Falling in love is one of the most beautiful yet fakest things men can experience.
I use the word ‘fake’ here with a purpose…
As most of us learn after entering a few relationships, there is a very thick line between a sudden, heart-bursting infatuation and a genuinely healthy romantic relationship.
For most cases, ‘falling’ for someone and loving them almost immediately has a lot less to do with the person than we think…
It’s often just the result of projecting neediness, excessive expectations, and our own romantic dreams onto the first person that sticks around.
A toxic, codependent relationship re-packaged as ‘destiny’ by the consumerist Hollywood narrative.
Because let’s be fair: a quick, effortless, ‘and they lived happily ever after’ kind of love sells a lot more than something built over time through hardship and small steps.
Something built on values that go beyond mere attraction and chemistry––values like trust and respect for the other person’s boundaries.
Sounds easy? It’s absolutely not. It’s hell at times.
But it is still more real than any rom-com out there.
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