Some try to overcompensate for their insecurities by becoming overly touchy or sexual, creeping the girl out.
While others do not initiate any kind of escalation to make the girl feel comfortable and get friend-zoned on the first date.
Lastly, there is a small niche of guys who have mastered the art of playing with seductive pressure.
They’ve learned how to physically interact with a girl in a way that sparks her desire and willingness to be taken home while still building tons of comfort––the sweet spot.
This is a topic we cover at length in our live workshops through many hours of class drills with female instructors, and then in the field as the students start to approach and take girls on sexy dates.
If you want to get a sneak peek into one of our “physical escalation classes”, check my latest video.
In it, joined by TNL’s new female coach Virag Tierra, I demonstrate in real-time how to master the physical aspect of seduction and exponentially increase the quality of your 1st dates.
Currently, we have a handful of spots open for our 4 and 7-day residential programs running in May and June 2021, as well as for our 10-day flagship EuroTour course.
Our live, in-person programs are the most effective way to receive dozens of years of seduction & dating mastery experience condensed in a practical and minimalistic method that builds on your unique personality & tastes when it comes to women and lifestyle creation.
Everyone can benefit from them. College dudes as well as 40+ silver foxes are welcome and are guaranteed to get the tools to build the dating life they’ve always wanted but never knew how to get.
Currently we’re running most workshops in Kiev, Ukraine – very easy to get in, safe, everything open and most importantly endless amounts of insanely hot women everywhere:)
That doesn’t change the fact that a strong work ethic and discipline are major assets required to succeed in a man’s life.
But you need to balance them out with something else equally as important.
To find out what that is, check my latest video. Link below:
P.S. I’m back on the road for a new epic season of seduction & lifestyle design workshops!
That means you can now spend 4, 7, or 10 intensive days (up to 80+ hours of personalized coaching per student) learning from me and the entire TNL crew as we mentor you in achieving your most satisfyingresults in your romantic and social lives.
Currently, to guarantee the maximum safety for both our students and team coaches, as well as the bare minimum level of social restrictions, we decided to host most of our programs in Kyiv, Ukraine.
As I write this, I’m in the city myself, and the whole scene is vibrant and dazzling. Probably one of the best locations in 2021 to meet some of the most attractive, socially & sexually liberated women in the world.
To join me on your next epic journey of ultimate seductive success, click HERE.
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How to close every girl (the “strike rate” booster revealed)
“If you can’t measure something, you cannot manage it”.
As a guy who loved maths and all sorts of analytical subjects since childhood, I can’t agree more with this quote.
And I think this is an aspect of success and self-growth most people do not really consider…
Measuring your progress.
After all, what is the point of working hard and hustling if you have no positive metrics to compare yourself to?
When it comes to seduction & dating success 99% of men only value one thing: getting into the bedroom ASAP (or taking her contact, as long as it leads there).
Thus a very infamous term was born, the “closing rate”, namely how many girls you get into bed compared to the total number of girls you approached.
But is your close rate really the only way to assess good dating skills?
When I coach guys at our live programs, they’re often shocked when I reveal to them that I get good results out of nearly every single approach I make.
That’s because I have several ways to turn the interaction in my favor and get epic seductive results out of it that do not involve just sleeping with the girl right away.
Things like taking her number and getting introduced to her group of attractive female friends (and have fun with them 😉 ).
Or adding her to my Instagram so that she’s attracted by my lifestyle and hits me up as soon as she breaks up with her boyfriend.
If you want to learn how to massively increase your closing rate, check my latest video. Link below:
P.S. If you’re serious about improving your seductive results & overall lifestyle success, I invite you to join me for a 4-day intensive dating & social success journey this May in Kyiv, Ukraine.
Our live programs are the best way to download & install into your brain decades of condensed seduction experience so that you’re able, as soon as the training is over, to keep coaching yourself and continuously increase the quality of the women you date.
Everything is covered, from approaching in all sorts of scenarios to getting her contacts, organizing a date, overcoming boyfriend objections, texting, throw parties with multiple girls, taking her back to your place, handling multiple women, and more.
If you want to learn more about our training formula, click HERE.
Alternatively, you can get right away on a call with me or another coach to discuss a 100% personalized training solution that fits your current situation, needs, ambitions, and obstacles in dating and social success in general. Click HERE for that.
And If you want to see firsthand the kind of results you can get once you start to implement an effective and measurable method in your dating life, follow me on my personal Instagram by clicking HERE.
Ever had a conversation with a girl where she’s too quiet and only replies in short statements?
“Yes”. “Oh, cool”. “No, I don’t”.
