  • What to say
  • How to have an engaging conversation and..
  • How to get her number in a way that she will actually meet up with you and not flake

That’s why I’ve created this breakthrough course, designed to save you from wasting years on stuff that doesn’t work, and to avoid the harrowing trial and error that I had to go through.


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The Dating Accelerator

The Dating Accelerator is a 3 week course that’s going to teach you everything you need to know about approaching and connecting with women in a confident, natural way that actually leads to real results.

Step-by-step guide on how to start approaching women

It’s been designed to avoid any confusion about what to do, when to do it, and how to do it, and instead give you a step-by-step guide on how to start approaching women just like you see on my videos.

You may have bought seduction courses in the past, but from what I’ve seen there’s a lot of junk out there that promise the moon but are not based on any field tested methods. Most are the result of internet marketers figuring out what men search for on google and creating “secret techniques created by a team of CIA psy-ops scientists” and never give you any kind of practical steps to take.

Once you get past the hype these programs end up being a series of lame pick-up lines which promise to magically seduce every woman you meet, while never have to face your fears, get rejected or approach a lot of women.

I’m not some marketing wiz writing to you from his mother’s basement who pumps out phony e-books and who’s afraid to put his real face on his products.

I’ve coached thousands of students over the last 10 years both in-field and in online masterminds.

I know what works and what doesn’t.

I’ve decided that the best way for you to learn how to approach is to give you a complete breakdown of the steps you need to take, complete with structures that take you from approach to date, in-field breakdowns, and even weekly missions to ensure you’re taking action.

Over the course of 3 weeks you’ll gain access to a new modules to watch each week via a private membership site, building step by step into a coherent natural and simple to use system.

Theory & practical guidance

The modules contain a simplified theory breakdown, followed by practical guidance for how to implement this into your daily life when meeting women.

You’ll also have access to an exclusive private Facebook group where you can get accountability, ask questions and relate your experiences with other guys just like you.

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What Our Students Say

I loved the structure

It gives the basics of everything I think I would need to know. Great content. Especially liked James' style of coaching. I was positively surprised how it slowed me down going through the course and made me focus on details. Main takeaways are how to approach the right way and what she thinks of me walking up to her.

I loved the inner game structure of this course.

I like how this course is organised in a logical way and it gives you the fundamentals. Like most of the contents of TNL it is amazing. My gratitude to this company increased even more after digging more into the DA and other contents. I just want to thank you guys, through your videos and advice I started to approach girls in situations I would never expect (streets, train stations, etc.), just being honest about my intent. The funny thing is that , even when I get rejections, I still am fucking proud of myself! Plus I got some numbers, dates and I have been already in some hilarious situations. I thought that life was really interesting only when travelling and living adventure in remote countries and that everyday live was meaningful only because of the job you love, your hobbies, old friends and some occasional girls that enters into your life through social circles, but the possibility of meeting girls literally when you want it adds a completely different dimension to your life. Maybe when I will earn more money and I will stop to be a broken scientist/traveller I will participate to one of your "infamous tours". Thanks for your work and continue to spread life around, this world needs a lot of that.

James' coaching is really clear and he digs deep into the "why" behind the problems, plus he adds humour to the lessons.

The meditation audio in this course is definitely one of the most useful tools for becoming more present during social interactions.

What i learned the most from this course is that girls want to be approached and that most of the times are bored. I saw it over and over in almost every approach, even when they have a boyfriend or they are married. Another topic that was explained in the course is how much is important to become better at cold approaching strangers and how this can improve your life even outside dating. Definitely is not an overstatement saying that learning how to meet strangers is one of the most important skills in life.

Mario, Scientist, 32

This course is everything any guy needs to take

I gotta be honest... I wouldn't change a thing. For me it was pragmatic, realistic, and no bull shit from the jump. The structure kept these three things in line throughout. This course is everything any guy (who actually wants to improve his success with women) needs to take.

As for James' coaching, words really fall short here. Without stumbling across James' free content (and then purchasing a couple courses) I wouldn't have the worldview or be the man that I am today. In short, James Marshall is doing God's work. It's rare to find a world-class teacher that can impart his knowledge while exuding so little ego and attachment to it. This constantly comes through with James' approach. He tells it like it is and promises results if you follow his methods while remaining open and available to whoever might be listening and their individuality.

