How To Spank Women Like A Pro (they’ll love you for It!)
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This is not your typical dating and lifestyle advice TNL content…
It’s an exclusive behind the scene look at our most secretive workshop.. the S*x God Masterclass.
In this clip from our 7-day, hands-on workshop on mastering the complete sensuality & pleasure toolkit, I show how to spank or flog a lady.
When done right, most women absolutely adore this but struggle to find guys who know what they’re doing and are open-minded enough to learn. Check out this sexy clip with my cheeky assistant by clicking on the link below 😉
In the SGM, running from October 24th-October 30th, 2021, in Kyiv, Ukraine you have the chance to learn dozens of bedroom skills that few men will ever even imagine, everything from rough play, sensual dominance, tantra, toys, role-playing and so much more.
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One Girlfriend Vs Multiple Chicks (The BEST dating strategy)
“To get a girlfriend and settle, or have fun with several chicks and stay single, that is the question…”
Whether you’re a seasoned seducer with years of experience, or a guy who is starting to get his first results with women, you’re likely to encounter a unique kind of hamletic doubt along the way:
Should you keep seeing her and eventually transition into a classic monogamous relationship?
Should you keep things open and keep seeing other girls on the side to further fuel your seductive abundance?Or shall you just break things off to avoid future drama?
Unfortunately, there is no one magic answer to this situation…
In fact, traditional exclusive relationships can be great for connecting and developing strong mutual trust and connection, but so can polyamorous ones.
The real question you should ask yourself before jumping into any sort of romantic arrangement is: “what do I want to get out of this?”.
Stay true to your intentions, and you will piss a few girls off but live happily.
Ignore your instincts to please others, and you’ll end up regretful.
In our latest video, my close friend and fellow TNL coach, Shae Matthews, dives deep into choosing the best kind of relationship for your unique masculine and emotional needs.
I strongly recommend you check it out now before it goes viral 😉
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to unlock and master the ability to meet, date, and enter relationships with new beautiful women, whenever you want?
Our live coaching programs are infamously known to be some of the best and most powerful shortcuts available in the entire world for those men looking to build epic dating & social lives.
From the basics of approaching women and entertaining intriguing conversations to building seductive tension and taking their contacts, all the way to see them again on a date and taking them home (often by their suggestion) real fast, I and my team of coaches will teach you how to rapidly build an abundant pool of hot ladies in your life to date, whether seriously or casually, at your will.
If you’re ready to ignite your seductive life in 2021, I strongly recommend you speak with my team…
…We have only a few spots left for the remainder of the year, so you should act asap!
Of all the colorful and various ways a guy can meet women and get regular dates, nothing beats daytime cold-approaching when it comes to fast results and personal growth.
Compare it to crowded dating apps, and you have a way to instantly meet attractive girls without having them swipe first on you.
And in contrast to VIP nightclubs or bars, the hottest women are not hidden behind velvet ropes and hordes of high-value dudes, but right in front of you ready to be approached.
It’s simple, it’s fun, and it’s extremely effective.
Yet, I often see guys complaining that they don’t have time for it…
As if you should dedicate hours upon hours every day to approaching girls.
Truth is that daygame is a lot less about having allocated 4-hour sessions of meeting women––which are very useful in a coaching setting but unsustainable in the long run––and more about making the best out of every good opportunity that comes your way.
Like exchanging eye contact with a cute girl on your way to the office, or spotting a hot brunette during your lunch break.
If you want a living proof of this minimalistic, time-efficient, approach to meeting women, check my latest value-packed infield video.
In it, you’ll see me approaching, getting numbers, and arranging dates with 4 different women, within a little more than 30 minutes spent in the streets.
Click on the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to take your daygame skillset to the next level?
In two weeks, I’ll be hosting a 7-day residential program in Kiev, Ukraine, where I’ll be coaching a select group of men on how to become incredible with girls and build the seductive lifestyle they’ve always dreamed of.
Dates are July 11th-July 18th, 2021, and you get over 60 hours of personalised training including both theory lectures, practice with hot female models, and dozens of hours of infield daygame coaching with me and the entire TNL team.
Attractive women are so used to annoying catcalling from drunk dudes and weird people that they often ignore everyone when they’re out.
So they often find most of their dating prospects through their social circle and workplace––it gets boring real fast.
But one day they finally meet a charming, socially savvy guy who is so interested in her that has to stop whatever he’s doing and walk up to her in the street.
This is something rare, and many single girls are likely to be intrigued by such a good opportunity.
Still, lots of guys never get to experience the real fun and adventure as they self-sabotage themselves by making poor choices.
