Since the day you’re born, people shamelessly lie to you.
But don’t blame them, they’re acting in good faith.
They want only the best for you…so they start seeding the idea of the “good life” in your mind…
Work hard, get good grades, be nice to people, find a well-paying job, and a pretty girlfriend, and you’ll be happy.
Let me share some personal insight on that, which I have acquired after working with many “traditionally successful” men as a dating & lifestyle coach for the past 15 years:
You’ll never be happy.
And it’s not your fault…
You’re hardwired by nature to experience a chronic state of dissatisfaction for the rest of your days.
No matter how many women you date.
How large your bank account is.
Or how fast & expensive your newest sports car is.
The implication that by acquiring traditional success symbols, you’ll feel worthy and blissful is flawed.
If you want to reverse this natural tendency, there is only ONE thing you can do: shifting from a paradigm of “achieving and collecting” to one of “sharing & collaborating” with others.
This is not about objects or money, rather building leverage to create positive change in your life.
It’s a tricky topic to explain in one email, so I’ve just released a whole video diving deep into it. Click the link below to check it out.
True self-accomplishment is not formed only out of “peak milestone events” like getting promoted or taking home a runaway model, but rather from a smartly designed, day-to-day sustainable, and fulfilling way of living.
That is the main topic of my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy opening its enrollments this Sunday, March 14th, for a select group of ambitious men.
The L.D.A is a 12-month coaching program personally taught by me & world-class guest coaches as we mentor you in designing and building your ideal epic lifestyle.
What does an ideal lifestyle look like? That depends on you…
For some, it’s the digital nomad dream. Sitting on a beach in Thailand, chilling with a cool international crew, and working on your terms.
For others, it’s about having the skillset and high-level operative knowledge to reach out to mentors & teachers in unique walks of life and turn passions like creative arts or coaching people into a profitable career.
The Academy tackles all of the above and much more, offering its students dozens of different lifestyle paths/options to develop, or just try out. That is achieved through a combination of weekly live Zoom lectures, drills & missions to practice on your own, regular masterclasses with guest speakers, as well as giving you immediate access to a large global network of hundreds of other lifestyle designers to collaborate with.
If you are curious about learning more about the program, you can get access right now to one of the lectures for free to see how it works. Click HERE to check it out!
That’s a feeling we all experienced at certain times in our lives.
But as much as we don’t like the idea of it, being inept at something is not always a bad thing.
For starters, sucking is a very important part––and probably the most rewarding phase ––of your journey towards mastery.
That’s because when total beginners attempt stuff, in the worst-case scenario, they’ll still learn a lot more than if they decided to take no action.
Plus your capacities in the new area double often as you take the steep learning curve from complete ignorance to basic competency.
I myself have sucked hard at all of the skills I’m today known and respected for.
Make no mistake: eventually, the “sucking” ends.
That’s the period most people identify with the “advanced” phase of their path.
And that’s the exact moment when the real PROs choose to do what separates them from the rest of the crowd…
Go back to sucking at stuff again.
By changing their environment and seeking more experienced competitors and peers that will motivate them to re-approach things with a less arrogant, more open beginner’s mind.
This is the only real cheat code I know to always keep your skills at peak-level and your mindset & instinct sharp and dynamic. It also keeps you young in thinking and seeking growth and opportunity.
If you too want to know how to transmute your frustration into endless, fire-burning motivation, check my latest video by clicking on the link below
P.S. There is no limit to what a single man can achieve with a killer mindset and motivation, except the fact that he’s, indeed, only one person.
It is much easier to deal with frustration positively when you’re surrounded by a kickass crew of high-achievers who have your interest at heart and are willing to help you out whenever you feel like you suck.
In my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th, I share with you every single strategy and system that I’ve ever learned to engineer and create your own social circle and tribe, living exceptional lives, even if you’re starting from scratch like when arriving into a new city. I’ve personally done that a dozen times and have backward engineered the steps needed to multiply your social effects quickly.