I'd say how tangible and pragmatic the course is. Many courses are abstract; they leave wiggle room for excuses and non-application. This course does NOT do that; you either do the methods or you don't. One gets you the results, the other doesn't. Simple; do it or don't.

I've learned from this course two major things:

1) The biggest obstacle to social abundance; ACTION (i.e. simply putting yourself in a position where it can be possible).

2) Face the fear. There's no magic line or leather jacket that leads to 100% success with women. Just do it. Have fear and approach anyway! Have excuses and approach anyway!

Antonin, Graphic designer, 27

If you need help approaching or techniques to talk to women I recommend purchasing this course

Well 100% what James teaches in seminars and infield training are in this super helpful. Only downside for me is if I'm doing the approaching correctly if I'm rambling or saying the same things to girls just need to get out of my laziness nature.

If you need help approaching or techniques to talk to women I recommend purchasing this course, price is fair with all the content that is provided. And being part of the private community in FB group will help you keep going with positive motivation from other men either new or current or past students.

I just enjoyed that James explains to everyone that it's not to late no matter what age, explaining what to not to do and what is the correct way to do it and how to keep practicing until it becomes easy and effortless.

When you get to talk to women that are more attractive I wouldn't have done it back then but with practice I felt more comfortable and confident that they are like any other women living life maybe looking for a man. Just don't give up the process the more you work on yourself the better you can get.

I've learned how to walk towards a women without creeping them out or feel uncomfortable, and how to talk verbally with them for most they repeat the compliments but if you specify what made you talk to her, she will know you are not just doing a pickup line or say it to every women. It be unique and set yourself more attractive than those men who already have.

Jack, Caregiver, 34

If you need help approaching or techniques to talk to women I recommend purchasing this course

I liked the simplicity and the elegance of this course. I loved and needed this kind of content. And the price of it is undervalued. I like not just "the how" was answered, but also "the why". It's more than I ever hoped for.

James, keep doing you. I never got teaching like this when I was younger and its really important to a person's health. I like how he is humble and earnest. There's a real issue of people being pretentious with dating. Another important fact is that James' ideas are experience based and he acknowledges reality/the truth, even if it may be confronting to his beliefs.

I learned that a preframe (sometimes), then a direct compliment are the best opener. Then I learned that I have to share stuff about myself, then get stuff out of her. Then I have to close when I run out of words to say/conversation dies. I took copious, meticulous notes on all of this. Sometimes I cried after it worked. I cried a lot. My main takeaway was that I used this practical advice to make a workable plan that I could use to get a date/ have sex. Weirdly enough, I used Dating Accelerator more in the beginning, then I used the 5 Principles things later, and I used the Masculine Touch Blueprint, Marshall Meditation later after I went on the live workshop in NYC.

Matthew, UCF Student, 25

The course I purchased was a great value

The course covered fundamental principles. I've applied them to dating, business, my art, and coaching practice. Loved the videos of approaches, and also used the meditation exercises extensively. My experience was a very positive one. The course I purchased was a great value. I've implemented the principles in my life and caused a number of breakthroughs in being present, overcoming anxiety in social settings, owning my awkwardness and making it fun. I've also coached others in their breakthroughs using these principles. And I learned the value of meditation, action, own your faults, "Make no apologies, take full responsibility."

I liked James' ease and grace in coaching.

Andrew, Musician-Entrepreneur, 55

The course I purchased was a great value

The course covered fundamental principles. I've applied them to dating, business, my art, and coaching practice. Loved the videos of approaches, and also used the meditation exercises extensively. My experience was a very positive one. The course I purchased was a great value. I've implemented the principles in my life and caused a number of breakthroughs in being present, overcoming anxiety in social settings, owning my awkwardness and making it fun. I've also coached others in their breakthroughs using these principles. And I learned the value of meditation, action, own your faults, "Make no apologies, take full responsibility."

I liked James' ease and grace in coaching.

Andrew, Musician-Entrepreneur, 55

I loved the inner game structure of this course.

I like that James teaches the right mindset and principles through which I can implement my special way to operate, and his spontaneity and simplicity, the cool mindset and importance of seduction.

Software Developer, 51

I loved the inner game structure of this course.

I liked that this course has steps that are digestible and logically sequenced. It also has very well balance in terms of cognitive, affective, and behavioral content. The price of this course really depends on how much a person values themselves and puts the honest work into the program. Yes, the program offers value. At the same time, people need to be able to recognize it. I did.