I’ve been in that situation many times, and it feels pretty awkward.
Like she has no consideration for you, and you gotta do insane amounts of talking to avoid losing her.
So, how do you get her to invest more in the conversation?
Most guys view this as an “attraction problem”, and so they try to impress her by teasing her, telling funny jokes or crazy stories to prove they’re cool.
That’s a major mistake.
If you only focus on that, you’ll just create excessive pressure and she will close up even more.
And you actually want the exact opposite to happen: to make her open up.
Because most of the time, if a girl is comfortable and feels a strong connection with you, she will naturally become attracted.
If you want to learn how to create comfort verbally and overall improve your success rate in a natural, non-manipulative way, watch my latest video.
In it, I analyze some brand new infield footage I’ve recorded in 2021 and reveal to you the most important cues on how to connect with girls during daygame.
Click on the link below to watch it
P.S. If you want to ignite your dating & social success in a weird year such as 2021, without having to get lost in hyper-saturated apps like Tinder, we’ve got your back…
Our 4-day live workshops are the perfect solution for those brave men wanting to master the art of dating & re-design their lifestyle to go from scarcity to seductive abundance.
In them, you’ll be coached intensively and individually for over 30 hours combined, learning state of art blueprints for approaching in all sorts of environments, having seductive conversations, texting & social media, taking girls back home, and more.
Currently, we have a few spots left for the Kyiv Intensive running from May 20th-May 23rd, and one of them can be yours if you’re swift and motivated enough to join.
To learn more about it, or speaking with me directly to see whether it is a good fit for your current situation and obstacles, click HERE.
P.P.S. If you need further proof that it’s still possible to have an epic lifestyle and get lots of good seductive results even during lockdown times, follow me on my personal Instagram by clicking HERE (https://www.instagram.com/alexovertheocean/)
Ever wondered to what extent your age affects your dating opportunities?
On my live workshops, one of the common fears preventing guys from approaching is:
“I’m too old for her.”
As a man in his mid-thirties or his early 40s, you may feel uncomfortable at the idea of approaching women who are ten or fifteen years younger.
The underlying limiting belief is that she might consider you boring and less sexy when compared to her peers, and that’s not entirely false…
Lots of men after a certain age—as they get completely absorbed by their draining careers and duties—stop putting effort into their appearance & personality.
As a result, their seductive value on the marketplace plummets, and their opportunities with hotties dwindle.
But that’s only one side of the coin…
The best seducers I’ve ever met, who are dating models & young attractive women on a regular basis, are mostly men who are in their mid to late thirties and 40’s.
That’s because when you take proper care of yourself, stay young in your mindset and spirit, and embody the right archetype, being an older dude has tremendous advantages.
I explain to you what they are, and how to consistently date younger girls in my latest video. Click the link below to check it out:
P.S. If your current life routine is flat and unattractive, to the point that it limits your seductive results and social opportunities, you need to change––and redesign––the script…
That’s the focus of my Lifestyle Design Academy, my 12-month mentorship program that teaches you how to build your dream lifestyle & access insane levels of seductive success, even during the lockdown.
This is by far the most in-depth and value-packed program I’ve ever released, and that’s for a special reason…
In contrast to most courses out there, which contain a bunch of pre-recorded theory videos and little guidance or accountability on how to execute, the L.D.A is 100% Live training.
That means you’ll personally contribute to shaping its structure and outcomes by participating every week on a Live Zoom training webinar with me, followed by personalized missions to implement what you’ve learned while receiving 24/7 accountability & feedback on our L.D.A global brotherhood group that includes over 400 other students & mentors.
You also get immediate access to 100+ hours of epic bonuses that I’ve carefully selected to guarantee you’ll receive the most life-altering education known to man in 2021 on how to build a masterpiece life in a practical, no B.S. fashion.
However, this opportunity won’t be available forever…
Hundreds of guys have already joined and so the enrollments for the Academy will close in less than 48 hours from now, on Monday at midnight.
If you’re tired of living a “traditional” life that lacks adventure, real purpose, and time to pursue what you really love, this is your chance to get a fresh start.
The seductive & lifestyle marketplaces can be pretty unfair.
Some men try with all their might and power to improve their dating & financial situation but never manage to gain any traction.
While others work a lot less hard for it and get access to stunners and interesting business opportunities on a regular basis.
What makes the difference?
According to breakthrough research conducted on the U.S population, there are 4 criteria that scientifically determine whether you’ll succeed in your life or not…
Location, income earned by your parents, race, and gender.
No matter how committed and positive-minded you are, if you score low in any of the above, your social & money opportunities are broadly speaking going to be limited.