In fact, I’ve done all the grunt work for you!
The moment you join the program, you’ll also get lifetime access to the global L.D.A community, the very first lifestyle design incubator of its kind, and a place where to meet and organize epic adventures and projects with like-minded guys all over the world.
Check my next email for more big details about the program, and how the enrollment process is going to work.
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Nearly every man deeply craves the validating feeling of walking into a room exuding power and commanding respect and admiration”.
Or to be able to confidently speak in public persuasively, capturing the attention of everyone.
To have women whispering and gossiping about you as your aura affects a room.
The self-development industry knows this very well…
Hundreds of books, courses, and live programs are sold every year on the evergreen promise of helping you to become “more charismatic”.
Do they work? It depends…
While I don’t deliberately disagree with the whole idea of working to develop charisma, I do think that most people approach this endeavor the wrong way.
For starters, the reality is that many of the so-called “hyper charismatic” individuals out there as global leaders and celebrities are not very charismatic or attention-grabbing per se…
What makes them perceived as such is their status and the unique role they play in a specific context (e.g: they’re famous, they’re the boss, or just very wealthy).
Another misconception people have about power & personal magnetism is that they boil down to dominating others.
In this skewed view of things, the most charismatic people are those who can forcefully impose their will and presence on less powerful individuals.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
The most spellbinding and thrilling people I’ve ever met, or shared stages with, are not oppressive at all––their focus is on helping others to “open up”.
I talk about them and the most important lessons I’ve ever learned about unleashing true personal magnetism in my latest video.
Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. If you want to learn my own system to becoming more charismatic, not in a general and vague way, but specifically tailored to seductive & masculine goals…
While not being strictly a “charisma course”, the Academy is the most comprehensive training I’ve ever put together for those looking to maximize their social, dating & business results through the strategic use of influence & persuasive abilities.
The program lasts for 12 months and includes weekly Zoom lectures hosted by me, monthly webinars with guest coaches, dozens of drills, action steps & template lifestyle strategies, along with over 100+ hours of never released bonuses.
Last year, I tested its efficiency on a focus group of 350+ ambitious guys who were resolute about making the best outcomes possible out of pandemic times, and the results have been mindblowing!
To get a sneak peek into the training and see how powerful it is with your own eyes, click HERE.
Easily among the top 5 marketing pitches ever conceived.
Strongly think about (manifest) something, and the universe will conspire to give it to you.
Tens of thousands of books and self-development courses are sold on this premise every year; billion-dollar markets have spawned from it since its postulation.
And there is definitively some truth to it…
Your thoughts and mental patterns are largely responsible for your success.
But without consistent and smart action, without a broad and influential tribe, and without placing yourself in the right environment, you can stare at your vision board and chant your mantras for years and see zero results.
In the realm of practicality and tangible results, a different law rules the game: the Law Of Asking.
It works like this:
Stop wishing for things to happen, and start asking for them.
And by asking, I mean to human beings–people–making concrete and direct requests for small and big favors that will help you 10x your life goals.
Unfortunately, most guys hate asking for stuff, and when they do so, they act in very shifty, covert ways.
At the same time, making requests to others is no piece of cake…
It’s easy to be perceived as entitled and ruin relationships if you don’t know how to influence people the right way.
To help you with this, I’ve released a comprehensive guide on how to properly Ask for what you want, and get a positive answer as often as possible. Click on the link below to watch it
P.S. Asking is part of a 4-step method that when mastered is guaranteed to enhance your social life, career, and overall lifestyle results.
I teach this system and everything else you need to know about designing an epic personal lifestyle in my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th.
The Academy is by far the most comprehensive and life-altering online coaching program I ever released, including weekly live Zoom lectures, Q&A panels, missions, accountability systems & over 100 hours of advanced bonus content.