The delivery in terms of pacing, sense of humor, anecdote sharing, structuring of content were strong. It's clear that the knowledge given was from a wealth of experience and kind of like the iceberg model in cultural learning...it was given both at a collective surface level and subjective deeper level. James' attitude was very passionate about this topic and he has a lot of skill to share (being able to teach what we know in a way that others can grasp is a gift). Really liked his sense of humor.

I honestly got into this course not as much for the knowledge, skills, and attitudinal transformation for pickup as I did in order to learn how to improve my communication with self and others in general. This course was useful to help my students in their study-abroad programs, and that was somewhat surprising to see how much of this course could translate to that environment. Many of them are "wait watchers" and are afraid of approaching others to initiate communication and use their English skills in these programs on their own. Ultimately, it is up to them to make it happen, or not, but as a facilitator I am more equipped in my toolbox (through taking this course) in order to help to facilitate more effective cross-cultural interactions by educating my students better through having taken this course.

So main takeaway for me from this course is that the quality of my life experience really does depend on my communication with myself especially through inner awareness. Approaching strangers is really not the norm where I live in Japan, but with a curious attitude much can be overcome within myself to go against the grain of the culture by giving it a shot more often and this can help others to relax even more. I have sometimes gotten too used to just accepting that the inner and outer group culture here ("uchi" and "soto" in Japanese) is not as rigid in reality as I have sometimes allowed it to be in my mind.

Stephan, Entrepreneur, 48

The amount of content was beyond my expectation for the price

The course structure leaves the student prepared for the next module by building a foundation then adding to it. Many instructors in any discipline will be overzealous in introducing advanced concepts before a foundation has been constructed. The content provided does what it is designed to do as advertised. The price of this course is justified because if the student follows the instruction, the results can be priceless.

As a martial arts practitioner, my abilities were forged through concept learning. I did not have a concrete idea of what concept/principle based learning was and why it is so effective, though before receiving instruction from TNL. This type of learning has allowed me to quickly pick things up in my every day life beyond dating. As to the meat and potatoes of the course, I began truly dating for the first time in my life with the aid of the instruction. I've observed martial arts instructors teach black belt level jujitsu techniques to novice students who don't know how to move in stance on their feet. James' style of coaching eases students by defining a base for learning that gives a why before the how.

The amount of content was beyond my expectation for the price. Even without participation in the private FB group, there was more than enough to fill my brain with.

This type of course is essential. Talking to "strangers" is not only possible, but welcome by 90% of people depending on their daily or momentary mood. I understand there is a small percentile of men who will ever discover this type of instruction which makes this elite knowledge in the same way reading was once held secret by a ruling priest class. This should be required learning in every 7th-12th grade class worldwide.

Andy, Quality Control, 41

This course flows well and content is straight to the point

Everything laid out is no fluff and straight to the point. Plenty of examples and live situations are given which helps put things in perspective. I expected great content and got it. it taught me a lot but specifically:

  • I’m more aware of my responses to her
  • don’t sweat date logistics too much

Parmeet, Online-Marketing, 37

Clear and straightforward, an excellent starting point

This course has the proper motivation and for you to take action immediately and gives you tools to do so. It's clear and straightforward, an excellent starting point. I'm an introvert who loves his job and I don't mind focusing on it, as for the dating I was kind of forcing myself to try to be interested in a meeting a girl. Even when I was trying cold approach earlier I was not honest with myself about it. James reminded me how much I liked spending time with girls, flirting with them and getting to know them. Now I'm curious about them, more aware in the interaction and really enjoing it. I'm not wasting time on the "one girl" and girls love the connection that we create when I'm dancing bachata with them, just enjoying the moment. I really value James' honesty, now I know what's important for me and why I'm doing it. Thank you. Really liked how James' coaching is with a sense of humor and no bullshit. I've learned about curiosity, QAC internal and external awareness, eye contact, intent - make no apology take full responsibility, warmups, dont waste time for the "one girl", take action every day as part of your life and not additional thing to do from time to time.

Piotr, Software-Developer, 31

The structure was good and the content was enough to start the dating journey

I like how It's direct without bullshit. And if it's about results I couldn't take the action needed but I now know what is possible. I've learned the different ways to approach women on the street. Major take-away is realising what changes in your life are possible from doing this and what happens if you don't get this handled.