Either they get too needy and try to make a move too soon, creeping her out and killing the attraction.
Or they decide to postpone everything, take the number and schedule a date in the future even if she’s clearly free and open to getting to know them at that moment.
If this is you, it’s important you stop self-sabotaging your results right now!
Watch my latest video to learn the three most important things you should do to take a girl home right after the approach. Click the link below to watch it:
P.S. Want to quickly become the kind of charming stranger that can consistently meet and take girls home from all sorts of places?
Many of our students have successfully approached and gotten sexy dates from Starbucks, shopping malls, libraries, bars, universities, and even supermarkets, and you can become one of them 😉
Our coaching curriculum teaches you how to calibrate and adjust your approach based on the situation at hand so that you can always start a conversation and move things forward smoothly and without resistance or tension from her side.
Currently, we still have 2 spots left for our next training program running in Kyiv, Ukraine from July 22nd-July 25th, 2021. To learn more about how everything works, click HERE.
P.P.S.Want to get daily insights into the kind of seductive lifestyle you can build once you master the most powerful nuances of dating? Just follow me on my personal Instagram.
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Why men lose their desire (libido killers revealed)
Easily among the top 5 marketing pitches ever conceived.
Strongly think about (manifest) something, and the universe will conspire to give it to you.
Tens of thousands of books and self-development courses are sold on this premise every year; billion-dollar markets have spawned from it since its postulation.
And there is definitively some truth to it…
Your thoughts and mental patterns are largely responsible for your success.
But without consistent and smart action, without a broad and influential tribe, and without placing yourself in the right environment, you can stare at your vision board and chant your mantras for years and see zero results.
In the realm of practicality and tangible results, a different law rules the game: the Law Of Asking.
It works like this:
Stop wishing for things to happen, and start asking for them.
And by asking, I mean to human beings–people–making concrete and direct requests for small and big favors that will help you 10x your life goals.
Unfortunately, most guys hate asking for stuff, and when they do so, they act in very shifty, covert ways.
At the same time, making requests to others is no piece of cake…
It’s easy to be perceived as entitled and ruin relationships if you don’t know how to influence people the right way.
To help you with this, I’ve released a comprehensive guide on how to properly Ask for what you want, and get a positive answer as often as possible. Click on the link below to watch it
P.S. Asking is part of a 4-step method that when mastered is guaranteed to enhance your social life, career, and overall lifestyle results.
I teach this system and everything else you need to know about designing an epic personal lifestyle in my upcoming Lifestyle Design Academy, launching on March 14th.
The Academy is by far the most comprehensive and life-altering online coaching program I ever released, including weekly live Zoom lectures, Q&A panels, missions, accountability systems & over 100 hours of advanced bonus content.
If you want to be part of the next generation of elite lifestyle designers––a group of men who thrive even during these hard times––make sure to book yourself a spot in the program when the enrollments open on March 14th.
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On workshops, I often get asked what’s the best way to approach women: directly or indirectly?
My answer often surprises the students…
Directness is not a style of seduction, but a way of life.
You cannot shyly tiptoe through life, never daring to express your honest opinion, pleasing others instead of confronting them, and then expect to boldly approach a woman in the streets.
Think about that, in terms of how you’ve lived your life so far.
If you want to develop a brave, straightforward attitude, you must live authentically according to your will 24/7.
Make no mistake, being direct is not about bossing people around with arrogance either.
It boils down to two consequential steps:
First, develop your self-awareness to realize what you truly want in life, or in a given situation.
Second, express your honest intentions in clear, no b.s. way, while still taking into consideration other people’s feelings –– empathy is the key.
For a concise guide to developing a direct approach to your own life, refer to my latest video. Link below.
P.S. If you really desire to finally start living a reality that matches your social, romantic, and financial expectations, I’ve got good news for you.
On March 14th, 2021, I’ll be opening the enrollments of my Lifestyle Design Academy 2.0.
The Academy is TNL’s most successful program ever, with hundreds of positive success stories, and a practical method anyone can follow to start designing and bringing to life their own masterpiece lifestyle.
By joining the LDA brotherhood, you’ll learn not only how to achieve the external goals & success you’ve always fantasized about, but also how to develop your character and inner qualities so that you can finally start feeling worthy of more.
Keep checking your inbox in the coming weeks for more details on the LDA relaunch and heaps of more free life-changing content
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3 Principles Everyone Starting Daygame Should Learn
3 Principles Everyone Starting Daygame Should Learn
The more I advance in my masculine path and collaborate with other élite specialists, the more I realize true mastery is NOT attained by learning hundreds of different techniques…
…But by executing a few principles in a flawless way.