If you want to be part of the next generation of elite lifestyle designers––a group of men who thrive even during these hard times––make sure to book yourself a spot in the program when the enrollments open on March 14th.
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In the past 12 months, I’ve been receiving an unusual amount of mourning messages.
“Seduction is no longer with us… I’m sorry for your loss, James”.
“Daygame is Dead.”
These are mostly coming from men whose dating lives have been damaged––or totally wiped out––by the pandemic.
In part, I have to agree with them…
Dating has indeed been affected by the dark events we’re all living through.
For starters, if you now decide to approach some attractive girl in the street, you might get the “social distancing/mask” objection.
And in some countries, you might not even be able to freely leave your apartment.
But is this enough to announce the end of human desire and the masculine-feminine craving for intimacy and connection?
Results say otherwise, in fact…
If dating feels dead for you, it’s probably because you killed it.
How? By wasting this time complaining and making excuses for not proactively seeking out good opportunities. I’m not saying the facts on the ground aren’t affecting things but I know for myself and my clients, that women still (and often more so) want to hook up.
I’ve been running live intensive live workshops during pandemic times, and results have been mindblowing…
Guys going on dates and taking stunners home left and right; probably some of the best students’ results in the history of TNL.
Why? Because cold approaching still works and in some ways, the playing field has been leveled. Right now an attractive woman has so much LESS opportunity to meet men; no clubs, house parties, festivals, long brunches at cool cafes. So when she does get a chance with a well-calibrated trained man, she’s much more likely to pursue the connection.
We can confirm that seduction is not only alive, but it is much more effective and easier than before if you do things the right way.
To help you navigate the often misunderstood landscape of dating during pandemic times, I’ve just released a video in collaboration with female dating specialist and longtime friend, Hayley Quinn.
In this in-depth interview, we reveal to you a proven and effective “lockdown funnel” that you can implement right away to get back into the dating world.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. If you want to get access to a large peer-group and global community of guys who are absolutely thriving in their seductive and social lives during lockdown times…
As well as receiving weekly coaching tailored to your unique situation from people like me and Hayley and my elite networks of social, seductive and lifestyle specialists…
Make sure you’re ready when I open the enrollments for my Lifestyle Design Academy on March 14th.
That’s because when you join the Academy, I’ll become your mentor for the next 12 months, guiding you on weekly coaching calls (often joined by extra guest instructors) and private and super proactive accountability groups.
If I managed to help my live students get epic seductive results in a matter of days during workshops, imagine what we can do together in one whole year.
So, make sure you check your email in the next few days. The Academy is launching in less than a week, and as part of our VIP list, I have a very epic surprise coming your way 😉
Often success principles transcend the context they’ve been developed in, as is the case for this famous real estate mantra:
“Location! Location! Location!“
In the world of investment properties, the above means that the value of a specific estate is determined by the geographic area the estate is located in.
The same rule holds for lifestyle & social success.
For example, if a guy is trying to maximize his seductive results and date several beautiful women in a city like San Francisco (US), where the male population largely outnumbers the female one, his results will strongly differ than if he did the same in Budapest (EU).
Same guy, same game, but opposite outcomes.
This is a fundamental lifestyle design criteria that most men ignore, but that largely influences the magnitude of their success.
If you want to experience the best the world has to offer, you should be willing to move around it.
This is probably the quickest and most effective social-life success booster I know of.
I’ve moved cities at least a dozen times at this point in my life, and on each occasion, I’ve learned new ways of living, built new networks, and have continually leveraged my position with my collaborators to keep multiplying my results.
In case you’re willing to give this a try but don’t know where to go next, I’ve released a short video guide on “the best cities for men in 2021”. You can watch it by clicking on the link below.
P.S. Despite the tremendous positive changes that it creates, not everyone might be able to relocate somewhere new right away…
Some guys might be stuck in a career they’re not passionate about, but they need to pay the bills.