Back in my early twenties, for example, the quality of the women I dated was nowhere near what it is today. And that was not only because of my skill set but also because my hometown Canberra was socially drab and hyper-saturated with hungry males and only a few average-looking girls.
It’s not nice, but that’s how things work––what are you going to do about it?
Realistically, unless your family wins the lottery, and you go through some futuristic kind of surgery that swaps your gender and race at once, you only have one option left…
All the most successful––both in seductive & financial terms––men I’ve met in the past two decades are, or have been at some point of the journey, nomad entrepreneurs.
That doesn’t necessarily mean starting your own digital business and moving countries every quarter…
But to embrace a mindset and lifestyle that are mobile and location-independent in their nature.
If you want to learn what steps to take to relocate anywhere in the world and build location-independent financial stability, check out my latest video.
In it, I reveal the best countries for single men in 2021 and how to pick the right location for your personal seductive & income goals (yes even while in lockdown). Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. Moving to a new country can be a daunting prospect when you do it alone.
Saying goodbye to old friends, changing jobs, leaving your family…
Moving into a place where you don’t know anyone.
That’s why most people prefer to settle for an average life: the risks are minimal.
But it doesn’t have to be one or the other…not for you.
In my Lifestyle Design Academy, my flagship 12-month mentoring program, I coach you in moving anywhere you want and create or be invited into new vibrant social scenes that are rich with more dating & business opportunities that you can handle.
This is achieved through a combination of weekly live Zoom lectures held by me, personalized drills & accountability, and mastermind calls with guest-coaches & fellow nomads who have specialized in elite parts of lifestyle design such as travel hacking, throwing elite events, and running multiple businesses on autopilot.
When you join, you’ll also get invited into my global online network of lifestyle designers. It included over 400 men worldwide that are collaborating on epic projects and new adventures every week.
Having access to a network like this also means that wherever you go, you’ll never be alone. The guys in the Academy are often visiting & hosting each other’s and many of them also collaborate in “Growth Houses” projects, a very beneficial type of tribal arrangement, where the different members unite for 30 days at a time to smash their dating & financial goals together.
To further help you get better opportunities, I also added 100+ hours of crazy valuable bonuses to the Academy, including several conferences, unreleased speeches, Q&A databases, and advanced courses.
If you want to benefit from all of the above and get mentored by me for one whole year, make sure you join NOW!
The L.D.A is open for enrollments only until this Sunday, the 21st of March, and since next Monday I’ll be already leading the next generation of lifestyle designers into the most epic, and opportunity-rich, year of their life.
My private time is very expensive, and so when I do take someone on, I mainly work with high-net-worth men who want to redesign their entire life to accommodate more women, adventure, and fulfillment.
Most of them, despite being part of large career networks, struggle to access good seductive opportunities.
Their social circles & groups are built around business purposes, and so they include mostly other men lamenting the same problems.
Paradoxically, the fix to their social & seductive issues is not of technical nature.
They don’t just lack the skillset, but the actual social scenes and opportunities to implement it in…
And that’s because they’re actively, but unconsciously, pushing good opportunities away by creating fake standards for themselves, such as:
“I’m the kind of guy who only goes to (XYZ) type of events”.
Or
“They’re not the kind of people I like to hang out with”.
Opinions can be dangerous.
Especially when they’re internalized without trying things firsthand.
If you want to access the most elite seductive social scenes, you need to adopt a flexible and strategic mindset.
I explain to you how to do so, without losing your personal values, in my latest video.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. The best way to know what you really like and don’t like in terms of social settings is to try as many diverse ones as possible before committing to one.
But entering a new social scene is often a delicate process…
Everyone wants to be where all the hot girls and high-status guys are, but very few people make the cut.
That’s because the most seductive social circles are inherently elitist.
And unless you know what to offer to them to get noticed, you’ll be left out.
This is one of the core specialties that I teach in my Lifestyle Design Academy, my 12-month mentorship program focused on building your own Masterpiece lifestyle & infiltrating others.
The L.D.A operates through weekly live Zoom lectures hosted by me, personalized missions, and webinars with guest coaches who are part of incredible seductive crews such as high-end BDSM scenes, the fashion industry, Great Gatsby parties with models, and many more.
This is the closest you’ll ever get to be coached by me 1-on-1, for a fraction of the fee.
When you join, you also get access to an exclusive global brotherhood including 400+ other lifestyle designers & mentors, located in 44 different countries, who will gladly welcome you to their seductive crews, as well as helping you to infiltrate others.
And if that’s not enough, I also included 7 epic bonuses for a total of 100+ hours of extra material. These include unreleased “technical” masterclasses, entire conferences, Live Movement classes, niche Rockstar level lifestyle programs, and several hour-long speeches!