Max, Business Owner, 31

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Here’s a brief overview of what I’ll teach you in the course

Week 1

Approaching & Conversation

In the very first week we’ll be focusing on in-field and how to meet women, the key steps you need to take to get out there and start approaching women.

Yes, you read that correctly. No waiting until weeks into the course before you finally get to the good stuff.

Here’s what you’ll learn

What’s inside week 1
  • The quickest, easiest way to break through your approach anxiety and start talking to women.
  • What NEVER to do when you first approach a woman.
  • The QUICKEST and EASIEST way to come up with an opener if you suddenly have to approach a woman and haven’t had time to think about it.
  • The most COMMON mistakes guys make when they’re talking to women (and how to avoid them!)
  • The amazing “QAC” conversational framework that will mean you never get stuck making small talk about the weather again.
  • Why at least 90% of the numbers you get will flake and the one thing you can do to prevent it.
Week 2

Inner Game

Just as the outer game is important, what you say and do, so is the Inner Game, your internal mindsets and beliefs.

That’s why week 2 is focused on Inner Game and how you can use it to overcome approach anxiety and the nerves most men experience when speaking to a beautiful woman.

You’ll learn all about

What’s inside week 2
  • Four CORE MINDSETS that will revolutionise your dating life from Shae Matthews, a master of Inner Game.
  • Two TRAPS that cause men the biggest PAIN in their lives!
  • How to overcome LIMITING BELIEFS that are holding you back from seduction success
  • The TRUTH about why you’re not living up to your full potential and how to change it!
  • If you want to have more beautiful women in your life, you should focus all of your energy on getting better at seduction, right? WRONG! Learn why this mindset is costing you dates and sex!
Week 3


And last but certainly not least, in Week 3 we’ll be covering dating. After you’ve approached the girl and gotten her number, it’s important to know how to follow up and get her out on a date.

Here’s what’s in store for week three

What’s inside week 3
  • Are you setting yourself up to fail before the date even starts? Learn why pre-planning an elaborate first date is always going to be a disaster.
  • A dire WARNING: The 3 worst types of dates you can take her on that will GUARANTEE you’ll never hear from her again.
  • What are the best ideas for a first date? The surprising answer will ensure you never have to sit through an awkward dinner date again.
  • Women will slot you into one of three categories within the first 10 minutes of the date. What are they? Learn all about them in week 3.
  • How to generate sexual tension through eye contact, touching and getting physical on a date
  • How to get a date off to a good start and continue this into a meeting that has the momentum of a crazy sexual adventure.
  • PLUS: The best way to follow up after a killer first date.

At The Natural Lifestyles, we pride ourselves on being the most advanced dating coaching company in the world, and so our advice doesn’t come cheap.

In fact, we’ve released intensive online courses in the past that were $500+ that were a fraction of the price of our in-person workshops.

But I want to assure you that you’re not going to have to break the bank to get started with seduction.

I wanted to make this information as accessible as possible so that you could avoid the ‘Beginner’s Hell’ that causes so many men to quit altogether.

I know that you’re serious about getting your love life sorted, but before I get to the pricing I’ve got some incredible extra bonuses I want to tell you about:

With your purchase of The Dating Accelerator online video course, you’ll also gain access to 3 free bonuses

Bonus 1

Meditation Audio

  • BONUS 1
    Meditation Audio
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A game-changing skill

A key component of my success as a seducer has been my years of learning meditation, and it’s a game-changing skill that every beginner seducer needs to have.

Whether you’re approaching a woman or on a date, it’s so easy to get caught up in your thoughts. As soon as you start thinking about what to do or say next, whether she likes you, what other people are thinking of you, the whole thing starts to break down.

And women notice this too! They’ll see how nervous you are, how you’re interrupting her, how you constantly need to fill the awkward silences.

Awareness Meditation is the gateway to being aware of yourself, the woman, and your environment. Instead of being anxious, you can be in the present moment, relaxed and tuned into your surroundings.

As a bonus for the Dating Accelerator online course I’m throwing in a series of meditation audios that are designed to not only teach you how to meditate, but how to also carry that skill with you when you’re approaching.

There’s nothing worse than spending an hour finding inner peace on a cushion only to go out to approach and find your anxiety has crept back in again.