Others hesitate because they have no contacts outside of their cities and don’t want to spend their days in loneliness. Finally, some people might now be able to travel at all because of lockdown restrictions.
If you’re in a similar situation you can temporarily reproduce the benefits of relocating by doing what I call “vagabonding in your city”. That means re-approaching your city with tourist’s eyes, trying out places you never really resonated with, going to bars and cafes in remote, unexplored parts of your town while interacting with new people.
I explain how to do this, as well as how to effectively design your “escape plan” in my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy launching on March 14th.
The L.D.A is a vast toolbox providing you different lifestyle blueprints/templates you can adapt to your specific situation to kickstart new lifestyle paths. Currently, we cover dozens of options such as the digital nomad scene, the worldwide invite-only BDSM industry, shamanism, advanced sexuality & tantra, online business strategies, movement culture & more.
What’s more, the most exclusive topics are also taught by a number of world-class masters who I frequently invite to join me for my 12 months of live mentorship throughout the LDA course.
Stay tuned for more information about the enrollment process coming your way very soon 😉
If you’ve been following me for a while, you’d probably know I’m a peaceful guy, so rest assured, we won’t be endorsing any military conflicts in here 😉
What I’m referring to is belonging to a Tribe that has your best interests at heart.
Of course, in 2021, what a Tribe looks like is vastly different from pre-agricultural groups…
Stone spears and mammoth hunts have evolved into laptops and business/lifestyle projects, but the core tribal dynamics still hold true:
Co-operation, leveraging others’ resources, debts & favors, facing common enemies…
The most successful people I know, who also managed to thrive during the global pandemic, are those who could count on others to back them up and help to 10X their outcomes.
Ironically, we live in a time when technology makes it possible to connect with millions of people with the touch of a finger, yet we are more emotionally disconnected from each other than ever before.
If you want to learn how to create a core crew of people that care for you and proactively help you to succeed in life, check my latest video. Link below
P.S. In my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy launching on March 14th, you’ll be mentored intensively in mastering influence tools, principles, and social frameworks that will help you to rapidly expand your social circle and build your personal lifestyle entourage.
When you join the program, you’ll also get immediate access to our international lifestyle design network, counting hundreds of premium members and including many of my own coaches and allies who share their strategies and advice with the LDA members..
Stay tuned for more insights about the course and to get access to exclusive content & training webinars, hosted by me personally, as we get closer to the launch.
It often solves as many personal issues as it creates.
Optimizing every single area of your life, for example, can rapidly turn from a healthy habit into a toxic addiction.
Take the idea of having a ´Purpose´ in life…
A singular core purpose is a great advantage to have, helping you focus your efforts in a productive direction.
But it’s not a prerequisite to enjoy life and keep growing as a man.
If you’re waiting for some major epiphany to rescue you from a meaningless existence, I’ve got bad news for you…
In most cases, there will be no such revelation. No grey wizard will knock on the doors of your Shire, inviting you to embark on some epic, unexpected quest.
Your unique hero’s journey will begin when you stop to ask for outside help to feel inspired and proactively start to explore what life path resonates the most with you.
For a complete in-depth video on this topic, check the link below
P.S. Being part of an elite crew of specialists is a great way to “experience” different individual life-paths without necessarily having to embark on each one of them.
Last year, I personally coached over 350 guys worldwide in designing a lifestyle that was specifically tailored to their wildest ambitions and expectations. Despite the early pandemic and obstacles, this experience proved to be a massive success, leading to the largest amount of success-stories for a single program in the history of TNL.
Now, almost ten months later, the Lifestyle Design Academy will officially re-open its enrollments for a new select group of brave adventurers on March 14th, 2021.
Make sure you book yourself a spot in the program, as soon as the limited enrollments open a week from now.
I’ve always liked this piece of advice, but at the same time, I feel it creates as many problems as it solves.
Don’t get me wrong, there is an important truth to it…
Having a strong network of elite friends and allies who care about you is perhaps the most effective way to speed-up your business & social results.