So, if you want to transform your lifestyle and go from settling for average opportunities to tap into true abundance, make sure you jointoday…
The enrollments are open until Sunday 21st of March, and after that date, I’ll focus exclusively on mentoring the ambitious brotherhood of men in the program.
Click HEREto learn more about how the Academy works.
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How To Date 21 Models In 2021 – The Ultimate Guide
If you’ve ever wondered how to consistently date the top 5% of beautiful women…
The models, the fitness influencers, the club dancers, the hot tattooed female artists, the sexy cosplay girls, I have great news for you today.
My Lifestyle Design Academy is finally LIVE!
This is a 12-month mentorship program personally taught by me as I take you through my secret blueprint to design a Seductive Lifestyle from scratch. Click HERE to check it out.
Now, in order to start bringing more of these high-level women in your life, you need to understand something first…
In most cases, cold approach seduction is not enough.
That’s because these top-tier females are NOT normally found in the streets and bars most guys go to, ready to be approached. They’re part of exclusive high-barrier social scenes designed by strategic groups of men to enjoy them without having to compete for their attention and sexual favors with the rest of the world.
Sure, if you are really stubborn and approach thousands of new women every year, eventually you might be lucky to score a couple of those rare birds.
But with the right tools and blueprint to follow, you can 10X your results by strategically designing a Seductive Lifestyle that does the hard work for you, often passively on autopilot.
After spending the first 15 years of my adult life learning how to do this myself, I now teach it to my private 1-on-1 students as a simple 3-step process to 10X their social & dating lives permanently.
The first step is Targeting
Before you start attracting models and high-status women in your life on autopilot, you need to understand where and whothese girls normally hang out with. Your bombshell fitness trainer will probably not spend her nights and free time in the same places and with the same crew that a hot tattooed BDSM queen would.
For the former, it would probably be a VIP social circle with other health-conscious people, probably not obsessed with crazy partying and more devoted to private day time events, exclusive dinners, and so on. For the latter, a very Elite group of practitioners that meet in underground settings and rarely accept new members.
Once you have targeted the precise social scene you want to access, finally you need to find an entry point or–as we call it in the Lifestyle Design Academy –a gatekeeper.
These figures are normally not so hard to find. They are the connectors, they know everyone and for this reason, and are social butterflies. With the right system, you can confidently approach them and proceed to…
The second step: Penetrating & Building Bonds
When you find a gatekeeper, it is paramount that you know precisely how to connect with him or her and offer unique value in exchange for being introduced in his social scene.
This is the most delicate moment in the entire Lifestyle Design process and where most men fail and never get to access those top 5% of women.
For example, if you want to seduce stunning club dancers and you approach a well-connected nightclub owner asking him to introduce you to his girls without offering anything in return, he will probably categorize you as another thirsty dude and forever ban you from his network.
And when that happens, your reputation is burned and you might have to wait a long time before coming across another good opportunity.
The key to getting this right the first time is knowing how to read everyone’s emotional blueprint and offer in return something valuable (e.g help their business, give them advice, introduce them to new network etc) they would not be able to find anywhere else.
If you get this right, you’ll be able to enter their social environment right from a top position in its hierarchy, with attractive factors like status and power working for you as a result of being introduced as an honorable guest.
This brings us to…
The third step: Leveraging it all
The moment you get access to a VIP social scene your goal should be to create as much Leverage as you can, as fast as possible.
This means accumulating many new social assets such as great friends, lovers, business allies, and other people that you can make part of a larger social ecosystem that works proactively to help you get more hot women, connections, and income streams on autopilot.
A primary example of this is what I and my private student call “booty calls by referral”.
If you seduce and sleep with a model and she tells her friends that you are a guy who is chill, good in bed and will treat them with respect, of course, they’ll take this option on recommendation over a random rich guy in a club or tinder hookup. Think of it like YELP reviews for sex:)
If you found the information inside this email useful, this is just the tip of the educational iceberg: of what I will teach you the moment you join my Lifestyle Design Academy.
And if you’re really serious about dating the most exclusive women on the planet and build a cool network of epic friends & allies, join me and the LD Academy members right NOW because…
To reward the TRUE action takers who are willing to put in the work to see changes now during the lockdown, while most people just wait for things to get better, I included THREE value-packed extra bonuses for those who join the Academy within the next 24 hours. That’s on top of 7 other bonuses which include merely 100 hours of exclusive content.
CLICK HERE to join me in this new, crazy adventure as we turn your life into a Masterpiece of social, sexual, and personal success.