It’s like having a limited amount of fuel to reach a destination: if you constantly change your path, you’ll gas out before getting to the end.
But how do we determine whether a principle is superior to another one or not?
The answer is a subjective one: it depends on the individual necessities.
For example, when I started my seduction journey, I didn’t experience many of the so-called beginner’s hell problems…
My Shaolin training had taught me to reach very high levels of presence and the ability to get out of my head.
And all the years I had spent on stages with my funk band had pretty much annihilated my social anxiety.
Still, I was far from perfect, and getting physical with a girl was a major issue for me.
But that’s just my story.
Some of the best seducers I’ve met throughout my journey had a very different set of challenges to deal with.
That’s why at our live workshops I often invite a number of external guest teachers to join the TNL coaching team…
So that every student is guaranteed to learn from someone they can deeply relate to.
You can get a glimpse of what I’m talking about by watching my latest video.
In it, I team up with fellow dating coaches and long-time collaborators, Sasha Daygame and John Keegan, to reveal to you the 3 most important principles you should learn when getting started in seduction.
Top lessons that I’ve learned over my years in relationships as well as in my development
I was having a think about the top lessons that I’ve learned over my years in relationships as well as in my development, After sitting down and having a chat with Liam Mcrea and thinking about all the work I’ve done in the naturals with James Marshall over the years I decided to write out the top lessons for life that For the principles for a better relationship with yourself and others.
Im interested to hear which ones you like the most and if you have any others that you think should make the list.
Enjoy…
A spiritual warriors cheat sheet
22 Lessons to live by
1. Realize that the source of all love, happiness and abundance exists within yourself
There is no other person or thing that can give you what you truly seek outside yourself. When you realize and embody this you will enter the flow as an independent yet simultaneously connected individual. When we let go of needing to fulfill ourselves through the external we free ourselves to truly be powerful and make choices that are in our best interests.
2. Work on your purpose on a daily basis even if you dont know what it is (seek it) and know that your self and all that is reflected back to it from the world of circumstance is like a garden that needs to be tended and nurtured constantly
The seeds you plant today with thought word and deed will be the world you wake up in tomorrow. When you are at one with your purpose you will be able to navigate the ocean of life with greater ease grace and synchronicity.
3. Never take your power for granted you are the creator of the meaning in your life
Learn to stand between the opposites of life and hold the paradox. Be aware that your desires, feelings and conditions only a small and transient aspect of the possibilities that exist in life and the opposite of them is just as real and powerful if you need to tune into them and bring them into being as well.
4. Grow from your challenges rather than resist and resent them
When you allow yourself to really step into a challenge you will find things out about yourself that you never knew, You will grow learn and evolve as a result. Resisting challenge only prolongs the suffering accepting it allows you to move through it with greater ease and grace.
5. Be wary of putting yourself into a box of limited being and always question what truly serves you
Learn to say no to energies, thoughts, feelings and people that are not good for you and your evolution and be clear on your boundaries of what’s ok and not ok for you.
6. Develop yourself worth and let go of guilt shame and fear
Drop any attachments to the past or the future that have negative emotions attached to them and know that as you let go and forgive yourself and others, you will always be rewarded with a greater sense of peace, love and appreciation for life as it is rather than what you wished it was. This will make you stronger, clearer and wiser in the process.
Drop any attachments to the past or the future that have negative emotions attached to them and know that as you let go and forgive yourself and others, you will always be rewarded with a greater sense of peace, love and appreciation for life as it is rather than what you wished it was. This will make you stronger, clearer and wiser in the process.
7. Have gratitude, love and appreciation for what you have even if it’s just this breath and be open to the greater potential of receiving that which you truly desire in your heart
Understand that you are the door keeper that rejects or accepts things coming into your life and gratitude is the magnet to attract that which you desire in your heart.
8. Be open to receiving, understanding and creating new distinctions in your view of the world
A closed mind is the beginning of suffering. Learning to grasp more complex understandings free’s you from the chains of ignorance and allows you to make better choices that are in alignment with what actually is. There are no black and whites in the world nor shades of grey. There is every color, combination and variation you can imagine.
9. Don’t be afraid of the ocean of chaos that is life, it is you
Even though at times the calling to be more than we have ever been before can seem overwhelming at times consciously engaging and working through it with skill and strategy is the path to true self actualisation. To repress or reject the chaos of life only means that you will have to learn the lessons unconsciously and in a way that is destructive to yourself and others.