Special Offer
  • This bonus is worth at least $95 considering the years and years of meditation practice and knowledge seeking that have gone into making it...but today, you get it for free.
Bonus 2

Weekly Missions

  • BONUS 1
    Meditation Audio
  • BONUS 2
    Weekly Missions
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Putting into practice everything you’re learning

As a bonus for the course I’ve thrown together a series of homework drills designed to get you out on the streets and implementing what you’re learning.

Think of it like being an undercover agent...you’re out on a secret mission of utmost importance, and the lives of hundreds of thousands of people hang in the balance.

Okay, so maybe it’s not that extreme. But what I can guarantee you is that if you don’t implement what you learn in this course, your dating life is as good as dead.

My focus for this course is really implementation, which means putting into practice everything you’re learning.

Having a bunch of know-how about a subject is useless, unless you’re just trying to impress your friends with all of the latest pick-up theory.

These homework drills are your guide to taking a step-by-step approach to implementing what you learn on this course. Considering that you really won’t find this information anywhere else, not even in our YouTube videos, they’re basically priceless and free along with the other bonuses.

Bonus 3

Exclusive ‘Ask Me Anything’ Webinar

  • BONUS 1
    Meditation Audio
  • BONUS 2
    Weekly Missions
  • BONUS 3
    Exlusive Webinar
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Insights into the experiences of other men

The 3rd Bonus is a recording of the exclusive webinar that was run by yours truly, James Marshall.

During the original run of the course I ran a members-only webinar where guys could ask any questions they had about the course material, or the one thing they have always been DYING to ask me but have never had the chance. I answered questions for 3 hours straight covering a huge range of topics relevant to your journey.

Over the years I’ve realized that one of the most important things to have on this journey is an insight into the experiences of other men who are going through the same things you are.

You’ll get to hear about their experiences, their struggles, and be inspired to go out and approach knowing that you’re not alone. Often times it takes someone asking a question that you might not have even considered which can lead to a new perspective and outlook on seduction.

Special Offer
  • Normally to get this kind of personal time requires signing up for an hour of skype coaching with me, which costs €450 EUR, and I only offer them to students who have already attended one of my live workshops.
  • So without even taking into account the cost of signing up for a workshop this bonus is worth at least €450 EUR... but I’m throwing it in for free.

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So, How Much Does The Dating Accelerator Online Course Cost?

Let me put it like this. In just three weeks you’re getting access to knowledge that would take months, perhaps even years for you to uncover yourself.

(and that’s only after you work up the courage to start approaching!)

Think of all of those hours wasted, wandering around on the streets, trying to muster up the courage to even say hello to someone, eventually finding an old lady and asking her the time, if only to justify to yourself that you made some kind of progress.

Not to mention all of the time that has already passed you by before you discovered cold approach pick-up.

Lonely nights wishing you were out on a date with a hot girl.

Blowing your chances with the one cute girl at the bar and spending half of your weeks pay on booze or expensive club entry to make the night somewhat enjoyable.

Those opportunities that continue to pass you by that you’re powerless to take action on.

And all of those women you’ve pursued, thinking if you spend enough time being her friend, spending money on the dinner or buying her flowers she’ll come around and agree to a second date with you, but knowing deep down that it was never going to work, that no amount of money could ever change her mind.

Now if you think about one of those awful dinner dates, and how much you invested, then compare how things would have played out differently if you could approach new beautiful women whenever you see them, suddenly things look very different.

Firstly, there’s no need to go all out on that one girl after not having a date for months and months, because if things don’t work out, you can always go and approach another girl, right?

Secondly, the very fact that you have that level of abundance means that you’re already getting more points with her than the fanciest dinner could because you’re not desperate for things to go well. She can sense you’re a guy who isn’t just simply out to get laid which INSTANTLY creates more attraction.

And most importantly, you’ll have so much confidence in what you’re doing and how things are playing out that the pressure will be on HER to impress YOU!

So here is the Deal


If you’re one of those guys who thinks if he watches enough videos, reads enough books and has enough dating apps, that you’ll eventually ‘crack the code’ to approaching and become an enlightened seduction master, this course isn’t for you.

No seriously, there’s no need to keep reading if you just want to find the ‘hack’ that’s going to instantly solve the problem.

But if you’re a guy who really wants to make a start on this, I mean someone who is motivated and ready to apply himself to the fundamentals, then I’m sure you’re already convinced this course is for you.

Right now, on this page only, you’re not going to have to pay a five-figure sum for the Dating Accelerator.

You won’t even pay a four figure sum, which is what we charge for our 4 Day live workshops.

