Tricky question: how many real friends do you have?
Take your time to answer.
Got one best buddy? Five? Ten of them?
Now think about this: would these people deliberately expose themselves to risk to help you out in moments of adversity?
Cross those who wouldn’t off the list.
How many friends left?
If you’re like most men out there, including me when I first started my journey in the early aughts, you will probably end up with a low number of ‘real’ friends.
And don’t be surprised if that number amounts to close to zero.
See, in our hyper-connected, digitally dominated world, it’s easy to confuse passing acquaintances or chat buddies with having a truly cohesive social circle, but in reality…
One is an illusion.
For example, it’s not that unusual to find guys who regularly hang out with dozens of people like coworkers, gym bros, and ex-uni buddies without really bonding individually with any of them.
They may get to experience the odd night out and share beers but totally miss the #1 thing true friendships are about:
Simply put, real friends don’t just party with you. They also work and fight by your side to help you succeed in every key area of your lifestyle like business, dating, and especially your mental and emotional wellbeing.
To learn more on how to get real friends and dramatically improve your current relationships, watch my latest video linked below.
P.S.Looking to take your social skills to advanced levels of mastery and build a kickass crew with other high-value, truly loyal collaborators?
In my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy 3.0, launching this April, I share all my best secrets and action blueprints collected in over sixteen years of personal and coaching experience on how to join forces with other men, and women, to create passive flows of seductive success and 10x results in core areas of your life like dating, business, and networking.
You also get invited to join our very exclusive LDA Insiders network, where hundreds of guys like you, including new and former Academy students as well as world-famous coaches, interact, share elite insights, help each other out, and embark together on epic lifestyle projects on a nearly daily basis.
That’s it for today! More on the Academy coming soon, can’t wait to show you what I’ve prepared for you this year 😉
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