Most guys assume that becoming the “best version of yourself” is about maxing out every single character and outcome metric.
Like in video games, if you want to be the ultimate player, you need to level up and acquire all sorts of spells & abilities.
I’ve got a confession for you…
I still suck hard at many things, and so does every member of my very successful crew.
And that’s the exact reason why we are so successful.
Spending your time trying to become “perfect” under all sorts of circumstances and metrics is a waste of effort.
Getting very good or “elite” at something requires you to automatically sacrifice––and suck at––other things in the process.
But you can still have it all, and here is how…
Just team up with a kickass crew of “specialist losers” as I did.
Exchanging valuable advice and putting your individual skills at disposal of the group.
So that every time someone needs help in a specific area, others take care of it, and so on.
This is a very efficient way to instantly fix your weaknesses and level up “passively”.
I explain to you how to structure your own social circle this way in my latest video. Watch it by clicking on the link below:
P.S. Building your own X-men team of very diverse and high-specialist people is not the easiest thing…
If you lack ambitious friends or every member of your crew is similar in mindset and skills, you won’t be able to multiply each other’s results as I described above.
That means you might need to make new friends and collaborators.
But where should you start?
This is one of the most important topics I teach in my flagship lifestyle engineering & seductive success program, the Lifestyle Design Academy, now open for enrollments until March 21st.
The Academy is a 12-month mentorship program that I personally teach through weekly live Zoom lectures, practical missions, guest masterclasses with members of my crew, and a large support library of 100+ hours of bonus training material.
The entire training is focused on helping you design and build your ideal masterpiece lifestyle.
Whether that’s about becoming a traveling CEO digital nomad, building a social circle filled with many attractive women and dating opportunities, closing more deals & getting a promotion, turning a creative passion into a business, or just making new cool friends…
This program will function both as a map and a template to help you achieve your unique goals.
But contrary to most courses out there, in the L.D.A success is not just about how hard you work, but with WHO you collaborate with.
To make sure you form your own crew of elite “specialist losers”, you’ll get access to my private digital network of hundreds of other lifestyle designers & mentors the moment you enroll in the Academy. This will help you to level up immediately by making new friends & partners and outsourcing tasks and skills to each other.
If you’re curious to learn more about the LDA method and ask me questions to see whether it’s for you, make sure to join my free coaching webinar tomorrow at 8 pm CET to interact with me live.
Since the day you’re born, people shamelessly lie to you.
But don’t blame them, they’re acting in good faith.
They want only the best for you…so they start seeding the idea of the “good life” in your mind…
Work hard, get good grades, be nice to people, find a well-paying job, and a pretty girlfriend, and you’ll be happy.
Let me share some personal insight on that, which I have acquired after working with many “traditionally successful” men as a dating & lifestyle coach for the past 15 years:
You’ll never be happy.
And it’s not your fault…
You’re hardwired by nature to experience a chronic state of dissatisfaction for the rest of your days.
No matter how many women you date.
How large your bank account is.
Or how fast & expensive your newest sports car is.
The implication that by acquiring traditional success symbols, you’ll feel worthy and blissful is flawed.
If you want to reverse this natural tendency, there is only ONE thing you can do: shifting from a paradigm of “achieving and collecting” to one of “sharing & collaborating” with others.
This is not about objects or money, rather building leverage to create positive change in your life.
It’s a tricky topic to explain in one email, so I’ve just released a whole video diving deep into it. Click the link below to check it out.
True self-accomplishment is not formed only out of “peak milestone events” like getting promoted or taking home a runaway model, but rather from a smartly designed, day-to-day sustainable, and fulfilling way of living.
That is the main topic of my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy opening its enrollments this Sunday, March 14th, for a select group of ambitious men.
The L.D.A is a 12-month coaching program personally taught by me & world-class guest coaches as we mentor you in designing and building your ideal epic lifestyle.
What does an ideal lifestyle look like? That depends on you…
For some, it’s the digital nomad dream. Sitting on a beach in Thailand, chilling with a cool international crew, and working on your terms.
For others, it’s about having the skillset and high-level operative knowledge to reach out to mentors & teachers in unique walks of life and turn passions like creative arts or coaching people into a profitable career.
The Academy tackles all of the above and much more, offering its students dozens of different lifestyle paths/options to develop, or just try out. That is achieved through a combination of weekly live Zoom lectures, drills & missions to practice on your own, regular masterclasses with guest speakers, as well as giving you immediate access to a large global network of hundreds of other lifestyle designers to collaborate with.
If you are curious about learning more about the program, you can get access right now to one of the lectures for free to see how it works. Click HERE to check it out!