And if you think back to those girls you’ve courted throughout the years, and add together the dinner dates, movies, popcorn, flowers and boxes of chocolates, you’ll be kicking yourself when you realize how much more cost efficient it would have been to learn what dating is REALLY about.”

For the Dating Accelerator 3 week course, along with the 3 free bonuses….

You pay only


Accessible as possible to guys like you

If you’re thinking that there must be some kind of catch, that there’s no way it could be that cheap, let me talk you through it.

As I said, we’ve already released platinum online courses that go into great detail about the intricacies of seduction that we teach on our live workshops. This isn’t just another rehash of courses that we’ve already released.

The whole point of Dating Accelerator was to make it as accessible as possible to guys like you.

Someone who has just discovered approaching, and never imagined that it would be possible to just walk up to a beautiful woman on the street and ask for her number.

Someone who wants to take action but has no idea where to start.

Someone who might not have even purchased an online product before!

I’m truly dedicated to helping you avoid ‘Beginner’s Hell’.

I've packed the Dating Accelerator with a huge amount of value for a fraction of what I usually charge.

What's inside
  • Dating Accelerator Course
  • 4 Unreleased Foundational Seminar Speeches
  • Private Facebook Group
  • BONUS 1
    Awareness Meditation Audios
  • BONUS 2
    Weekly Mission & Drills
  • BONUS 3
    AMA Webinars
Total Value


And if you’re still skeptical, let me tell you that there is zero risk on your shoulders.

If you’re hesitant about whether or not this will work for you, or that you might not be able to take action on your own, you’ll be happy to know we’re offering a 7-Day, Full Money Back Guarantee to remove any risk on your side of the deal.


As soon as you purchase the course you’ll have access to the first week of materials. Look through it, apply what you learn, and if you don’t see the results you wanted and weren’t satisfied, all you need to do is email us asking for a refund, detailing your reasons why, and you’ll get a response quickly and promptly.

According to our Terms & Conditions

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this doesn’t mean you can put this off forever.

When it comes to coaching men on how to meet women, I emphasize taking action, and value those who understand what it means to be committed to change.

The Dating Accelerator isn’t available anywhere else, and I can assure you it’s the best place for you to learn everything you need to know as a beginner.

There are a lot of snake oil salesmen out there who are going to hype you up with promises of the one magic trick that’s going to cure this problem for you instantly.

The truth is that there is no magic trick. No pill you can take to instantly fix this part of your life for good.



Designed to get you out into the world, taking action and meeting women

I really don’t have any time for guys who want to sit around and procrastinate about life, who want to debate the various theories of approaching and the intricacies of the role of men in today’s society. I’ve seen plenty of other online courses that do exactly that, but never really tell you what you need to be doing.

The Dating Accelerator is intentionally designed to get you out into the world, taking action and meeting women. I’ve cut through all of the noise and ‘industry jargon’ to outline the mistakes you’ve been making unconsciously, and how to fix them so you can start seeing results.

Trust your gut: this is the beginning of a journey that could change your life.

And to top it all off, I’ve intentionally made it ridiculously affordable so that literally any guy who really wants to learn will be able to.

So it’s up to you. Are you willing to miss out on this opportunity?

If you want in, now’s the time to take action.

Click on your preferred payment option below, and I hope to hear about all of your success from The Dating Accelerator.


The Dating Accelerator

Pricing Table

Lifetime Access


One-time payment. All prices in USD.
  • Dating Accelerator Course
  • 4 Unreleased Foundational Seminar Speeches
  • Private Facebook Group
  • BONUS 1
    Awareness Meditation Audios
  • BONUS 2
    Weekly Mission & Drills
  • BONUS 3
    AWA Live Webinars
Total Value



And There’s Zero Risk For You

No monthly payments or upsells with a 7 day money-back gurantee.

Right now, you’ve got the chance to steer your life on a new course.

Real success in life doesn’t come from some big lucky break, where you win the lottery or the woman of your dreams sits next to you on a plane. People who live with that as their strategy are living with poverty mindsets and remain powerless.

I’ve been coaching men for over 10 years now, and I’ve seen first hand what happens to men in the long run, depending on the choices they make in how to tackle their dating life. The most common mistakes made are exemplified in three types of men:

There’s the guys who leave everything up to fate

They think that they’ll serendipitously meet the one in some lucky one in a million scenario that they saw in a Hollywood movie. That the woman of their dreams is not only waiting just around the corner, but she’s going to fall head over heels for you.



