Getting Out Of Your Head
The answer, is simple. Meditation. The journey may not be entirely simple, but the answer at least for now, is simple.
See, when something goes wrong in a seduction, it’s the perfect opportunity for your mind to pitch in and start causing problems.
Analyzing how that one thing you did wrong is going to ruin everything.
Pointing out the obvious mistake that you could have seen coming a mile away.
Convincing you it’s time to just give up to avoid further embarrassment.
So is the problem really external, or is it internal? Is it that you made a mistake, or how you process the mistake?
Sometimes it’s both. But the process of correcting that begins with meditation.
In the Marshall Meditation Method online course, I teach guys a practical way to meditate that is applicable to situations where you’re under high pressure.
Remember how I said the answer is easy, but the journey isn’t? I’ve done everything I can to distill over 10 years of meditation practice and study into an online course that takes you through meditation step by step, leading you up to the point where you can draw on the practice of mindfulness when you’re feeling social pressure. You can learn more by clicking HERE.
Getting The Job Done
With the right tools anything is possible, hence the course filled with everything you need to know. But your responsibility is to actually use those tools.
This means first being aware of how social pressure shows up in the moment.
Does your mouth get dry? Does your chest get tight? Does it feel like there’s a fuzzy sensation in your belly?
Next, identify the sensation. Rather than judging it, by saying “oh I’m nervous again”, just acknowledge that it’s there.
Finally, watch it pass away. Few sensations and feelings in life are consistent in every moment, and even those that are aren’t always necessarily in our field of awareness.
Meditation is all about helping you to get back to the present moment, out of your head, and hopefully, focused on the beautiful woman who is about you hand you her number.
