6 Ways To Get Loyal Friends

Recently, on my channels, I’ve been talking a lot about the importance of having the right friends & allies in your life.

When you have trusted people you can collaborate with and ask for/give help, your individual results will be amplified.

However, as I started to release more content on these topics, some guys started reaching out to me with a very smart question:

“That’s great, James, but what if I have no real friends in my life atm?”

That is a situation we all experience at some points in our journey…

Perhaps when relocating alone to a new city where we don’t know a single living soul.

Or after ending a troubled relationship with some backstabbing buddies.

No matter the starting point, the desired outcome is the same: making new solid friends & allies.

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In the past few months, as I ran the first edition of my Lifestyle Design Academy, I was asked by the guys on the program to codify the “science” of creating relationships of trust and respect with others in a short time.

As part of one of the most enjoyed lectures in the program, I broke down 6 very effective ways to turn any acquaintances and personal contacts into real friends and tribal allies.

These can range from coworkers to Instagram contacts to the cool guy you just chatted with at the gym.

Today, to help out as many guys as possible to benefit from my content and grow their social networks, I decided to release a clip from that same lecture revealing that same 6-step formula. Click the link below to watch it:

 

P.SI’m excited to announce that in less than 24 hours, my Lifestyle Design Academy will officially launch for the 2021 edition.

This is my magnum opus. My most effective blueprint to architect and construct the seductive, social, and career life you’ve always dreamed of but never knew how to get/where to start from.

During the past year, members of the Academy have successfully used the training to become full-time digital nomads, relocate to different parts of the world (even during lockdown), construct epic social circles, throw lavish parties, enter the BDSM world, befriend high-end investors, and more.

This program is not a fixed template. Rather I provide you a comprehensive method to leverage important assets (e.g. your network, influence skills, location, personal expertise) to get access to any lifestyle path you want.

The mentorship runs for 12 months and takes place through weekly live Zoom lectures, advanced masterclasses with guest mentors, and personalized missions.

Most importantly, when you join you also get access to hundreds of other elite lifestyle designers like you in over 42 countries globally––the LDA brotherhood.

Many of them will become trusted allies and advisors in your journey, some perhaps even lifetime friends.

To get a free 30-min sneak peek lecture from the Academy and receive exclusive VIP offers as we enter the launch, click HERE.

Hope to see you on the first day of class 😉

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Top 3 Wingman Qualities

The most important aspect of a good wingman relationship is that you are on the same team. This sounds extremely obvious but is an attitude that the vast majority of men don’t have. They compete with each other, pull each other down, hang shit on each other, and this extends to seduction opportunities.

1. Having his back

A simple example; James and me were talking to two Russian sisters.

 

Her: This shirt makes you look boring
James: [Smiles, doesn’t say anything]
Her: [Turns to me] Don’t you think his shirt is ugly!
Me: [Smiles] I think it suits him… I think you secretly like it coz it makes him look a sexy businessman. Is that your fantasy?
Her: Ohhh… Mr Executive [She blushes and playful slaps him] I might have to work late tonight… sir.

 

It’s simple, but I’m siding with him, and turning her playing jab into something they can flirt about.I shouldn’t have to say this, but a lot of guys can’t handle the social pressure when meeting knew people, and the only way they know how to deal with the tension is to pull other people down.

2. Helping At Key Moments

Developing a good wingman relationship means knowing how to make things easy for each other. Any point where a simple helpful gesture can move the whole seduction forward costs your nothing but helps a lot.

Examples of this include:
- talking to a girls male friends to distract him
- helping him to find a taxi when he’s taking her home
- lending him money to buy after party drinks
- letting him use your phone for google maps
- lending him condoms
- giving him the house keys
- putting on music

3. Releasing the social pressure and making the girl feel safe.

This is probably the most advanced aspect of being a good wingman. Any moment where you are interacting with the girl your wing is seducing, your goal should be making her feel, relaxed, safe, and included.

At the bar this means positioning your body so she can be part of the conversation, keeping a warm friendly energy towards her, releasing social pressure by smiling. Don’t try to be funny or put her down. For most girls this will put unnecessary awkwardness into the situation for no reason.

This is even more important when he brings her home. When they walk in, smile, introduce yourself, and remember that she is entering a strangers house. How you act in this situation can determine how relaxed she feels about staying.  This is NOT the time for in jokes or trying to be funny.

So be polite, friendly, and make yourself scarce once she’s settled in. And if you need to get private couching, feel free to CONTACT US.

 

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