Then there are those who put it on the sidelines.

Who completely ignore the problem by focusing on their work and deciding it will happen ‘if it’s meant to be’. They’ve somehow convinced themselves that hot women are willing to date men who sit around and do nothing, who take no action and aren’t interested in making a positive change in their life. Yeah right.

I’ve seen the effects of this. Coaching men in their 40’s and 50’s who have become bitter about life, having faced years of frustration and loneliness.

The one thing I hear them say the most is how they WISH they had started out with seduction when they were younger.

Then there are the guys who never leave the beginner phase.

They start out by watching YouTube videos, downloading a free eBook or two, reading some online forums. For them it’s just a ‘curiosity’. They convince themselves that they don’t really ‘need’ to learn seduction, that they do perfectly fine, it’s just interesting to look at. Finally they work up the courage to approach a girl, and it doesn’t go the way they planned. So what do they do?

Give up, say it’s all too hard, and settle for some average girl, who they date for 5 miserable years and spend their time wondering how things could have been different if they had just stuck with it.


You’ve got the choice right now to ignore the problem and continue procrastinating.

If you refuse to take action you’ll be back here again in a year

But trust me, that’s not going to get you anywhere. Problems don’t just magically go away by themselves, and if you refuse to take action you’ll be back here again in a year, or 5, or maybe even 10, wondering how things would have been different if you had taken that first step.

And maybe you’re convinced that you can save yourself $197 and figure this out on your own.

I can safely tell you that most men fail at this before they even begin. They spend weeks working themselves up into a ‘peak state’, finally getting ready to approach.

They set aside a day out of their weekend to focus just on approaching.

“I’m going to do it. Today’s the day!” they tell themselves.

Then they spend hours walking around the streets, digging themselves further and further into a hole of despair, frustration and gloom as their anxiety overtakes them.

It takes just one of these experiences to make them swear off ever approaching.

I’d hate for that to be you. If you’re going to do this, I can show you the right way, having gone through the pain of learning this as a beginner and wanting to save every man that same fate.

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Get this now, so you don’t regret it later

Click on your preferred payment option below, and I’ll see you inside The Dating Accelerator.

Remember: You've got a full 7 days to check the entire product out.

Look through the product, go out and test it to see if what's taught actually works.

If within 7 days of your purchase you're not satisfied with The Dating Accelerator, send an email to [email protected] explaining why, and you'll get a quick refund of your entire purchase.

I hope to see you on the first day of the course.

James Marshall




Is this course right for me?

We understand that it might be hard to tell if this is the right course for you. Over the years we’ve coached a variety of clients from all kinds of backgrounds, whether they be different ages, different nationalities, or have different experience levels. However, what you’ll be learning in the Dating Accelerator transcends those layers, using fundamentals and mindsets that have transformed the lives of thousands of clients.

If you’re still not sure, that’s why we’ve included a 7-day money back guarantee, so you can try the course and see if it’s a good fit for you.


Will I get lifetime access to the video course after the 3 weeks are up?

Yes! You’ll have lifetime access to the material which means you can check back any time and rewatch the videos, regardless of whether you’ve forgotten something from one of the videos or have gotten out of a relationship years into the future and want to get back into approaching.


What do I do if I have problems accessing the content?

We have a team of support staff standing by to assist you with any troubles or technical difficulties you may have in accessing the course. If you’ve checked your spam folder and/or social and promotional tabs in gmail but still haven’t found the email confirming your payment, simply email support@thenaturallifestyles and state what day and time you made the purchase with, along with the email address you entered. Please be patient in waiting for a response which can take up to 24 hours depending on your time zone.


How does the Facebook group work?

Once you’ve signed up for the course by making payment you’ll need to contact [email protected] with the email address associated with your Facebook profile. This will enable us to add you to the group. As it is a secret group Facebook will not allow you to simply request access, so you must email us directly. Please note that James typically gets spammed with Friend Requests around launch times so emailing us directly at [email protected] is the only way to be added to the Facebook group.


How does the 7-Day Money Back Guarantee work?

If you sign up for the Dating Accelerator and find that within 7 days it’s not right for you, all you need to do is email [email protected] explaining the reasons why you’d like a refund. James will assess your refund request and if he approves we’ll promptly give you a full refund of the entire purchase.