10. Don’t let society, other people, culture or religion take over your own values but respect and have empathy and compassion for the value of others
When we allow others values to supersede and subsume our own we become deeply conflicted, stressed and destructive to ourselves and others. Instead make the wiser choice, Work out what’s important to you in your heart and live it with committed resolve. When you are on your path of true will destiny will open before you and nothing can stand in your way. If it does and it succeeds it was not your destiny anyway.
11. Connect to the source of your power on a regular basis
Your being is always connected to infinite intelligence, love and abundance, with an open heart and a desire to be connected with your source you will always have the love and polarity of the divine masculine and feminine within you on tap. Learn to be still, watch and listen as an impersonal witness and let your higher connection and knowing come into being effortlessly.
12. Say yes to experiences that challenge you and make you grow even if past conditioning tells you to close off and push them away
At the same time know when something is not for you and don’t be afraid to walk away if it’s not right.
13. Above all else be true to yourself and your needs and never forget that you are the centre of the world as far as your concerned
Paradoxically understand that everyone else is a centre as well and respect and support them to fulfil the needs and themselves as long as does not harm others unnecessarily or intentionally.
14. Trust in the abundance of life to provide you with your needs and fulfil your desires but don’t forget to do your bit in creating alignment with them as best as you can
Think of what you wish for regularly and feel good about it then let go, trust and take appropriate action. Learn to clear your own path by letting go of limiting beliefs, knowing your values and setting goals and intensions on a regular basis.
15. Aim for efficiency and let go of ways of thinking, feeling and acting that cost you time and effort
The one thing you have a limited resource of is time, never forget it and aim to be a master of your time. By setting up systems and strategies that help you get more out of what you do and help you get to where you need to be easier and faster. A sub lesson of this is to be aware of time and energy traps that exist in the world and do your best to free yourself from them. Society is full of these traps that want you to buy into all kinds of schemes and scams learn to avoid time intensive processes, avoid time wasting and don’t buy into anything big before you have thought about it’s consequences and the sacrifices that it way bring in the long run.
16. Love your shadow and realise that your down times are equally valid, important and powerful to your evolution, growth and wholeness as a human
Your shadow is your ally in disguise, Your best friend that holds a mirror to your flaws with the intention of helping grow and be more of what you truly are.
17. Let go of shadows that aren’t yours. It is a normal part of life that we share and exchange energies and information with others and the world around us
Be aware of energies and information that does not serve you and detach from them. Intent and send shadows that do not belong to you back to the source and abstain from negative sources of information that invade your thought and feeling space. This means turning off the TV, choosing your internet info wisely and not reading the papers if and when the information that they are presenting is not of highest intentions.
18. Don’t take things personally
In the final analysis most of the things that worry us and seem to create negativity are insignificant in the greater context if life. Ask yourself will you really care about this on your death bed? And in the light of all the things that are really important, the love you have from people around you, your life, your health, and your very miraculous existence does it really matter? 9 times out of 10 it will be a no and if so take a deep breath say fuck it and let it go back to the source. Holding onto negative thoughts and feelings only ends up poisoning yourself anyway.
19. Abstain from negativity, judgment, fear and criticism as much as possible
It only fosters separation negative ego and drops your energy to a lower state of potential.
20. Look after yourself and learn to truly love yourself like a perfect parent would bring up a child
We are all still children that need strong parents in this journey of life and as such we need allot of love, support, nurturing and most of all allot of fun, creativity and play. Eat well, sleep well, love allot and do things you love and make you happy on a regular basis. Be the source of your own happiness.
21. Take responsability and speak for yourself only
Be aware of the tendency to generalise, delete and distort the world around you and think that if it’s true for you it’s true for others as well. Catch yourself out at every opportunity and realise that there are no real limits to the life you create except the rules you put on life and it’s self.
22. Forgive the challenging past and let go of your fears. The attachment to the hurtful past and the fears that live within it are the very things that will recreate that which you feared in the first place
When you take the lessons from your experiences the fear based emotions will fall away and you will be left with gold nuggets of loving wisdom you can keep forever.
If you are interested in finding out more about how to actually embody these lessons and other lessons get in contact with me. I’de love to hear from you.
When guys start out approaching they often have a really short term goal in mind. What’s the long vision? Is having beautiful women in your life enough?
Let’s Start Simple...
It’s Shae here with some news that might be a little scary to read.
Are you ready?
You might want to sit down for this.
I’ve done some digging and discovered that you’re going to die someday. I am too. So are the rest of the coaches, and everyone you know...family, friends, colleagues, mortal enemies.
All going to die someday.