Still, most people make inherently some misunderstandings when it comes to “networking”.
The biggest one is probably treating it as a one-off type of situation, such as:
-Attending a networking conference.
-Joining a party hosted by influential people.
-Sending lots of connection requests on LinkedIn premium.
Most of these traditional networking methods have a single, specific goal: exchanging contacts with others hoping to magically make something profitable together in the future.
Spoiler alert…Most times, it won’t happen.
Strong partnerships and 6-figure deals are rarely born out of 5-minute chit-chats between strangers, followed by exchanging business cards –– unless you’re a well-established millionaire already ;)
If you want to turn conversations into profitable alliances, you must first create deep bonds of trust and respect with others. Check my latest video for a comprehensive guide on how to do so. Link below…
P.S. If you want to learn a practical, no b.s system to network the right way and 10X your social, sexual & career success, I have great news for you…
On March 14th, 2021, I will be officially opening the enrollments to my Lifestyle Design Academy.
L.D.A is TNL’s most successful digital program ever, with hundreds of transformation stories from guys like you who took the core principles taught in the course and applied them to their own situation, rapidly enhancing the quality of their lifestyles.
What makes the Academy different from anything else I’ve ever put out there is that you will not only be coached by me, live on a weekly basis, with opportunities to interact and receive personal feedback…
…But you will also get to join my own personal network of elite specialists (which took me over 20 years to build) as I will often invite guest coaches from very unique schools of human potential to join me for the lectures.
Click HERE to get a sneak peek into one of our lectures.
Are you tired of living a repetitive and predictable life?
Perhaps, at night you dream of escaping the corporate rat-race and becoming your own boss…
Traveling the world more often, and re-locating in a different city now and then to experience diverse cultures and of course ladies.
After all, you got only one life. Why waste it doing something that doesn’t truly fulfill you?
If you identify with these yearnings, thedigital nomad lifestyle might be what you’re looking for.
For most people, being a digital nomad boils down to three things: freedom, opportunity, and adventure.
Popularised by self-development author Tim Ferris in his iconic book The 4-Hour Workweek, the premise of digital nomadism keeps fascinating tens of thousands of guys every year.
What’s more, virtually everyone can join the movement. All you need to start is your laptop, a one-way ticket to Bali, and the ambition to make this kind of life a reality.
But is the grass really greener on the other side?
I and my crew of close associates have been living the digital nomad dream since way before the term was coined–– it is a rewarding life path, but a very challenging one as well.
Isolation, overworking breakdown, difficulty to build a new social circle every time you move places. This road less traveled is paved with complexity and a need for true self-reliance.
That’s why I’ve recorded a brand new video explaining to you in detail how to build your own digital nomad lifestyle from scratch without shooting yourself in the foot.
In it, I interview my fellow TNL coach and Pro digi nomad, Alex León, breaking down the most important steps, mindsets, and practical strategies that took him from a shy Austrian nerd to world-traveler and business owner in a couple of years.
Click on the link below to watch it.
P.S. Digital nomadism is one of the several lifestyle options that you will learn to master and execute in the Lifestyle Design Academy.
Contrary to most online business, travel-hacking, or social dynamics courses out there, the L.D.A method is not another cookie-cutter lifestyle program, but an intensive mentorship focused on assisting you in designing and implementing your personalized lifestyle design strategy.
We had hundreds of student joining the first edition of the Academy back in 2020, and many of them successfully developed new, diverse, lifestyles such as: making a living as creative artists, exploring the international BDSM scene, launching an online business, turning into well-connected socialites in their own cities, starting a modeling agency, as well as just freeing more personal time to spend with their friends and family.
If you too want to dynamically transform your life in 2021 from average to epic, make sure to book your spot in the newest edition of the Lifestyle Design Academy launching on March 14th.
More details on the program coming soon. Stay tuned 😉
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