On workshops, I often get asked what’s the best way to approach women: directly or indirectly?
My answer often surprises the students…
Directness is not a style of seduction, but a way of life.
You cannot shyly tiptoe through life, never daring to express your honest opinion, pleasing others instead of confronting them, and then expect to boldly approach a woman in the streets.
Think about that, in terms of how you’ve lived your life so far.
If you want to develop a brave, straightforward attitude, you must live authentically according to your will 24/7.
Make no mistake, being direct is not about bossing people around with arrogance either.
It boils down to two consequential steps:
First, develop your self-awareness to realize what you truly want in life, or in a given situation.
Second, express your honest intentions in clear, no b.s. way, while still taking into consideration other people’s feelings –– empathy is the key.
For a concise guide to developing a direct approach to your own life, refer to my latest video. Link below.
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