Now I wouldn’t be giving you this grim news if it weren’t for some purpose, and that is a poignant reminder that life is short.
If you’ve known about pick-up, approaching, seduction, whatever you want to call it, for longer than 6 months, and still haven’t taken action by approaching or getting coaching, that’s six months wasted.
It might not seem like a big deal, but you’re never going to get that time back. And if you don’t start by taking action today, say by filling in an application form and getting on the phone with us about a workshop, you’re effectively stating that you’re ok with paralysis.
This is a dangerous place to be in because the one thing you can be sure of is that you are going to die someday, but you don’t know when. It could be tomorrow, or in a year from now. Would you want to look back on the last year of your life and acknowledge that you had lived in fear the whole time?
Using Frustration To Your Advantage
When guys start out approaching they often have a really short term goal in mind. This isn’t intentional, it's more than they’re moving away from a place of pain.
It could be something like getting more sex, because they’re been inactively single for so long.
Or it could just be getting over their approach anxiety because they’re sick of feeling trapped and worrying about what other people think.
That initial feeling of frustration slowly builds over time to a point of bursting where they eventually feel like they’d rather die than put up with the problem for another moment longer.
These are great goals to work towards, but what you’ll eventually find is that if you take action, you’ll move past them.
It’s not that big of a leap for you to reach a stage where you feel comfortable approaching women, and those who have trouble with it typically start out with our beginner’s online course, the Dating Accelerator. Putting things in perspective it’s really a waste of your life to spend so much time at a stage that can be overcome by making a small investment and learning from guys who have not only been through the ‘beginner’s hell’ you’re experiencing, but have also developed strategies to fast track the process and taught them to hundreds of other men. If you want to get your hands on these insights you can find out more about the course and what’s included by clicking here.
Why You REALLY Want To Approach
But eventually, you’ll need to have some kind of grander purpose that you’re moving towards.
Sure, beautiful women are great, but if you had a bunch of beautiful women in your life, then what? Why would that be important to you?
Because once you’ve started moving away from that initial pain point, that ‘rock bottom’ which drove you to start making a change, you’ll then have to find something to move towards.
The good news is that there isn’t any right or wrong answer to this. It’s incredibly personal.
For myself I know that being with a beautiful woman can be like holding up a mirror, revealing all of my flaws, inadequacies and insecurities. Beyond the sex and initial appeal of a beautiful woman lies an opportunity for me to grow as a person, whilst also offering her the same in kind.
So what’s your deeper motivation for approaching?
Maybe it's love. Maybe you are overcome with a passion for women that makes you feel alive. Maybe you envision having a family one day.
Be sure to check out today’s video, and leave a comment letting us know what the big picture vision is for you.
In case you haven’t noticed the landscape of seduction and lifestyle design is always evolving and unless you know how to stay on track, you’ll waste a lot of time stuck with concepts that do not apply anymore. For example, it is much more common in 2020 to exchange Instagram with a woman than it is to ask for her number, but knowing how to convey your attractive personality on social media like Instagram is anything but intuitive or basic.
Ask any of the dozens of guys who remained unanswered in her DMs…
Or you might be feeling disappointed by a lifestyle and social circle that doesn’t match your ambitious expectations. In a world full of life coaches where can you find a group of real leaders who live out their principles in seduction, lifestyle design and inner game and can share their valuable perspectives on these areas. At the same time it can be hard to find people who are like-minded in their willingness to think outside of the box with life, guys who know that it’s good to approach women, guys who expect more out of life, potential collaborators and wingmen.
So how do you stay ahead of the curve and get really good at all of this, once and for all?
These are the kinds of problems our sell-out annual tribal gathering known as the Masculine Mastermind Conference engages with. This unique 3-day event gives you the rare opportunity to meet and greet the entire TNL team and join a powerful worldwide brotherhood of positive men. Whether you’re a beginner taking your first steps in seduction and you’re looking for the freedom to approach any woman you want in any situation, or you’re an intermediate or higher level guy struggling to achieve consistency of results and become surrounded by the top 5% of people. Our incredible team of coaches and guests, whose combined seduction and lifestyle enhancement experience exceeds over 100 years, will help you to find your own roadmap and action plan to keep developing yourself. The MMC has taken place the past three years in Budapest, Hungary. This year the usual date has been pushed forward due to the COVID 19 crisis and has been scheduled for September 25th to 27th. One attendee described the conference as “an opportunity to learn more in 3 days than in the past 3 years of my life”.
Do not waste further time with outdated concepts and gift yourself an upgrade in the way you experience life. 2020 is the year.
